National Tide 1980.

Chapter 582
From the perspective of being responsible for their daughter, it is true that Professor Lan's family cannot be blamed for being wary of Ning Weimin.

After all, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.

Although there is already talk of divorce in this era, no one cares about this second choice.

Huo Xin's parents are of course the same.

When they accidentally saw a strange young man like Ning Weimin pushing his daughter's bicycle.

The resulting attention, doubts, curiosity, and worries are all normal reactions.

If you don't ask clearly, how can you let him go?
Conversely, if they just let it be and don't ask, that's not normal.

In short, worrying about the marriage of adult children can be said to be a common problem of all parents in the world, and it is out of the instinct of caring and love.

Parents always hope that their own experience can help their children choose the best spouse and companion.

I hope that young and inexperienced children can avoid making mistakes on this important issue that is related to the happiness of the rest of their lives.

Even though it is no longer the era of "parents' orders", parents know that this kind of thing is thankless, but they still can't help but take care of it.

How else can I pity the hearts of parents in the world.

Like Aunt Bian, Ning Weimin's neighbor, she is very worried about Bian Jiangong's marriage.

To be honest, in the past year, as a mother, she has really worried about this youngest son's marriage, and worked hard to make arrangements, but unfortunately it was all in vain.

Whether she found a suitable partner for her son or not is just a matter of saying, the key is that Bian Jiangong is like eating a weight, and he is determined to disappear.

Bian Jiangong had already identified this "Mu Guiying" and took this girl home time after time.

As for Aunt Bian, no matter how you look at it, she doesn't like it.

For nothing else, she is the director of the neighborhood committee.

It is up to her to carry out the tasks that come down the street.

Residents of Fan'er Hutong always rely on her to mediate conflicts.

What can she do if she doesn't do things well?

Especially in dealing with people, he is the most proficient.

So, what she disliked the most about this girl was her careless and incongruous temperament.

In the eyes of Aunt Bian, this "Mu Guiying" is bluffing and heartless in everything she does, and even seems to have no understanding of the world at all.

For example, when eating at the table, Aunt Bian once saw that the girl did not eat meat.

Thinking that she was shy and embarrassed to serve food, in order to show hospitality, he kindly offered to help the girl serve food.

Unexpectedly, this girl actually fried the mutton with green onions in the bowl and handed it to Bian Jiangong instead.

Then he laughed and spoke bluntly.

"Auntie, I don't eat mutton, I can't stand the smell, please, don't bring me any more vegetables. You don't know what I like to eat and what I don't like..."

As a result, Aunt Bian blushed.

Another time, it was a big Sunday afternoon.

This "Mu Guiying" came to Bian's house by bicycle to look for Jiangong. They agreed to go to the movies together after dinner at home.

But when Aunt Bian sent them out, she looked at the girl's bicycle fresh.

Because there is actually a cotton shoe on the rear bracket of the bicycle.

At that time, she couldn't help but open her mouth curiously.

"Hey, why is there a shoe on the back seat of your car? Who put it there, is it weird?"

That "Mu Guiying" looked back and was also dumbfounded.

Unexpectedly, only a moment later, she burst out laughing again, revealing an even more unbelievable answer.

She actually claimed that it was her shoes that had been hanging out on the back rack of her bicycle during the day.

When I came out, because it was dark, I was careless and didn't look at it, so I rode and left.

As a result, he pedaled all the way to Bian's house.

This is not the only one left...

Looking at "Mu Guiying" standing in the alley, he didn't know the embarrassing "hahaha" at all.

He also showed off his driving skills to Bian Jiangong, who was suppressing a smile.

Aunt Bian, this is embarrassing.

Fortunately, the street lights were not on, and it was cold, so there were few acquaintances in the alley.

Otherwise, let acquaintances see and know that her son has made such a "two hundred and five" girlfriend.

Where can I put her old face...

It's the same even on such an important day as today.

Ordinarily, Aunt Bian is an old man who is very particular about auspiciousness, and she thinks highly of Lao Ling'er, so she knows that she should never get angry on New Year's Eve.

But this "Mu Guiying" is her inner demon.

Getting along with it, Aunt Bian is afraid that she will never be able to be calm.

Speaking of which, just now, the mother and son of the Bian family were busy preparing today's New Year's Eve dinner in the kitchen.

Since Bian Jianjun and Li Xiuzhi hadn't come back yet, Bian Jiangong had to help the family with cold dishes. The main task was to open the luncheon meat and canned quail eggs he brought back from the "polar bear".

And Aunt Bian is frying rice on the fire, preparing for the New Year's Eve dish, rice noodles and meat.

These days, there are no ready-made rice noodles for sale in the capital, so you have to roll and fry them yourself.

Unexpectedly, this "Mu Guiying" didn't watch TV in the house, so she came out on her own initiative, and Zhang Luo came to help.

