Dong Qiangqiang's Story of Leaving Germany
Chapter 450 450. Philosophy of making friends
Chapter 450 450. Philosophy of making friends
Brother Yun's actions relieved Xiao Xia's embarrassment, he smiled with relief, but Dong Qiangqiang frowned slightly.
With sharp eyes, Xiao Xia saw her father, Uncle Chen, and the middle-aged men in the same group coming out of the men's clothing store carrying big and small bags, and trotted to meet them.
Seeing the displeasure on Dong Qiangqiang's face, Brother Yun handed over the watch box and said in a negotiating tone: "Put it away."
"I won't accept it," Dong Qiangqiang shook his head and refused, "You keep it."
"I don't understand what you are contradicting?" Brother Yun looked at Xiao Xia who was showing Uncle Chen what he had gained not far away, "This is the tip he gave you."
"A tip of 4 marks?" Dong Qiangqiang's eyes widened.
Although Lao Bai told Dong Qiangqiang before that sometimes the tip from the guests would be very considerable, but 4 marks is not a small amount after all, not to mention what Xiao Xia said to him just now.He was really worried, Xiao Xia gave him such a heavy gift, maybe he had other intentions?To take a step back, even if the other party had no idea, he didn't want to accept such a valuable thing, so he categorically refused. "You don't get paid for nothing," he said.
"You didn't snatch this watch, nor did you steal it. It was given by him voluntarily, which shows that you have obtained his approval. Not everyone can get this kind of treatment when leading a group for the first time. You should be happy And pride. Besides, you went into the water to save him just now, he must have wanted to express it."
"I don't want to take advantage of anyone else, whether it's a stranger or a friend."
"So what you want to say is," Brother Yun immediately heard Dong Qiangqiang's overtones, "You don't want to take advantage of others, but you also don't want others to take advantage of you?"
Dong Qiangqiang thought about it, it seems that this is really the case.
"If you really think so, then you probably don't have any friends." Seeing that Dong Qiangqiang refused to accept the box, Brother Yun could only withdraw his hand.
"Why do you say that?" Dong Qiangqiang was very surprised by Brother Yun's judgment, she guessed very accurately, Dong Qiangqiang really didn't have many friends.
"Because you don't know how to make friends." Brother Yun said, staring at Xiaoxia and the three of them walked into a kitchen utensils store, which was also one of her cooperative stores. As long as the three of them bought something, Afterwards, she can find the other party with the receipt and ask the other party to give her sales rebates.
"Then you mean that as long as others give me what I want, I can make more friends?" Dong Qiangqiang retorted unconvinced, "Haven't you heard the saying 'A gentleman loves money, Is there a way to get it?"
"Of course, you don't have to accept money from anyone, but among ordinary people, isn't it just that you take advantage of me and I take advantage of you, and then everyone gradually becomes familiar with and establishes a relationship? You don't want to take advantage of others, and you don't let others take advantage of you. In the end, you are alone. Making friends requires money and time. Money can help you see a person's character, and time can help you verify yourself judgment."
These remarks seem to have some truth, but also seem to be nonsense, Dong Qiangqiang didn't know how to refute for a while.
"Besides, your current role is not only the driver, but also the responsibility to make the journey enjoyable and safe for the guests. People spend money on gifts to express their gratitude, but you not only don't appreciate it, but also show embarrassment to them. Next time they go abroad, they will look for you again. Is it? Take a step back, if you don’t want to, you can also be more tactful, don’t be so blunt, it’s not straightforward to let others down, it’s a lack of emotional intelligence.” Brother Yun automatically turned on the mode of criticizing Dong Qiangqiang while talking .
Dong Qiangqiang understood Brother Yun's desire to keep a big client like Xiao Xia, but it was the first time for him to receive such an expensive gift, and the psychological construction was not in place at all, not to mention that he didn't know how to talk to Yun Brother Yun explained what Xiao Xia told him (in fact, he didn't want to tell Brother Yun about Xiao Xia's orientation).
"Think about it carefully." Seeing that Dong Qiangqiang was silent, Brother Yun left a word, turned and walked towards the kitchen utensils store.
Although many German brands are unheard of in China, everyone feels that they have found a treasure after Yun Ge's wonderful and pertinent analysis and recommendation.Elderly people bought trustworthy health care products, ladies found their favorite beauty makeup, perfume and skin care products with high quality and low price, and men bought cigar lighters, watches and various avant-garde electronic devices.
Brother Yun did not blindly recommend many so-called big brands. On the contrary, she combined everyone's actual situation as much as possible and made corresponding recommendations. Parents buy electronic healthcare devices with different functions.
Everyone came home full and happy.
