The road from Africa to Europe

Chapter 869 Unqualified

As the main class teachers, they finally retired as special teachers. Although the two of them are not the only special teachers in the school, they have also proved that they are quite qualified teachers.

Even though the two of them lacked energy when they got older and no longer served as the homeroom teachers of the graduating class, because of their rich teaching experience and having taught many children, they are also extremely sought-after main subject teachers.

The most important thing is that they are willing to listen to the voices of students, and they are also willing to let students and parents have a good relationship. For this reason, they really work hard. They are really good teachers in the eyes of most students and parents.

Of course, this is a change after the daughter disappeared. Before, the husband and wife only cared about learning. After all, their job was to teach children knowledge and let them have a relatively safe learning space, which cost them too much. energy and time.

They are all ordinary people with their own emotions and desires, they will be injured, sick, and tired, they have to deal with various housework, and they have their own children to worry about. It is impossible for them to devote all their energy and time to their students.

Even so, they often fail to take care of their daughters. They often leave early and return late, and their daughters have to learn to take care of themselves.

Mom and Dad basically don’t relax even during winter and summer vacations or holidays. They are busy with further studies, how to make students more willing to study, and preparing for the work of the next semester.

Everyone's energy is limited, and they really try their best to do what they do. Even in the eyes of their daughter, the husband and wife are much better to the students than to themselves, so they always have unspeakable resentment in their hearts, and finally leave their parents and leave .

After the husband and wife found out that they could not find their daughter, the way they treated the students changed. Because as parents, they had suffered from poor communication with their daughters, so they naturally hoped that the relationship between the students and their parents would be good.

And because there are no children who need constant attention at home, the couple put more energy on the students and tried their best to let the students master the knowledge test points.

There is also an all-round inspection of the students' learning to fill in the gaps, consolidate everyone's foundation and do a lot of questions, so that students can adapt to the examination process of the college entrance examination.

It is precisely because of their efforts that most of the students they have taught have been admitted to the university, which makes the two of them more sought-after, and they want to let them take classes, and even the school leaders try their best to keep them when they retire.

However, both of them feel that they are getting older and have many problems in various aspects of their bodies, and they will be too tired to take care of those students again.

After thinking clearly, they naturally did not re-employ as teachers. This is because the two of them realized that they were not in good health and remembered that there were many problems in the previous medical examination report.Before, I was too sleepy and forgot to eat and drink at work, which caused my physical condition to be not very good.

Therefore, the two of them, who had reached the retirement age, were thinking about it, and they were thinking about taking good care of themselves in the future, especially after the old man decided to retire, maybe he let go of the kind of heart that forced himself to work harder, which caused the old man to be seriously ill.

Later, because of his serious condition, he was issued a critical illness notice. After some rescue, he entered the intensive care unit for observation. The old man almost left, but he survived.

I heard that the reason why the old man was able to survive was because he had a strong desire to survive. He was worried about his wife. If he kicked his legs and left, what would happen if there was no one else in the family?
Their parents died due to the disaster, and they have no brothers or sisters. Although there are distant relatives in the family, they have not been in contact with each other for many years. Who cares about the future of an old lady?

So he didn't want to leave early by himself. They were a husband and wife, and even more so, a pair of wives. Without children, they had to support each other to move forward, and they couldn't take a step ahead.

The old man wondered if she left, wouldn't she want to live alone?It was a difficult day, and he found it particularly difficult after he didn't go to class.Because there is nothing to do, it feels like a very long time.

Before, the two of them were busy preparing lessons, correcting homework and test papers in class, and felt that there was not enough time at all.But now that she is retired, she has nothing to do, and she will feel that life is meaningless by herself, and he wants to be with his wife.

If the daughter was still there, he would feel relieved, but now the children in the family don't know where they have gone, and there has been no news for so many years, and the wife can't point to her daughter at all.

It was this belief that supported him. After being in a coma for several days, he opened his eyes again, and saw his wife's haggard face showing mixed expressions of surprise and tears.

"How do you look like a child." The old man muttered. After hearing his words, his wife was busy wiping away tears. The old man wanted to tell her: I won't leave first.

But he felt that he didn't know why he was very tired, so he fell asleep again. His wife was worried and asked the doctor what was going on, and then he knew that he had fallen asleep.

The original owner naturally felt sorry for the grandfather and his wife after knowing this detail. As a daughter, she was not very willing to say how bad her mother is as a daughter. After all, the problem between their parents and daughter may be that both parties made mistakes, so she would said.

