Reborn 1990 Little Koi Doctor

Chapter 194 Dad Is Your Role Model When Looking For Your Husband

Qin Xiuheng is ten years older than her, and these years he has often complained to her because of his age, and he really resents it.

Tang Jingyun also laughed, "It's okay, as long as you are a good person, it doesn't matter if you are older, as long as you are stable, sensible, and capable!"

She looked at her daughter, who was slim, with red lips and white teeth, picturesque eyebrows and eyes, and a perfect beauty with firm skin. Tang Jingyun was so proud, "Yanyan! Seeing that your conditions are so good, it's no wonder Xiu Heng will fall in love with you, then He has vision, you are a girl, mother can tell you, when you meet a good man, you should strike as soon as possible, we watched Xiu Heng grow up, knowing the basics, he is better than those kids outside who we know nothing about."

Ye Mingyan was taken aback, "Mom, you have no objection... I'm only 17 years old now!"

Tang Jingyun glared at her, "If she is a good person, why would mother object? You are lucky to meet her early, and you don't have to work hard for many years like some girls to meet someone who likes her, even How hard it is to suffer so much and still not meet someone you like!"

"Mom hopes that you will be successful. Xiu Heng is such a good child. You have to take care of him. When he grows up in two years, if you really want to marry him, mom won't object."

Ye Mingyan: "..."

I really didn't expect that my mother was so open-minded, she thought her mother would keep her for a few more years!
This is different from the way ordinary parents open it!

Ye Mingyan smiled, "Mom, this is the first time I've heard my mother teach children like this."

Tang Jingyun smiled and said: "That's because you are young and don't understand. Your grandma also said before that she supports you in marrying Qin Xiuheng. She has already seen that Xiu Heng is interested in you, and she is looking forward to you growing up!"

"Why do you think mom and grandma are working so hard to make money all these years? You're not thinking about a big family like the Qin family. You were married in the past and you were the head of the house, and you will be the hostess in the future. If the dowry is not rich enough, the future How do you get along with those famous ladies in the capital?"

Ye Mingyan: "..."

After serving the food on the table, seeing her daughter smiling, she didn't seem to expect her to say that. Tang Jingyun felt that it was time to have a good talk with her daughter and teach her some experience.

"Yanyan! In fact, my mother does not object to your falling in love. In fact, many things in this world require experience. You see, whether it is factory recruitment or recruitment by major companies, they all like to find experienced people. Why? Because They have experience in encountering problems, they are not in a hurry, and they know how to solve the problem."

"Most positions in this society like to find experienced people, so why do you recommend inexperienced people when finding a husband is such a crucial thing? Family relationships are so complicated, and they don't even have the ability to deal with problems. How are you doing?"

Ye Mingyan: "..."

Mom's thinking is really ahead of her time.

Ye Mingyan smiled and said, "Then... Mom, what do you think I should do?"

Tang Jingyun paused, "Mom doesn't object to your falling in love, but she doesn't agree with your blind talk, including with Qin Xiuheng, you can't have a bottom line."

"Yanyan, meeting a good man will make you prosperous. Whether you meet him early or late, the most important thing is that he is good. So, as long as he is a good boy, even if you are with him now He fell in love, and my mother didn't object."

"However, be careful. You are a girl after all. You must learn to protect yourself. Don't get together in a hurry, and don't get pregnant first, especially if the other party is from a family like the Qin family. If you don't let the other party's family pay enough attention to your ability, then You can’t ruin your retreat ahead of time.”

"The relationship is confirmed, the marriage is engaged, the parents of both parties are satisfied, the date of marriage is confirmed, and it will not be too late to be together again."

Ye Mingyan smiled and hugged Tang Jingyun's arm, leaning on her shoulder, "Mom, I understand, don't worry, I will protect myself."

Tang Jingyun sighed, "My daughter is grown up, how can a mother be at ease? I am always worried that you will be wronged in the future, and you are so beautiful, I don't know how many people are jealous!"

"Remember, when looking for a husband, just look for it like your father. Your father has been the best man for so many years. Mom has seen the best man. Mom married him. After so many years, even if he disappeared all these years , Mom has never regretted it."

"And you, Grandpa Du, is also a good man. Look at how happy your grandma is now? As for the mother-in-law, just compare with your grandma. Your grandma really deserves to be a daughter of a big family. My marriage has been so unfortunate, and I have never treated my daughter-in-law badly."

"When I was with your father, I was still poor at that time! I couldn't even eat enough. Your father loved me and tried his best to get me delicious food. At that time, there was no supply in the country, and your father always took Some old things in the family went to the black market to exchange for fine grains and meat for me. Later, when I was pregnant with your second brother, he treasured me even more. Although the conditions in the countryside are harsh, there is really nothing missing from what my mother ate when she was pregnant. Pass."

"At that time, food was so precious, and I ate so many in short supply. Your grandma never said anything. She was a widowed old lady. She watched her son spoil me so much all day long, and she was never jealous. Say your father is right, a man should love his wife that much."

Thinking of the time back then, the corners of Tang Jingyun's eyes turned red, "Did you know that life was so hard back then, when my mother was pregnant, she was the best pregnant woman raised in the village, and many women had a sallow complexion and a disheveled face when they were pregnant. Back then, my mother was so white and tender that she didn’t dare to go out. I often messed up my hair and daubed some dust on my face before going out, otherwise the gap with the people around me would be too big.”

"Besides, mom and your uncle, do you still have any impression of her? Back then, your uncle and I were the only ones in the whole village who gave birth and finished confinement. Many women were still in the fields just before giving birth. Work, even if the child is born in the field, about three days after giving birth, the child will go to work in the field with the child on his back."

Thinking of everything back then, Tang Jingyun is happy.

Although the Tang family didn't give her any warmth, and they didn't hesitate to throw her to the countryside and ignore her when they went to the countryside, but when they met Ye Weijiang, the days in those years were really sweet, and there was nothing more to be loved. The pain in the palm of the husband's hand makes a woman even more happy.

She patted her daughter's hand, "So Yanyan, generally speaking, you are a child who grew up in a happy family. Your father has set an example for you. If you are looking for a husband, you should look for someone like your father. Mother-in-law, just follow your example." If you look like grandma, you can’t go wrong.”

　In real life, how many fathers can set an example for their daughters when they are looking for a husband?How many grandmas can set an example for their granddaughters and mothers-in-law?
　　Do you dare to find a husband like your father and a mother-in-law like your grandma?How many cubs from happy families come out to make a fuss!

　　
　
(End of this chapter)