And when she saw her, Aunt Bian's heart went "twitching", the boss felt uncomfortable.

The old lady didn't even look up, she turned over the rice vigorously with a spatula, while perfunctorily trying to send her back.

"Um...Xiao Mu, the kitchen is too crowded, we can't stand three people...Don't move, go back and watch TV. You are a guest..." If you are an ordinary person, of course you will understand what Aunt Bian means by observing her words and expressions .

But this, yes indeed, without that string in his mind, he couldn't have thought of it at all.

How does "Mu Guiying" know what euphemism is?

So Aunt Bian was wrong, she had an affair with "Mu Guiying" visitor.

As a result, because her hands were a little slow, the rice smelled like a paste and floated out.

This "Mu Guiying" not only didn't go back to the house, but ran over anxiously, shouting loudly.

"Auntie, the smell is wrong! Sprinkle some vinegar in it! Quick!"

Just this voice made Aunt Bian flustered, and the shovel in her hand immediately became useless, and the smell of paste naturally became stronger.

As for "Mu Guiying", she didn't count on bluffing, but she even poked her head into the kitchen, urging her to make contributions.

"Why are you idle watching the fun, get jealous for aunt."

Here, Jiangong really listened to her, and immediately threw away the belongings in his hand, picked up the vinegar bottle next to him, pulled off the bottle cap, and was about to pour vinegar into the pot.

Well, I am so angry with Aunt Bian, I wish I could beat this "Yang Zongbao" with a spatula on the spot.

She hurriedly stopped her son's hand, then turned her head and stared at "Mu Guiying" in disgust.

I thought to myself that the more layman I am, the more I dare to talk back. Is there such a nosy person?

However, "Mu Guiying" didn't notice Aunt Bian's dislike for her at all, but continued to urge her to be jealous.

She's also definitely well-intentioned.

So "Yang Zongbao" moved his stopped hand again.

As soon as the vinegar was poured, it was just poured in.

How could Aunt Bian have expected this to happen, and finally she couldn't stand it and yelled.

"How dare you come up with an idea! Pour vinegar can't get rid of the smell. You need to add wine and chili powder!"

"And you, you bastard, you really listen to her bad idea, pour it in for me! Get out!"

Just like that, Aunt Bian simply drove her son and "Mu Guiying" outside together, and they all drove away.

How could this "Mu Guiying" be completely unaware of her fault for being in the way of other people and causing such serious consequences.

She was still laughing and laughing with Bian Jiangong, as if nothing happened, this is really annoying!
There is nowhere to vent her dissatisfaction, and Aunt Bian can't continue cooking.

Turned around in the yard twice, took off the apron, threw it aside, and went straight to his old man's house.

At this time, Uncle Bian was lying in the room and listening to the opera at the end of the curtain.

The "door" slammed open, startling him.

Seeing that it was his wife who came in, he didn't have the room to ask, so Aunt Bian confided angrily.

"What happened? Ah, that bastard's soul has been hooked away. He listened to her like that! He listened to any bastard's ideas? Are you out of your mind? Let me tell you, old man, just our family's meritorious deeds, He is definitely a white-eyed wolf with a long tail. He only recognizes his wife but not his mother. If he really wants to marry this 'Mu Guiying', he will not even dare to fart in front of his wife."

After finally figuring out what was going on, Uncle Bian was not as angry as Aunt Bian.

Probably because he got used to it, he got used to it a long time ago, instead he advised his wife not to get angry, and he should be more tolerant to the girl.

"Don't talk about it, it's been here for a long time. I think this girl has a good humanity. I used to think she was frizzy and bluffed. But she has a straight temper, not so many twists and turns, and she is quite generous. You see, you give her How many times has she looked at her face. I haven't seen her mind before? Besides, isn't her child also kindly trying to help you."

"Hey, why did you rebel so easily? Good intentions? Good intentions can do bad things! She is doing nothing to help! Such a big girl's family, why is there no way to be safe, and she is not well-educated. I just want to see I'm not used to it."

"You get used to it just by looking at it. You, don't worry too much about it. Things will wear out, and children will grow up. The most important thing for a son to look at is a person's character. In my opinion, There is nothing wrong with this girl. Since she and our son get along well, let them go."

"What, you just let it go like this. You are too irresponsible. If you really become this kind of relative, then she must not bully my son to death! This meritorious service is also the same. Now I just listen to her like this, what should I do in the future? No Waiting to be bullied? No, I will never agree to them."

Looking at it, Aunt Bian became more and more frowning, and she couldn't persuade her no matter how hard she tried.

Uncle Bian was impatient.

"No? Your son is willing, how do you care? Since ancient times, few people have succeeded in beating mandarin ducks with sticks. Even if you barely get what you want, you are doomed to complain for the rest of your life. If you make achievements in the future, you will be unhappy in your marriage, no Is it all your fault?"

