magic eye doctor

Chapter 2310 (2 more

People say, "If you know how to cry for mourning, you will be heartbroken. If you don't know how to cry for mourning, you can only hear the groaning." mourning is also an art. If you know how to cry, you can make everyone feel sad. If you don't know how to cry, you just cry blindly.

With the development of the times, due to the living environment of people in big cities, the houses are narrow, and it is impossible to hold funerals at home. When people pass away, they are sent to the funeral parlor. Some even hold a farewell ceremony for relatives, and some even omit the farewell ceremony and directly cremate .

Funerals in big cities do not have a sense of ritual, and do not reflect a sense of awe for life and death.

The vast majority of elderly people in rural areas do not like to go to the city, especially in places where burials have traditionally been carried out. If they do not have to go to the city, the elderly will definitely not go to the big city.

The "sleeping" of the end of life does not refer to the bedroom, but to the main room of the old-style house, that is, the main room.

The main room is different from the current living room. The living room in modern buildings can be on one side or on the central axis of the house, while the main room must be on the central axis of a house and the front part, that is, on the central axis. The big room with the door open.

According to the old tradition, when a person dies, the coffin must be placed in the main room. According to the sitting direction of the house, men are on the left and women are on the right. Men's coffins are placed on the left, and women's coffins are on the right.

In the old man's traditional consciousness, if a person dies in his own home and can stay in the main room, he is at the end of his life. Like the rural customs, people who die outside cannot be transported home to rest, so it is not called the end of life.

Therefore, what the elderly in rural areas look forward to most is to die in their own home, and to be able to take care of the funeral affairs at home. If the elderly at home is seriously ill, they may die, and the family will transport the elderly home as soon as possible.

Transporting old people who know that there is no hope of rescue back home to wait for death, let alone their own relatives will not say that their children are unfilial, even others will not say anything, after all, the custom is there, everyone wants to close their eyes at home, hoping to have children and grandchildren. Crying at the end of the day, I don't want to be a lonely ghost who died outside.

It is a traditional custom to put a lattice in the main room, and it is also a traditional custom to watch mourners and cry for funerals.

When an old man in the countryside dies, if the children in the family don't cry, they will definitely be stabbed in the back and spurned by others. Even if they don't know how to cry, they will have to howl for a while.

Therefore, when some old people are unkind and do not treat their children well, and the children are so cold that they cannot cry, they have no choice but to use chili water, cool oil, or garlic paste to stimulate the spring glands around the eyes and make the eyes cry.

Of course, if there is an old man who is unkind and unvirtuous and makes his children feel cold, his children will not be able to cry, and the people will have sharp eyes and will not criticize them. After all, the tradition says that fathers are kind and sons are filial, and parents are not kind. How can you make your children be filial?
Aunt Lejia passed away early, and even her younger brother has never seen her. Now that she can go home to rest, it is the greatest respect Yueqing and Lejia girls have for her. If no one in the Le family mourns, no one in the village will Poke the spine.

However, everyone did not expect that Lejia girl cried, and she cried for real.

Crying in other families, some are real, some are fake, and only a few people feel the grief from the heart, not only crying to heartbreak, but also sympathizing with the bystanders.

When the girl from Lejia cried, she burst into tears, and she was able to express her love and curse, and she spoke every word clearly in her crying voice, making it easy to hear.

She was there supporting the coffin and weeping bitterly. When she cried so sadly, the people who heard it were sad and sighed sadly. The cuckoo cried blood, and the sound was tears. Grandma Zhou, Grandma Zhou Man and other villagers of the older generation felt the same way, and they also cried into tears.

The women of the older generation were familiar with Chen Hongying, but now things have changed, and their hearts are sad, and their tears are out of control.

When some middle-aged women hear the sadness, they think of their parents or children, and they also feel emotional and cry along with them.

Not to mention the old women in Meicun, even most of the men in Meicun felt sad. When Lehong and Chen Hongying lost their daughter, they were almost insane. They were so thin that they were out of shape in just a few days. They were shocked when they saw it.

Zhou Qiufeng persuaded the elders while crying, and Zhao's sister-in-law and others also persuaded with tears.

When the girl from the Le family cried and complained that her relatives from her uncle's family came back to see her aunt off, Chen Xin, Chen Jie and his wife threw themselves in front of the coffin and called "cousin". The long-awaited truth, crying that they lost contact with their relatives in their hometown because they went to other places and were obstructed by villains, and they didn't know the pain their aunts, cousins ​​and cousins ​​had suffered.

