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Chapter 1106: Use a heavy hammer to sound the drum

Wang Yan took a look at editor He Minhong's text criticizing Yu Chuhui in the mobile phone memo, and returned the phone to her.

Looking at He Minhong who looked forward to recognition, he smiled and said: "Yu Chuhui said before that her father is quite irresponsible. He basically doesn't take care of the family and takes money from the family. Her mother is used to being criticized. So and so bullied me. Zhen Zhen told me before that Yu Chuhui took her mother over this time because her father beat her mother again.

At that time, you said that the tree wants to be still and the wind does not stop, but the child wants to raise relatives but does not wait. Criticizing Yu Chuhui's statement that she would take her mother to Shanghai only when she had money, saying that only how much money is enough to be considered rich, and nothing would be better than taking her mother in advance. She just picked the person up, right? "

"Yes, but I didn't expect that just a few days after taking her here, Yu Chuhui's true colors would be revealed. Didn't she just come out of the wolf's den and into the tiger's mouth again? She..."

Wang Yan waved his hand and interrupted her: "You just said that you need to put yourself in someone else's shoes. Have you changed your mind?"

"I've changed. I'm looking at it from her mother's perspective, Brother Yan." He Minhong said very seriously, with his chest puffed out and his righteousness in mind.

Wang Yan was a bit dumbfounded, but he couldn't be said to be stupid. This was due to He Minhong's limited cognition, coupled with her ego, which made her think that what she thought was what she thought. She only believed what she thought and thought She thought it was correct. But what he showed was his life-threatening stupidity, which made people feel extremely angry.

"So you would rather go back to your hometown and be beaten by men, not be treated well by your parents-in-law, and bullied by relatives and friends?"

"Of course not, Brother Yan, I just said that Yu Chuhui's treatment of her mother is not fundamentally different from her father's behavior. They are all oppressing her mother. Yu Chuhui did and said that, she is wrong, There should be a better way."

"Okay, then tell me what a better way is."

"She can communicate. What can't she say properly? Why is she yelling, not letting her mother contact her family, and speaking so hurtfully? Her mother is an adult and has her own ideas. She can make the decision. , Yu Chuhui, as a daughter, should be respected," He Minhong said matter-of-factly, as if she was the only one who was right.

"Are you sure you understand the conversation between Yu Chuhui and her mother?"

"Brother Yan, I'm sure!" He Minhong pouted, a little unhappy. She had already felt that Wang Yan did not believe what she said.

"Okay, you said you respect Yu Chuhui's mother's choice. Now her mother's choice is to go home. And when she goes home, she will be beaten, have to do hard work, be bullied and not treated well. You It’s Yu Chuhui, do you let her go?”

"Of course I won't."

"Then you heard her mother calling home behind Yu Chuhui's back. Yu Chuhui's father is not a good person. He must be a smoker and drinker. Not only did he beat her mother, but Yu Chuhui probably got beaten too. Can you figure it out?"

"I understand, Brother Yan, but we are all one family..."

"There are a lot of similar social news about parents who are partial, favor sons over daughters, abuse them since childhood, and then want to find their children to support them when they get old. You must have seen how the old man behaved in the past, right? They are also a family."

"But the news on the Internet are only a few incidents, and the current ones are all unscrupulous media, taking quotes out of context and exaggerating the facts. Other people's families are other people's families, and Yu Chuhui's family is Yu Chuhui's family. We cannot generalize, Brother Yan. Analyze the specific situation in detail, To be honest, this is between you and me. Brother Yan, what do you want to say..."

He Minhong's logical chain is clear and his mind is clear. Without taking into account specific events, what she said makes sense. But obviously, after considering the incident, she was brainless and only had her own wishful thinking.

"Yu Chuhui's father is not a good person. Do you have any objection to this?"

"No."

"Then Yu Chuhui's mother calls him. If the address here is revealed and his father comes over to make a fuss, what do you think he should do?"

"Can't you? They are all one family..."

"Analyze the specific situation in detail. Don't compare a harmonious family and a good family situation to Yu Chuhui's family. Based on your current understanding, do you think it is possible for Yu Chuhui's father to do this?"

