The heroine of Kuai Chuan Zhi's family only farms

Xiangfeng came to their house on the first day of the Lunar New Year last year, and she didn't know if she would come this year. She was not the only one who had this idea, and Zhao Qingqing also asked.

"Hey, do you think Xiang Feng will come over this year? Don't say it, this kid is really nice. I can't figure it out either. Why does his mother dislike him so much?"

Ding Wei shook her head slightly: "It's hard for us to comment on their family relationship, but Mom, after all, his family's relationship is like this, and our family... can't get rid of it,"

What he said made sense, and his parents, siblings and siblings nodded at the same time.

"So, we should treat him better. Whether he comes or not, we have to prepare his share."

Little did he know that in the ticket hall of Changshi Railway Station at this time, Xiang Feng was standing there wrapped in a military coat and walking around, looking up at the ticket office from time to time, hesitating again and again, and finally bought a ticket to S City in Province J, today is New Year's Eve , when his 1.8-meter tall man shuttled through the bustling waiting area, his eyes were full of loss and irritability, he even scratched his hair frantically, until an old lady came over, he stood up and gave way Only then interrupted his thoughts.

Two days and two nights, from the train to the car, and from the car to the military truck, until he arrived at the gate of a certain military area in S City, Province J, asked the sentinel for instructions, and waited for a call before he was sent to the office of the chief.

Looking at his son, whom he hadn't seen for more than a year, although he was happy, he couldn't help but ask.

"You should go back to Harbin. What are you doing here? Your mother and grandma should miss you too."

Xiang Feng lowered his head and did not speak, and Xiang Feng thought that the knot between his son and daughter-in-law had not been untied, so he kept persuading him endlessly, until Xiang Feng finally couldn't help but look up at him.

"Dad, it's so bad. It's not over. When you persuaded me here, did you ever think about why you came here? You did a good job in the Sanyang Military Region. Why did you transfer here? Don't think I I don't know why, but to put it bluntly, you don't want to touch my mother's bad luck, so you should understand why I came here."

Why doesn't Xiangfeng miss his mother and younger brother?
But as soon as he thinks of going home, he will face endless nagging and complaints, and sometimes even saying something wrong will stimulate her nerves and lead to family wars, so he shrinks back and simply chooses to avoid it.

"I sent back the New Year's gift a long time ago. Grandpa and grandma will understand me. I don't want to go back. Let me rest with you for a few days, and then I will go to Yuxing. I promise not to bother you anymore."

"Yuxing? Are you going to Ding's house again? Hey, you are so impolite, you treat him as your home? You went there last year for Chinese New Year, and this year? What will people think about our house? If you really don't want to go back, Why don't you just stay here for the New Year?"

"What's so interesting about you here? I went to the military school to study much more advanced than you here. I'm not interested. It's better to go to Yu Province. The countryside over there is also interesting. Dad, Mom, brothers and sisters are very kind to me. Well, I have a sense of home there, and my body can relax completely, and they, "

"They treat you well because of your elder brother. Don't show your face. It's Chinese New Year. Why are you an outsider joining in the fun?"…

"Outsider? No, Dad, I'm not an outsider. If it wasn't because I couldn't meet you, people would have recognized me as a godson. Although my brother is gone, the Ding family knows how to be grateful. They blocked bullets for me a few times. We are brothers who live and die together. The younger sister of the Ding family even knits sweaters for me and sends me food. .”

Xiang Zhiqiang was so angry at his son's words, "You heartless little thing, me and you. Mom, and your grandparents, are you going to be treated like this?"

Xiang Feng rarely raised his head to look at his father seriously: "To be honest, Dad, you have a great responsibility for my mother becoming what she is now, but if you give her more care, she will not be so sensitive. All of them are sons, and they are desperate to serve in the army. She can't find the sense of accomplishment as a wife and mother. Being married and having children is the same as being unmarried and having no children. How do you let her find a sense of security? Now that my younger brother is suppressed by her, he will soon become a puppet who doesn't know how to resist, I am afraid of living like that, so I escaped, but what about my younger brother?"

