National Tide 1980.

Chapter 926 Love Psychology

Chapter 926 Love Psychology

Keiko Matsumoto couldn't tell why.

Although she only had a phone call with Ning Weimin, after the call, she felt completely different.

The magic of the call was that it seemed to satisfy all her spiritual cravings.

For example, the manifestation of motherhood, the joy of being recognized and needed by others, and the joy of meeting someone you've longed for...

Of course, there is also curiosity about Ning Weimin.

Keiko Matsumoto couldn't help feeling that he was getting more and more mysterious when he learned the situation by accident...

However, if you want to explain it from a psychological point of view, it is actually a very easy thing to do.

First of all, Keiko Matsumoto's emotional response confirms the Franklin effect in psychology.

This psychological effect means that those who have helped you are more willing to help you again than those who have been helped by you.

Not only did it completely make up for Keiko Matsumoto's regret, but it even made her even more excited.

"I just drove you to Electric Town in Akihabara, not to mention that your boss is also from China, isn't it? But...if you don't want to..."

Listening to such words, Ning Weimin is definitely not like most young and energetic brats.

"You're welcome, it's not troublesome, it's very simple."

Ning Weimin hesitated for a moment, "I'm going to see my boss, he's on the plane tomorrow, and today I have to prepare the luggage with him. He has to take this video tape with him. I also have to take him to Akihabara to buy something cheap. Electric appliances. You should know the situation in Huaxia. It is inevitable for people who go abroad from our country..."

I think she felt the same way about the director Kinji Fukasaku back then.

"I have other things, you drive back by yourself and pay attention to safety..."

"Do you really want to give me a gift that I really like?"

Ning Weimin smiled, but this kind of stubborn calmness could not be rejected at all.

Even the fact that they didn't spend much time together, that Ning Weimin didn't come and introduced too much about his work, was a kind of surprise.

There is no resentment of being looked down upon at all, but she is warmed by such considerate care.

Saying that, Matsumoto Keiko lowered his head and remained motionless, showing a gloomy and lonely look.

After a pause, Keiko Matsumoto even offered to help financially.

That night, Matsumoto Keiko was finally able to sleep sweetly and sleep soundly.

In short, although there is no routine and it is completely unintentional coincidence, it is precisely because of these psychological effects that they are playing a benign role.

It used to be that one click would drop food, but now it takes multiple presses to drop one piece of food.

Seeing Ning Weimin walk into the door of the restaurant and greet her with a smile, Matsumoto Keiko was so excited that she wanted to cry because she missed her so much.

"Thank you so much. I didn't expect it to be so timely. It must have caused you a lot of trouble, right?"

"That's great, let's go together."

Matsumoto Keiko's voice was soft, she couldn't help being moved, and she also wrapped her arms around Ning Weimin's arm.

Ning Weimin actually accepted it frankly.

Because the time requirement is relatively tight, the specific requirements are not clear enough.

Keiko Matsumoto responded eagerly.

"Thank you, I just need such a thing. I just have a headache about the application procedures, and I haven't had time to buy it yet. It's all right now, I didn't expect you to think of it for me. Then it will be much more convenient for us to contact in the future. I like this Christmas gift , so useful"

Even afterward, he also cared about Matsumoto Keiko.

It is even so serious that even if some people know that the other party has a family, some people are willing to be mistresses.

But fortunately, she soon regained her quick wit, and she spoke again.

She wanted to be with him again—not jokingly or seriously, or whatever.

How could Ning Weimin stand up to the actress-level acting skills?

She pressed her face to his chest, pressed it tightly, and was hugged tightly by him again.

This box is when the button is pressed, food will drop randomly on the top of the box.

For her, the measure of the intimacy of two people is not necessarily how close they are physically, but how much personal privacy they are willing to reveal to each other.

And she is willing to help him, assist him, and do everything possible to help him succeed...

"Then I'll drive you there. I drove the Crown today as a joke..." Keiko Matsumoto asked in a questioning tone.

Because the more the other party pays for you, the more they will cherish you.

Even those that have already been talked about with others, they have considered boring topics in the past.

"Although you said so, it would be very difficult for me to do it without your help. I must thank you very much."

"Of course, it's just...Christmas is only a few days away. If you make a wish, I don't know if there is enough time..." Ning Weimin seemed a little hesitant.

As a result, the more you give, the more obsessed you become.

Keiko Matsumoto is an example of this direction, she is a giving personality.

"No no, no need."

Skinner then moved the mice to another box.

She completely regarded Ning Weimin's entrustment as the most important thing, and immediately called Fuji TV, and formally asked a familiar producer for help.

