The road from Africa to Europe

Chapter 346
Judging from the experience of Yin Lihua and Xu Pingjun's two unlucky first spouses, even if a woman takes the position of original spouse, it does not mean that everything will be fine, because sometimes the wife's position is not very stable. concubine.

What the two of them have in common is that their mother's family is not very powerful. Once something happens, they can't compete with the other party who wants to occupy their original position. The other party's pressure will change everything.

The two emperors responded differently to the possibility of their original spouse becoming a concubine. Emperor Guangwu wanted to stand firm, while the Yin family of his wife's family naturally chose to back down after some consideration and gave up the seat that originally belonged to Yin Lihua. the other side.

This should not have asked Yin Lihua's opinion. Afterwards, the Yin family will let her respect housewives in the years to come, be a concubine honestly, and be obedient to Guo Shengtong. Yin Lihua has lived like this for many years. Even though she was the original spouse, she became a concubine.

The situation of Xu Pingjun's natal family is even worse, not as powerful as Yin Lihua's backside. She is just the daughter of a criminal minister, how can she fight against the powerful Huo family?She had already given birth to a son and was taken into the palace with the rank of the emperor's concubine Jieyu.

Because all the court and military officials felt that Xu Pingjun's background was too low to be a successor. Even Xu Pingjun himself knew that his status was low, and he thought it would be good to be named Jieyu, but he eventually became the queen of Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty.

Whether it is Yin Lihua or Xu Pingjun, their fates are not quite the same, one becomes a concubine and the other becomes a queen, but this is not the choice of the two of them, but the choice made by their husband.

Just from this point of view, Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty was more responsible for his wife. You must know that his own emperor's throne was not stable. Haihunhou Liu He was promoted to the emperor's throne by Huo Guang, and he was pulled down in more than 20 days.

Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty became the new emperor after Liu He was kicked out of the emperor's throne, while Huo Guang's wife was thinking of making her daughter a queen. It is said that the emperor should obediently make the daughter of the Huo family as the queen.

The aides around him should have persuaded the emperor Liu to be sick, to be patient for a while, as long as he lived longer than Huo Guang.But Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty wanted to put the queen's phoenix crown on his wife's head.It seems that he would rather lose the throne than let his wife be wronged. In this regard, Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty and Emperor Guangwu are completely opposite.

Of course, judging from the final outcome, Yin Lihua did not lose, and won the final victory. One day, she replaced Guo Shengtong as the queen, and even became the empress dowager. Her son became the second emperor of the Eastern Han Dynasty, and Guo Shengtong was only king. Queen Mother.

But Xu Pingjun obviously suffered a lot. Because of his weak family background, he was plotted against when giving birth to his daughter, leaving behind his young son and daughter, and died early. The time he was with her husband was only a few years.

It seems that she failed completely in the end, because she died too early and was poisoned by the female officials around her. After her death, even her husband was unable to avenge her immediately, and instead made Huo's daughter the second queen.

But to put it bluntly, maybe it was because of her early death that the emperor always remembered it. The shortcomings of a person after death are often ignored, and the whole person is constantly beautified in memory.

Empress Xu passed away at the peak moment of her life, when the relationship between their husband and wife was the deepest, and she did not grow old, nor did she part ways with the emperor. Naturally, she was the best wife in the eyes of Emperor Xuan of the Han Dynasty. On her own sons and daughters, her son became the next emperor.

Judging from the results of Yin Lihua and Xu Pingjun's husbands' different responses to the fate of their wives becoming concubines, Yin Lihua's concession is better, making people feel that Xu Pingjun should be like Yin Lihua. Li Hua also took a step back.

But if you look deeper, you will find that the two situations are not the same. Xu Pingjun can't take Yin Lihua's response. You must know that Guo Shengtong in history was a very virtuous woman, and she was generally not harsh on Yin Lihua.For a long time, Guo Shengtong was a qualified queen.

But Xu Pingjun's situation is different. Huo Guang's wife is not a cheap lamp. Is this kind of person who poisons the queen to death for a disagreement a good thing?Even if Xu Pingjun backed down, it would be useless, even the empress looked down on him, and the emperor's concubine didn't care even more.

From the experience of the two parties involved, Xu Pingjun and Yin Lihua, we can understand why women in ancient times cared so much about their natal families, because there are facts telling them that their natal families are not strong enough, and their regular wives have become concubines. How can this not make women pay attention to this issue?Many of them want to pull out their mother's family because they are afraid that the status of the two will be too unequal.

Eighteen Niang does not have much help from her natal family. Her parents died early, and her grandmother has also passed away. The only closest relative, An Geer, is still a child. What's the end?

Ling Xiao, who has read the history thoroughly, had to make plans early. This is to repay the efforts of the Tao family before. He has been very friendly to the Tao family over the years, which saved the Tao family from many things. She hopes that the Tao family can have a more stable life. life.

