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Chapter 390 The Four-Character Mantra
People who can rely on their mouths to eat are almost all good at picking up girls.

Because they all know how to do what they like.

Under normal circumstances, as long as the girl asks for something, you will satisfy her, and the matter will basically be done.

If you are powerless or unable to satisfy them, then lie to them and promise them that you will satisfy them quickly.

As long as they can give them hope, the effect is still passable.

Of course, if you are seen through by them, then you will fail completely.

That's the trick to picking up girls.

Sometimes, you don't even need to take the initiative at all.

As long as the girls see that you have everything that meets their needs, they will obediently draw close to you.

Just like Huo Xin begging for nothing to entangle Ning Weimin, this is the same as the nature of bees gathering honey.

Therefore, the "Panlu Deng Xiaoxian" presented by Wang Po to the senior officials of Ximen is actually just an appearance.

It's just a summary of the typical needs of most girls, not the core principle of picking up girls.

When it comes to the real general outline and essentials, in the final analysis, it is still in the four words of "following what one likes".

It is based on this point that the better a person is at communicating with strangers, the easier it is to mess up their emotional and private life, and the higher the cheating rate.

It is also based on this point that people who are not good at communication, such as men of science and engineering and programmers, are naturally disadvantaged groups that are rejected by love.

No matter how good the personal conditions are, it is inevitable to become a poor single dog.

Even further extended, these four-character mantras can almost be regarded as the basis for maintaining good interpersonal relationships in the world.

Even if it is applied to business negotiations, dealing with public relations crises, and maintaining harmony in family relationships, it has the same miraculous effect.

Undoubtedly, for Ning Weimin, this is his guiding ideology for dealing with the current difficult problems.

He decided that as long as he analyzed the psychology of Qu Xiao's parents clearly, he would find the key to solve the problem.

This is not difficult, in fact, as long as you think about it from the standpoint of the other party, it will be clear.

Why are Qu Xiao's parents so sad and angry?

In essence, it's not because of the prejudice and ignorance of the modeling profession that she thinks that her only daughter is doing shameless things behind their backs.

Qu Xiao's parents really thought that their daughter was a bad student, and they didn't hesitate to deceive them with lies, making their 20 years of hard work completely wasted, so they did irrational harm to their only daughter.

As long as they let go of their worries and worries, they can give birth to a kind of beautiful hope.

Naturally, there was nothing that could prevent Qu Xiao's family from reuniting and restoring a harmonious family atmosphere.

So near noon on September 9th, when Qu Xiao returned to her home and knocked on the door.

Ning Weimin was not as melancholy and hopeless as this girl.

The only feeling of guilt and nervousness in his heart was washed away by the excitement that he was about to use his eloquence to turn the tide.

According to the impression Qu Xiao's parents left in his memory, he is at least [-]% sure that he will get a relatively perfect result.

And this first treasure, he put it on the clothes.

Whether we want to admit it or not, in fact, each of us will have the mentality and habit of "judging people by their appearance".

Although this is a pejorative term, it happens from time to time.

Not for anything else, just because in a short period of time, it is completely impossible to gain a deep understanding of a person's inner being through the skin.

On the contrary, appearance and clothing are relatively reliable sources of information for judging strangers.

And this matter is not as superficial as it seems literally.

You know, although "appearance" is just two words, it includes many aspects.

For example, personality is written on the face, character is revealed in the eyes, lifestyle is shown in the body, emotional ups and downs are shown in the voice, tutoring is based on standing posture, aesthetics is based on clothes, and level is based on shoes...

In short, as long as you know some basic techniques of dating, you can deduce a lot of useful information from the details of all aspects.

Therefore, in the communication between people, the appearance is well-deserved, and it has become the most straightforward way to impress the other party.

Many people even subconsciously add positive qualities to those who look good and satisfy themselves.

Take Ning Weimin himself as an example.

When he appeared on the street in a different appearance, the feedback he got was completely different.

If he is wearing a suit and leather shoes standing on the street, whether he is asking for directions or inquiring about things.

Everyone else responded politely, appearing particularly polite and educated.

And when he was dressed like an ordinary alleysider, the attitude of others was quite casual.

Sometimes it is unavoidable that some people will take Canada, find fault with his language, and his honorific title is not in place.

This is enough to fully prove a point.

The role of human appearance in conveying information is indeed far more important than language.

This can directly determine whether a person can gain the respect and favor of the other party.

Don't look at what people always say, don't jump to conclusions about a person just by appearance, but in fact, people all over the world are doing it.

In fact, even in Qu Xiao's parents, this rule has been fulfilled without exception.

When the door of Qu's house opened, Qu Xiao's parents, who had come with sullen faces, were taken aback and could hardly believe their eyes.

They never expected that the daughter who was kicked out of the house in embarrassment would return home with such a moving and noble image after only one day.

Facing the new image of their daughter, they are pleasing to the eye, appreciative, and not used to it.

But in any case, the temper was naturally contained.

Not only was there no way to express the anger in their hearts, but it also made them a little afraid to recognize each other.

If it wasn't for Qu Xiao's change, it's a layer of skin, and the inside hasn't changed at all.

Seeing the strange eyes of her parents, she immediately felt guilty and apologized with tears in her eyes.

"Dad, Mom, I was wrong, please forgive me, please let me go home..."

Qu Xiao's parents really don't know how long they will stand at a loss.

And Ning Weimin's image played the effect of a god assist.

Although he is just wearing an ordinary suit, after 30 years, it is really nothing.

But in this era, because suits belong to special clothing that represents the advanced nature of the West.

Not only do most people not have that temperament when wearing a suit, but they also have some problems, making people look particularly awkward.

For example, the suit does not fit well, the color and pattern are not elegant, cannot wear a tie, all the buttons are buttoned, the cuff labels are kept, the shirt is too worn out, the suit pocket is bulging, etc...

To be honest, like Ning Weimin, he can really choose a suit that fits well, and wear it with a neat appearance and smooth lines.

Zhu'er, who can really wear a tie and look like a gentleman and handsome man with a gentle demeanor, is really a rare animal like a giant panda.

Among other things, most people are still used to black leather shoes with white socks.

Ning Weimin is one of the few people who knows how to match black leather shoes with black socks.

Just this little difference in detail made him look so comfortable and elegant.

Standing there, completely unable to bear Qu Xiao's parents looking up and down.

So when he asked very politely, "Uncle and aunt, it's a bit inconvenient to talk outside, can we go in and talk?"

His demeanor and thoughtfulness, as well as his good self-cultivation, immediately made it impossible for Qu Xiao's parents to keep glaring King Kong guarding the mountain gate.

It is completely involuntary to open the door.

Unexpectedly, there was no serious word or question, and the two of them were allowed to enter the house silently.

The first threshold was crossed very easily, and it was a good impression score.

(End of this chapter)