These words made Aunt Bian wronged, and the old lady quit.

"Who am I for? Am I not for your old family? You are all against me! I am not a good person, am I?"

As I spoke, my heart was bitter, and tears came down.

Seeing his wife like this, Uncle Bian couldn't help sighing, and comforted him patiently.

"I know you are doing it for the good of your son. You want to choose a girl who is good for him in all aspects. But the problem is that the shoes are comfortable or not. Only your feet know. It is not easy for you to be a mother, but for your son Anxiety is purely useless, no matter how good you think it is, it's useless if your son doesn't like it."

"I think our Jiangong is serious about this girl, because after such a long time, he has never thought about the possibility of changing someone. Since he will live with this girl himself from now on, then he only needs to know the person he chose, Where is the problem. It is enough to know what kind of responsibility you have to bear.”

"Besides, you have to look at the actual situation to measure it? You want your son to marry a Seventh Fairy, but is it realistic? This kind of thing has to be eye-catching. You are too demanding. Our son has to be single!"

The front is fine, Aunt Bian has been listening carefully.

But the last sentence made the old lady unhappy again.

"Nonsense! Why am I unrealistic? Who is my son worse than? I want Jiangong to find a better one, why is it unrealistic? In terms of work, character, and appearance? My son can do it all Huh? In terms of family, we are no worse than anyone else, but now I am..."

"Come on, don't talk about the sewing club again. Stop it!"

Seeing that Aunt Bian was about to scream again, Uncle Bian stopped it in time.

"I'm not talking about you. You are really bloated and lack self-knowledge. You can't always look at the things in front of you. You have to look at society as a whole."

"What's the situation in the society now? That is, there are too many men and women, and they are all eager to start a family. Which one has not reached the marriageable age? If you are older, the third generation of them is 34, and if you are young, they are 26 or seven. .”

"There are also young people who have just graduated from school and entered the society. They are all in love. To put it bluntly, it is equivalent to 'window paper' everywhere. Everyone is in a mess, anxious, but they just don't know where to go.' Poke'."

Speaking of this, the metaphor of the image of the old man has already amused Aunt Bian.

But the following words were poured down like a ladle of cold water, forcing Aunt Bian to look at the problem calmly again.

"Are you still laughing? I mean can you wait in this situation? Isn't it a matter of quick hands and slow hands. Take a good look, there are so many people who build greenhouses and make furniture. You don't A little pressure? Once the unmarried get married, the unmarried will have less choice."

"How old is our Jiangong? How old is Xiaomu. Let me put it bluntly. The girl dumped Jiangong, and she can continue to talk with others. It will not be too late to get married in a few years. But can Jiangong afford to wait? I also told You, your son can find a girl he likes right now. It’s considered that he has identified the window paper. At least it’s not a blind stabbing, and he catches up with who is who.”

"Secondly, it's not easy to get married, you have to be rich. Now the society is the same every year, and everything is changing. Like this year, the big Skoda bread on the street is gone, and the police uniforms are also green. That's it. We don't have to eat corn bread anymore, and the government no longer has to go to a fixed grain station to buy grain. I heard that this industrial voucher will be canceled immediately, and the three-turn ring will not be popular. People Marriage now pays attention to the new three major things, color TV, refrigerator, washing machine. There are even girls who want gold jewelry. Has this girl mentioned it once in Jiangong's photo? She didn't even try it? So looking at it this way, our son is still a little eyesight."

"Finally, the most important thing is the house. If you are short of people, you can find it slowly. If you are short of money, you can save it slowly. You can eat less, buy things simpler, and live on. But if you are short of a house, but There is nothing wrong with this girl. Since this girl is in the same unit as Jiangong, if they get married, they will be working as dual workers. Isn’t that unit able to provide a house? The most terrible problem is solved. If you want to mess up the couple, can you give Is your son looking for a house?"

"So I said, after all, no one is perfect. You can't look at other girls and keep staring at places you don't like. Your son is not Weimin next door. There are so many beautiful girls around him, let him choose .Look at Guangliang from Luo’s family. If he hadn’t been in, wouldn’t Guangliang have better conditions than Jiangong? Have you ever gone abroad? Don’t be too high-minded. Let me tell you, we are more than enough than the top, and our son is happy. Don’t worry about it..."

Aunt Bian was obviously moved by these words, she was silent for a long time.

Seeing that the expression has softened obviously, this is a sign that the anger has subsided and the old lady calmed down.

However, just as Uncle Bian breathed a sigh of relief, he might as well be resisted by a word from his wife.

"Hey, you said it would be great if this Weimin was our son! Everything is excellent, so I don't have to worry about me..."

"Bullshit! What are you talking about. Do you think that kid is just fine? You want to have such an outstanding son, spend every day in the flowers, and you still don't know a girlfriend. You are even more desperate..."

(End of this chapter)