But as a daughter, I deeply feel the inadequacy of my mother. She didn't fulfill her responsibilities when she was a mother. In many cases, her mother behaved like a big lady, showing her nobility everywhere.

The original owner was wondering how her mother developed this temper before, but after finding out the information, she generally understood: probably the grandfather’s family felt that they had lost their daughter because of their work, and they gave way to her everywhere, which caused her to feel special in her heart. Expansion is not a disadvantage.

It was the same situation after getting married, not to mention that my mother was very lucky, and my father, although young and very sloppy, still had a certain bottom line in his bones.

And because I am many years older than my wife, and my wife even gave up everything for him, so she is generally not very restrained, which makes her continue to swell, which leads to an idea deep in her heart: she herself will never Wrong, it can only be someone else.

The original owner couldn't help but think this way: If her grandfather's family and her father didn't indulge her, maybe she wouldn't be able to make it this far.To put it bluntly, there are too many parents who cannot always accompany their children to grow up because of work, and she is not the only child who feels aggrieved.

How about all the parents not working, and everyone drinking the northwest wind together?Or one of the parents gave up work to accompany the child to grow up, and when the child grows up, I am afraid that they will complain about why they don’t work and become a useless housewife or housekeeper.

After all, compared with the salary of one person and the salary of two people, the salary of two people is more generous. As long as you want to complain, you will always find a reason.The original owner thought very clearly, that's why he felt that his mother had some demonic obstacles.

This is a lesson she learned from her grandfather's family, and she can learn a lesson from her father's marriage: sometimes you need to keep your eyes open when looking for someone, and don't think that a beautiful person is a good person.

It's too dangerous to fall in love with someone just by looking at their appearance. In fact, marriage is more about the compatibility of three views. Anyway, it means that my father's sense of morality is not low, otherwise I would have divorced a long time ago.

It seems that my father doesn't really want his wife. He still likes to hang out outside when he is very old, and he rarely has time to stay at home, let alone accompany his wife.

And his friends of the same age felt that they couldn't run, and gradually shifted their focus to the family. On the contrary, his father mostly went to leisure places later, and he probably didn't want to be with his wife very much.

Probably her own mother also felt that she just grabbed her little daughter and was not good to her second daughter, which made Yi Lianna an egoist who only wanted to get but didn't want to give.

This kind of person can nod his head and talk in daily life, but once something happens, he will only think about his own situation, that is, his mother was assassinated later, so his father was not dragged down.

The original owner felt that if Elena knew about the murder of her parents, she would pretend not to know.It was precisely because the original owner was aware of this issue that he was unwilling to have anything to do with Elena.

In fact, after the wedding, Irina never thought of contacting the original owner. Fortunately, the original owner had already made preparations, so she was not affected, and the original owner did not intend to contact Irina.

Since the two sisters have a certain tacit understanding, no one needs to disturb the other.The original owner planned not only to persist in research, but also to take on the responsibility of being a junior, so that the two old people can live a good life in the future. She is not too late.

According to the information, the old man's health gradually improved after surviving the catastrophe, but his health was still not very good, and he couldn't do many things, which made his wife very busy.

But instead of feeling tired, the old lady felt that she was living a very happy life, because the husband and wife had been with each other all these years, and she didn't want his wife to leave first.

If the old man left, she felt that life was meaningless, but fortunately, her husband survived. Although the two of them did not have the love they had when they were young, they lived together for so many years and had a relationship like relatives.

This kind of relationship may not have the intoxication of love hormones, but it is purer and more reliable. With this kind of relationship, they are the closest people.

When they were young, they had a very good relationship when they walked together, and there was also a time when they hated each other, but they had a daughter, and even if they had some disagreements, they never thought about divorce.

In their view, marriage is a very serious contract. They recognize each other in their lives: they are neither villains who commit crimes, nor are they saints, just ordinary people who try to do their own things well. .

Of course they thought they had done a good job, but later found out that what they did was not really good. For example, they thought they were teachers and would definitely be good parents.

But the reality is: they are not good parents in the daughter's mind. The daughter is full of resentment towards them, and the fact slaps them in the face.

After reflection, they also know that as class teachers, they don't have much time to give to their daughters, because they have to care about their students everywhere, and they have to prepare lessons, which occupy most of their energy.

Even after returning home, I was exhausted, and I had to cook and do housework in a hurry, so that I gave my daughter very little time.Although trying to give her daughter financial compensation, the relationship between her daughter and them is still not good in the end.

They didn't realize until after their daughter disappeared that being a good teacher and being a good parent are completely different things. Sometimes children and their parents are the closest people, but the children are not very willing to tell the truth to their parents.

