Reboot the heyday

Chapter 1630 Zhien Jiang's learning is broken (90100)

"So straightforward?"

Wang Taika laughed and said, "Okay, let me think about it."

Zhienjiang became angry when she heard the words: "Ah, do you think that you are very popular now? Wake up, it's not true. I just can't think about it for a while, what if I wake up? ?”

"Yo Yo Yo, this is amazing for you! You are still awakened!" Wang Taika said with a smile: "It doesn't exist! I don't think you can awaken, you have been sealed long ago, okay!"

Zhi Enjiang curled her lips: "Someone here is probably going crazy."

"What do you know? I have no regrets in my life. I still remember the running in the sunset that day, it was my lost youth!" Wang Taika began to tremble.

Zhienjiang immediately gave a critical blow: "Well, if you remove those perverted, despicable and promiscuous parts, you can still talk about it. Otherwise, this youth, if you don't keep it to pass away, I don't know what's the point."

"You!" Wang Taika was really angry.

Well, after going around for a while, Wang Taika thought that he had successfully nurtured Zhienjiang and became very obedient.

Dare to be affectionate is an illusion, Zhienjiang is still Zhienjiang, should be jealous or hateful, should have a poisonous tongue or a poisonous tongue, and it really doesn't save any face!

"It's over, no more love!" Wang Taika sighed.

Zhi Enjiang said with a smile: "Sometimes hatred may be deeper. After all, love can fade, but holding grudges is really a constant thing. After all, hatred is real, but love is illusory, it all depends on feelings."

"No, don't be so pessimistic." Wang Taika said: "Actually, love is not illusory. To sum it up, it is probably the four main points, commitment, self-discipline, conflict and independence."

Zhienjiang smiled and said, "You can sum it all up? Didn't you say that love is unreasonable?"

"Look at the essence through the appearance!" Wang Taika said with a smile: "Promise. Promises are made to bring a sense of security. Relationships require commitment, because giving is ultimately risky, and human emotions are very limited."

Zhien Jiang sees the needle: "So you will leave me?"

Wang Taika: "No!"

Zhi Enjiang clapped her hands: "This is the promise."

"I..." Wang Taika said helplessly, "I've never seen someone who is so powerful, I'm convinced!"

"Hey hey!" Zhi Enjiang laughed and said, "Go on, let me see if there is any advantage I can take!"

Wang Taika couldn't laugh or cry, and said: "As time goes by, people need to invest more emotions, otherwise the relationship will only stay in a superficial state. Only a long-term and stable relationship can make the relationship grow. If the relationship If you lack a sense of security and are always worried about being abandoned, then such a relationship will not last long."

Zhienjiang's heart sank, and she asked, "Then are you worried that I'll leave again?"

Wang Taika nodded: "Remember to say goodbye."

Zhi Enjiang curled her lips, feeling uncomfortable, but she didn't say it out.

Wang Taika couldn't do anything about it, and he wasn't qualified to persuade him, it was all his own spinning.So he continued: "Then there is self-discipline. Self-discipline enables people to transform love into action. Love can generate creative vitality and requires the necessary energy, but our energy is limited, and it is impossible to love everyone crazily. How short life is! With limited vitality, we can only love limited people."

Chien-chan said: "Does self-discipline also include not doing things that hurt the other party?"

Wang Taika said: "In fact, to put it bluntly, it means loyalty. This is one aspect."

Zhi Enjiang curled her lips: "It always feels like it's targeting me."

Wang Taika said helplessly: "It's because you are so good at checking in!"

Zhien Jiang said: "The terrorist, have you ever thought about it? There may be some people who are afraid of being hurt and hide their hearts in thick armor. Or they never give their heart. You can't nourish that person's heart with actions." , then everything you do is in vain, and give up as soon as possible when you meet such a person. True love is precious and limited, and you should cherish it and use it properly. Instead of letting others squander it!"

Wang Taika looked at Zhienjiang, it was difficult!Now Zhienjiang is really hard to fool, she can't be fooled at all.You see, this was all about other things, but when it came to Zhienjiang, she started to imply that Wang Taika was very careless.

"Also!" Wang Taika changed the subject: "Conflict. No matter what the relationship is, there is no one who does not quarrel. How to deal with conflicts is a long-term compulsory course. It is useless to blindly compromise. Mutual understanding is still necessary. Reasons to understand each other At least it means that they are willing to tolerate each other. Isn’t love tolerance?”

Chien-chan asked: "What if there is a conflict with someone who has nothing to do with it? Are you also tolerant?"

"If you don't know someone, but there is a person who likes to conflict with others, most of them think that they are superior in knowledge or morality. Such a person is the most stupid."

Chien-chan retorted: "Then what if a person is really wrong? Can't you criticize?"

"I'm going, why are you still blocking both ends? Do you have to find my loopholes?" Wang Taika asked: "If you released a song and someone said that your song is not good, or something, would you plan to go to Looking for a comment to refute?"

Zhi Enjiang shook her head: "I'm a singer, I'm going to refute it, it's too... out of style."

"That's enough, the creator will end it himself, what a bargain!" Wang Taika laughed.

Zhien Jiang nodded: "Indeed."

Wang Taika said with a smile: "The last is independence. To put it bluntly, it means respecting each other. Treat another person as an independent individual, and always respect each other's independence and growth. Not a vassal. This is also equality. Be sure to understand the relationship between a lover and The beloved is not an appendage of the other."

Zhienjiang smiled and said, "I don't even think it's credible when you say this. So I think there is one more thing to add."

Wang Taika asked: "What?"

"Self-esteem!" Chien-chan said: "Love must have self-esteem, and love without self-esteem does not exist. Anyone who degrades himself or uses something to force him is not qualified to mention love. Life is short, escape from reality , People who refuse to grow will only miss the more beautiful scenery in the end. Love is by no means unprincipled acceptance, but also includes necessary conflicts, decisive rejection, and severe criticism. Sadism and masochism must have nothing to do with love. "

Wang Taika: "Ah, but."

Zhien Jiang continued: "Whether it is others suffering or letting oneself suffer, patients will feel some kind of physical pleasure. There is also a misconception among masochists, which is wishful thinking, and self-sacrifice is regarded as true love. In fact, Their subconscious harbors more hate and longs to be vented and compensated. Love is always positive. Anything else is not true love.”

Wang Taika was stunned by Zhienjiang and had nothing to say, so he could only fake a smile.Originally, I wanted to make a routine for Zhi En Jiang, but Zhi En Jiang not only saw the stitches, but also slowly brought everything into her own rhythm.

When it came to the end, Wang Taika didn't know what he wanted to say anymore, and all followed Zhienjiang's train of thought.And also got such a reason.

Zhienjiang smiled, but she couldn't tell what she was thinking.Wang Taika wiped his sweat by the way.

This is no longer the dizzy Zhienjiang who was fooled by Wang Taika with a few words.

A singer doesn't read the music score, but reads the art of war!
Damn, it just makes sense!

(End of this chapter)