Reborn 1990 Little Koi Doctor

Chapter 698 The ancient family has many rules
Ye Mingyan was taken aback for a moment before realizing, "That's right! How could I have forgotten this!"

In her previous life, she really didn't come into contact with such a particular and well-mannered family. After she grew up, she spent almost all of her life dealing with the best of the Tang family and the Chen family. A worn-out old woman, a sister-in-law with eyes above her head.

When Qin Xiuheng said this, she just remembered that if someone gave it to her, she would also give it to someone else when there is a happy event in the future.

Ye Mingyan immediately started looking for a pen and paper, "So I have to write it down, so as not to forget it when I get it, some gifts are still very expensive, so I can't give them too cheap in the future, and I have received a few more houses. "

"I've seen that house. It will be a good location in the future, and the price is scary."

There was a smile in Qin Xiuheng's eyes, "The purpose of writing it down is not only to prevent myself from forgetting the value of the gift given by others, but also to remember the gift itself, and then don't give the original gift to the other party on an inappropriate occasion. If you send back something that was given to you, or give it back to someone else that was given to you by other elders, unless there are special circumstances, you must prepare different things to send back.”

Ye Mingyan was taken aback, "Huh?"

Qin Xiuheng explained with a smile, "For example, the car, the one you received today was given to you by your elders. You can't give this car to others next time, right?"

"That definitely won't work!"

Qin Xiuheng said: "That's right, even if you give someone a car next time, you must buy a new one, or some special and precious limited edition in your garage, or a certain model that the other party has always liked Anyway, unless you usually give someone an old car, on formal occasions, most of the cars you give away are new, just like your situation today, my parents will never give you an old car, Even if he had it, he wouldn't give it away."

The house is similar, the house given by the elders, it is impossible for her to give it to someone else, jewelry and so on are similar, otherwise the person who gave you the gift will definitely be unhappy.

Ye Mingyan blinked his eyes, "That is to say, unless it is a special case, such as precious jewelry passed down from the elders, or a house and car with scarce resources, it can be used as a gift, and the rest, even if you have a bunch of things in your hand , I also want to give someone a brand new one, they gave me a bunch, I basically can’t touch these, but have to spend extra money to buy something else?”

Qin Xiuheng nodded, "Almost."

Ye Mingyan can understand this statement. Even for ordinary families, gift-giving seems to follow this rule, but they are not as particular about it as the Qin family.

What she is more shocked now is the value of the gift from the Qin family.

"Then I will spend a lot of money just preparing gifts in the future! I have to spend money to maintain and take care of the things my elders gave me. Are all the women of your Qin family rich? Otherwise, it's just about human relations." It's not enough!"

Qin Xiuheng smiled immediately, "People in the main lineage are generally not poor, but there are also a few extreme prodigals. As for those collateral lines that are relatively distant, it's hard to say, there are rich and poor. "

"You are the future mistress of the Qin family. Even if you don't make any money, you won't be poor in the future. You're even one of the richest women."

Ye Mingyan wondered: "Is it because of you? If the husband is rich, the wife will be rich?"

Qin Xiuheng shook his head, "No, I will naturally give you enough money. There are also many rich wives in the Qin family who don't work, but that's not what I'm talking about."

"what is that?"

"It's the Qin family's support for the women in the family. The Qin family has many requirements for women, but there is no requirement for money. You don't have to earn a penny, and the family will also give you money. You marry into the Qin family At the moment, there is a fixed living expense every month, which is given in the public account! The higher the status, the more living expenses."

Ye Mingyan's big eyes suddenly lit up like 5000 million light bulbs, and he was curious, is this like the kind of money that women in ancient big families received on a monthly basis?
Many wealthy families in modern times also operate in this way, but she is really curious how much a family like the Qin family will give!
"How many?"

"200 million for the first month of entry, 300 million for the birth of the eldest son, 100 million for the birth of the eldest daughter, 100 million for boys and 50 for girls, and additional nutrition expenses from the beginning of pregnancy, confinement There is a confinement fee when you give birth, and there will be ten people around you when you give birth to the first child. Assistants, butlers, or make-up artists, nutritionists, investors who help you manage money, etc., anyway, there are only ten people, whatever you want Preparation, the wages are paid by the family, there is a certain limit, if you want to hire particularly expensive people or more people, you pay for the extra money yourself, the number of preparations will increase if there are more children, and the treatment for boys and girls is different .”

Ye Mingyan: "..."

"Isn't this rule too..."

What did she say?

It seems to take good care of women, but at the same time, it also pays too much attention to women's fertility. To put it bluntly, it seems that women are really regarded as reproductive tools.

"Is your family...is it particularly patriarchal?"

Ye Mingyan is a little nervous. The ancient family has many troubles and rules. Qin Xiuheng is the eldest son and grandson. With such a big family business, will she be required to have a son when she marries into the Qin family?

Ye Mingyan trembled all over, looked at the presents in his hand, and immediately had a bitter face.

Sure enough, there is no such thing as a free lunch.

Qin Xiuheng sighed, "I know, with your modern female thinking, you may not be used to such rules, but there is no way, this is the Qin family, which has been passed down for so many years and has its own set of rules. The Qin family really He doesn't care how much economic value a woman can bring to the family, he requires women to be elegant, intellectual, have a big picture, be able to have children and cultivate offspring, and if you do this, the family will make you prosperous and rich for a lifetime."

"Of course, you don't have to abide by these regulations, but at the same time, you don't even want to get support from your family."

Ye Mingyan was taken aback, "What do you mean?"

"For example, if you want to be a career woman and a strong woman, if you don't want to take care of your children, you can give them to a nanny, but you don't need to receive extra support from your family. It's not like the Qin family doesn't have women who work outside , basically as long as the children are well taken care of and live a normal life, the family will not deliberately deduct money. This regulation is basically to ensure that all children can be well taken care of and avoid those parents who do not treat their children as human beings. .”

"There is also the matter of patriarchal preference you just mentioned. I admit that it is true. It is unavoidable for ordinary families, let alone such an ancient family as the Qin family. However, if girls want to have the same treatment as boys, they have to grow up. Just do it later.”

"what?"

(End of this chapter)