In case someone came to pick the peaches directly after Baal worked so hard to plant them, if there is no help, they can only watch others pick them up.This is also the reason why she wants to leave the Yan Palace. Eighteen Niang needs the support of outsiders, and staying in the Yan Palace is like entering a cage.

In addition, the sons taught by the Tao family also have their own future. What she can show is that they have to walk their own paths, so that they can live up to the skills they have acquired after years of hard work.

She had told Shibaniang about this a few days ago, which made Ji Moan a little disappointed, thinking that Ling Xiao would follow her to the Yan Palace, but Ling Xiao shook his head and couldn't say it, and didn't give any further explanations.

After hearing Ling Xiao's words, Goro laughed, and he relaxed all of a sudden. His sister still remembered that she was their sister, and he thought she wanted to stand by Shibaniang's side all the time.

Living together these years, he is familiar with Shiba Niang and has a good impression, but he has his own ideas, as a man, he doesn't want to rely on nepotism to get promoted.

In addition, he knew that Sister had given up a lot for their brothers, so he didn't want Sister to become a female official for their brothers, even the female officials next to Shizi Concubine were the same.

As the eldest concubine, Shiba Niang has a lot of things to do, so the female officials around her must follow, there are many miscellaneous things, maybe it's just someone who blocks the gun, he doesn't want his elder sister to enter the Yan Palace.

Anyway, the eldest princess left a lot of manpower for Shibaniang, enough for Shibaniang to use, and his elder sister still lived her life well. Both he and Saburo vowed to let elder sister live the life she wanted.

This time, Goro was very happy when he heard what Sister meant. He laughed all of a sudden, and relaxed all of a sudden. With Sister, he felt like a child.

After Ling Xiao saw it, he felt that the shrewd and capable Goro suddenly became stupid, so he said: "Goro, do whatever you want, don't hurt others easily, but if someone wants to make trouble, don't be polite."

Wu Lang smiled and said: "Okay! During this period of time, my third brother and I should see this Prince Yan more often, and we should talk more with his people. Let's see how he is? Let Shibaniang know."

After confirming that his elder sister will no longer be a cow and a horse for Shiba Niang, Goro began to plan to make Yi Mou's life better. In his opinion, as long as Yi Mou can live a good life, then elder sister will not worry. Suddenly.

After hearing this, Ling Xiao smiled. She felt that her skills in raising children were good. Seeing that both Sanlang and Goro were good children, Sanlang was more stable and suitable for success, while Goro liked to use his brain more.

Of course, she, who has been paying attention to the entire guard, naturally knows that the two of them are still a little tender, and they haven't discovered some problems. After all, they haven't experienced it yet, and they know that things have other developments. Ling Xiao decided not to point it out, just look at it like this with.

Only when they have suffered and been fooled will they have a deep memory, and all of this is under her control. In addition, she is a little strange. On the one hand, some people are angry that Ling Xiao controls the power of the guards, and on the other hand they despise She's a woman, what's wrong with a woman?Why not be in control?Does it have anything to do with whether she is a woman or not?What is the logic?

After Ling Xiao discovered that he could use his divine sense, he soon knew that those impure minds were cursing him, but usually they just muttered, Ling Xiao didn't care, and those who wanted to frame people would just look for opportunities to kick them out .

When dealing with these matters, Ling Xiao always took care of herself, so that she began to work hard to adapt to the status of the concubine. After all, she might become the highest leader in Yandi. Who made the men in the Yan Palace too high? There are only orphans and widows left in Yanwang Mansion.

If it's Ye Mo, she has to be prepared, she will face everything that may come, this is her way, and no one else can take her place, this is very clear in Ye Mo's heart.

What can I say when I know it?She can only grit her teeth and persevere. If she wants to find her own helper, she looks at the abilities of the Tao family, especially the children raised by Ling Xiao. They are basically of the kind who are both civil and military.

Ling Xiao smiled when she knew about it, and didn't say much, but asked Yan Mou to pay attention to the situation, because she found that the children who grew up with her also had their own ideas.

Regarding their choice, Ling Xiao didn't want to intervene. Everyone has their own way to go, and this requires them to make their own choices. If something happens, it has nothing to do with Ling Xiao.

It was a mess in the capital before, so they were kept in the village and didn't go out, but I didn't expect that there was another interpretation. After reading the relevant interpretation, I only had a rather absurd feeling.

Ling Xiao didn't want to correct anything about this, because sometimes the more he corrected, the more he would be suspected, so let's just leave it at this moment, they can have their own future.

While their siblings were talking, Yi Moan was also asking the people around her to start training. She already knew that Ling Xiao couldn't always follow her as a female official, and even planned to send her into Yan Wang's mansion.

She knew that Ling Xiao had always belonged to the kind of person who didn't like to be restrained very much. Even though she was a female official, she rarely interfered in her private affairs. It was more about letting Shibaniang learn how to do things and how to distinguish people's hearts.