Matsumoto Keiko subconsciously declined.

There is something special in her heart, a kind of happiness that gets a response soaks her in honey, women in love are so easy to satisfy.

When I describe myself, I always use "fate" or "true love" to summarize this kind of love.

And this delusion of obsession will only get worse.

After getting a response from the other party, he called the office again and asked his subordinates to go to the production department of Fuji TV immediately to find a source for Ning Weimin.

As long as the mouse presses the button, food will fall from the top of the box.

"If you have financial difficulties, please tell me. Money will make your dreams discount...I will support you."

Although they were separated by a table, their eyes intertwined, as if they were inseparable.

Matsumoto Keiko smiled warmly with a look of relief.

For this reason, she both admired and felt a little helpless, not knowing how to react for a while.

There is also the jade bracelet that Ning Weimin gave last time. He took the initiative to invite Matsumoto Keiko to watch the sunrise at the seaside of Odaiba, nothing better than that.

However, Keiko Matsumoto was not as easy to appease as he imagined. Women have things they care about, and they have their own calculations and scheming.

"It's...not good, is it? You'll be recognized. Don't you worry about reporters?"

So the mice learned to press buttons like crazy.

"Okay, then can I think about it carefully before making my request?"

"That's good, you think about it slowly, don't rush."

In addition to utilitarian factors, these relatively common phenomena in the workplace also stem from psychological factors.

For this kind of unpredictable reward, people will get caught up in it and try like crazy to get it.

By falling in love with the wrong person, the end result is that you are exhausted and injured.

Matsumoto Keiko suddenly understood what he meant, whether it was because of male self-esteem or not, anyway, he still didn't want to benefit for nothing.

The more you like someone, the more you like to consider and pay for the other person.

For example, when two people meet for the first time, such as the invitation at the station on a rainy day.

But then Ning Weimin took the initiative to raise another request, but it had the miraculous effect of turning around, which also conformed to this law.

"Yes, I'm very sincere, that's what I think."

Keiko Matsumoto, who has experienced major emotional setbacks, falls in love with someone again, and she needs a sense of security, enough security.

"not boring!"

To be honest, many times, young men and women love each other so much that they recognize each other as the only one.

For example, buying blind boxes, claw machines, lucky koi, etc., many people will become addicted to it.

To be precise, she was thrilled.

No matter what you talk about, it's full of novelty.

Suddenly, Ning Weimin's question brought Matsumoto Keiko back to reality from his wandering thoughts.

"You too. The words of advice to me are also applicable to you. I think your complexion is not very good. You look very tired recently. You must also take care of your health, okay?"

After thinking about it, he immediately changed his mind.

"How can this work? Gifts should be mutual. If you don't tell me, then I have to think about it myself."

It was easier than when he accepted the watch last time, and he understood her mind very well.

"Can I... know what's going on?"

She wanted to be serious with him again, because he was still very young and needed to be carved before he could become a tool.

Even though Ning Weimin never said anything, she was still able to put herself in his shoes and think about giving him all the good things.

The corners of her lips raised slightly, and there was a unique smile of a happy woman on her face.

Everyone thought that some important event was involved, so they did not hesitate to work overtime that day, and it was only in the middle of the night that Keiko Matsumoto's wish was fulfilled.

She smiled a little embarrassedly, then slowly took out the videotape that was transcribed by the TV station and put it on the table.

As a result, you often only make yourself like the other person more and move yourself, instead of making the other person like you more.

Such a compliment made Matsumoto Keiko feel happy from the bottom of her heart.

So as soon as he got what Ning Weimin needed, Matsumoto Keiko quickly contacted him and made an appointment for a meeting time and place.

Fortunately, Ning Weimin focused all his attention on the video tape, and didn't notice the embarrassment of her wandering off.

Some people are thin-skinned, embarrassed to bother others, but silently give to the person they like, which is actually the whole opposite.

He should devote his precious youth and precious time to more worthwhile industries in order to achieve brilliant achievements.

Skinner placed experimenter mice in a box with buttons.

Why secretaries and assistants often fall in love with their bosses, why nurses tend to fall in love with doctors, why flight attendants always fall in love with pilots, and why actresses always fall in love with directors.

She wanted to joke with him, all the jokes, laugh until sunset, and laugh until sunrise.

"Did you really get it? So fast?"

"Okay, I remember."

Like the men and women in TV dramas who hate each other at first, and finally help each other, the psychological basis for falling in love is here.

"Yes, I got it."

