Since I am Yu Huanshui

Chapter 342 Heresy and Heresy, Teach Rebellion

After lunch.

Fang Yuan and Tong Wenjie walked out of the welfare lottery station in a daze.

"What are you doing, hurry up, I'm so sleepy, hurry up and go home!" Qian Wen, who was walking in front, waved his hands and turned his head and shouted.

Tong Wenjie and Fang Yuan who heard the sound blinked, looked at each other, and then looked at the Welfare Station behind them.

Are you sure they're right?
Is this a chance to scratch the prize?Obviously just to get money.

Just now Qian Wen walked in, closed his eyes and scratched blindly, and still picked three cards after 1 minute.

Two failed, and one was 20. Although it was not as much as the first time, it is not a dream to earn tens of thousands a day.

Qian Wen felt that there should be a reason why there were so few of them this time. He didn't wash his hands carefully after lunch. Since it is metaphysics, he must respect the rules.

What washing hands, bathing, cleaning clothes.

But one more time...

"Hmph~ It's too troublesome, 20 is enough."

Fangyuan, Tong Wenjie went home in a daze.

As soon as he got home, Qian Wen was so tired that he fell asleep at the end. For some reason, he just wanted to sleep. Is it because he happened to be in puberty and was about to grow his body?
"Hi wake up." Fang Yuan waved his hand in front of Tong Wenjie.

"Ah?" Tong Wenjie came back to her senses, and then said in shock, "Is this Fanfan's luck too good?"

"The child is lucky, isn't it good? Don't think about it. It's a good thing to win the lottery. In the future, Fanfan will graduate from university and want to start a business, and he will also have money." Fang Yuan accepted it quickly. Although he also found it incredible, the miracle lies in Right now, if you don’t believe it, it’s okay, just two steps, close your eyes and win the prize, that’s it, that’s it, it’s just an extra lottery scratching process.

Tong Wenjie rubbed the center of her eyebrows, this really gave her a lot of financial impact, and it was too easy to get money.

"Okay, let's take a look at the admissions materials of major colleges and universities we got back.

After Fanfan scratched the prize, didn't we each scratch 100 yuan?

I am in the air force, you five yuan, this is not something ordinary people can play, let's go to work honestly. "Fang Yuan poured a glass of water for Tong Wenjie, feeling overwhelmed.

Tong Wenjie blinked vigorously, collected herself, and turned her head to look at the room with the closed door. Her son was lucky.

He bowed his head and began to look through the admissions materials of the major universities in the imperial capital.

After the swearing-in meeting in the morning, after the wish balloons were released, the school organized the admissions offices of all colleges and universities in the imperial capital to give Chunfeng candidates a round of consultation in advance.

She took a bunch of materials, learned about them in advance, and made preparations.

"By the way, Fangyuan, you'll put the scratch-off you just won in the safe later.

On Monday, you take some time to exchange. Tong Wenjie, who looked down at the enrollment materials, said softly.

"Aren't you going?" Fang Yuan asked.

"No." Tong Wenjie said calmly.

Fang Yuan nodded, and went back to the bedroom to play scratch games.

Although they were shocked by this incident, they were delighted to win the lottery, but they didn't have any wrong thoughts, they just regarded it as a lucky star descending to earth, and besides, the big test of life was about to happen, so some small things were let go.

Qian Wen slept until five o'clock in the afternoon, when he was woken up by a phone call.

He didn't open his eyes, and fumbled with his right hand.

"Hey, who is it?"

"Fang Yifan, where are you, I'll be waiting for you!" Huang Zhitao said.

Before Qian Wen fully woke up, he muttered, "What are you waiting for me? What's the matter? Can we talk about it tomorrow, I'm so sleepy~"

"Didn't you agree to go to the movies together, you let Yingzi and I go?"

Qian Wen opened his eyes and looked out the window. It was still bright, "Didn't Yingzi refuse at that time, saying that he couldn't go?"

"Don't worry about it, hurry up, if you don't come, Yingzi and I won't wait for you." Huang Zhitao said.