Shiba Niang is very grateful to Ling Xiao, precisely because she has no intention of interfering in Yi Mo's life, Shi Ba Niang has many loyal servants by her side, and even if she enters the Yan Palace, she will not worry that she has no manpower.

Precisely because of her arrival, she has greatly broadened her horizons, knowing that there are plains in this world, as well as mountains, deserts, rivers, and oceans, letting her know that the world is very big.

It also made her understand that there are too many unavoidable things in this world. Every adult has to bear the burden of life to move forward more or less, and in order to survive, they cannot stop. Future generations seek a way out.

Ji Mou actually wanted Ling Xiao to stay, because with her around, she would feel much more at ease.For so many years, sister Tao's family has been around, so that she can live a good life and want to be with her sister.

But she didn't say what she wanted in the end, because Goro of the Tao family had told her long ago that my sister had worked so hard for so many years, so I should let my sister rest. Turn suddenly.

He only wanted to let his elder sister live well, so don't bother too much.She has the right to live well for herself, the former elder sister has always lived for them, but she did not live for herself.

In addition, sister has been training everyone's abilities in various aspects. She should want to live a relaxed life, instead of always checking for gaps and making up for them. Please use your brain more, live well, and grow up.

Eighteen Niang naturally felt it, as if Ling Xiao had some plans, and didn't want to be with them forever. In fact, Ling Xiao wanted to wait for the original owner to come back and stay in another place, so as to prevent the original owner from being too different from Ling Xiao. .

Ling Xiao hopes that she will continue to improve, because whoever has the ability is not as capable as herself, Ling Xiao told her: relying on mountains and mountains will fall, relying on water and water will break, only rely on your own hard work to learn skills.

He also said that Shiba Niang has been studying with her for several years, and she should have been a teacher long ago. Some things can only be greatly improved by experiencing them in real life. This is a problem that needs special attention.

After Ling Xiao's explanation, after thinking about it for a while, Yi suddenly understood that she had to work hard, and she had to rely on herself to be able to stand firm in Yandi.No one can help her for the rest of her life, just like the maids around her, when they are old enough, they will be let out to get married.

Although it is possible that people around her will not want to get married and choose not to marry for life, but most of them will get married and have children, and their lives will have a new start, so they must be mentally prepared for this.

And Ling Xiao once told her: "On the road of life, many people are only likely to walk with you for a while, and when the time is up, they will separate. Everyone has their own life trajectory. When you are lucky enough to walk together Get along just fine."

Ji Mou felt a little sad when she heard it, she had to say that what Ling Xiao said was right, she could think: An Ge'er would be separated from her when he grew up, he had his own way to go, and one day he would have his own My little family might get farther and farther away from her sister.

Although she knew it would be like this, she still felt sincere sadness in her heart. Although she hadn't become a mother yet, she had to experience the mentality of being a mother early, feeling that her brother had been snatched away.

But looking at it from another angle, she also robbed her husband and let her have her own little family?After thinking of this, Yi suddenly felt a little funny, so that's the case, since this is the case, why is An Ge'er sad when he gets married when he grows up?It's great that he has another person who loves him!Finally accepted this reality.

After being pointed out by Ling Xiao, she suddenly felt a little frustrated, and she found that she had gotten into a dead end. Fortunately, Ling Xiao had shared some ideas with her before, which made her feel much better.

In addition, she finally understood why Ling Xiao left them, because she found that after she followed Ling Xiao, she didn't need to think for herself at all, so there must be no possibility of progress.

After figuring this out, she was very grateful to Ling Xiao, and tried her best to use her brain to prove that she was too capable. Ling Xiao was very satisfied after reading it. Even if she found some big mistakes, she didn't make her depressed, so she rectified slowly. that is.

The group of them lived in this place for a while because of the snow and the wounded. Fortunately, Ah Ying had stored a lot of food, firewood, and even fodder because this place was his base camp.

The entire group of King Yan's Mansion was also very tired, just to adjust their lives, Wu Lang and Saburo would also take time to visit, and Prince Yan naturally received them happily.

After Goro made some indirect remarks during this process, he knew Shizi's plan, which was not bad!If Eighteen Niang seized the opportunity, she would get a good husband. After seeing Wu Lang, the military division knew that this was a little fox who had not yet cultivated to become a master. San Lang was much more simple and honest than his brothers.

He later told the prince, "Hahaha! This time the emperor suffered a blood loss. If he knew that the people he sent had such outstanding talents, he would almost vomit blood. The Tao family is not easy to mess with, we must establish a good relationship."

He also saw that the best people here should come from the children of the Tao family. What he didn't expect was that the Tao family was so discerning that they would want to survive in Yandi. In fact, the military commander was very surprised when he knew the situation.

You must know that everyone in the Tao family is literate, even those who plan to farm for a living are also literate. This discovery made him feel like what kind of Tao family is this?
(End of this chapter)