But if the scientific analysis is nothing more than their way of contact and getting along with each other, they unexpectedly conform to these psychological effects that are conducive to promoting affection.

The results of the experiment show that there is no fixed rule, and it is impossible to predict the time when the reward will appear, and the reward model full of "uncertainty" will strengthen people's behavior.

Because Ning Weimin expressed it so bluntly, he was willing to stay with her for a while and let her know more about himself.

"By the way, this is for you."

But time passed quickly, and Ning Weimin, who was still working in the afternoon, had to leave at this time.

But Ning Weimin then said, "It's just that I haven't had time to prepare a gift for you, so I deserve it! I'm sorry to ask, Miss Qingzi, do you have any gifts you want? Jewelry, or clothing, Shoes? Feel free to ask, I'll buy them for you."

In the morning of the next day, I rushed to the agreed appointment place early.

But just as she was thinking about how to explain it, she didn't intend to monitor it.

Even if I didn't feel it at first, but one day, there will be confusion about whether I like him or not.

"It's actually quite boring. I really don't know why you want to go?"

It was as if she had been abandoned, and as if she had lost something important.

Sadly, those who are caught up in it are completely unaware that their admiration for others is really just a mental illness.

If you want to gain the favor of others, there is no harm in taking the initiative to speak up.

"I have no other intentions. I'm just afraid of wasting your precious time. If you are willing to send it to us, it's too late to thank you."

As for this call, although Ning Weimin rejected Matsumoto Keiko's kindness from the very beginning, even if Matsumoto Keiko was more open-minded, he would feel unhappy because of frustration.

"If you really want to thank you, try to take care of your body as much as possible. You are still young and don't know the importance of health. Don't be exhausted from work. Don't put too much pressure...it's best to let nature take its course."

This is like what Ning Weimin himself once said - "romance is changing, breaking the rules and being traceless".

And in the process of dating between Ning Weimin and Matsumoto Keiko, such things have actually been happening all the time.

It is best to trouble the other party as much as possible and increase the cost of the other party.

"Do you think so too? That would be really nice."

You can worship, you can quarrel, you can be obedient, you can be uninhibited, you can be tolerant, you can control, you can also be criticized by him, manipulated by him...they will roam in the endless universe without boundaries.

To be honest, I was a little worried at first.

"It's okay, don't worry, in fact, we don't have to stick to the issue of time. A gift is a gift, I don't mind when I get it, as long as it suits my heart, I will be very happy."

She thought it would be easy to misunderstand, and it would take a lot of effort to get Ning Weimin to accept it.

Keiko Matsumoto couldn't help but lowered her head and touched her flushed cheeks.

I secretly rejoiced that I had narrowly escaped the test, and it was self-defeating.

In other words, the best way to make others like you is not to help them, but to let them help you as much as possible.

It would be best if the whole body is fully wrapped...

Ning Weimin, who was full of business, was naturally not in a hurry, so he also smiled.

You know, because of the work affiliation, as you spend more time with each other, you will obey orders more often.

But Keiko Matsumoto didn't dare to indulge in it for too long, so she deliberately changed the subject and took out the pager she bought for Ning Weimin.

After a long period of reciprocation, the mice learned this operation - pressing the button.

As for real life, such examples are numerous.

As soon as the phone call ended, Keiko Matsumoto looked radiant and refreshed, as if she had been nourished by love.

Laughing freely, laughing happily, and fell into his arms.

The famous psychologist Skinner once used the "Skinner box" to do such an experiment.

Perhaps it would be more appropriate to describe it as "in tune".

Right now, she began to use the wisdom of women, trying to test the distance between each other.

During lunch, they talked about more and more topics, from literature to performances, from Tokyo to Beijing, from life to ideals.

"Is it really okay? Will your time not be disturbed? I have to tell you in advance that your movie is very popular in China, and my boss should recognize you..."

In fact, this matter made both the people in the office and Fuji TV a little nervous.

"It's okay. I don't mind. Don't worry."

Secondly, there is also a psychological effect called "random reward" in psychology.

It can be said that almost all gambling games are examples of "random rewards" in real life.

Matsumoto Keiko stared into Ning Weimin's eyes, which radiated bright, throbbing heat.

After a while, she said earnestly again, "Being with you is never boring!"

Ning Weimin finally comprehended the look in Matsumoto Keiko's eyes, and he felt a sense of conqueror's pleasure in his heart.

But it was also his giving back eyes that made Keiko Matsumoto's ears suddenly warm, and she couldn't help but avoid his eyes and turned her head away.

(End of this chapter)

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