Evil Emperor Zun

Chapter 1268 You need to be hard on yourself

"...I'm very happy today." On the way back, Luo Chenxing smiled unprecedentedly, "That savage Meng Xishan used to never talk to us. I really didn't expect that someone could be friends with him."

Saying this, he looked at Jiang Jinkong full of admiration, "With you, it seems that there is always a way to make the impossible possible. It's really amazing."

Jiang Jinkong smiled indifferently: "Actually, it's very simple. You can treat others as you want others to treat you."

"Taking basketball as an example, if you want others to run to the left to catch the ball, you need to throw the ball to the left first. If you want others to run to the right, you have to throw the ball to the right. Is this concept understandable?"

"Then what if," his tone, with a sense of mystery for no reason, "divides every direction into orbits?"

This somewhat "stream of consciousness" metaphor made Luo Chenxing seem to understand something, but he still didn't understand it.

"Let's put it this way, the relationship between people is a one-to-one correspondence." Jiang Jinkong explained patiently, "For example, if you pursue a girl, if you regard her as a goddess, then your own position is only It can be what modern people often call 'licking the dog'."

"Because there are gods, there must also be believers who put him on the altar, and the two correspond to each other."

"For another example, if you treat others as a big brother and flatter you everywhere, of course you can only be a younger brother; if you treat others as a superior, behave yourself in front of him, and only talk about business, then you can only be a subordinate. Because What you are doing is in line with what the younger brother and subordinates should do."

"Sometimes, it's not that two people are born with a relationship, but you choose what relationship you want to be."

Hearing this, Luo Chenxing seemed to realize something: "Does this mean that I have identified a position for others first, and then in subsequent contacts, I will do something to make him more suitable for this identity? But in this way, it means that I have divided myself into the corresponding gear?"

Jiang Jinkong nodded appreciatively: "That's right, that's it. But the most interesting thing about the relationship between people is that it's ever-changing, and it can be completely manipulated by humans."

"For example, if you want to be a couple with a goddess, first you have to treat her as an ordinary girl, then she can only treat you as an ordinary boy. If you are not eager to ask for anything from her, she doesn't need to think about it. Whether to give you anything. The right to choose will not be held in her hands, you are equal, no one is active or passive."

"After you have an initial sense of familiarity, you will position your relationship as a good friend, and do what a good friend can do with her. Next, position yourself as her boyfriend, and being a boyfriend can What to do. Each positioning should be based on your existing relationship and raised to another level."

"Remember one thing, it's not what relationship you have that you can do. It's what you do that makes you what relationship you have. Do you understand?"

"Any kind of relationship is the same." He said these words casually, as if he could easily give thousands of examples, "What kind of relationship do you want you to be, you have to go in the corresponding direction guide."

"For example, your superior is your superior during working hours, and you have to complete the work tasks he assigns to you. But at other times, you can completely treat him as a friend."

"Since you're a friend, do what a friend should do. You get along with other friends the way you get along with him. You can talk about whatever you want, and you don't have to worry about it."

"Being friends with superiors?" Luo Chenxing couldn't help but question, "Is this kind of thing really possible?"

Although he said it was simple, it was still hard for him to imagine the appearance of being shoulder to shoulder with Sikong Sheng, who was the eldest brother in the past.Not to mention being on the same level as Yan Yueque, Feng Qiwu and others.

Jiang Jinkong replied: "Then why not? If you have an interesting personality, a rich spare time life, and the same hobbies as your superiors, then apart from the relationship between superiors and subordinates, what is the difference between you and real friends?"

"Let's talk about the relationship between superiors and subordinates. Why must it become an obstacle to communication? If you are outstanding in your job, you are also his noble person. He can support you, but you are also helping him at the same time. You are still equal. .”

"By the way, that's the next thing I was going to tell you." Speaking of this, he naturally changed the topic, "I know why when you face your superiors, or people with better conditions than yourself, , you will feel inferior. Because you think that only you need to ask for something from him, but he doesn't need to ask for anything from you, you can't give the other party anything, and you don't deserve to make yourself equal to him, right? "

These words were plain, Luo Chenxing nodded immediately.He used to follow Sikong Sheng because he needed to be protected by him and get the resources he rewarded, but he couldn't give him any resources.He is very important to himself, but he is dispensable to him.Under such a relationship, of course he can only concentrate on being a younger brother, how can he dare to have any arrogance?
Jiang Jinkong added while the iron was hot: "Yes, so no matter at any time, skills are only auxiliary, and one's own strength is the most important thing."

"For example, if you are asked to negotiate business with someone, even if you can quote the classics and talk about it, but you can't even come up with a little start-up capital, will the other party sign a contract with you?"

This is the case in the shopping malls, and the saying "a weak country has no diplomacy" is exactly the truth.

If you don't have the military strength worthy of the opponent's fear, why should the opponent accept your ceded land and repair it? Even if he directly receives all the land, you have no ability to resist.

Without ability, there is no capital for negotiation.

"Being friends with your superiors is also on the premise that you can do your job well. Otherwise, your work will be a mess, and your superiors will be tired of watching you. In your spare time, even if you try to get close to him, you Do you think he will pay little attention to you?"

"It's not because of the limitations of your subordinates, it's just because you can't bring any value to him."

"If you go to pursue a girl, but you don't have any shining points in your body that can attract her, and you just rely on 'unpleasant', it may make her feel that you are special, but it will definitely not let her really choose In a relationship with you."

Luo Chenxing nodded repeatedly.That would make more sense.It’s not that people are overwhelmed and forced to pursue what they can’t get, but that when your own strength is satisfied, your vision should be broad enough and you must have the determination to climb up.