"I admit it's a possibility, but maybe it's not?"

"You, a third person who has nothing to do with the matter, are you betting on the possibility of your wishful thinking? Yu Chuhui's father came to the door and blocked the door. What should you do? Call the security guard? Is it useful? Call the police? This kind of thing can't be done Criticize and educate him. What can you do to solve the problem if he behaves badly and beats you? Call your parents?

By then you will have been beaten so hard that your face will be deformed, so what’s the use? This is called anticipating danger. Do you have to wait for a red light to cross the street? Are you aware of the dangers of running a red light? Should you slow down and drive defensively when driving through an intersection to avoid an accident? When you see someone committing lawlessness and committing murder with a knife on the road, shouldn't you think that if you act bravely, there is a risk of being stabbed to death?

The degree of danger is different, but the meaning is the same. You were secretly photographed and you didn't dare to protect your rights. At that time, you said you were not sure, so you hid behind and acted like a coward. Now you are sure that Yu Chuhui is unfilial, oppressing her mother with the same kind of harm, and are you ready to criticize and condemn her? Is it because you know that strange men can hurt you, but Yu Chuhui will not beat you until your face is bruised? Right?

You still didn't listen to what I told you before. "

He Minhong lowered his head and said nothing, his mouth pursed, as if he was about to cry at any time. If you are not strong, you will feel aggrieved after being scolded by Wang Yan.

"Crying? Are your tears so worthless? Do you cry about everything? After crying, do you want to go back and call your parents for comfort? Xiao He, you are a person with sound intelligence and mature body. , a mentally healthy adult. Your parents are getting old and will eventually die, and the man you marry may not be reliable. After all, you have to grow up on your own. "

Wang Yan was impatient to listen to He Minhong's nonsense, so he said.

"I tried to guide you just now, but your attitude was not good and you were very impatient. But are you showing your impatience to me? What obligation do I have to tolerate your little emotions? It's because I didn't agree with you as you imagined. Your point of view is that I don’t understand you anymore and just talk useless nonsense, right?

I won’t guide you anymore, I’ll tell you directly. Yu Chuhui's family situation is not good, you know. Yu Chuhui's father is a tough guy who beats women, and you know that. Then you know that her mother has been beaten for so many years, suffered for so many years, and been disliked for so many years, why is she still at home?

To put it bluntly, she has no opinion. She is not as educated and knowledgeable as you or your mother. She can write her name horizontally and vertically, which is very good, but this is a cultural limitation. Their family is still poor now, but was it rich before? Moreover, in the past, sons were generally favored over daughters, and the village was poor. After a few grades, they would drop out of school and start working for the family early. This limited her knowledge.

When I go out for a trip, I can't tell the difference between east, west, north and south, and I can't understand the road signs. When asking for directions, I feel nervous and need to carefully prepare myself mentally for a long time. After searching for a while, I finally found a person who seemed kind-faced, and I was embarrassed to talk to him.

After being treated harshly for so many years, I have become accustomed to accepting things. After a person has been oppressed for a long time, it is easy for her to become numb and get used to being beaten and scolded. If she had to be beaten and scolded, she would not feel at ease. He is not a masochist, but he has been labeled a masochist for so long. She was a woman, and there was no one to lead her in the uprising. And she herself had no idea, only the inertia of so many years.

She thought that if she had to go home, she would be beaten and scolded, and she would be unpopular with others, because that was the life she was familiar with. Shanghai is too big, the cost here is high, and there are no acquaintances here, leaving her at a loss as to what to do.

When Yu Chuhui grew up in such a family, she was either a doormat or aggressive. You saw everything about her. Of course she couldn't let her mother go back and suffer, but her mother didn't listen. Her mother secretly called her home, still thinking about going back and suffering.

Why the secret phone call? Yu Chuhui must have changed her mother's phone number and deleted her address book before, and there must have been many calm and thoughtful instructions to prevent her mother from thinking about going home. But her mother still does it secretly and still wants to go back.

But her mother still did it. Can you understand the despair? Ignorance, stupidity, hate that iron cannot be turned into steel, and rotten wood cannot be carved. No matter what I say, I can't make her understand her painstaking efforts.

