Evil Emperor Zun

Chapter 1328 There is always someone to teach you to grow
"Aren't you all curious, why should I be with my current boyfriend?" Liu Yiwei smiled lightly, brushing a strand of hair from her cheek and pinning it behind her ear, "I don't think he is handsome enough, and he is not handsome enough." Not smart enough, think I picked the wrong partner?"

Jin Siqi was a little embarrassed.This was what she had discussed with other colleagues when she saw Liu Yiwei's boyfriend for the first time.At that time, it was because of this matter that Liu Yiwei was annoyed.In order not to bring up the conflict again, she smiled dryly and looked away, thinking about how to get the topic out of the way.

However, Liu Yiwei's reaction was very generous.Bathed in the evening breeze under the setting sun, his eyes seemed to fall into memories.

"It's okay, I understand your confusion. If it was at the beginning, I would not have made this choice. But what I experienced later made me understand that I chose the right person."

"Let me tell you a story about myself." Perhaps it was the parting that made her start talking, looking at the busy traffic in front of her, she said in a soft voice.

"A few years ago, I was actually just like you and Lily, judging people by their appearance. At that time, because I just entered the academy, I was considered good-looking among the girls of the same class, so there were still many suitors around me. My current Boyfriend is one of them.

At the beginning, I also disliked him, thinking that he didn't understand my thoughts, and he couldn't take it out because of his looks, so he only knew how to chase me foolishly.So I have always been perfunctory about his kindness to me, and I don't even want to let my friends know that I still have such a suitor.

Later, I made friends with the grassroots of our grade.He is handsome and good at coaxing girls. He is also a man of the year in the grade. There are not a few people who like him.I feel honored to be with him.At that time, I thought, this is the love I want.

The super grass’s family is not as good as mine, so when we go out to play, it’s usually AA, plus the various small gifts I usually buy him, in general, I spend more money.But because I like him, and I also enjoy the feeling he brings to me, I am also willing to spend the money from my family to maintain this seemingly beautiful relationship.

Although there were some minor conflicts when we first got together, overall we were happier.But after dating for a period of time, he gradually became indifferent to me, and began to interact frequently with other girls.I know that it is difficult for boys like them to settle down on a girl, because the more suitors around them, the more attractive they can be.

Because of this incident, I quarreled with him several times, but he always held a disapproving attitude.Gradually, I got tired of the noise, so I went with him.At least in the eyes of others, I am still his real girlfriend.

But he is really getting worse and worse towards me, I can feel it.I told him that I was sick, but he just told me to go to bed early indifferently.When I wanted him to accompany me, he said he was busy and didn't have time.Before we got together, his kindness to me seemed to be all an illusion.

I checked some information, and they all said that men are like this, and they don't cherish it when they get it.From the experience of my friends, this is indeed the case.So I tried to comfort myself, there will always be a flat period in the relationship, even if it is a different person, I will still experience all this again.In this case, it's better to bear with it, maybe he will change his mind when he gets tired of playing outside.

He is very stingy to his girlfriend, but he is very generous to his brother. When eating with his brother, he always rushes to pay the bill.Sometimes he didn't have enough money on him, so he came to ask me for money, and he always took it for granted.

I discussed this issue with my friends.Because I don't want to be seen as a joke by others, I didn't say this is my own experience, only the story of a friend of mine.At that time, they all said that this kind of man should not be wanted.He even refuses to invite his girlfriend to dinner, and all the money is spent on his brother, not with him.Besides, if you don't have money to treat, don't treat them. What does it mean to ask your girlfriend for money to treat your brother?
Their opinions are all asking me to persuade 'that friend' to break up.But I like him, and I know I can't live without him.Besides, he is my boyfriend, and if he loses face, it means I lose face. Helping her boyfriend maintain his face in front of his brothers is indeed what a girlfriend should do. Anyway, my family can afford this money. Buy some cosmetics and bags.

In addition to taking money to treat guests, he would also ask me for a little money for living expenses from time to time, and I gave it to him.He took it and didn't plan to return it. He felt that there was no need to haggle over every detail between lovers.

At that time, maybe I was really easy to coax, because after he took the money, he would always treat me for several days, as if he was back to the period of passionate love.I enjoy his warm feeling towards me, so I don't care about him.Thinking about it later, I was so stupid at that time, I was simply using money to buy his kindness to me, completely ignoring the fact that a boyfriend should be kind to his girlfriend.

After my current boyfriend knew that I had a relationship partner, he consciously kept a distance from me.But when I need him, he will still appear by my side the first time.When I was sick, he would go to a pharmacy far away to buy medicine, and then make a special trip to deliver it to me; if I said I wanted to see an exhibition, he would stay up late and line up to buy a ticket for me.When the super grass released my pigeons, I said I wanted to find someone to accompany me, and he would accompany me to eat without any regrets. It was really just eating, without any unruly behavior.

In fact, he did this, and I'm still... quite moved.Sometimes I also think, if he is more handsome and clever, will I be happy just being with him.Alas, I can only say that I was still too naive at that time, and I still dislike him from the bottom of my heart for not being able to take him out.But I was greedy for his kindness to me, his existence completely filled the vacancy left by the super grass.I... It's as if I'm dating two people at the same time, one is more handsome and has good looks, and the other is not good-looking, but treats me very well.

Sometimes I also think that I treat him like this, as if I am hanging him, so that he cannot find his own happiness, I am quite selfish.But at the same time, I thought, now he is nice to me, just because he hasn't really got me yet.If I date him, it may not be long before he will change his mind and become indifferent.Thinking about it this way, I don't feel guilty anymore.

The day went on like this for a while.Suddenly one day, I found out that Super Grass's expenses were getting bigger and bigger recently. He asked me for more and more money, but he never told me what he was using the money for, and I was too embarrassed to ask.I didn't have to have a serious talk with him until I felt that my pocket money was finally unable to support his expenses.