Rubbing his head, he yawned fiercely to drive away his drowsiness, "I'll be there in a while, is it the old place?"

"Well, hurry up!"

After hanging up the phone, Qian Wen stared for another 5 minutes, it was impossible to act immediately.

Five minutes later, the big toe moved, followed by ten toes. After a while of movement, Qian Wen woke up.

Standing up stiffly, I went to the bathroom to wake up with cold water.

"Fang Yifan, wake up, do you have some freshly cut fruit for you?" Fang Yuan was holding a fruit plate, with his feet resting comfortably on the tea table, watching TV.

Qian Wen who was passing by said, "Pour me an iced Coke, thank you!" After finishing speaking, he walked into the bathroom.

After washing and drying my hair, I became sober.

Nap is the hardest sleep to wake up from.

After receiving the iced cola handed by Fang Yuan, he looked around, "Where's your wife?"

"Your mother went shopping for your cousin." Fang Yuan said while eating the fruit.

Qian Wen nodded and put down the empty glass, "Yingzi and I have an appointment to watch a movie, so you don't have to wait for me for dinner tonight."

"Do you want money?" Fang Yuan asked.

"Forget it, I don't want your little treasury." Qian Wen waved his hand and went back to his room to change clothes.

"Hey, this damn child..." Fang Yuan looked at the back and smiled.

After some dawdling, 10 to [-] minutes had passed, Qian Wen went out of the community, got into a taxi, and went straight to the shopping mall.

When he arrived at the place, Qiao Yingzi, who was waiting impatiently, came up with a throat lock.

"Fang Hou'er, do you know how long we have been waiting for you? More than an hour, do you know, more than an hour!
Since when did you become a woman, what a mess!" Qiao Yingzi was puzzled.

"I was soundly asleep when you guys called, and besides, you said your mother wouldn't let you go, and you didn't participate in evening activities.

It's not like you don't know how far my home is from here, can I get there as quickly as you do. "Qian Wen said softly.

"Then we'll be waiting in vain." Qiao Yingzi refused.

"Have you bought tickets yet?" Qian Wen asked.

"No, it was just half an hour ago.

We have to wait for half an hour for the next show. If you haven't arrived, we didn't buy it. "People in the shopping mall came and went, Qian Wen and Qiao Yingzi were fighting, which attracted a lot of attention, Huang Zhitao stepped forward to separate the two.

"I'm treating guests, the head office should do it." Qian Wen rubbed his neck, his small body was quite vigorous.

"I'm adding popcorn, Coke." Qiao Yingzi raised his eyebrows and said.

Qian Wenbi gestured, "No problem."

The movie was Mission: Impossible, and after buying tickets, the three of them waited in the rest area.

"How did you come out, your mother let you out, and didn't let you indulge in the sea of ​​questions?" Qian Wen looked at Qiao Yingzi and said.

Qiao Yingzi swallowed the popcorn in his mouth, sighed, "For you, in order not to miss the appointment, I sneaked out.

When I go back at night, I still have to be scolded, senior year..."

Qian Wen shrugged, "Aren't you a little too obedient and sensible?
You are in puberty now, can you show me a little bit of rebellion?

You are a top student, you can’t be solid if you have a solid foundation, watch a movie once in a while, relax, can you die?
Tell your mother, I'm going to the movies, what's wrong! Is your mother a glass heart?"

In the play, Qiao Yingzi is so sensible that it makes people feel distressed. Every time Song Qian and Qiao Yingzi have a dispute for whatever reason, it must be Qiao Yingzi who apologizes first and coaxes Song Qian.

Then Song Qian, moved by herself, forgave Qiao Yingzi generously, and then established new rules.

And I never think that I am at fault, no matter who it is, as long as it touches her sensitive nerves, it is the fault of the other party, even the best best friend Tong Wenjie, she can turn her face.

Song Qian's suffocating desire to control made Qiao Yingzi depressed and had nowhere to hide.

Qian Wen wants to teach Qiao Yingzi today, what is puberty, what is rejection, and what is willfulness.

It is a good thing to be sensible, but if you are too sensible, you will hurt others and yourself.