You can think about this feeling a hundred years ago. The people at that time were oppressed and exploited. Awakened and progressive people wanted to change this situation. They tried to reason with the people around them, trying to make people understand and let everyone Fight together. But you should understand what it was like back then after reading so many books, right? Even if you don't like reading those books, you are a liberal arts major, have studied history, and have taken ideological and political education.

So don’t say that there is no such person and there is no such thing.

People's patience is limited, and people also have emotions. Just like you are impatient with me, you can be impatient with me. Aren't you the same as yelling when your family members are unhappy? Otherwise, it's just cold violence, not speaking, and not communicating. Yu Chuhui's temper was even more explosive. She hated iron and felt helpless. She got a little emotional when talking to her mother. That's understandable, right?

As for what you said, there is no fundamental difference between how Yu Chuhui treats her mother and how her father treats her mother. It is extremely unfilial to say that Yu Chuhui actually oppressed her under the guise of doing good for her mother.

But whether it is Yu Chuhui as the daughter or you as the third party, they should have the most basic understanding. That is to stay here. Although she has no acquaintances, both the living conditions and her own living conditions are better than returning to her hometown.

And in this matter, either go home and get beaten, or stay here, there is no third option. There is no room for the gentle approach you imagine. It's like when I talk to you, I try to guide you, but you are impatient and may not be able to listen. You are still literate and knowledgeable, but think about how difficult it is for Yu Chuhui to communicate with her mother. This goes back to what I just said, how can you think that Yu Chuhui has not had a good communication with her mother?

Don't talk about friends or relatives. If they were really useful, Yu Chuhui's mother wouldn't have been beaten for so many years. Poverty may be due to location, skills, or various reasons. But getting beaten is not, right?

So now you are making a mistake again. Your empathy is based on what you think is wishful thinking. Instead of real empathy, I admit that you are not Yu Chuhui, nor Yu Chuhui's mother. No one can be another person, so no one can truly empathize. But the most basic thing is that you should see as much as possible, think as much as possible, and be more empathetic.

Instead of only seeing what you want to see, only think of what you want to think. What I told you about overcoming yourself and defeating yourself will not only give you the courage to face some things and stop escaping, but also here, you have to break out of the inertia of thinking that you have developed.

Yu Chuhui's mother came here. Basically, you heard the quarrel between them. You should know the cause and effect. Now that you know it, you can still take it for granted and criticize and condemn Yu Chuhui according to your wishful thinking. I can't understand it. I don't understand why your brain circuit is so strange.

Xiao He, you are not the center of the world, and the operation of the world is not affected by you. The cause, process, and result of things are not as simple as your wishful thinking.

You just criticized the unscrupulous media, saying that they took things out of context. What you did today is the same as them. You also took things out of context, and criticized Yu Chuhui for this. I told you before that the hot events on the Internet are the group of netizens who righteously condemn them in the comment area. Your current behavior is the same here, there is no difference.

You read books, watch movies, watch dramas all day long, occasionally attend concerts, and attend reading clubs. You live a very exquisite life. But I think your personal cultivation has not kept up. You always have wishful thinking and always use the banner of morality to criticize and condemn others. It's OK to be naive, but to remain naive is a problem.

You have no understanding of suffering. You are always addicted to imaginary stories, and you think that is suffering. But actually, living is. I suggest you put down your books and go to the train station and the hospital ward. If possible, you can also go to the western region to have a look. If you are interested, you can also go to the streets to do social research. Then you will know what it means to be miserable and what it means to be difficult.

This can solve the problem of you not knowing the sufferings of the world and having the Sacred Heart overflowing. But if you are not responsible, or even have some selfish issues, then you need to slowly change.

You criticized Yu Chuhui, which can be said to be unfair, but you were secretly photographed and did not assert your rights. You were in a hotel at the time and there was surveillance. Ye Zhenzhen and the others were also there. You were not alone. In this situation, you I didn't even have the guts, but I found some reason for myself to go blank.

Now between Yu Chuhui and her mother, from what you know, the truth is clearly revealed, but you must not take the ordinary path, accept the information one-sidedly, and criticize and condemn Yu Chuhui.