Only then did I know that he was addicted to gambling because he was hanging out with a few cronies in the society, and the place he frequented every day was the casino.He lost a lot of money, but he always wanted to make a comeback, so he kept asking me for money, but of course he lost it all again.

I knew from a young age that gambling is like a bottomless pit, once you fall into it, you can’t get out. There are too many examples of people going bankrupt because of gambling.I was terrified when I heard that he was going on this path. I tried to reason with him, and hoped that he would think carefully about our future and stop ruining himself like this.At that time, he also agreed.He cried and apologized to me, saying that he would never gamble again.Seeing that his attitude is very sincere, I forgive him and believe that he will really change. "

"Look, I was really stupid at that time, wasn't I?" Liu Yiwei smiled self-deprecatingly when she said this, "Even if someone beats me ten sticks, just give me a candy, and I'll be happy right away." After being coaxed, I will return to him obediently. Because I really liked him at the time, and I always wanted to save this relationship."

"Until one thing he did later, I really had no way to forgive. That was the time when I made up my mind to leave him—"

Jin Siqi nodded and listened to her continue in silence.

"Not long after the stable days, his old problems relapsed. In fact, he has not given up his gambling addiction at all, and he still plays two games behind his back from time to time. Because he was afraid that I would know, he didn't ask me this time. money, but he secretly... did something even more terrible!"

"Do you know a kind of 'routine loan' that is popular on campus? You can get a large amount of money in a short period of time, and the loan procedures are also very simple. Girls only need to give their 'photos' to the other party...Of course, not Such an ordinary photo. I didn’t expect that he would take the photo of me secretly and borrow a routine loan in my identity!
At the beginning, I didn't know about it at all, until when the repayment deadline was approaching, I received a text message on my Jade Slip, urging me to repay the loan as soon as possible, otherwise I would have to pay the debt with money.I thought it was a scam text message and showed it to him. It was only then that he confessed to me.

He said that he originally wanted to take the opportunity to turn over the loan, and if he turned over, he could have a large sum of money to live a good life with me, but he didn't expect that when he entered the casino, all the loaned money would be lost again.He has no money to pay back at all now, and then begged me...just go and spend the night with those people, so that the loan is considered settled.

I was shocked by his shamelessness.At that moment, I really realized that the person in front of me was completely hopeless.I slapped him, told him to pay the money he owed by himself, and then turned around and left.But he caught up with me and said that he used my identity to register at that time. From a contractual point of view, I am the one who owes the money now, and I must be responsible for repaying the money.

Later, debt collectors began to come to the college, and he immediately disappeared without a trace, leaving me alone to face them.At that time, I was really scared. If I had to pay back the money, I couldn't afford that much money, and I didn't dare to tell my family.I was also afraid that they would really spread my photos, but it was absolutely impossible for me to agree to their conditions... It was really the most desperate period of my life, and I even thought of dying!
It was... my current boyfriend.Originally, this matter had nothing to do with him, but after he knew it, he insisted on helping me carry it.He went to work everywhere, and together with all his savings from childhood to adulthood, he helped me pay off the money.

After we got together, I learned from his family that he was actually a very self-disciplined child since he was a child.Except for the most basic daily expenses, he will save all the pocket money given to him by his family in the piggy bank.He said that his dream is to save money by himself and buy a house of his own, which will be the home of his future girlfriend.

Let’s not mention whether the money he saved is enough to buy a house, but he did it for me after all... I asked him, for me, your house is gone, don’t you regret it?He just smiled and said that if the money is gone, he can save it again, but he can't just watch me fall into the hands of those people.He said that where I am, is his home.

I was very touched, really, after I was treated like that by the super grass, I was so moved that I shed a lot of tears when I saw that there was such a good person by my side.At the same time, I felt that I couldn't owe him this money. I said I would definitely pay him back, but he hugged me and said, fool, getting you is the greatest wealth in my life.

For the first time, I think his simple and honest smile has become so cute.Although he doesn't understand the style, he really treats me well all the time.This is the destination that I really deserve to entrust my whole life to, isn't it?
Although I just experienced a wrong relationship, I was a little apprehensive about a new relationship, but he healed me with his meticulousness.We dated for a period of time, and he was always nice to me, and there was no such thing as a so-called "must go through" dull period between couples.At that time, I realized that the person who really loves you will not be willing to turn cold towards you.When you meet the right person, he will give you a complete sense of security and will never let you worry about gains and losses.

At that time, I really understood that appearance is not the most important thing, what is important is a person's character.You can't spend your whole life coveting someone's appearance.

Also from then on, I started to use my spare time to work.Because I don't want to rely on my family anymore, I want to train myself and be a more self-reliant girl, so that I can be worthy of him.

After being with him, because I have been pampered by him all the time, my complexion is getting better and better, and my whole person is more beautiful.After the ex-boyfriend saw it, he came to me to get back together again. He cried bitterly and confessed to me, saying that if I could give him another chance, he would definitely give me happiness.

Looking at him, I felt for the first time that he was just a worthless wretch with nothing but skin. What was it that supported me to love him for so long?But I don't hate him either, because I know that in a person's life, there are always some people who will teach you to grow.Maybe they will bring you some negative experiences, but as long as you are not overwhelmed by these ordeals, you can achieve real rebirth. "

"I don't hate him. Without him, I wouldn't be the better me I am today. So I won't take revenge on him, but I won't forgive him either. From then on, there will be no intersection in this life. I think this is me A final tribute to him."

After telling the story, she looked at Jin Siqi and put a hand on her shoulder seriously.

"Eyes, you have been blind once, so don't be blind again."

(End of this chapter)