National Tide 1980.

Chapter 379 Social Arts
Facing Wu Shen's suspicion and questioning, Ning Weimin did not panic at all.

Don't look at the aggressiveness of the other party, he looks like he will turn his face when he says he will turn his face, he is extremely domineering.

But Ning Weimin knew in his heart that the more this happened, the less serious he would be.

So instead he smiled teasingly, and said indifferently, "You think of me so highly? Thank you. But I'm still a little self-aware, and I'm really ashamed of these words."

"There are many people who are more talented than me. What am I? What's more, my English level is definitely not as good as Huo Xin. To put it bluntly, I am self-taught, but I am actually a wild man. Huo Xin is different. , from a serious academic background."

"As for why Huo Xin praised me, it's because of a premise. I'm her leader. Don't you guys know Huo Xin? Don't look at her young age, she has a lot of eyes. She is so smart, how can I pick her for me? The thorn, give her a chance to wear the glass slipper?"

"Of course, even if I have the heart, I don't have the guts to meet you today. You friends are Huo Xin's strong backing, and you will absolutely insist on it. I'm afraid I will have to be cautious in the future and avoid our Huo Da Miss is gone..."

Such a statement really worked, and Wu Shen immediately couldn't be more serious.

Instead, he poked his head, grinned, and smiled to show his approval.

Even Huo Xin couldn't refute it.

After all, what Ning Weimin said didn't sound too serious, but it was also a recognition of her.

Yes, it is inevitable to encounter some difficult problems in communication.

The best way to deal with this is with a playful response.

As long as the ability to grasp the language is in place, you can let the other party stretch their emotions.

Like Ning Weimin, he played down the embarrassment with just a few words of ridicule, and easily made the embarrassment disappear without a sound.

However, even after passing Wu Shen's level, it doesn't mean that no one will make things difficult for Ning Weimin anymore.

Don't forget, there is also Jiang Hao who has been silent by the side.

"Brother, are you too modest? Who can believe you when you insist that you have no talent? Then according to the logic in your words, don't you rely on your connections? What's more, you have been going around in such a big circle, and you have never said anything. When it comes to substantive issues? I just want to ask you, you just refuted the face of all of us, how did you respect us? Can you speak more truthfully? "

Otherwise, this kid is not easy to deal with.

He is like a carnivore standing by and waiting to be rounded up. If he does not move, he will go straight to the throat of the prey.

His words were nothing short of a punch.

That was pointing at Ning Weimin's insincere words.

And remind others to think about the conflict between Qiacai and Ning Weimin.

You must know that Ning Weimin rejects others by going around in circles. Although it is a pleasing way, it must be clever.

It gets annoying when it gets revealed, because no one likes being fooled.

But Ning Weimin is still not afraid.

Because he didn't just talk about it, just to muddle through the problem.

His real purpose is to completely control the rhythm of the conversation, not only not to lose, but also to gain something.

So what he said was an ambush, with a mature routine.

At present, it is only the first move of his chain fist.

"Hey, Jiang Chu, what you said really wronged me. Why am I being unreal?"

Ning Weimin changed his way this time, and he was aggrieved when he came up, and he didn't hesitate to demean himself, throwing out many rhetorical questions in succession.

"Didn't I make it clear what I just said? I never thought that personal ability is more important than social relationships. Then how can I be the kind of person who learns from talent? It's not because I know that I can't make it through Are you going to die?"

"Frankly speaking, I just had better luck. I learned some English in order to exchange some foreign exchange certificates. But I caught up with Mr. Carton, and then I was able to become an employee of a foreign company. I'm not afraid of your jokes. But the one with the lowest education. The word 'talented' doesn't fit me, does it?"

"Everyone may wish to think again, for a commoner like me who grew up in a hutong without education or background, how can I be able to sit in the position of deputy manager just by being able to speak a few foreign languages ​​and being a little smart? Is this really possible? Even if I'm lucky, did this happen? Am I sitting still? Let alone fighting for power with my boss?"

"That's why I have to rely on relationships and find hard trust."

You must know that people's thinking is inertial, and those present at these problems have to agree with their rationality, even Jiang Hao is the same.

So every question became favorable evidence for Ning Weimin to defend himself.

So much so that the final conclusion was mixed with tricks, and the people present could only believe it and could not refute it.

What's more, Ning Weimin has a supplementary explanation.

"Of course, I can't compare with the few present here. My relationship is not as rich and high-quality as yours, and I have to find, develop, and maintain it myself."

"Like the leaders of the Temple of Heaven Park, as well as famous artists and professors in the art world, journalist friends from major media, and some people from the Ministry of Economics and Trade and the Ministry of Textiles. Grasp it. Without the trust and goodwill of these people, who supported me, how could the sculpture exhibition I held be such a sensation?"

"Also, why do I have the confidence to compete with my boss for management rights? It is because my boss mistakenly believes that foreign companies are practical. It all depends on English proficiency and business ability to speak, and hard work can achieve good results. , to make more money. He didn’t know that foreign companies also value brand promotion and good reputation. At the current stage of building fame, they care more about the reputation of the brand.”

"Yes, I belong to the nouveau riche who bought steamed buns and pickled vegetables yesterday, and sits in suits and leather shoes in high-end hotels today. But why is this? It's not my luck. It's because I understand that although I can't choose my destiny as I want , choose the situation, but I can still create opportunities for myself and pave the way for my future by carefully managing my contacts. I know that if a person has many capable friends, he is equivalent to controlling his own destiny."

"So if I'm capable, it's all about how to make friends. How can I not like to make friends and don't respect friends? Even because of the lack of relationships, I value relationships more than anything else. Frankly Speaking of which, I am very satisfied with the opportunity to meet so many high-quality friends today. I am also very grateful to Huo Xin, and naturally I have great respect for everyone..."

Indeed, everyone has the psychology of showing off and hopes that the people they interact with can match their own advantages, so how not to be bored or underestimated in social interaction has become an art.

In fact, the point is precisely that when mentioning one's own advantages, one should point to the end and not go too far in order to be recognized.

And it's best to elevate the other party and draw on your own strengths, so that the other party won't feel that you are boasting.

In addition, in less important places, taking the initiative to expose your shortcomings and admit your shortcomings in some places can also have better results.

This is not a shame, but it will make people feel that you are a real person and that your words are not hypocritical.

As the saying goes, "If you are humble, you will be convinced, and if you boast, you will be suspicious."

Ning Weimin did all of this appropriately, and his previous foreshadowing was by no means nonsense.

He elevates the other party tactfully, and directly exposes his own strengths and weaknesses.

Not only has it made the other party feel superior and made the other party feel relieved of his suspicions, but it has also invisibly increased his weight in the hearts of the second generation, establishing a pragmatic and funny image.

Don't look at him saying that he has no real ability, but this in itself is a manifestation of ability.

In fact, Jiang Hui asked a question on behalf of everyone without doubt.

"Then why do you still refuse to help and live up to Huo Xin's wishes? You still don't understand why?"

Ning Weimin's combo boxing finally reached the final blow, and he threw out the most critical remarks smoothly.

"Don't worry, the following is the reason I want to explain. Why do I still refuse everyone's kindness? The reason is actually very simple. Because I have no way to make a reasonable return."

(End of this chapter)