This is not because of ignorance of the ways of the world, simplicity or the like, which can explain the past. Because you can stop criticizing immediately and have a chat with Yu Chuhui. You may think that your relationship with Yu Chuhui is not good. She always bullies you. At that time, Yu Chuhui was angry. If you ask her, she will be used as a punching bag.

But you didn’t even ask, how do you know? So what if you use it as a punching bag? Hasn't she always been against you? Since you are determined to criticize others, do you need to care about it one more time? Before I sent the pile of words you wrote, I could have thought that Yu Chuhui would definitely scold you.

Even if you don't ask at the time, you can wait two days later and wait until she feels better before asking. Or you can communicate with Zhu Zhe and let Zhu Zhe understand the details. Do you think Zhu Zhe will reject you? Even if she refuses, she will explain why to you. Instead of you complaining to Zhu Zhe to find approval, she didn't answer, and you were unhappy. You thought she was cold-blooded, bound by bullshit human sophistication, and unreal, so now you come to me to find approval.

Words always have two sides. Your behavior can be said to be well-intentioned, or it can be said that you are doing it for self-satisfaction, which is selfish. You may deny it, but you don’t have to explain it to me. You have to question yourself. The most important thing is self-knowledge. Do you think you have self-knowledge? You don't, but you feel very good about yourself. Haven't you noticed that in fact, Ye Zhenzhen, Zhu Zhe, and Yu Chuhui have not really had a heart-to-heart relationship with you? "

He Minhong had already shed tears, but she kept holding them in. Now that Wang Yan was outputting, she finally couldn't hold it in any longer, and with a cry, she burst into tears...

"Hold it back!"

Wang Yan's low shout frightened He Minhong. She pursed her lips, twitched her shoulders, and sobbed as quietly as possible, not daring to cry louder. Her tearful eyes looked at Wang Yan pitifully.

She choked and said: "Brother Yan, I know you are doing it for my own good, but I didn't expect that I would be so miserable in your eyes..."

"Have you ever thought that it's just me who doesn't care about your feelings and speaks very straightforwardly, rather than you only seeing this in my eyes and others not saying it? After all, everyone is living in society and has left behind Don't be shy, don't do it as a last resort, and don't want to cause too much trouble. Many times, no matter what you say, people will not turn your back on the spot. They will just pass you by silently, classify you as a bad person, and leave. You stay away.

You definitely don’t have many friends in the company. The workers you work with just deal with you, and no one talks to you in depth. Your leader must also dislike you. I guess you think you are high-minded, they are all common people, and you are the only one who has perseverance and is self-motivated. Most probably you didn’t hear what I just said to you. It goes in one ear and out the other. You know I'm scolding you and I hate you a little, right? "

"No, Brother Yan, I know you are doing it for me. No one has ever told me what you said before."

"What's the use? I told you, wasting a lot of my spit, but you still didn't listen and still went your own way. Your dialectics were all applied to others and were of no use to you. It was you who came to see me today, otherwise Yu Chuhui would have blocked the door and scolded you. Shut up and think twice. You haven't learned anything at all.

In order to prevent my spitting from going to waste, I have recorded all the words I just said to you. You must be out of your mind right now. When you calm down emotionally, you can listen to it again and reflect on it. Of course, it's up to you whether you listen or not. I have done my best to be benevolent and righteous. Okay, you go back, don't cry like me, I'm going to get upset. "

"I'm sorry, Brother Yan."

"You are not sorry for me, you are sorry for yourself. Your tears are worthless, and so are your sorrys. Go ahead." Wang Yan waved his hand, unwilling to say any more.

He Minhong's choking didn't stop, and his tears still flowed out as if they were free of money. Wang Yan's words hurt her heart, and Wang Yan's attitude was strange to her, but she still knew that Wang Yan was doing it for her own good.

She still had some brains. After all, if a boss as big as Wang Yan really didn't like her, why would he say so many words to her. She had understood this a long time ago, but now she didn't have the brains to distinguish it... She whimpered, but she stood up obediently, holding the book and walking slowly to the door.

