The heroine of Kuai Chuan Zhi's family only farms

Less is less, but it can be pretended. After all, except for the families of soldiers, who knows how much allowance they pay?
In today's good days, aren't they all 'supported' by their brothers' allowances?

Ding Wei felt that this was more harmonious and saved her from being exposed to the sun.

In fact, in the first two years of being a soldier, I was in the volunteer stage, and the allowances were the same, but when I reached the conscript stage, the gap between the individual and the individual became prominent.

Who knows how my brother is doing in the army, and it's no wonder that my mother is very 'proud' to praise my brother. In fact, doing so can naturally hide their mother and daughter, so that they can do what they want in this era thing.

After entering [-], I obviously feel different, but I can't tell you what's specific, but I feel that people's mental outlook is better.

The shadow of the flood disaster half a year ago has gradually faded away, replaced by a more courageous and hard-working life.

The working class has the distress of the workers, the peasants also have the suffering of the peasants, and the students naturally have the suffering of the students.

When Ding Wei is not working at night, she and Ding Xiang go to deliver supper to her two brothers. While feeling sorry for their poor living conditions, their parents also try their best to supplement their nutrition. Whenever there are eggs sold on the black market, they will buy them back. It is not impossible to buy a few catties or a few catties. After all, eggs in the black market are always counted on a case-by-case basis.

When it’s expensive, it’s fifty cents, and when it’s cheap, it’s one or two cents. Winter is the off-peak season for egg production, so it’s naturally more expensive, but no matter how expensive it is, it’s cheaper than meat, so parents are willing to work hard on it. .

Because they feel that money spent on food is worth more than anything else.

When her mother was not at home before, Ding Wei felt like an old mother who had to worry about everything, but now she doesn’t have to, they live close to each other, and her mother can take care of herself after finishing her job as a nanny, so my father more than once exclamation.

"If we knew this, we should have moved to the county seat earlier."

His mother gave him a gouged look: "Did you have this condition at that time? I think our family is able to live like this because of Weiwei. Weiwei is the lucky star of our family, so we can have such a capable daughter. It's okay, just have fun!"

My mother is now fully capable of working as a nurse, taking care of the two elderly people in daily life, going to the hospital on their backs, taking them for a walk on a tricycle, doing things meticulously, and she has learned massage, massage, medicine, moxibustion and acupuncture very well. Of course, these were done repeatedly, and it was a specific method for the two elders under the guidance of the doctor. It was definitely not suitable for others, and she didn't dare to mess around with others.

Grandpa Zheng and Grandma Zheng are getting better and better under the careful care of their mother. Their children not only contribute money, but also mail back clothes they don’t wear to their mother from time to time, and buy food, dry goods, and seafood locally for the elderly. Wait, let's say they are filial, they don't take care of themselves, they are not filial, and they think about the elderly in everything, so I can only say that it is very wise for them to find their mothers to take care of the elderly.

Now the two elderly people can still move and take care of themselves, but they are really unable to take care of themselves. The 50 yuan may not be enough.

My mother is always on alert, for fear of causing harm to the elderly due to her negligence, so she follows wherever she goes. They go to bed early at night, and after they fall asleep, mother dares to go around the rented house to see them. They had to go back quickly before ten o'clock, for fear that they would fall again after getting up at night.

When the elderly are old, their vision will also be affected, so the lights in the bathroom at home will always be on.

Taking care of the elderly is not an easy task. Why don't you worry about basic necessities?Details are everywhere.

The sweetness is getting weaker, the older is hard, and they have to add another meal every morning and afternoon, adopt the system of eating less and more meals, remind them to drink water every day, give them a bath and change clothes, these are all things.

When I was in the provincial capital, every time the old man took a bath, Zheng Zheng would come over to help him. Now that the old lady is unable to take a bath for the old man, it is my father who rushes to wash it. In autumn, winter and spring, I take it to the bathhouse. In summer, I wash it in my bathroom. There is no shortage of money, and they have the strength to contribute.