The brothers of the Chen family don't know how to cry, but their daughter-in-law can. Girls from Shonan Province are eloquent and can speak well. They are also girls from ethnic minorities, and the customs of funerals and marriages are similar to those of Jiudao.

Le Ya's uncle's relatives started to cry, Zhou Qiufeng went to persuade, crying while persuading, and then everyone cried together about the misfortune of the cousin/sister, and scolded the villain who made trouble and harmed others.

There was crying for a while, and the women of the Zhou family also went to cry with them.

The others hurriedly persuaded, seeing that the crying and mourning over there had already formed a sympathetic resonance, and it would not stop for a while. Cheng Wu put all his arms into his arms, and the drum beat was as dense as raindrops, and the sound was loud.

When the sound of the drum was reduced, Zhang Laosan began to sing.

Zhang Laosan’s first song lamented his family love in a cheerful tone. He told himself that he was deeply loved by his parents for his upbringing. Bereavement in a foreign land, from then on let white hair black hair, parents miss their son in their dreams, sons miss their relatives in the underworld, parents miss their daughter and cry heartbroken, sons miss their parents with tears.

Zhang Laosan sang in the local dialect, rhyming and rhythmic, which made the listeners cry and the hearers sad.

The singer began to sing, and Mrs. Zhao and others helped the old people such as Miss Lejia and Grandma Zhou to sit aside, and wiped their faces with wet towels.

Le Shan wiped her sister's tears with her small hands, and there were also two bubbles of tears in her eyes.

Zhang Laosan sang to the point of emotion, Grandma Zhou, Grandma Zhou Man, Grandma Pa and Grandma Zhang San wept again, singing one or two lines together while crying.

Zhou Qiufeng, Zhou Wei, Zhao's sister-in-law and others persuaded the old man, and wept again after persuading and persuading.

Grandpa Zhang San sang the first song and all the women present were crying. The music was in his heart, and he carried his brother to the past. He kowtowed three times, and then kowtowed to the drummer and several masters, and kowtowed to the master. They kowtowed and saluted the singer sitting on the ground.

The Chen family saw their cousins ​​kowtow for four years, and they followed suit, kowtowing to the teachers and singers.

The brothers and sisters of the Zhou family, Chen Xiaozhu and Chen Xiaohe also went to kowtow to thank them.

There are many people who are courteous, especially when doing trivial matters, no matter what the matter is, it is right to kowtow. If something is wrong and makes the other party unhappy, kowtow a few times to ensure that the other party's anger will disappear;
If you want to express your gratitude, you don't need to say much, just kowtow, people understand the meaning.

Yue Yun, who was born and raised in Plum Village, understands the mystery of it, so don't say anything, just kowtow!

She kowtowed willingly, without hesitation, deeply and sincerely, and when she kowtowed to the end, each head touched the ground with her forehead.

People inside and outside the hall, no one is unmoved.

Miss Lejia has a high status and is a rich person that ordinary people can't even dream of. She still abides by the customs and rules of her hometown when she returns to her hometown. Kowtow is absolutely unambiguous.

With her sincerity, who can sing without heart?

The singer was flattered, moved and politely helped the Le family siblings and a group of little kids up one by one, telling them not to be too polite.

The singer said that there is no need to be too polite, but Le Yun was not sloppy at all. He kowtowed to everyone in a circle, hugged his younger brother and sat with a group of followers. Go kowtow.

Zhang Laosan sang the first song, followed by the second one, expressing his grief in the tone of Le Jia's grandma. Although it was not as touching as Zhang Laosan's singing, it was still heart-rending.

Le Yun hugged her younger brother and went to kowtow again. The Chen family has been meticulous for four years. When the cousin/cousin kowtows, they kowtow,

The people in the hall sang four songs, the village's big drum stopped, and a team of masters played music, and the singers began to sing.

No matter who sings, every time a song is finished, Le Yun hugs her younger brother and kowtows to thank her.

The singers sang a song, and it was less than eleven o'clock. The village head Zhou set off a string of firecrackers and announced the suspension of the funeral. Hand out treats.

The little ones were willing to wait, just for the snacks.

The host gave out snacks, and the children were the happiest. They all found a place to sit and prepared bags for snacks. They were really prepared.

Classmate Le invited Lan San to go shopping in the county, and the amount of snacks they raided was considerable. She originally expected that if the night was not finished, she would pack the rest and give a snack to each family of the helpers.

Because the preparation is sufficient, even if there are nearly a thousand people, each snack is enough. Some snacks with slightly smaller portions will be distributed with less per person. For example, a kind of wife cake, if there are few people, you can share two. Or three, if there are many people, change to one person.