"Then I'm leaving. Thank you, Brother Yan, have a good rest..."

While crying, he didn't forget to say thank you, which actually made Wang Yan laugh.

It was this smile that made Wang Yan more patient, and He Minhong saved himself once.

A heavy hammer is used to sound the drum, but He Minhong's brain is limited and his endurance is also limited. For He Minhong, his heavy hammer this time seems a bit heavy.

Although he, Wang, works as a nanny, he is impatient to wipe people's butts all the time. Once or twice is fine, but if it happens more often, he will get annoyed. Because it's not worth it, he doesn't like people who don't make progress.

Just like this He Minhong, this time he talked a lot of reasons and clearly pointed out her problems. If she still didn't improve, then he would change her path. Again, the task is not fixed and can be flexible.

But the way He Minhong looked when he left was very dumbfounding. If you were an ordinary person, you would probably laugh out loud. But Wang Yan really laughed, and he thought it was somewhat interesting. After all, such people are rare.

He Minhong made him feel happy except for a few things, and he did not hesitate to be more generous.

Shaking his head and smiling, Wang Yan sent the recording to He Minhong, then threw it aside and continued to listen to music and read leisurely...

Zhu Zhe was reading a book on the small sofa in the living room. When he saw He Minhong come back, he lowered his head, choked and twitched his shoulders, and went back to the room.

She immediately asked with concern: "Honghong, what's wrong with you?"

"It's just that I hate myself for not living up to expectations. I'm so stupid. Sister Zhu, you don't have to worry about me. I can just cry by myself..."

While sobbing, He Minhong returned to the room in a depressed manner, and then just cried under the quilt.

Not long after, Yu Chuhui from the next room came out and came to Zhu Zhe softly: "What happened to her? Who messed with her again?"

"I don't know. I just said I would go up and exchange books, and that's it when I come back."

"Ah?" Yu Chuhui's eyes widened and he whispered, "Could it be Wang Yan's animal nature..."

"No." Zhu Zhe shook his head and interrupted, "Wang Yan is not that kind of person, and I don't see anything strange about He Minhong, except that he cries a lot. Let me ask Wang Yan."

As she spoke, she picked up her phone and sent Wang Yan a WeChat message. Within a few seconds, she shook her head.

Yu Chuhui asked curiously: "How did you say that?"

"He said he didn't need to pay attention to He Minhong."

"I guess Wang Yan must be teaching He Minhong again. He Minhong doesn't need to scold him. Wang Yan is very direct in his speech. He can point out the key to the problem in one go and doesn't hide it. How could He Minhong's fragile little heart bear it? She will cry and complain to her parents. Wang Yan is a free and easy-going person, and he will definitely not get used to her bad habits. "

After hearing her words, Zhu Zhe thought for a while, a flash of understanding flashed in his eyes, but he changed the subject: "Auntie, have you coaxed me?"

"Okay, I'm coaxing and scaring..."

The two chatted for a while, and then went back to doing their own things...

The next day, after exercise and breakfast, Wang Yan packed up and got on the elevator.

"Ah, that's rare. Are you going to work today?"

"Good morning, Brother Yan."

The elevator door opened, and Zhu Zhe and Yu Chuhui were waiting for the elevator.

"Come with me." Wang Yan nodded with a smile.

"Ah, it feels so good to be able to ride on a car. He Minhong rides on Zhenzhen's car every day, and Sister Zhu can occasionally ride on Brother Yan's car. I am the only one riding a shared bicycle." Yu Chuhui sighed.

"No way, it's just a coincidence." Wang Yan replied without any nutrition.

The elevator was very fast and only stopped twice on the way. It took a few words to reach the first floor. After meeting Yu Chuhui again, Wang Yan took Zhu Zhe to the underground parking lot. Today, he changed to Paramela.

Playing nice music, Wang Yan started the car, got out of the garage, merged into the traffic, and joined the crowd of people going to work during the morning rush hour.

"Did He Minhong tell you about Yu Chuhui yesterday?"

"clever."

Zhu Zhe let out a sigh of relief: "Actually, she told me before that it was inappropriate to condemn Yu Chuhui's actions, but I changed the topic and didn't let her continue."