To take a bath in the county town, you can go to the bathhouse for [-] cents a time, and there is no time limit. There are many people at night and on weekends, so my mother took the old lady to take a bath during the day.

Sometimes the cousin can't take care of it, and my mother will take Grandma Wang to wash it by the way.

Dad took the old man to the men's bathhouse at night, and there were relatively fewer people than the women's bathhouse.

On weekends, these children go to bathe in groups, basically once a week, sometimes once every two weeks.

The winter vacation was on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month years ago. In this era, everyone didn’t have much activities, and they didn’t know how to travel. They were all visiting relatives and helping their parents with work, especially the two elder brothers. The people in the slack season helped to build a house for his family, and they would help if they could.

It's all for moving in as soon as possible, and it's not so clear at this time. Of course, it's also to look after the tree.

Due to the limited supplies this year, the year was very rough. After the third year of junior high school, young and middle-aged people in rural areas were organized to continue building houses.

Fortunately, this winter after the flood was not particularly cold, and all kinds of building materials can be used normally. If it is tens of degrees below zero in the Northeast, I am afraid that I will not even be able to go out the door.

Of course, they will also depend on the situation. For example, after the sixth day of the lunar new year, the temperature drops sharply to minus seven or eight degrees, and they will be in a state of shutdown for a period of time.

Staying at home can only eat and drink. The snacks that Ding Zhenlong's family had stockpiled years ago were all exhausted before the third year of junior high school.

In terms of utilitarianism, even Ding Xiang has to bow down to the three boys of the second uncle's family.

Snacks, fruits, dried fruits and candies are not allowed to anyone. I want to stick my head into the plate when eating. Not only is eating fast, but also grabbing. Anyway, Ding Wei can't eat when she sees them eating. As long as it is not specially requested by her father, she and Lilac will not pass.

Ding Cailian strictly criticizes them every time they eat, but after all, there is no deterrent effect at all, and they can do whatever they want afterwards.

It’s also a pity that the food at home is all mixed grains, who dares to eat fine grains, at the end of cooking, not only eat a lot, but also eat fast, I really starve to death, this is not me, this is the uncle!
In terms of winks, the three boys in the second room are probably the weakest in the family. Ding Cailian can see the problem at a glance, but they can't see these problems themselves, and never face this problem squarely.

Ding Cailian could only turn her head and apologize to them, but what was the use of it, they were inconvenient to educate, and Ding Cailian couldn't control them, she could only let them experience the beatings of society in the future, so that they could understand what it was really like to live under the fence.

Calculated in this way, it might be a good time to wait a few years after the reform and opening up to help them.

After the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, all the children in the family went back to school. Ding Jianli continued to study in the second half of the second middle school in the last half of the third year of junior high school. The other two children went back to the village to study in the village primary school. Ding Cailian gave some money and Food, let the two younger brothers eat at their house.

Wang Yuhuan has already experienced what they eat, but the old man has been in charge of it for so long, and her family doesn't care about anything, which is not reasonable. Besides, people pick lotus for money and food, so she didn't care. go?
I can only grit my teeth and endure.

Ding Wei disapproved of Ding Cailian's practice of paying the third uncle and third aunt for meals, because when the three of them were at his house, they didn't give a penny. , It's really a matter of looking at the dishes, seeing that your family has money, you take it for granted.

With reliance, you will become more unscrupulous. This is not a good start. When Ding Wei discovered this problem, she immediately communicated with her parents.

"I'm not caring about the money. I just said that she treats this differently. It's very wrong. Even if we say a word here, there is no word. She doesn't know how much her brother eats? One People beat me and Xiangxiang, there are still three, our family doesn’t have enough food for a month to make it like this! Dad, it’s not a problem if things go on like this, you can’t just ignore them just because you’re afraid they’ll gossip about us , the principle of being a person and doing things, parents don't teach them, should they wait until they enter the society and deal with people in the future, let others teach them? Will others tolerate them like our family?"