There are spicy sticks, hot dogs, and wrestlers that children love.

When children got their favorite spicy strips, eight out of ten would tear off the seal and gnaw on one first. It was so spicy that they still couldn't put it down and ate it with relish.

The handyman Lan San is like a brick. Wherever he needs to move, he also helps to distribute snacks. He didn't understand why he bought such snacks at first, until the men, women and children who didn't come to Lejia for dinner after the meal also came to see it. The head of the head, I have to feel that the little Lolita has the foresight,

It was also because Lan San and Mr. Li wiped out the stock of ready-to-eat snacks in the two supermarkets, and also swept the stocks of several stores.

There are many kinds of snacks, and the quantity is also large. Everyone gets a big package of food, bottled milk and small bottled milk of four bottles/box each, and two cans of eight-treasure porridge, four packs of instant noodles, bagged plums, instant small Dried fish, etc., as well as hot dogs, the bag weighed down heavily.

After the snacks were over, the children who went to Lejia to play were excited, exhausted and tired, and went home in groups.

Most of the parents of children are with their children. When the cubs are going home, the adults will naturally go home too.

As a result, wave after wave of men, women, young and old, each with a snack bag, left Lejia one after another, and the crowd dispersed like a tide.

Villagers from several neighboring villages farther away also left in groups.

Before they went home, they sent a representative to tell Village Chief Zhou that they would come to send Le Ya up the mountain later tomorrow, or that they might not be able to come to see Le Ya out tomorrow because they had something to do.

It means that if you don’t come to Lejia for breakfast tomorrow/or if you don’t come tomorrow, don’t count them, or the chef will include them when making a budget, and make a lot of breakfast/lunch tables, that is Tiring and costing food.

Village head Zhou will specifically come to write down the villages that will not come to Lejia for dinner tomorrow morning.

The representatives of the township hospital and school also bid farewell to Village Chief Zhou when the villagers had almost dispersed. They also specifically said that due to work reasons, they might not be able to send Leya up the mountain tomorrow, and they expressed their deep apologies.

Village Chief Zhou thanked him and made a memo.

With the dispersal of the villagers, the number of people staying at Lejia to stay up late is limited. There are tables in the kitchen for midnight meals. There are 28 tables in total for those who eat. Some people are waiting for Liu Lu to wait for the sale of livestock. People went to their house to kill pigs, and they stayed for dinner.

The diners and women who had eaten at midnight helped clear the table. Some young and middle-aged people knew that Brother Zhou, Liu Lu and others were going to kill pigs to buy chickens and geese, and those who had cars would drive or follow them to help.

Village head Zhou has recorded the names of those who are willing to help. It is kind of people who are willing to help, and the master should not be neglected.Just a thank you gift.

The people who went shopping in the starry night set off. The women washed the dishes and sorted out the dishes they had eaten. When they were done with their work, some went home to take a nap, and some stayed with Le's family to wake up.

Generally speaking, the masters don't stay up late, and the masters who came to Le's family didn't go to rest, and they all stayed with the master's house to watch the night.

There were a lot of singers accompanying the host's vigil, and they sat at five tables. After eating and resting for nearly an hour, Cheng Wu beat the drums, and the singers opened the night performance of singing filial songs.

They will embrace the time in the second half of the night, that is, they will sing songs in the middle of the night, so as not to let the mourning hall be left alone.

Le Shan is still growing, and it is not suitable to stay up late. Le Yun clicked on his younger brother's sleeping hole, hugged his younger brother, and took his cousins ​​to kowtow to the singers for a round. Sleep on the third floor.

The four little brothers of the Chen family, Chen Xiaozhu, Chen Xiaohe, Zhou Tianhong, Zhou Tianlan, Cao Qingyue also refused to go to sleep, and followed them all the way.

Cao Bingyue was still a child, and Le Yun also ordered her sleeping point, and Cao Qingyue sent her to Grandma Zhou's house to sleep. Granny Cao, Aunt Zhang San and other old people were all staying at Le's house to stay up all night.

Mr. Ant Laoyan naturally didn't go to bed, and talked with his masters in the main room of the north building of Lejia.

Le Yun went to the temporary large kitchen in the backyard and the kitchen in the south building to check it out. She took tools and removed the window facing the backyard from the refrigerator room in the north building.

She was moving things, Zhou Qiufeng and her cousins ​​were packing some things in the warehouse, father Le's cousins ​​were guarding the mourning hall, and the singer sang a song, and the three of them went to kowtow to thank.

(End of this chapter)