Xiang Zhiqiang fell silent, and Xiang Feng continued: "Your transfer to Province J already shows that you are avoiding problems. She looks normal on weekdays. At least she hasn't made any mistakes in her work. It means that she can only face the problem. When we were together, she wouldn't become so tough, she also needs to care, but my brother and I can't satisfy this kind of concern, you shouldn't come here, "

"In these years, as soon as I go back, she quarrels with me. I feel exhausted. I have to deal with work outside, and I am very tired when I go home. I want to get some care, but it is full of abuse and blame. , if you say I don't run away, can I still live a normal life? I think it's fine now, as long as I'm not at home, she can't find a way to vent, and won't be angry. In the same way, you Same."

The father and son sit opposite each other, and when it comes to their daughter-in-law/mother, they are both speechless. Whether they are selfish or evasive, they don't want to face the problems they should face.

The reason why the pimples in their family are getting bigger and bigger is actually because no one is going to guide them, everyone hates troubles, and no one wants to face menopause, a woman full of negative energy, so in the end, neither father nor son talk about it. Who is to blame, because each other is at fault, and blaming each other will only make this matter more irreversible.

Xiang Feng thought he could at least live with his father until the third day of the new year, but he couldn't bear it after two days.

Xiang Zhiqiang still has to go to work, so it is impossible to accompany him. He is a young man, and he does not need his father to accompany him, but the range of activities that family members can do when they come to the military area is limited. Even if he is a military student, he is just a family member here. You can't talk to those sister-in-laws in the family home, can you?

I simply kept doing nothing, said hello to my father, regardless of whether he agreed or not, turned around and got on the army's supply vehicle, from the truck to the car and then back to the train, the train back to the car, on the night of the 28th, in the dark Climbing up to Ding Wei's house, he was still a little nervous when the door was knocked. When the door opened and Ding Xiang's lively smiling face appeared, he shook the snowflakes on his body, with an embarrassed expression on his face: "Xiang Xiang!" Xiang, here I come again.”…

"Mom and Dad, come quickly, my brother Xiangfeng is home for the New Year, brother, what are you doing in a daze, I'm just waiting for you, come in quickly, my eldest brother and second brother came back a few days ago, why did you come, you My brother has made the bed for you."

When Ding Xiang yelled, she was pulled in. The rest of the Ding family came out of their respective rooms, and when they saw Xiang Feng, they all showed expressions of "Why did you come?" Taking off his coat, Zhao Qingqing and Ding Zhenlong warmly greeted him to the living room, while they went into the kitchen and busy making noodles for him.

Ding Wei has a slight fever these days. She just drank the medicine and lay down, but was woken up by the sound of the house. She ran out wearing her clothes and saw that her brothers formed a circle around Xiang Feng. She walked over with disheveled hair: "Brother Feng, are you here? Are you tired from tossing around? Xiangxiang, what are you doing in a daze, pour a glass of water for Brother Feng."

Only then did Xiang Feng see through the gap that his face was not quite normal. It was only after seven o'clock and Ding Wei, who had obviously fallen asleep, asked with concern.

"Are you uncomfortable? Your lips are pale, but your face is so red?"

Only then did Ding Jianguo come to his senses, "Yes, Weiwei, didn't you just take the medicine? Go and fall asleep, brother Xiangfeng has us to entertain you!"

Then she turned her head and explained to Xiang Feng: "This girl was playful a few days ago, played in the snow, and got cold when she got home. She doesn't have a fever anymore. She just took medicine and hasn't fallen asleep yet."

Under everyone's persuasion, Ding Wei nodded and went back to the house to lie down. Although the door was closed, the laughter from the living room made her feel that this is the taste of home, but he can choose this time Come here, obviously did not go home, it seems that their parent-child relationship is really more trouble than she imagined.

Ding Wei didn't know when she fell asleep. When she woke up the next morning, she felt a lot lighter. Her younger sister got up early, and when she heard the movement, she hurried in with water.

"Sister, are you awake? Drink some water, you don't know how much you sweated last night, I used a warm towel to pour water on you many times before I wiped you clean, I want to call you water, you Just don’t cooperate, are you very thirsty now?”

The younger sister thoughtfully fed her water, and Ding Wei gulped down the water, and suddenly felt that her throat was swollen like a dry seedling.

Coughing lightly, still a little hurt, she took the water glass and drank it straight away, "Xiangxiang, thank you for taking care of me."

"What did my sister say? You took care of me when I was sick. We've all eaten. Your warmth is in the pot, right?"