"Well, just don't let her say it, otherwise you will cause trouble for yourself."

"So you scolded her? In fact, Honghong is a bit naive. Her ideas are too ideal, but everything else is pretty good and she is quite enthusiastic."

"She's not innocent at all. She's just selfish and has two different standards for others and herself. I also said a few more words, and it's up to her whether to listen or not." Wang Yan picked up his phone and dug through it to find yesterday's recording, " In order to prevent her from taking what I said as fart, I also recorded it, please listen to it. "

"I'm indeed quite curious." Zhu Zhe smiled, took the phone and listened.

After listening to it from beginning to end, she shook her head with emotion: "No wonder she cried so hard. She seemed to have cried herself to sleep. For her, what you said was a bit harsh. It wasn't her. I would have been If you talk like that, my little heart might not be able to bear it."

"You're fine, I can't say anything about you."

"Thank you." Zhu Zhe gently put away Wang Yan's cell phone and said with a smile, "You are a really nice and enthusiastic person."

"It's just that I can't stand it. I don't care whether she's happy or not. I want to hear it or not. I just want to have a clear idea. But don't say I'm a good person. Being a good person costs too much and the requirements are too high. I'm really not qualified. "

"That's the good and bad guys."

"Don't fall in love with me. Ye Zhenzhen has put the name of a scumbag on my head now. Fortunately, I didn't have to die after running the marathon last time. I used to be a scumbag. She really gave me such a note. of."

"You and Zhen Zhen are quite compatible, but I'm not good enough for you. I still have some self-awareness."

"I can't match the word match. If you really want to say it, I am more philanthropic and will match up with anyone." Wang Yan laughed, "Don't belittle yourself. There is no such thing as unworthy. You She is a good woman..."

"No, even if I can match it, I don't dare to. I can't afford it."

"Where are you thinking? I am really a scourge in your eyes?"

Zhu Zhe blushed a little and said sheepishly: "Isn't this just nonsense..."

"It's confirmed. I'm a scourge in your eyes. Oh, my heart is so cold." Seeing her look, Wang Yan shook his head in a funny way, and stopped teasing her, and instead said, " You are still a little less lively, unlike Ye Zhenzhen, who can’t say more than three words to me but has to go three ways to say hello.”

"How can I be active? I am exhausted every day. Now the competition is getting more and more fierce..."

Zhu Zhe walked away, and then talked to Wang Yan about some of her current difficulties.

After chatting happily all the way, Wang Yan drove to Zhu Zhe's hotel.

Zhu Zhe was careless at first, until he saw a man holding a bouquet of flowers not far from the hotel entrance, and said incomprehensively: "Why is he here?"

"Who?"

"Ex-boyfriend."

"Oh, he's holding a bouquet of flowers. He looks quite polite. I'm here to get back together with you."

"We haven't contacted him for eight hundred years." Zhu Zhe shook his head in amusement, "Just stop in front of him. There is no way to escape him anyway."

Wang Yan smiled, stepped on the brakes, and slowly stopped in front of Chen Zufa.

This Chen Zufa is the one who cheated money in the play. He wanted to defraud Zhu Zhe into marrying him, but he changed his target before he could deceive him. It was quite troublesome...

Chen Zufa looked at the luxury car parked in front of him in confusion, looked at Zhu Zhe who got out of the passenger car in confusion, and looked even more confused at the tall Wang Yan who got out of the driver's seat.

Seeing Zhu Zhe coming over and standing with Wang Yan, he forced a smile and said: "Zhu Zhe, long time no see, what are you..." He looked at Wang Yan and asked about the relationship.

"Can't you see? Isn't it obvious? Of course he is the boyfriend." Wang Yan put his elbow on Zhu Zhe's shoulder.

Chen Zufa's eyes widened and he looked at Zhu Zhe who was nodding and smiling, with a look on his face saying 'you deserve it'. Zhu Zhe understood. She looked up at Wang Yan beside her and raised her eyebrows, "What are you looking at me for?"

Wang Yan didn't say anything, he just reached out and took the flower from Chen Zufa's hand: "Brother, what do you mean?"

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