The heroine of Kuai Chuan Zhi's family only farms

Chapter 1453 [1452] Selfishness, talk (4000)

Because Ding Wei didn't go out, Ding Zhenlong couldn't go out either, so they all went home after the November holiday.

After all, Zhao Qingqing and Ding Cailian had jobs, so it was embarrassing to leave their employers behind. It happened that Ding Cailian wanted to take advantage of the holiday to study hard, so Zhao Qingqing took the three old people to wander around the county.

"Mom, aren't you angry with my sister?" It's fine once or twice, but Ding Wei is a little uncomfortable to be honest.

She admitted that she was stingy, and she also admitted that she was a little impatient that Ding Cailian took advantage of their family's kindness again and again.

She even felt that Grandma Wang had been left out in the cold. If her mother hadn't been there, she guessed that Grandma Wang's patience had reached its limit.

This elder sister who only knows how to study, in addition to studying, she feels that she is not as good as little Lilac in other aspects of life.

Ding Xiang's classmates invited her to eat delicious food, she turned her head and brought her own snacks (made by Ding Wei) to school to share the next day, and said very proudly.

"My sister did it. My sister, Ding Wei, you know?"

Ding Wei is a big celebrity in Experimental Primary School, who doesn't know her, she presides over the weekly flag-raising ceremony, including the health and discipline situation of each class, she makes a concluding speech, and at the end is the dean and principal's time.

So Ding Xiang is very proud that she has such an excellent sister. Of course, she is also very excellent, so when she shows off, no one will be jealous of her, but think she is a bit cute. The main reason is that she has a hearty personality and is more helpful than Ding Wei. , has accumulated a lot of contacts.

Because she loves to eat, the classmates who have delicious food at home will not be able to resist her cuteness, and they will bring her over to share. As the so-called courteous reciprocity, she basically takes out the snacks that Ding Wei gave her to share, Ding Wei Don't care about her, this is her freedom. After all, it was agreed to do it for her, so she has a reason to dominate.

Ding Wei doesn't like to eat, especially sweets. She usually finishes with three meals a day.

She doesn't drink soda, doesn't eat popsicles, no matter how hot it is in summer, she won't care about those cold things.

On the other hand, Lilac, as long as you have a little change, you go to see it, and basically spend it on food.

When her mother couldn't help but want to say, Ding Wei stopped: "Mom, it's a blessing to be able to eat. It's better for her to eat than to buy messy ones for fun, right? Besides, you don't let her eat this now, then don't let her eat it." , When she enters junior high school, you won't be able to control it, so there's no need to restrict it deliberately, and when she gets bored with eating, she won't eat it herself."

"Do you believe this too? She is tired of eating, what do you think she is tired of eating? Even when people eat steamed buns, they have a look of enjoyment. I know how to eat. Two days ago, I asked me to fry steamed buns for her. I don’t know where I learned it. I also know to soak the steamed buns in water first, coat them with egg liquid, and then fry them in the pan. Not to mention the oil, it’s still crispy on the outside and tender on the inside, why do you think she’s so good at eating it!”

Ding Wei couldn't help sticking out her tongue: "You can't blame her for this, I made it for her, she's addicted to it!"

Zhao Qingqing nodded Ding Wei's forehead, "You, you are such a prodigal bastard, you know how to mess with our family's oil, no amount of oil is enough for the two of you to arrange like this, just get used to her, and The same goes for your fourth brother, I gave him money to buy meat buns, but he ended up buying vegetarian ones, and the money I saved came back to buy sodas for the two of you, each of you, you really don’t know, don’t you?”

"Mom, this proves that my brother loves us. Look at my dad, doesn't he miss you in everything? Last time I saw him sneak a chicken leg for you to eat!"

As he said that, he pouted: "Don't envy my brother for being kind to us, you see, when my father is kind to you, don't I also pretend that I didn't see it?"

Zhao Qingqing blushed in embarrassment: "That's because he went out to eat with others. He didn't want to eat, so he just had one, so, so,"

"Oh mom, isn't it just a chicken leg? I'm not jealous that you ate it and I didn't. Are we that person? Let me just say, my eldest brother, second brother and third brother are not at home, and fourth brother loves us. I love my sister, my father loves you, isn't this all the performance of our family taking care of each other? It doesn't have to be said who spoils the other. "

"Yes, yes, you are right. Mom is wrong. Mom will no longer care about how you get along."