With a strong nasal voice, Ding Wei gave a soft 'um~~~', "I don't want to eat, I don't have an appetite, have they all gone out?"

"Yeah, my brothers have all gone to the stadium to play. By the way, I will see if there is any sugarcane seller. I want to get some sugarcane roots to boil water for you."

"Where are your parents? Are you out too?"

"My dad went to work, and my eldest brother rode a tricycle and took our mom to go shopping. Now the situation is much better. Many farmers have come out to sell vegetables, meat, and tofu. We don't have to go to the supply and marketing cooperatives to buy them in line, and we don't need Tickets, so I went to the surrounding villages by bicycle to ask, and I have brought back a lot of things in the past few days, and the eggs are almost in a basket, mainly because we have a large number of people, and I am afraid that there will not be enough to eat if there is less preparation.”…

Ding Wei slept through the night and was no longer sleepy, but she was limp and lacked strength, but she insisted on getting up and washing, walking back and forth in the living room, her body was so stiff and uncomfortable, if it wasn't for the cold outside, she should really go Stroll outside.

While talking, Cai Sang knocked on the door and came over, "I didn't know you were sick until I met my aunt, so I bought you a bag of milk powder, two cans of wheat, milk, essence, children's family, more supplements just come over,"

This was the first time Ding Wei saw Ding Caisang after she remarried, so she quickly took her hand and asked.

"Sister, did my teacher Zhou treat you well? Is his family easy to get along with?"

Cai Sang blushed, and gave her an embarrassed look.

"It's okay, there aren't too many conflicts for the time being. After all, I am usually busy with work, and he is also busy. At night, he has to watch the evening self-study. He leaves early and returns late. As for his family, we don't live together. There are not so many people. It’s contradictory, so I still can’t see it.”

"Teacher Zhou leading the class (teacher)?"

Cai Sang nodded, "He said that the subsidy is high. He used to be alone. He felt that earning so much was meaningless. Now it is different. He is married and will have children in the future, so he wants to earn more."

"Then congratulations to my sister. Mr. Zhou has taught me for a semester. He is a good teacher who is serious, responsible and unsmiling. Is it the same at home?"

Ding Caisang laughed when he heard this: "At home? Actually, it's okay. It's not as serious as at school. After all, home is a place to relax. If he is tense, he will be so tired. I mentioned you to him, including Ding Lan, he speaks very highly of you. He has taught Ding Lan for a whole year, and he has a deep impression on you. He knows that we belong to one family, and he is quite proud. After all, you are the number one in their county's No. [-] middle school. There are not many outstanding graduates, and they passed the self-examination to Luoyi High School, which is amazing!"

Ding Wei was a little embarrassed by Ding Caisang's praise, and because Caisang had to go to work, she temporarily suspended the polite conversation between the sisters.

"I sneaked out, I have to go back to work quickly, you seldom get sick, I think you are in good health, so I was quite surprised this time, take a good rest, I'll go first, come back when I have time You, tell me what’s missing, and I’ll keep it for you.”

Ding Xiang went downstairs to send Cai Sang away, and Ding Wei felt more and more that she had treated her too much before.

"It seems that this person will not change. People can't always look at the people and things around them with prejudice."

After so many lives, she is still not smooth enough to deal with some issues decisively.

It's really the relationship between human beings, interpersonal communication, which is the most difficult subject in the human world. After all, people's hearts are unpredictable, so how do you know that what you say will definitely appeal to others?
All in all, she was very touched that Cai Sang was able to visit her, just like the attitude of her aunt who had not been in touch with her many years ago changed after they went to visit. Talk to me, I don't talk to you, it's no wonder that the relationship can get better!
Ding Wei felt that she was almost in good health, so she went to the kitchen to work on the lunch at noon today. There were a lot of people in the family, and she had to get up at ten o'clock. It happened that her leftovers were still there in the morning. Don't eat it, it takes up space. Let's eat it, maybe I won't be able to eat any more after a while. Based on the principle of not wasting, she ate a bowl of rice porridge, an egg, and a steamed stuffed bun.

After eating, wash it up, start to knead the noodles, and prepare to make mutton stewed noodles. This mutton was bought by my mother in the village yesterday. It is not easy to eat beef and mutton these days, especially beef, which is even more rare. So in order to reflect its own taste, you need to boil a pot of soup with mutton first to stimulate the umami taste of the mutton itself!