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Chapter 1176 Managing Mutual Trust Relationships (Semi-Theoretical Chapter)

PS: The content of this chapter is my personal experience and only represents my personal point of view.

At the same time, Yun Xiaohan was also making preparations before the battle, while exploring the map, while saving up to summon the tree man.Although Yun Xiaohan can no longer see the territory channel at this time, he knows that the players in the Corsica territory will definitely not be absent. Thinking of being attacked by players in his own territory next, even if he has already been mentally prepared, he still feels It's kind of weird.

It's not that Yun Xiaohan didn't think about telling them in advance that he played the role of BOSS, let them paddle, and even cooperate with him to attack other players, but after careful consideration, he gave up this idea.

The price of doing this is too high. First of all, the Viscount of Corsica is already Muxiu Yulin, and then he helps the BOSS to beat the players. Even if the BOSS is played by the players, it will hurt the interests of the majority of players after all, and it will definitely become the target of public criticism. , which is detrimental to the long-term development of the territory.

Secondly, by doing this, Yun Xiaohan is very likely to be exposed. He is currently 42.92% of killing experience, half of which has not been reached, and he is still growing. It is better to be exposed later.

Again, letting the players in the entire territory sacrifice just for Yun Xiaohan's personal interests is selfish in itself and destroys Yun Xiaohan's long-term image. Playing online games, especially group leaders, is a good individual Image is still very important, but sacrificing personal image just for short-term profit is not worth the candle.

Finally, players in the Corsica Territory can benefit from defeating the BOSS. Let them sacrifice their own interests to do things that are not beneficial to them. The yang obeys the yin and violates the yin, paddling in secret.Even if most of the territory players can help with their hearts, the cause and effect of the matter must be clearly explained. Otherwise, if the territory players help the boss to fight other players for no reason, they will only think that the high-level leaders of the territory have lost their minds.

As for only telling a small number of higher-ups in the territory to let them secretly release water or cause trouble during the boss battle, it is even more inappropriate.

The mouths of online game players are not very firm. After all, everyone does not know each other, and even if they say it, it is not easy to check, so they will not have a strong sense of secrecy.The more people informed, the easier it is for the information to be revealed.

Moreover, if there are too few people who tell this kind of information, it will not be effective, and if there are too many people who tell it, it will easily leak out.What's more important is that it is easy to make mistakes in the choice of informees, which makes people feel that there is a difference between intimacy and estrangement, and it may not be of much help. Instead, some management members feel alienated and feel that Yun Xiaohan doesn't trust him.

Maybe some people will say, Yun Xiaohan doesn't tell anyone, doesn't it mean that he doesn't trust anyone, he only trusts himself, he doesn't even trust his siblings, he's just a single husband, it's hard to go far with such a character.

Those who hold this view can only say that they look at the problem too one-sidedly, lack the vision of the superiors, and have insufficient grasp of people's hearts.

The relationship of mutual trust needs to be managed and carefully maintained. The idea that this person has a good character and known experience proves that he is trustworthy is very naive in itself.

This is because people's hearts are never static. The other party may change qualitatively because you have not given enough feedback or trust, or have been influenced by people close to you, or some small conflicts in the details of getting along have gradually accumulated, etc. Wait, in short, there are too many possibilities and changes that make it difficult to maintain this mutual trust relationship, so it is naive to expect to keep the mutual trust relationship forever without making any maintenance and efforts, just relying on stocking.

Just like Liu, Guan and Zhang in the Three Kingdoms period, they all knew that Guan Yu and Zhang Fei were loyal, and their historical experience also showed this, but if there is a modern person to replace Liu Bei, will Guan Yu and Zhang Fei still stick together like that?
In fact, the possibility of this is very low. Liu Guanzhang is really congenial, can chat together, has similar hobbies, and has been together for a long time. If you change to a modern person, you can always accompany the two with a beautiful wife. Rough guy?Instead of sleeping with my wife every day, I sleep with two rough men instead?

This kind of "love like brothers" mutual trust relationship was not formed because of Taoyuan's sworn brotherhood. In real history, there was no such thing as brotherly sworn brothers in the late Han Dynasty, but it was slowly cultivated after long-term relationship. Brother for a lifetime, is this childish?Or childish?

What's more, the personalities of Guan Yu and Zhang Fei are actually not that easy to get along with. Liu Bei has devoted a lot of time and energy to manage this relationship, and even if modern people want to manage this relationship, they may not be able to do it well.Just like in reality, as a boss, you know that you have two thorny men who are extremely capable, but their tempers correspond to their abilities. One is arrogant and the other is grumpy. How many bosses can manage the relationship? Like Liu Guanzhang?
No one is a fool, even if it is intentional management, the boss himself has to put in a lot of hard work, even the heart for the heart, Liu Bei has many flaws, but he obviously put his heart into Guan Zhang, otherwise there would be no Baidi Cheng Tuo is lonely.

To put it bluntly, it is to target an ordinary person and ask you to make friends with him. Without sufficient resources, many people can't do it well. Relationship studies are originally a sociological theory, and it can even be said to be a social theory. This is a very important ability, and it is obviously unwise to ignore the role of this ability.

Operating a mutual trust relationship is a long-term and detailed work. There are many things that need to be done, and there are also many things that cannot be done. It is not only necessary to give the other party sufficient benefit feedback, but also to transfer some rights and corresponding trust.

The mentality of "scholars die for those who know their friends" has never been unique to the Chinese, but the Chinese value it more.But it should be noted that this kind of corresponding trust is never unrestrained, and it does not need to be given in everything, but it will have a significant effect only when trust is given to things that are relatively important to both parties.

For example, Yun Xiaohan's role as the boss, it is unlikely that others will be grateful because you told him a little secret, but it has become a test, and people's hearts cannot stand the test.

This is not to say that the other party will say something on purpose, but that many people accidentally say it when they play online games, or they hint it when they communicate, for example, they want to show their relationship with Yun Xiaohan If you are closer, you will deliberately reveal some content.

Once this happens, other people may feel uncomfortable, and once the little secret is leaked, or it is speculated through clues, Yun Xiaohan's own interests will be damaged, so it doesn't matter whether he checks it afterwards Well, everyone looks ugly after checking, but he feels uncomfortable if he doesn't check, and there will be problems in the mutual trust relationship, which is completely unnecessary.

Therefore, as a truly capable superior, one should not consider whether others are trustworthy, but should consider how to cultivate a relationship of mutual trust, increase the cost of betrayal by others, and place all hopes on the character and character of the other party. It's the way of thinking of the weak.

(End of this chapter)