In the play, Song Qian and Qiao Yingzi are hurting each other.

After the college entrance examination, Qiao Yingzi went to Jinling University, Song Qian and Qiao Weidong remarried and lived happily ever after.

You must know that before the divorce, Song Qian tightly controlled Qiao Weidong, and after the divorce, she never left, and strictly controlled Qiao Yingzi in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation.

These decades of habits can be changed in just half a year? Can Song Qian's breath-holding emotional control disappear?
If it was that simple, Qiao Yingzi wouldn't be depressed.

Qian Wen felt that Song Qian must have a mental illness, which is quite serious. If she checks it, she will be able to find it out.

Qian Wen's words made Qiao Yingzi pause for a moment, unconsciously chewed the popcorn in his mouth, and said hesitantly, "My mother is very poor. She takes care of me so hard by herself. I am so considerate and sensible. I can't be willful."

"What about you?" Qian Wen looked at Qiao Yingzi and asked.

Huang Zhitao on the side bit the straw, tilted his head, and looked at Qian Wen strangely, feeling that Fang Yifan had been acting weird these days.

"What am I?" Qiao Yingzi looked at Qian Wen, wondering.

"Aren't you pitiful?" Qian Wen asked.

Qiao Yingzi was taken aback for a moment, and then gave Qian Wen a hammer, "You are so funny, what am I pitiful for, I don't have to worry about eating and drinking, my mother takes care of me in every possible way, as happy as I can be."

But when he said these words, Qiao Yingzi was afraid that he would not notice, and his eyes were a little dodgy.

Qian Wen ignored Qiao Yingzi, and looked at Huang Zhitao, "Taozi, you are Yingzi's best friend, objectively speaking, is she happy?"

Qiao Yingzi looked at Huang Zhitao.

Huang Zhitao blinked, looked at Qiao Yingzi, and stammered, "It's...not bad. I feel happy to see my parents from time to time."

Qian Wen slapped his forehead, well, he forgot that this is a left-behind child, since he was a child, he spent less time with his parents and left more, so he asked the wrong person.

The contestant was eliminated and looked at Qiao Yingzi again, "Divorce, Aunt Song Qian was injured, so you are not injured?
In the past six years, you have lived strictly according to the schedule every day. What your mother says, you can't even decide what to eat.

Even if you want to watch a movie or have your own hobbies, you have to apply for permission or not.

In my opinion, you are a puppet, a marionette, you were a puppet 17 years ago, and you will be a puppet as an adult.

Your future school, major, job, marriage, partner, home address, making friends... etc. will all be arranged by your mother.

Take your time to be happy. After all, everyone is different. Maybe this is where your happiness lies. Live for Aunt Song Qian and your mother. "

As Qian Wen spoke, Huang Zhitao shivered, why did he sound a little chilled.

I can't decide anything by myself, I have to apply for everything, and I have to follow the arrangement for everything. Is this still me?Huang Zhitao felt that if this was the case, she would go crazy in a short time.

What Qian Wen said may have been exaggerated, but this may be Qiao Yingzi's life, because she has a mother who has a terrifying desire for control——Song Qian.

Qiao Yingzi didn't speak, but ate the popcorn bit by bit faster to hide his true emotions.

She has been under pressure for a long time, but her mother is even more pitiful. She is only herself, and she has been trying to obey as much as possible. What Qian Wen said just now, she doesn't need to close her eyes to think about it. This may be her whole life.

Some wanted to cry, but they still forced a smile, Qiao Yingzi had a bitter face.

"It's so pitiful..." Qian Wen said softly.

He was just motivating Qiao Yingzi. Depression does not develop all at once. It is a mental illness with emotional accumulation.

How could it be possible to develop into moderate depression, anxiety disorder, and suicidal tendencies in a short period of time, and healed in a short period of time.

That is to say, in the play, in reality, depression is the invisible killer of modern times.

In fact, Qiao Yingzi has been accumulating negative emotions, but in this college entrance examination year, Song Qian's pressing every step of the way made Qiao Yingzi's condition worse.