Being caught straight by her daughter, Zhao Qingqing felt that there was no place to put her old face, but Ding Wei did.

"I think Dad loves you so much. It's a sign of love. Why are you so embarrassed? After all, you are the one who can accompany him to the old age. We children will fly high sooner or later. Dad loves us as much as he loves us." As for my daughter-in-law, of course, it doesn’t mean that we don’t love you, and we don’t care about you in the future, I mean, "

"It's okay, my treasure, can mom still not understand what you mean? It's okay, okay, you just stick to your point of view. Mom is old, but I can't keep up with your young people's ideas. You were young Just make up your mind, you can do everything according to your own discretion, just don't give her pets, just pass it by, don't lose your lady's life, and still play the lady's prestige, I'm afraid you'll get used to her so badly, when the time comes... I don't listen to you, it depends on what you do, anyway, she is now, just listen to you, I, a mother, is just a display in front of her."

In fact, Zhao Qingqing most wanted to say that her little girl is a dog's leg, but she felt that this was not good. Who is Ding Wei? At a glance, she could see that her mother was about to say something, but she couldn't say anything. She pursed her lips and said happily: "Okay, Mom Got it, don't worry, you little girl is smart!"

Don’t you just focus on it, take the Xueba notes she organized for her, and ask for favors everywhere, her grades are good, and she is an early reader, whoever has difficulties, she will help, classmates and teachers like her, what about others, no Arrogant or impetuous, the favors he asks for are all: "Does your family have something different and delicious?"

In the end, when the students brought them to her to eat, she judged the family situation of this classmate through these so-called "delicious food".

Because the education we have received from childhood is that the things we give to others must be the best things in the family, especially if Ding Xiang said this, then the food brought by the students must be a gift from the heart to appreciate her, at least, She thinks so.

So when some students took out the black and hard-to-eat vegetables as a thank-you gift and asked her if it was delicious, for a moment, she wished that the students were joking with her, playing a prank, But no, this is really the best gift from her family.

"It's delicious, it's really delicious. Tomorrow, I'll ask my mother to make something like this for you to try."

The polite Ding Xiang swallowed the hard and bitter wild vegetables, and complained to her sister when she got home.

"Sister, I didn't believe it at first, and I asked my classmates, and then I realized that she was so pitiful. Her father died in an accident, and her mother had to take care of her grandparents. There were more than ten people in the family. Grandma didn't let her go to school. It was her brother who did it. Temporary workers earn her tuition fees, and she is good at studying. She usually doesn’t like to talk. My impression of her has always been that of “not talking” and “not participating in group activities”. It's so miserable, every day when she comes home from school, she has to work, often pasting paper boxes until midnight, I have never eaten that corn bread when I grew up, the worst dish, but it is her The best food that can be obtained, sister, tell me, what kind of gift should we give in return!"

"Then let my mother make a wild vegetable nest for you, and then you share it with her. Because the varieties of wild vegetables are different, the tastes presented are also different. The wild vegetables you eat are bitter, probably because the wild vegetables in them are too bitter. Miscellaneous, so if what you give her is not bitter, just tell her what it is, and you don’t need to explain too much. You don’t need to give her school supplies, which is also a burden for her.”

Ding Wei is the existence of Ding Xiang's mentor on the road of life. Although she is a sister in name, she is more of her guide.

Because her parents seldom communicate with her, and Ding Wei sleeps with her younger sister every day, so she communicates more, and then replaces her parents' position in her heart.

Ding Xiang often told her what happened at school, and Ding Wei was a good listener, and based on these interesting things, she analyzed the subtle ways of getting along with her classmates.

The condition of their family, at present, even if it is not the best, it should be considered quite good, so when dealing with people, you must consider the situation of other people's family, instead of measuring everything by your own standards.

Because of Ding Wei's guidance, Ding Xiang has Ding Wei's shadow in every aspect.

Then she naturally looked down on Ding Cailian's way of dealing with people, because her second aunt and uncle had never taught them, so she naturally reacted slowly. Even if she remembered it later, it might not be her thinking, but Grandma Wang pointed out.

