365 Kinds of Difficult Living Methods

Chu Yu really wanted to embrace Xia Yihan and hug her, but she controlled it, just as a gossip, and asked: "Why didn't mom look for you? Does she not want to play games?"

Xia Yihan rubbed his fingers on the chopsticks, looking a little uneasy: "Maybe she doesn't like me anymore."

Chu sees more and more, the love between the lovers fades and loses interest in each other, but I have never heard that the mother loses interest in the child. Beforehand, she learned from Xia Yihan’s uncle Wang Zitao that Huang Nan was originally cheerful and sunny, but after marrying Mu Shangqing, she became gloomy and very haggard, like a lotus flower, which fell into the late autumn. A bald lotus was left, dying.

Chu Yu judged based on symptoms, such as depression, if plus positive symptoms such as delusions and hallucinations, it might be schizophrenia.

Combining Xia Yihan's current mental condition, Chu Yu suspects that there is a genetic factor in it. Because Huang Nan suffers from a mental illness, Xia Yihan has a susceptibility gene.

She investigated the families of Mu Shangqing and Huang Nan and found that none of them had any mental illness. If Xia Yihan's condition is affected by genetic factors, it should be one of Mu Shangqing and Huang Nan.

Mu Shangqing can work in the Superman Department, and still sticks to the post for four years. It shows that the psychological examination has passed, and not only passed the test, but also has to be strong. The "supernormal people" who were in contact were biased.

From this point of view, the root of the problem should be Huang Nan, but Chu Yu dared not judge it. After all, before marrying Mu Shangqing, Huang Nan was in a good state of mind and had a good personality foundation.

"Why do you think mom doesn't like you anymore?"

Xia Yihan continued to rub the chopsticks. If she had more strength, the fragile wooden strip would bend her waist on the spot.

"Because she stopped talking to me, didn't hold me, and didn't come to me anymore."

Watching her drooping eyelashes, Chu Yu said softly, "Are you sad?"

Xia Yihan nodded.

"Did you tell mom, are you sad?"

"No, but I will still hide and let her come to me. I shrank in the corner of the sofa. After waiting for a long time, she didn't come to me. In fact, it was obvious that I was hiding. She just stood up and walked to the balcony. I can see me, but she never came."

Chu Yu's complexion changed for a moment. She now understands that Xia Yihan hid her to attract her mother's attention. Unlike ordinary children, she can cry and pester her mother. She can only hide cats and cats. A concealed way to arouse mother's attention.

If a mother comes to her and finds her, she can feel safe and self-worth, because she is valued and loved by her mother.

But later, Huang Nan was indifferent to her hiding game. Maybe she was accustomed to this form, knowing that the child would not be lost, and she was too lazy to look for it again, or she gradually fell into a state of emotional indifference, and her response to external stimuli decreased. Small until there is no response.

For Xia Yihan, it was rejection again and again, causing emotional deprivation, as if she rushed to hug Huang Nan again and again, but was pushed away again and again. In the long run, she no longer hugs, nor can she feel the warmth of hugging. .

If a person loses his sense of security in attachment, his emotional ability will be impaired, showing depression, indifference or autism, and unable to experience pleasant emotions such as curiosity, joy, happiness and affection, nor unpleasant emotions. Such as anger, fear, and suspicion.

Chu Yu has been trying to find the cause of Xia Yihan's illness. It seems that the source seems to be Huang Nan, but what happened to her that she has become ignorant of her own children?

"Did your mother tell you anything strange?"

Chu Yu wanted to confirm whether Huang Nan was disordered in language and behavior while feeling indifferent.

Xia Yihan fell silent. She never looked directly at Chu Yu. Her eyes lowered, like a stage covered by a curtain. The actor stood behind and performed, hearing only the sound, but could not see the change in his expression.

She shook her head, put her chopsticks next to the bowl, put her hands on her knees, and stopped moving.

Chu Yu picked up her bowl, put another taro bag for her, and changed the subject: "What about Dad, did you find Dad to play with?"

Xia Yihan raised her head, her eyes were blank for a moment, as if she woke up, forgetting where she was.

"Dad... is too busy to be at home."

"Will Dad play games with you when he is at home?"

Xia Yihan was stunned, her nerves seemed to be anesthetized and became dull. It took a long time for words to enter the ears to reach the auditory center of the brain and be resolved.

Because of her thinness, her side mandible lines are clear, and her ears go down and extend to the tip of her chin without a trace of excess fat. I don’t know, but I thought Chu Yu abused her and kept it in the villa for a few days to save food expenses. Let her eat a grain of rice.

"will not."

Chu Yu: "Why?"

Xia Yihan answered calmly: "Because I don't play with him."

Chu Yu: "..."

This is the different treatment in the legend, only playing with mom, dad reaches out his hand when he comes, ugly rejection?

