National Tide 1980.

Chapter 64

Ning Weimin did not invite any guests.

Of course, this can't be done like this, and it is inevitable that you will have to make a supplementary request in the future.

But it still sounds dead.

In Lan Lan's body, Ning Weimin has never been able to use money to achieve the kind of psychological balance he expects.

Because Lan Lan has a childlike nature and loves to play and laugh.

She loves watching movies and theatre, skating, visiting the park, and eating ice cream, ice cream, melon seeds, plum chocolate and other snacks.

And she also remembered that as soon as she came out, she would do whatever she said, and there was no plan at all.

Being with her always gave Ning Weimin a kind of passive youth overflowing with helplessness.

But at the same time, Lan Lan had another inherent persistence, but it made Ning Weimin even more surprised and couldn't help but admire it.

That is Lan Lan has no idea of ​​spending men's money at ease.

This girl not only pays attention to having contacts, but also is generous and terribly refreshing.

The two of them ate, drank and played, and she also took out a lot of money.

Especially when she pays her salary, you can't grab her if you pay out.

Even at the end of June, Ning Weimin joked and pretended that he had encountered difficulties and needed money urgently.

Even if the salary was almost spent, Lan Lan said it didn't matter, she had to go home to ask for it, saying that her mother had money in her hands.

Such a girl, how should people evaluate it?

Good is really good!

But this girl doesn't have the slightest bit of a snack, and she has no defense against others. It's so foolish.

Ning Weimin felt that if he was her own brother, he would be able to worry about this girl and worry about her dealings with others for the rest of his life.

Of course, Ning Weimin had to doubt Lan Lan's family environment because of this.

Because in ordinary people's families, there will be no such girls who don't know how difficult things are in the world and who don't care about spending money.

Sure enough, as soon as she asked Lan Lan, she said it, and she didn't intend to hide it.

She told Ning Weimin that her parents were actually high-level intellectuals.

His father is a professor of ancient architecture and construction, and his mother works in the district cultural protection bureau.

Therefore, her father also served as the ancient construction consultant of the Cultural Protection Bureau, and was responsible for many restoration projects such as the Temple of Heaven and Qianmen.

And she actually has a brother who works in the District Service Bureau.

As for this girl's family background, why she works at the junkyard is all because she is angry with her family.

Lan Lan claimed that she was not expected to study, but her parents forced her to go to university.

She was not allowed to watch TV, she was not allowed to go out to play, and she had to go home to study every day after school, which drove her to the point of madness.

So when she graduated, she failed the college entrance examination by three points, and she didn't want to take the test again, she had to go to work.

She wants freedom and decides her own life.

Naturally, she didn't need to say much, her choice made her parents half-dead.

Her stubbornness can't be pulled back even by nine cows.

Her parents said that she had no culture and could only pick up junk, and she said she would pick up junk when she picked up junk.

In this way, no matter what, I can't convince her.

In a fit of anger, her parents took her to the junkyard to work.

But unfortunately, she herself regrets it a little now.

Originally, she thought that going to work was more interesting than going to school.

But it soon became apparent that this class was actually more boring.

What's the point of dealing with scrap copper and iron, old newspapers and magazines every day, dirty and dirty?

It's not decent to say it.

Thanks to the fact that her parents entrusted someone to take care of her, the head of the junk station treated her like her own daughter and never let her do any hard work.

Otherwise, she wouldn't be able to stay at the junkyard for even a week.

And the colleagues in the unit, in addition to a group of very old people, are educated youths who have returned to the city.

She is the only fresh high school student like her.

The age gap in life is too large, and the life experience is also very different.

Others talk about how to live at home every day, and what they study is chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

The discussion was on how to save money, how to take care of the old and the young at home, how to build furniture and clean the house, and how to use labor protection gloves to weave clothes.

Everyone treats her as a child, and she has no one to chat with as a friend.

But what made her even more unexpected was that even the interpersonal circle in her original life was derailed.

She also became an individual separated from others.

Not for anything else, just because she is a student of "Yucai", and she is on the key point of the district.

The classmates in the class are not as leisurely as her, nor are she as dashing and thoughtful.

Except for those who were admitted to college, everyone else continued to prepare for the exam.

She went to see a movie with her former good friend, went to the park, and no one paid her any attention, she just shied away.

The parents of those classmates also guarded her like a thief, for fear that she would affect their children's studies...

When it came to this point, Lan Lan was already too aggrieved.

Not only did he pouted, but even his voice was choked up.

But Ning Weimin couldn't help but burst into laughter without any sympathy at all.

"I understand, you are asking for trouble. You don't listen to the old man's words, and now you are in a dilemma, and you are embarrassed to admit your mistakes, right? You want to listen to my advice and talk to your parents. , it's better to change the evil and return to the right as soon as possible..."

These words immediately made Lan Lan's eyes widen in surprise, and then showed a look of disappointment.

