There is room for the reborn doctor

Chapter 4093 We will not follow the participation

Just stand in the small circle and tell them these things. In fact, Zhan Zhang knows what's going on in his heart, and Zhan also knows what's going on. .Anyway, I am very grateful to you. For such a long time, you have broken your heart for me, worn out your mouth, and your body is almost not exhausted. There are many things that I don’t know, so you help me It's done, you said that I'm really lucky to have such a good wife like you, right?Then, let me tell you one more thing, so I won't mess around with these things, just tell him if you have anything to say.

Another one is the matter between the children and them, there is no need for us to get involved too much, right?In fact, standing guard is also afraid that there is too much gap between him and it will also affect the children's decision-making.Of course, Li Xiaoxia is very rare, and she will definitely not be the kind who meddles in everything and gives you random ideas.Li Xiaoxia said to him, okay, I know what's going on, there are some things, let's not get involved, but sometimes I have to tell you, you are like a child.It can make the relationship between the two of them, that is between them, other things, what our parents should do, must be done by our parents, we must not take it lightly, we will never say it is because we are Parents, don't ask about anything, for fear that the child will be bored.

This is a completely wrong idea. I must make this point clear to you. What he said is also very crucial. The war party said to him, okay, you are very right except for this, which is very crucial. I understand very well and agree with your point of view.Our old Li is with my parents, your coordination is also very good, I don't need to follow these useless things in the middle, right, so, I also know what to do, there are some things , Not only is it as simple as you say, but it has been a long time, all of them, and I think these things I made are very perfect, that's not right.

Right, we are all a process of learning from each other and improving each other, as long as the two of us work together to live this life well, there will be no obstacles that we cannot overcome, right, we are for the two of us It’s nothing, it’s nothing, and we have a very important thing now, that is, no matter how you tell your children about these things now, they all think that they are right. In fact, in this case, Don't go head-on to have some conflicts with your children.These are some positive opinions. It is to guide him from the side, let him feel that these things of ours can also be implemented, not that what they say is right, let him slowly accept the idea of ​​​​our two people, two people , The two generations communicate on different things, and then communicate, this is what we should do, you say it is right, and then you will feel it at the beginning.

From his point of view of thinking about the problem, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. From another point of view, there must be other reasons for making these things, and then he said to him, okay, you made these things, right? I think it's completely very good. If you don't understand anything like me, it's useless to mix in these things, and it's not good.No matter what we say, between the two of us, the work you do with the child must be, first of all, for the child's benefit, no one can harm him, don't say that other people are like that, see It’s not good for anyone, and then he feels that we don’t exist, so he can do that, right, the child also recognizes you very much, you don’t need to say anything, the child will just say you are very good, It's not that you do the running yourself, that's what else, right?

And we didn't talk about those gaps between us, and there are some areas where communication is not hindered, which is completely impossible.Besides, since the children have said these things, we just need to help them as much as possible. This is not a difficult thing, right?Moreover, children’s own ideas are sometimes right and wrong. When they are right, we will hardcore them with him. Then when there is something wrong with him, we cannot say that it is completely wrong. Let's correct it slowly together with him. If he can't listen to the circle at the beginning, we will slowly score points.I know it's okay to let him think that what we said makes sense.

First of all, when you are with your child, you have to think about the problem from the perspective of the child. It is absolutely true. It is definitely not like some parents who have a very rigid relationship with the child. Anyway, they think about the problem from their own point of view. Doing everything according to your own ideas is also a kind of harm to children, right?In any case, our current state is acceptable to children, and they think we are right. We must not let children think that they are our kind of old and stubborn parents. It is not good. How can we It is also the young people in the new era who scold, right? Although we have different views on some things, we can communicate with each other and exchange experiences with each other.

And where we are now.It is also safe enough, right? Children also think that what we say is right, so they can listen to it. You can’t say what you think this thing is and what kind of child it is. They have their own independent thinking now, and it’s nothing at all. Affected by some of our considerations, isn't it?And we must be aware of a very important issue, that is, when we communicate with each other, the child also has his own ideas, respect, mutual respect, this is the most important thing, you are right No, hmm.Once you say it, it’s fine, don’t talk about big things with me here, I understand some things better than you, don’t I?
So I have known these things for a long time, and I have to tell my children some things, and I can only tell you when I explain them clearly, otherwise how would my children tell you.right now.My children are also very good, they are very independent in everything, from the top to work, including some things, it is useless when negotiating, we have to worry about it, right, especially very good, this is also a blessing .Although there are no other things that are said to be promising, it hasn't brought us any real trouble, isn't that good?Non-interference with each other, this is also the most comfortable place for the two to be together.

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