"Haha, do you think Dad is not playing well?"

Xia Yihan opened his mouth, like opening a door, biting off half of the meat bun, "I'm with Dad... If you don't play games, let's do something else."

"What are you doing?"

"Walk, read the newspaper, grow flowers."

Chu Yu: Is this the mode of getting along with old fathers and daughters?

"Do you guys talk together?"

Xia Yihan shook his head, "I don't want to talk to him, he is too old, and he has no topics in common."

Chu Yu: "..." If you are about the same age, it would be terrifying!

Although she was puzzled in her mind, Chu Yu was not busy asking questions. According to Xia Yihan's description, her emotional response was slow, probably since she was a child, and she was not as lively as normal children towards her parents.

Maybe other children, their parents laugh once after a tease, cry when they are scared, holding their parents’ newly bought toys, and laugh so much that they slobber.

But when he got to Mu Shangqing, he took the toy in his hand and happily announced: Cub, this is a birthday present from my father, do you like it!

Xia Yihan: Oh, let's put it here.

This was undoubtedly a big blow to Mu Shangqing. His wife didn't talk to him, his daughter didn't want to talk to him, and everyone he met at work didn't speak human words. How did he get over the past ten years?

Chu Yu learned about Mu Shangqing's character from Chu moving. He is gentle, enthusiastic, and can be called a walking warm baby. His whole body exudes temperature, which is still warm in winter and cool in summer. In addition, God has rewarded him with a blessed face, fair skin, picturesque eyebrows, personality and appearance. Charismatic, it can be said to be loved by people, and it is quite charming. When Chu Tongren talks about emotions, he can't help adding: If you admire uncle is a woman, I can't help but marry him!

Chu Yu: You have the ability to say this, so say it in front of my mother!

Thanks to Chu Dongren's high evaluation, Chu Yu had a good impression of Mu Shangqing, let alone whether he was a good father, a good husband, or at least a good employee, he was "dead" at the job, which is considered a dedication.

It stands to reason that such a warm baby deserves the love of his wife and daughter, but Huang Nan's family members are very dissatisfied with Mu Shangqing, including his disappearance later, they did not move, but hoped that he disappeared and disappeared. Not upset.

"Ahan, do you like Dad?"

Xia Yihan bulged her mouth and chewed on the buns. She looked at Chu Yu and finally made eye contact: "I like it, who would not like Dad?"

Chu Yu smiled, and Xia Yihan's ability to say such a thing can be regarded as an official seal for Mu Shangqing and affirmed his honorary title of "good dad".

She still remembers what Gong Yanhua asked her to give Xia Yihan in Peixian Hospital: Tell her, she has a good father.

Is Mu Shangqing's goodness so good that even the victim is recognized?

Xia Yihan finished eating the second bun, freed her mouth, and opened her mouth: "Sister, do you like your father?"

When it comes to Chu moving, Chu Yu's eyes become more gentle, and the smile just now is comforting, and now he adds a bit of warmth, like thinking of his favorite roasted sweet potatoes when he was a child, and his familiarity is hard to hide.

"Like, as you said, who doesn't like Dad!"

For her, Chu Dongren is a good father, although she is often too busy to see people, because of the high occupational risk, she will hold Chu Yu's hand when she encounters overtime work, and said affectionately: Xiao Yu, this year During the Chinese New Year, I may not be able to return to a family anymore. Just treat me as my retreat and upgrade my practice. Don't miss me too much!

Chu Yu really didn't miss him too much, because she was also busy. Compared with her dad, she was worse than her. She was a woman with multiple disciplines at the same time. She had already set herself up with her for life, so there was no time. Inseparable from the old man?

Two busy people, when they are busy, they part ways, and when they are free, they get a nest. It can be considered that the rhythm is in line, and the family and business are both right.

Seeing Chu Yu's reaction in his eyes, Xia Yihan nodded, stepped on the foot rail of the chair, and turned to her: "If Dad is a bad person, would my sister still like Dad?"

It was clear that she was asking questions just now, and now that the other party was defensively offensive, Chu Yu was a little caught off guard. She still smiled on her lips, trying to analyze the deep meaning of the words just now.

"Do you think my father is like a bad guy?"

Xia Yihan's complexion was calm, like a windless lake, the surface was smooth and waveless, but the lake was deep and could not see the movement at the bottom of the lake.

"I don't know, I haven't been in contact with him."

Chu Yu thought she had finished answering, and just about to answer, she suddenly laughed again, a little shy: "I look like a bad person, but my sister still likes me so much."

Chu Yu took her hand, placed it on her palm, and came up with a hamburger, "Do you feel like a bad person?"

Chu Yu was agitated. Has this girl finally found out with her conscience?

Xia Yihan giggled, and contributed the aroma of bean paste and savory taro to the entire dining room.

"I don't know, I haven't had close contact with myself."