"You...you also persuaded me to listen to them? I thought you would support me."

"Look at you, how free, how happy, how self..."

"I really don't understand, is the only way out for me is to study for college?"

"Even if you pass the exam, what's the point? Living like my parents and my mother from now on will be too tiring to live. It's too boring, too boring."

Unexpectedly, Ning Weimin shook his head, completely disapproving of her pain.

"I don't agree with what you said. In this life, almost everything is like this. There is no pure good, and there is no pure bad. It can only be measured, and do what you think is the best choice."

"It's actually not that easy to make a choice. You need knowledge and vision to make the right choice. You even need an economic foundation and family support to truly implement your choice."

"Take you as an example. It is precisely because you don't know enough about society that you make the wrong choice. But even if this choice can be implemented, it will depend on your family's help. You should know how many people are currently unemployed. Others can't ask for anything. You can easily get the things you want. This is how your family helps you."

"To be honest, your starting point in life is high enough. You make mistakes, and your family takes care of you. When you were born in this family, you will have the opportunity to make new choices. This is the luck that others can't hope for. .You should cherish it."

"Don't compare yourself to me. I'm a child with no father and no mother. It's never been easy, and I've never had as many choices as you. You don't know how many things I've done against my will and how many things I've done in order to survive. difficult thing."

"You only saw me smiling, but you couldn't tell that my smile was fake, and how much suffering was hidden in the smile. You envy my freedom and self, and I also envy that you have parents in charge, and parents care..."

Ning Weimin's words instantly made Lan Lan quiet, and she couldn't help but admit it.

"Actually, I know that I am luckier than many people. I am so dissatisfied, it seems that I am a little bit ignorant of happiness in the midst of happiness, and I am hypocritical..."

But children are children after all.Soon, dissatisfaction and unwillingness surfaced again.

"But the pursuit of happiness is a human instinct, isn't it? Is it wrong for me to want a better life? I'm not that unrealistic either. I just hope my own life can be a little more poetic and romantic with myself. The right to be the master..."

Ning Weimin still smiled at this.

"It's no problem. It's normal for you to think so. But you can't be too impatient. Life is not something that can be accomplished overnight.

"Life is a big problem, and countless scholars, wise men, and philosophers in the world can't figure it out. Why do you think you can figure it out now? Even better than your parents?"

"Why do you think your parents restrict you? Just to let you live according to their wishes? Then they are too tired. Are they willing to control you like this for the rest of their lives?"

"Actually, in my opinion, it's just a necessary measure they take to protect your future. Because you go to college, you can see the wider world. Only then can you know what you really want."

"Your parents just don't want your dreams to be limited, they want you to have more choices and the ability to secure your future."

These words completely touched Lan Lan, and she hadn't thought about it at all.

"But...but..."

Ning Weimin interrupted her again, and the following words continued to break through her cognition.

"There is nothing but. There are always some responsibilities to pay in life. Just like your parents are responsible for your future, you are also obliged to make your parents feel at ease with you."

"I tell you, freedom is indeed a good thing, but such a good family is even more precious. When you grow up, you will find that only blood relatives are the ones who really think about you wholeheartedly. A hungry man is hungry, and I don't know how many people envy your family, your parents."

"Little girl, I know, you have already regretted it, but you just can't save face, right? You still care about this with your parents? I dare to say that as long as you turn back, your parents will definitely ignore the previous grudges and be ecstatic."

"Also, I really have to advise you, don't think that you are the center of the world, don't think that you will be forever young, and don't think that only good luck will be with you in the future. Don't think that your parents and relatives will always worry about you forever, they also They will grow old, and they will need your care one day."

"Even worse doom is possible. Including the death of a loved one, being maimed in a car accident, terminally ill, dependent on others, wandering in a foreign land, encountering unkind people... Sounds scary, doesn't it? But it's true, that's life. "

"I don't deny that studying for college is quite boring. But compared to what I said, is it nothing?"

"Listen to me, have fun for two more months, and then go back to study when school starts. Don't forget to buy something for your parents with your salary. Not only will they not be angry with you, they will be happy. ."

"Trust me, perhaps only now is the most secure time in your life. Cherish everything you have now. Don't let your time be wasted in a cluttered way and miss the opportunity to truly grasp your own destiny."

With a sad expression, Lan Lan was speechless for a while.

She couldn't even digest Ning Weimin's words, so she couldn't refute them at all.

In the end, there is only a deep sigh for the heaviness and dullness of the adult world.

"I can't believe it's you who said these words. You... what you said to me is just... more than my parents and my mother..."

"You're more old-fashioned than your parents, and more like your elders?"

Ning Weimin smiled lightly, and resumed the virtue of being outspoken and condescending.

"Then you can call me uncle from now on. How about it? Little niece, call me and my uncle will buy you yogurt."

There is no doubt that such a provocation turned out that Lan Lan was not enticing, and responded with a "bah" on the spot.

(End of this chapter)