Kingdom of Heaven and Han

Chapter 463
Wang Xiaolie promised Zhang Jun to enter the military academy, which made him feel relieved.Getting up and about to leave, he suddenly turned around and said, "Zhen Fu, recently I met a young lady, and I really like her. I want to marry her, but I don't know if I should or not."

Wang Xiaolie said: "As long as the two of you are happy, and the girl is willing, it is a good thing."

Zhang Jun was silent for a while before he said: "To tell you the truth, that little lady's identity is a bit embarrassing. Besides, she is two years older than me."

Wang Xiaolie said with a smile: "What does it matter if you are two years older? You think it's good, what can others say."

Zhang Jun gritted his teeth and said: "This little lady is from a bad background. She was sold to someone because she was poor since she was a child. Because of her pretty looks, her adoptive mother asked her to sing in a restaurant to earn some money to support the family. With this kind of background, you know a lot of people, and you can't hide it from them."

Wang Xiaolie looked at Zhang Jun.After a while, he said: "You are so serious, I am afraid that the little lady is not just singing in the restaurant?"

Zhang Jundao: "She didn't hide it from me. When I was in the restaurant before, I had a few good friends."

Wang Xiaolie thought for a while.Said: "What is her identity and how did she meet you? Tell me in detail. ——Don't hide it from me!"

Zhang Jun had no choice but to tell Wang Xiaolie about Yu Nu's identity and recent experiences.Including what happened in Xiangcheng, and even being taken to Yique because of his friendship with Luan Qingshan, everything was said.

After listening carefully, Wang Xiaolie sighed: "This little lady is not a simple person. How can ordinary people dare to pull out their teeth in the Xiangcheng robbery? The situation in that area is chaotic, and the robbery is not under my control." Next, I can ignore it. But if you want to marry her, you have to be careful. Tell me the truth, are you willing to marry her yourself, or is she asking you to do so?"

Zhang Jundao: "What's the difference? Whether I want to marry or she wants to marry, it's a matter between the two of us."

Wang Xiaolie said: "The difference is huge. With her background, if she wants to be a good person, most of them marry wealthy people as concubines. Of course, if you have money now, you can also recruit a husband who is greedy for her money. It is her who can marry you." It’s unbelievable to even dream about.”

Zhang Jundao: "She said the same thing. I want to marry her."

Wang Xiaolie said: "You are young and have a high status. If you are willing, I don't know how many daughters of good people are willing to marry you. Why do you want to marry such a woman? You don't have to marry her back home because you are greedy for her beauty."

Zhang Jun thought about it.Looking up at Wang Xiaolie, he said firmly, "I am willing. I just like it."

Wang Xiaolie was stunned for a moment.Said: "You have to think clearly. To marry a woman like this, don't talk about what other people think, how to say, and a lot of gossip. Just based on her background and experience, there will be countless troubles in daily life. You can bear it ?”

Zhang Jundao: "Before, my father and mother were very affectionate. They raised me for more than ten years. I have never seen them quarrel, and the two of them have never even spoken loudly. But the gold thief committed crimes in the south, and my father was taken captive to the north." I went. My mother took me around, and it was very difficult. After only a few months, my mother couldn't bear it anymore. When I arrived in Caizhou, I found a foreigner, and the two of us lived together, earning some money for us to live. Zhenfu, do you think my parents are a loving couple? Everyone admires such a loving couple. But what's the use?"

Wang Xiaolie looked at Zhang Jun and said, "There are many things in this world that we can't control. As a human being, you can't think about it. The crime of gold thieves is a natural and man-made disaster. Who would have thought it would happen? Without this accident, your father Mother is naturally a loving couple. With this accident, many things will naturally be different. We can't be in it and think too much if. In this world, there are not so many ifs."

Zhang Jundao: "Anyway, I think that any couples who are in love with each other and love each other are unreliable. It's better to let your own temperament, like it as you like it, why bother what other people will say!"

Looking at Zhang Jun, Wang Xiaolie couldn't help being stunned.It was really unexpected that Zhang Jun would have such an idea.If he thinks this way, the family he formed must be different from the normal one.But who says what a family has to look like?After all, as long as the two of you like it.

After thinking for a while, Wang Xiaolie said: "The so-called family is a man and a woman who love each other and live together. No matter how many reasons there are, it can't compare to two people liking each other. I don't want to interfere too much in your private affairs. As long as you and Yu Nu Individuals like to form a couple, and others can't say anything. But, I want to remind you that it is one thing for men and women to like to be a couple, but it is another thing after forming a family. A family is not just a matter of two people. You will still have children, and no matter what, you can’t treat them badly. In society, a family has many responsibilities, and you must bear these responsibilities. As long as these things are done well, as long as the two like you, you don’t have to care what others say. "

Zhang Jundao: "Why should others take care of our family's affairs!"

Wang Xiaolie said: "Because in this world, we live together with others. How can we not care about others at all?"

Zhang Jun nodded: "As long as the governor agrees, these are trivial matters."

Wang Xiaolie sighed: "It's these little things that make us have endless troubles. Don't we usually talk about our neighbors? Why do we talk a lot when it's our turn? I won't stop you from marrying, but You must be prepared to face all kinds of troubles.”

Zhang Jun cupped his hands: "I will remember it."

Zhang Jun left and went out, Wang Xiaolie stayed there alone for a while.

It was certainly not the first time Wang Xiaolie heard about Yu Nu's commotion before.It's just that he didn't expect how he and Zhang Jun would get together.In the capacity of Zhang Jun, no one said anything about secretly accepting Yu Nu as a concubine.Even if it is an outer room, Yu Nu is still allowed to do business, and it doesn't matter if the two actually live together.But Wang Xiaolie really can't figure it out that the famous matchmaker must be married.

In ancient China, monogamy was actually practiced, but there were maidservants and concubines.An important point affecting the relationship between husband and wife is the status of the concubine.Wang Xiaolie actually abolished the legal status of concubines.But if the wife agrees, how many women a man is willing to have, what can be done?Even in later generations, there will still be mistresses.The difference now is that Wang Xiaolie doesn't care.

It is not necessary to control a man's possession of multiple women directly, but it can be restricted from the side.For example, improving the status of wives in the relationship between husband and wife, so that wives can not allow extra women in the family.Improve the economic status of wives in the family and control the expenditure of men in these areas.

This kind of thing cannot be done overnight.Instead, it has to change slowly with the development of society.Social development not only changes people's lives, but also changes people's thinking.

After much deliberation, Wang Xiaolie couldn't understand Zhang Jun's thoughts.Shaking his head, he didn't care anymore.As long as Zhang Jun is willing and able to bear all kinds of consequences, no one else cares about him.Husband and wife, in the final analysis, are two people's business after all.

Standing up, Wang Xiaolie quietly looked out the window.

The Dragon Boat Festival has passed, and summer is finally here, and it gets hotter every day.Xinmai is already on the market, and steamed buns and steamed buns made from Xinmai are being sold everywhere.In places where rice is not grown, the busiest season has passed, and it is time to do other things.

(End of this chapter)