Children are often more willing to discuss solutions with their friends, and even ask strangers on the Internet. The same is true for their daughter and them. Even though they try hard to treat their daughter well, they gradually don't know what her daughter is thinking.

In the end, the daughter disappeared forever like Huang He. They often wondered where her daughter was after she left.Will there be any danger, how is life?
But no news came, the daughter seemed to be missing in the world, and they only knew that her daughter was going to marry a middle-aged foreign man, but they didn't have any information about that man.

I also went to check the relevant information, but found that she was following a team, probably the kind of men who like to travel and gather in one place. They are of the same age but different nationalities, so it was impossible to find out for a while. men together.

The two later regretted one thing very much: when their daughter planned to get married, they couldn't talk about the age issue, because the two couldn't accept that the prospective son-in-law was about the same age as them.

Therefore, the husband and wife had a conflict with their daughter, who was not in a harmonious relationship. In the end, the old man fell down. Fortunately, his life was not in danger at that time.

But this time, the relationship between them and their daughter was separated. After all, the daughter was very indifferent, which made the parents feel somewhat uncomfortable, and the separation was intensified due to work reasons.

When the daughter disappeared, the parents still loved their daughter, and family affection prevailed. They never planned to force the daughter away, but just wanted to express their unwillingness to have a better future for their daughter.

But the daughter left very resolutely, neither before she left nor during the process of leaving, she did not give her parents a chance. She left quite cleanly, leaving no chance for her parents to reconcile.

Parents also discovered this problem, which is really painful.But it is impossible to live in the pain of loss all the time, because there are more children to take care of.

Now that I am sorry for my daughter, then naturally I can no longer be sorry for my students, so they work harder to teach the class, which makes the class they have taught have a high rate of admission.

It can be said that the two of them have really paid a lot to the students, and they have also been liked by many students. They also pay attention to let the students communicate with their parents more, and hope that the children will not follow the daughter's old way: indifferent relationship with family members.

This is also the reason why their husband and wife were finally rated as special teachers, because they themselves have suffered, and they do not want other parents and children to make the same mistakes.

After reading the information, Ling Xiao understood the behavior of the original owner's grandfather and husband and wife. It is true that the husband and wife did not pay enough attention to being parents. This is indeed not very qualified.

I heard that apart from being very concerned about their daughter's academic performance, the husband and wife basically seldom take care of her affairs, and her daughter has always been unhappy about this.

But blaming all this on the husband and wife is a bit too much, because as teachers, they have to leave early and return late, busy with the affairs of the students in the class, and have to take care of the future of dozens of students, so the pressure is not insignificant.

When a daughter complains about her parents, should she look at it from another angle: If there are no parents who work hard, where will the money come from to pay for daily expenses?

Is it too much to think that parents treat those students better than their own daughters?Apparently the original owner's mother didn't have this knowledge, which eventually made her character a bit distorted, and she had nothing to say to her parents.

Waiting for her to read a lot of good articles promoting other countries after she went to university, she felt that it was her paradise, so she practiced foreign languages ​​hard, and finally found a chance to study abroad.

After graduating and returning to China, I felt that my hometown was not good in any way, so I seized the opportunity to leave the motherland with other people, followed by marriage, and then severed contact with my family.

When Ling Xiao knew the cause and effect, he thought about it. The husband and wife did not do enough in many areas, such as not having time to care about her, which made her feel wronged.

But the reason why the original owner's mother was able to study all the way and receive higher education other than compulsory education was because her parents worked hard every day and received a salary to provide her with education in many aspects.

It is true that she does not have a lot of time with her parents, but every time she makes a request, the reason why she can achieve it, even going out to study abroad, is to spend a lot of money, and these are all paid by her parents.

According to the data, although the two relatives of the original owner's grandfather had received higher education, it does not mean that they have very smart investment minds, and they do not have any investment channels. You must know that speculating in stocks and futures may lose everything.

After they know about it, they naturally don't dare to make that kind of risky investment. They often deposit it in the bank, but this kind of investment has the least return, and generally there is no chance of getting foreign money.

As teachers, the only thing they can do is: we must educate the students well so that they can go to university and better universities, only in this way can they get more rewards.

And if they want their students to excel in their studies, they need to spend a lot of energy on special research to improve their business level, and pay more attention to the students' situation.

All this takes a lot of time and energy, which also makes them really have no more energy to take care of their daughter everywhere, and can only compensate in money.

This becomes a vicious circle: no time to accompany the child, making her feel that she is not valued, and she pays more attention to other external things, and if she wants to compare with others, she needs financial support. money to support her study abroad.

(End of this chapter)