The more Ding Wei felt that she was not as pleasing to the eye as before, the more it proved Ding Cailian's selfishness, because now she really only has herself in her eyes.

Sometimes Jianxin Jiancheng missed her and wanted to come to the city to look for her, but Ding Cailian wouldn't even let her in, so she just talked to them outside and wanted to send them away.

Not to mention washing and mending clothes, but not even saving a meal, which is a bit too much, and it's a good name, because I don't want to cause trouble to Grandma Wang.

This is not for fear of causing trouble to Grandma Wang, but for fear of causing trouble for herself and spending money.

In the end, Zhao Qingqing couldn't see it, she told Ding Cailian a meal, and then she stayed at Wang's house for a meal. Of course, the food and meals need to be deducted from her salary. Experience, and the crackling of the abacus dial, very conscious.

Now Zhao Qingqing has to take the old man to the hospital for acupuncture and massage at least twice a week. Even though Zhao Qingqing has almost learned it, she still feels unsafe, so she plans to learn next year and then do it by herself, so as not to make any mistakes.

After Grandma Zheng's leg fell down last time, her legs and feet were not so sharp. Every time it was rainy, her legs and feet felt like rheumatism, which was extremely uncomfortable.

So the older the two old people are, the more troublesome it is to take care of them. They are so busy that they can't stop almost every day. But at this time, Ding Cailian is begging this and that. If Ding Wei doesn't bother her, who will she bother?

Since everything was thrown to Zhao Qingqing, wouldn't it be over if they got the salary?
You are paid and let your aunt do the work, why are you at ease?Is there anyone who does this?By the way?That's a person, not a Chinese cabbage!

However, as an elder, Zhao Qingqing couldn't say much, and the time she saved was not wasted, it was all used in her studies, which made her even more speechless.

But Ding Wei is not used to her, otherwise it will only go too far.

So she called Ding Cailian outside alone, and Cailian looked at her curiously and asked.

"What's the matter? Is there anything you can't say at home?"

Ding Wei smiled slightly: "Isn't it inconvenient to say it at home? I just think, sister, you are paying too much attention to your studies now. Apart from studies, you seem to be very careless about other things?"

The smile on Ding Cailian's face froze instantly following Ding Wei's words: "For example?"

"For example, if you are here with Grandma Wang, you should know that you are the nanny first, and then yourself. You should put work first, instead of taking other people's tolerance for granted, and then push Grandma Wang out and let my mother take care of her. .I'm not saying you pushed it to my mother, I just think it should be your own job, you can do it every day or two, what will Grandma Wang, who pays you, think?"

Ding Cailian felt that she couldn't hold back her face: "Weiwei, is this what the aunt means? Actually, I didn't ask the aunt to do anything, so I just,"

"Sister, I'm telling you, don't mention my mother, and you don't have to kidnap her morally. It's not natural for her to help you. This is what I'm telling you. After all, you are here to earn wages, not When it comes to learning, you have to distinguish between priorities and who is the master of the family. If you take other people’s wages and push others to take care of them, think about it yourself and see if you can live in your heart? "

"Also, you still have three younger brothers to support. You are not alone. Now my brother Jianjian's salary maintains the tuition and living expenses of Brother Jianxin and Jiancheng, so you don't have to worry about money, but at least you can do something. , can you see for yourself that you are still a reliable big sister now? You don’t care about your vegetable field, let my parents take care of it for you, and let our third uncle and third aunt worry about it. You run away when harvesting It's pretty fast, why can't I find you when I'm fertilizing and watering?"

"It's fine if you usually don't care about them. You don't care about them on Zhou Tian. You haven't even washed or mended clothes or made shoes for them. You are a big sister. You don't care about these. Their boys are dirty every day. Third aunt The family still has to take care of their own children, so it’s fine to take care of them at ordinary times, and you also leave it to her on Zhou Tian? Do you think it’s appropriate?”

When Ding Cailian heard this, she didn't show any guilt. Instead, she looked at Ding Wei calmly and asked.

"Is this what you mean, or what uncle and aunt, or third uncle and third aunt mean?"

(End of this chapter)