Everyone got off the car at the entrance of the HB Royal Beer Hall. Before getting off the car, Xiao Xia looked at Dong Qiangqiang with full expectation, and sincerely invited: "Come together."
Dong Qiangqiang was stunned for a moment, then turned his head to the front, and said vaguely: "There is no parking here, you eat first, I will find a place to park."
Although he was so hungry, he didn't want to eat with them, especially Xiao Xia.
Xiaoxia didn't seem surprised by his reply, she just said "Oh" and then lightly jumped out of the car and entered the restaurant.
Before Dong Qiangqiang had time to drive away, Brother Yun appeared quietly on his left side. This was a surprise, and Dong Qiangqiang stepped on the brake quickly with his eyes and hands, so as not to hit her.
"Park your car and come in quickly." Brother Yun ordered.
"But the charges here are very expensive." Dong Qiangqiang poked his head out of the cab, pointed to the parking fee sign above his head and protested, "7.5 marks an hour."
"I'll pay the money." Brother Yun's tone was unquestionable, "Don't dawdle."
Since someone was willing to be taken advantage of, Dong Qiangqiang didn't hesitate to park the car and went into the restaurant.
During the meal, although there was still a distance between Xiao Xia and Dong Qiangqiang, Dong Qiangqiang always felt a little awkward. He didn't know whether he disliked the other party's orientation or hated the other party's enthusiasm.
Am I being too hypocritical?he asked himself softly.
The only thing that made Dong Qiangqiang happy was that everyone at the banquet unanimously decided to go to the eagle's nest and hike in the magic forest the next day in the rain.
After sending everyone back to the hotel, Dong Qiangqiang drove Brother Yun non-stop to the police station where she reported the crime in the morning.
The police made notes for the two, summoned the two to the same room, and pushed a transparent plastic bag in front of the two.
Dong Qiangqiang recognized at a glance that what was in the bag was the driving recorder he rented from the car dealership.
"This recorder was found in your car." The policeman touched the bag with a pen, "You are lucky, the other party did not smash the front glass, so the recorder is still intact."
Dong Qiangqiang and Brother Yun looked at each other, and a certain expectation arose in their hearts at the same time.Dong Qiangqiang asked the police: "Then did you get a picture of the person who smashed the car?"
"Although it was photographed, the pixels of this recorder are not high, and the light was not good last night, so it is difficult to identify." The policeman paused and continued to explain, "We are doing further imaging processing, but this requires more time."
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Brother Yun's actions relieved Xiao Xia's embarrassment, he smiled with relief, but Dong Qiangqiang frowned slightly.
With sharp eyes, Xiao Xia saw her father, Uncle Chen, and the middle-aged men in the same group coming out of the men's clothing store carrying big and small bags, and trotted to meet them.
Seeing the displeasure on Dong Qiangqiang's face, Brother Yun handed over the watch box and said in a negotiating tone: "Put it away."
"I won't accept it," Dong Qiangqiang shook his head and refused, "You keep it."
"I don't understand what you are contradicting?" Brother Yun looked at Xiao Xia who was showing Uncle Chen what he had gained not far away, "This is the tip he gave you."
"A tip of 4 marks?" Dong Qiangqiang's eyes widened.
Although Lao Bai told Dong Qiangqiang before that sometimes the tip from the guests would be very considerable, but 4 marks is not a small amount after all, not to mention what Xiao Xia said to him just now.He was really worried, Xiao Xia gave him such a heavy gift, maybe he had other intentions?To take a step back, even if the other party had no idea, he didn't want to accept such a valuable thing, so he categorically refused. "You don't get paid for nothing," he said.
"You didn't snatch this watch, nor did you steal it. It was given by him voluntarily, which shows that you have obtained his approval. Not everyone can get this kind of treatment when leading a group for the first time. You should be happy And pride. Besides, you went into the water to save him just now, he must have wanted to express it."
"I don't want to take advantage of anyone else, whether it's a stranger or a friend."
"So what you want to say is," Brother Yun immediately heard Dong Qiangqiang's overtones, "You don't want to take advantage of others, but you also don't want others to take advantage of you?"
Dong Qiangqiang thought about it, it seems that this is really the case.
"If you really think so, then you probably don't have any friends." Seeing that Dong Qiangqiang refused to accept the box, Brother Yun could only withdraw his hand.
"Why do you say that?" Dong Qiangqiang was very surprised by Brother Yun's judgment, she guessed very accurately, Dong Qiangqiang really didn't have many friends.
"Because you don't know how to make friends." Brother Yun said, staring at Xiaoxia and the three of them walked into a kitchen utensils store, which was also one of her cooperative stores. As long as the three of them bought something, Afterwards, she can find the other party with the receipt and ask the other party to give her sales rebates.