If you can only flatter horses, then of course you can only be a younger brother; if you can advise the elder brother, then you are his brains; I'm no longer a younger brother.

Reminiscent of the experience of the past few days, all the seemingly "miracles" that Jiang Jinkong has done are actually closely related to his own strength.

If he hadn't taken out the antidote to cheating, and just said a few words "all members win", it would be impossible for anyone to buy it.

If he hadn't really understood the habits of all kinds of monsters, Meng Xishan couldn't have admired him just because he said "I like animals".No matter how eloquent he is, no matter how happy he can make others happy, his value is only a fool.

Throwing left and right is just an auxiliary skill. If you want others to be interested in playing basketball with you all the time, you must first be able to play basketball.

To put it simply, it means "strengthening the iron requires hard work."

"With strength, a word spoken casually is the truth. Without strength, even if the truth is spoken, it will not be recognized."

"Back then my..." At this point, Jiang Jinkong, who had been talking eloquently all the way, unexpectedly paused, and changed his words abruptly, "A person who is very important to me said that in a martial arts competition, only when you First of all, seize the opportunity, and then have the right to decide whether to kill the opponent, or to 'stop' him. All of this is based on the winner."

"Although most of his thoughts were very extreme in my opinion at the time, at least I agree with this sentence."

"The first thing you have to do is to become a winner and become a master. If you don't have the strength to save all people, then your compassion for all beings is just a joke in the eyes of the world."

Looking at Luo Chenxing who had already realized something, he smiled faintly.

"So I don't need to say more about what to do next?"

……

As the scoreboard that determines the status of each student, it has always attracted the most attention.

The names on the list also change from time to time.

But the recent changes have surprised everyone.

A name that had been forgotten and should have fallen into hell, turned out to be a shining new star, constantly rising.

"Have you noticed that Luo Chenxing has risen so fast in the standings recently!"

No matter where he goes now, what he hears the most is the discussion about this name and this person.

"How did he do it? Could it be cheating?"

"How do you cheat on the leaderboard of Tiangongmen? Can you make one for me to see?"

"But he has no background or background, where do he get the training resources? It's really strange..."

In this way, everyone's discussion or suspicion, or jealousy, but no one can see through the mystery.

……

At the beginning Luo Chenxing was able to gain the respect of Sikong Sheng, not because he was so good at flattering, but mainly because of his strength, his mind (self-worth) was top-notch.Coupled with family status (background value), the combination of the two constitutes his total value.

The scoring standards of other younger brothers are also the same, and Luo Chenxing's total score is among the best among all the younger brothers, so he naturally becomes the right-hand man next to the elder brother.

When the Luo family announced the cooperation with the Lianghu Chamber of Commerce, his own value did not change, but his background value soared infinitely, causing the total score to increase significantly, which attracted a group of flatterers.

After the family was destroyed, his background value was directly reduced to zero.And in the case that his own value has not changed, the total score has naturally shrunk sharply, which has attracted a lot of bullying.

The background value can no longer be changed. All he can do now is to double his own value in order to bring the total score back to the average.

However, Luo Chenxing's mentality has become much more balanced now.According to Jiang Jinkong, in fact, all the students of Tiangongmen have this set of scoring standards, which is the sum of their own value + background value.

Some playboys may have extremely low self-worth, but their background value is very high, and their overall status is also high.Some candidates have average background value, but their own value is extremely high, so everyone should be respectful.

If you want to be a master here, you have to concentrate on improving your total score. If your score increases, who cares if you are an orphan whose family has collapsed?

Sometimes Luo Chenxing really admired Jiang Jinkong, and when he said a few words, it seemed that everything really became very simple.

During this time, he has been practicing in the virtual illusion.

This is one of the basic functions of micro space-time.Spiritual practitioners can enter the virtual space and perform various fighting exercises.The damage suffered here will be cleared after returning to reality, but the improvement obtained and the secret method comprehended are all real.

After entering the system, you can choose a two-player battle or a man-machine battle.In a two-player battle, two spiritual practitioners also create virtual characters in the micro-time and space to compete against each other; in a man-machine battle, the spiritual practitioners fight against the virtual opponents created by the system.

Here, all the data are simulated according to the spiritual practitioner's own conditions.If it is not debugged, what level it is in reality, it is still what level it is here, and the simulation degree reaches 100%.It can be said that except this environment is not real, everything else is real.Therefore, the enemies that can be defeated here can also be defeated in reality.

There is such a thing in the trial task of Tiangongmen.Students don't need to go outside to hunt monsters, as long as they use the original simulation data to defeat enemies of the corresponding level in the virtual space, and provide combat data reports, they can receive points rewards.Because this means that you already have the strength to obtain the same points.

To make a digression, in the virtual space, you can adjust your own model data at will, make yourself a top powerhouse, and enjoy the pleasure of torturing everything like cutting melons and vegetables, but it is meaningless for your own improvement.Back to the real world, or whatever.This function is used the most, but it is used by office workers to vent their dissatisfaction with their bosses.

……

There are two ways to demonstrate strength.

One is to randomly catch a few people around him, fix them up severely, and make his name and fame so that others will not dare to bully him again.

But in this way, the few people who were used as "stepping stones" can be regarded as a feud.

Jiang Jinkong, as the ruler of Tiangongmen, naturally would not favor one student over another, destroying the future of some students in order to cultivate a certain student.So he recommended Luo Chenxing to choose to practice in the virtual space and earn points.When his ranking in the standings has improved, he doesn't need to say anything, and others will naturally know that he is not to be underestimated.

(End of this chapter)