The queen's mouth is open

The policemen couldn't help but look at each other, with a light in their eyes——

Got it!

The most fearful thing about this matter is that you have nowhere to start. You don’t know where the problem is, and you have nowhere to persuade you even if you want to. Maybe you can’t talk about it for a long time.

But now the man has spoken up, saying that the problem is with the debt.

"How did you become in debt? Did you gamble?" The police began to say clichés.

Because the man said that, everyone didn't dare to step forward, or he would be finished by jumping off the building if he was so excited.

You can only use words to distract him, and it is most appropriate to wait until he is distracted before stepping forward.

It would be even better if he could be persuaded to think clearly and give up committing suicide.

"No gambling."

After opening the first sentence, the remaining words are not so difficult to say, "I play games, recharge, and owe a lot of money."

People in their thirties owed money for playing games... The policemen looked at each other helplessly.

"Are you an online loan, borrowing usury?" they asked.

"It's not a usury loan, it's just a credit card, an overdraft, and I can't pay it anymore." The man said.

Since it is not a usury loan, the amount should not be too high.

People with average assets will not have a high credit card limit. On the contrary, people with a high limit will not be able to make up the credit card, and even jump off a building to commit suicide.

"How much money do you owe?" The policeman let his tone be relaxed, but with just the right amount of sympathy, "If it's to the point of jumping off a building, I'm afraid it will cost one or two million?"

Another policeman understood in seconds, and immediately echoed, "Yeah, didn't a company in Chengxi Cable Technology go bankrupt last month? I have issued an IOU, and I plan to work hard to make a comeback."

"That's right, life is the capital of a person. If you are alive, you will always have a way to make money. If you die, you will have nothing. The last impression you leave on the world is that you are a coward without courage."

This involves a kind of psychological technique. When a person tells how miserable his life is, if others are shocked and sympathetic after hearing it, then say something like "Oh, you are really miserable", "You are too unlucky" In this case, the degree of misery this person feels will be doubled——

Look, everyone thinks I'm miserable, I've worked so hard, is there any need to live?

But if he finishes speaking, the reaction of others is very flat, and they even think: Is it a big deal with you?You are too hypocritical.Then he will also feel that he is not understood, thinking that no one in this world understands him.

The most suitable is to listen carefully, a little sympathy, and some comfort after comparison.

For example: Ah, it’s really not easy for you, but it’s not a big deal. I have a friend who has experienced XXX, which is ten times harder than yours now, but he also survived.Or use yourself as an example and talk about a more difficult dilemma you have experienced before.

The way to make people feel that they are not so miserable is to let him see people who are worse than him.

After the two policemen sang and drank, the man was silent for a moment.

When the policeman who went to the side to make a fire call came back, he quietly opened his mouth.

"16."

"How much?" The policeman thought he had heard wrong.

"I said, 16." There was self-mockery in the man's voice, "Isn't it outrageous? But I really have no other choice."

Everyone thought that he might not owe too much, but they didn't expect it to be only 16.

For 16 yuan, this man sat on the roof of the building late at night, wanting to commit suicide.

One life, 16.

Jiang Xiaobai felt his throat was blocked and stuffy, even the wind blowing in this winter night seemed biting.

"You always have other ways, right? Your family, relatives, friends, you ask them to borrow money, sign the loan, and pay back the interest, isn't that okay?" The policeman was stunned and then asked, "I lost my life for this little money. It's not worth it!"

"Yeah, you're still young, you have plenty of strength, even if you're a coolie for a few years, it's enough to repay it, why do you have to go to a dead end?"

"There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. When you get over it, you will look back and see that these things are nothing."

they advised.

"I graduated from junior high school and have no academic qualifications. I have always worked as a helper in my uncle's restaurant, but my uncle suddenly suffered from kidney disease and was hospitalized. The restaurant was unable to operate and was transferred by my aunt. I have nothing to do at home without a job. After I got in touch with the game, I couldn't control it..."

Games make people forget the misfortunes of life.

In the virtual world, no one knows who he is, and no one knows that he is a penniless person in reality. People don’t care about education, appearance, or income. As long as he can talk and make fun, some people are willing to talk to him. Play.

Even if his game level is only average, he still made a lot of friends.

In the game, you can have fun, you can torture and vent your anger, you can take your sister to cheat... Every day after eating, he would lie on the bed and play games, and the whole day would pass after playing.

However, he soon discovered that things were not as perfect as he thought.

He has no academic qualifications, experience and vision. Those with vision only need to chat with him a few times to find out how rich he is.

He speaks vulgarly and often loses his temper and curses.

His strength is mediocre, and he will be defeated when he encounters a stronger one.

In this case, even if a girl starts to play with him, she will turn her head and leave when she finds out about his situation later——

In the situation where there are more male players than female players, male players must either have high strength to fly, or have high EQ to make fun, or are rich and generous and willing to give away equipment...these three have to be equal in order for a girl to be willing to make friends.

Worst of all, if you are handsome and can post photos of yourself, there will be face control people who are willing to find you.

But he doesn't take any of the four things, and he always swears and loses his temper, and he can't even speak Mandarin well... let alone girls, even boys are not willing to play with him all the time.

Just when he felt indignant and helpless, he found that those local rich players are very attractive to girls. As long as he spends more money to buy some local rich equipment, countless girls will take the initiative to hook up with them. .

So, he started to recharge by swiping his card, and the more he recharged, the more he was noticed, and the gamer friends around him with ulterior motives praised him to the sky, and he finally got the pleasure that he didn't get in reality.

In the end, he fell into the abyss and tasted the bitter fruit he brewed.

He still had some savings to repay the consumption at the beginning, but later he was in arrears, so he tried to find a way to ask his old mother for it, or secretly sold some things at home to exchange for money.

But later, as his uncle became seriously ill and the family's savings were not enough, he began to borrow from friends around him in order to pay off the hole.

Until, the hole got bigger and bigger, exceeding his load.