"It used to be two families, they didn't live together, they didn't eat together, they had these little problems, it didn't have much to do with us, but Dad, now they are with us, you don't like it for a day, and you don't like it for many days, Is it possible to hold back? Anyway, I can't take it anymore. When I see them eating, I get angry and want to take pictures of the table and teach them how to behave. They don't think about others at all, and they are extremely selfish. They, if we don’t discipline them in time, will they still have it in the future? Even if they grow up, they may not remember our family’s kindness to them, and maybe they will rely on you to solve their food and clothing problems and employment problems. You don't care about solving the daughter-in-law problem, and I'll see what you do when you're here to rely on me!"

Ding Wei sputtered a lot of words, which made the old father and mother's faces dark with fright, and they couldn't say a word for a long time.

Because they also realized that the problem that the girl said was so serious that they couldn't ignore it.

"The matter of our family is also a hot spot. If anyone speaks out, you can't stop it. We have been envied by others. When you go back to the village in the future, appoint someone to talk about our family behind your back. Well, everything else is okay, but I'm afraid that it will be troublesome if my mother's work is raised to the issue of capital. The good thing is that Ding Cailian is also doing this. I have to finish playing, so this is also a bond, temporarily restraining them, but regarding their character, I think you have to pay attention to it, or go back to the village to discuss with the village leaders and let them know the status of these children in advance. Virtue, there will be a process to manage it in the future.”

It has to be said that Ding Wei thought very well, and the old father couldn't help but look at her with emotion.

"It's still my daughter who is amazing. This is too thoughtful. You are right. Dad didn't think carefully before. He will definitely discipline them strictly in the future."

Ding Wei pouted: "I'm afraid that your strict discipline will have a counterproductive effect. They are now in a rebellious time. You didn't watch Sister Cailian talking to them, and you didn't even raise your head? This is the case. Life is so good, I don’t need exercise, but it’s impossible to throw them into the army for exercise, otherwise, Dad, you can ask someone to see if you can send me Jianjian to the coal mine for exercise? I heard that The wages are even higher!"

"Coal kiln? You mean the coal kiln in the next county?"

Ding Wei nodded, "We don't have it in the county, but it's next door, and it's not too far away. It's only an hour or two by car, but not now. When he graduates from middle school, you can ask someone to inquire about it in the past six months. The place is super tiring. It can train people the most, but I have to find a regular coal mine, but I dare not find that kind of black coal mine. I will also ask my colleagues about this matter, see if they know anyone, let my brother work there A temporary worker or something, hone his will, let him clearly realize that in the future he will be the eldest son of the family, and he will take on the responsibility of taking care of his younger brother instead of relying on us for everything!"

Dad couldn't help but look at her: "You said how did your head grow? How do you know so much? Tell me, speak out your thoughts, speak clearly, and let me know how to deal with them next."

"It's simple, find a reliable person, put some money in, and take special care of my brother, let him work ten or twelve hours a day, let him only think about making money, and don't think about anything else, and the money will be pressured on him when the time comes I only pay the living expenses, and keep the rest for his sister to send back. After working for half a year, let him realize how difficult it is to make money. After the Chinese New Year, let him come back and see if he has improved. Send him there, if you don’t go, you have to go, but this matter is not absolute, and people must keep an eye on his every move, so as not to have a negative effect.”

According to Ding Wei's theory, "Only when a person understands the difficulty of earning money will he consider other people's feelings. If the pain he cannot feel himself is difficult, he will not think too much, and he will not even bother to look or ask. Or, it’s okay for boys to suffer a little bit more, as long as you don’t feel distressed or soft-hearted, I think this matter may turn out to be a good thing in the future. After all, he is still a junior high school graduate, so it’s easy to find a temporary job Let’s not go there even if you have money to buy regular workers. Although the food subsidies for coal miners are fifty or sixty catties per month, it is too dangerous, especially working underground, which is not good for your health. We just send him to exercise. It wasn't for him to die."

"That's right, that's right, I want to say this too, my daughter is really considerate."

Zhao Qingqing echoed after hearing this, and then went to discuss with Ding Zhenlong, and Ding Wei, who came up with an idea, sighed.

"Boy, it's really hard to control in any age!"