"Then you mean that as long as others give me what I want, I can make more friends?" Dong Qiangqiang retorted unconvinced, "Haven't you heard the saying 'A gentleman loves money, Is there a way to get it?"
"Of course, you don't have to accept money from anyone, but among ordinary people, isn't it just that you take advantage of me and I take advantage of you, and then everyone gradually becomes familiar with and establishes a relationship? You don't want to take advantage of others, and you don't let others take advantage of you. In the end, you are alone. Making friends requires money and time. Money can help you see a person's character, and time can help you verify yourself judgment."
These remarks seem to have some truth, but also seem to be nonsense, Dong Qiangqiang didn't know how to refute for a while.
"Besides, your current role is not only the driver, but also the responsibility to make the journey enjoyable and safe for the guests. People spend money on gifts to express their gratitude, but you not only don't appreciate it, but also show embarrassment to them. Next time they go abroad, they will look for you again. Is it? Take a step back, if you don’t want to, you can also be more tactful, don’t be so blunt, it’s not straightforward to let others down, it’s a lack of emotional intelligence.” Brother Yun automatically turned on the mode of criticizing Dong Qiangqiang while talking .
Dong Qiangqiang understood Brother Yun's desire to keep a big client like Xiao Xia, but it was the first time for him to receive such an expensive gift, and the psychological construction was not in place at all, not to mention that he didn't know how to talk to Yun Brother Yun explained what Xiao Xia told him (in fact, he didn't want to tell Brother Yun about Xiao Xia's orientation).
"Think about it carefully." Seeing that Dong Qiangqiang was silent, Brother Yun left a word, turned and walked towards the kitchen utensils store.
Although many German brands are unheard of in China, everyone feels that they have found a treasure after Yun Ge's wonderful and pertinent analysis and recommendation.Elderly people bought trustworthy health care products, ladies found their favorite beauty makeup, perfume and skin care products with high quality and low price, and men bought cigar lighters, watches and various avant-garde electronic devices.
Brother Yun did not blindly recommend many so-called big brands. On the contrary, she combined everyone's actual situation as much as possible and made corresponding recommendations. Parents buy electronic healthcare devices with different functions.
Everyone came home full and happy.
Everyone got off the car at the entrance of the HB Royal Beer Hall. Before getting off the car, Xiao Xia looked at Dong Qiangqiang with full expectation, and sincerely invited: "Come together."
Dong Qiangqiang was stunned for a moment, then turned his head to the front, and said vaguely: "There is no parking here, you eat first, I will find a place to park."
Although he was so hungry, he didn't want to eat with them, especially Xiao Xia.
Xiaoxia didn't seem surprised by his reply, she just said "Oh" and then lightly jumped out of the car and entered the restaurant.
Before Dong Qiangqiang had time to drive away, Brother Yun appeared quietly on his left side. This was a surprise, and Dong Qiangqiang stepped on the brake quickly with his eyes and hands, so as not to hit her.
"Park your car and come in quickly." Brother Yun ordered.
"But the charges here are very expensive." Dong Qiangqiang poked his head out of the cab, pointed to the parking fee sign above his head and protested, "7.5 marks an hour."
"I'll pay the money." Brother Yun's tone was unquestionable, "Don't dawdle."
Since someone was willing to be taken advantage of, Dong Qiangqiang didn't hesitate to park the car and went into the restaurant.
During the meal, although there was still a distance between Xiao Xia and Dong Qiangqiang, Dong Qiangqiang always felt a little awkward. He didn't know whether he disliked the other party's orientation or hated the other party's enthusiasm.
Am I being too hypocritical?he asked himself softly.
The only thing that made Dong Qiangqiang happy was that everyone at the banquet unanimously decided to go to the eagle's nest and hike in the magic forest the next day in the rain.
After sending everyone back to the hotel, Dong Qiangqiang drove Brother Yun non-stop to the police station where she reported the crime in the morning.
The police made notes for the two, summoned the two to the same room, and pushed a transparent plastic bag in front of the two.
Dong Qiangqiang recognized at a glance that what was in the bag was the driving recorder he rented from the car dealership.
"This recorder was found in your car." The policeman touched the bag with a pen, "You are lucky, the other party did not smash the front glass, so the recorder is still intact."
Dong Qiangqiang and Brother Yun looked at each other, and a certain expectation arose in their hearts at the same time.Dong Qiangqiang asked the police: "Then did you get a picture of the person who smashed the car?"
"Although it was photographed, the pixels of this recorder are not high, and the light was not good last night, so it is difficult to identify." The policeman paused and continued to explain, "We are doing further imaging processing, but this requires more time."
===
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