He began to gradually relieve Qiao Yingzi today, and slowly taught her to say no.

"Stop talking!" Qiao Yingzi suddenly yelled angrily when she was so pitifully provoked.

When stabbed to the point of sadness, roar more, it is good for suppressed emotions.

It's good to explode, Qian Wen said softly, "I'm telling the truth, do you dare to yell at me, a person who talks about himself, and a person who puts pressure on you and controls your life?"

"I won't watch it!" Qiao Yingzi threw away the popcorn she was holding and ran out.

"What are you doing!" Huang Zhitao glared at him and chased him out.

Looking at the backs of the two and the scattered popcorn on the ground, Qian Wen whispered softly, "I'm saving her."

"What are you doing? You threw it all over the floor." Auntie Cleaning came over.

Qian Wen hurriedly got up and apologized, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'll clean it up, I'll clean it up."

Taking the cleaning tools from Aunt Cleaning, she cleaned up the popcorn all over the floor.

The course of treatment has just begun, don't rush...

"You youngsters, fall in love and fight around."

"Young man, let me tell you, you have to coax a girl."

"Your girlfriend ran away, why don't you chase after her?"

Auntie Cleaning is still a chatterbox, chatting around Qian Wen and imparting her experience.

Qian Wen finished cleaning with a smile, picked up the popcorn left behind, and went to refund the movie ticket, but no one watched it.

One good thing about this girl, Qiao Yingzi, is that she doesn't hold grudges. Believe it or not, she will take the initiative to apologize tonight or tomorrow.

Take all the faults on yourself.

Blocking is worse than sparse, depression to a certain extent, it is a lifetime.

Walking out of the cinema slowly, I looked left and right, there were no figures of Qiao Yingzi and Huang Zhitao, it was already dark, I guess they were already on their way back.

At this point, he didn't want to go home either, so he touched his pockets, thinking that the living expenses were running out, so he went to help the poor.

After a while, he walked out of the Welfare Lottery Station with about thirteen hundred yuan.

In terms of metaphysics, the sixth sense is not as lucky. He scraped almost thirty sheets, and that's all he got.

This lucky lottery station is not good, and there are too few scratch games with prizes.

Luck is impossible to become possible, the sixth sense is talent, the gap is too big.

Talking about it, I found a restaurant and walked in.

Not long after sitting down, Huang Zhitao's phone call came.

Qian Wen picked it up strangely, "Hello? What's the matter?"

"Where are you, why can't I find you?" Huang Zhitao asked.

"Looking for me? Why are you looking for me?"

"Didn't you watch a movie, where did you go?"

Qian Wen looked at the two medium buckets of popcorn in the bag, and asked late, "Let's see?"

"Dream your spring and autumn dream, Yingzi and I are waiting for you in the movie theater, hurry back!"

"I'm eating, I'll post the location, you guys come here first."

After hanging up the phone, Qian Wen took a sip of the shrimp tail noodles, thinking in his heart, this will calm down? It's too fast.

After a while, Qiao Yingzi and Huang Zhitao came in.

It can be seen that Qiao Yingzi has cried, and her eyes are still red.

"Come... come, eat something?" Qian Wen said vaguely while eating.

Qiao Yingzi put on a tiger face.

"Just order, I'll treat you." Qian Wen said with a big wave of his hand.

Qiao Yingzi gritted his teeth and glared at Qian Wen, "Waiter, this, this, and this..."

Huang Zhitao looked at it, it's not expensive, is this going to let Fang Yifan go?
"None, everything else!" Qiao Yingzi gasped.

"Huh?" the waiter asked.

"No?"

"Yes!" the waiter replied.

Qiao Yingzi looked at Qian Wen's expression, wanting to see the pained expression, "Then hurry up, I'm hungry."

Seeing Qiao Yingzi's fierce and angry look, Qian Wen smiled, and looked at the waiter, "Roast the whole lamb, no need for pasta, and let her order the rest first."

This is a barbecue restaurant, and most of Qiao Yingzi's orders are skewers.

Not scaring Qian Wen, Qiao Yingzi was very disappointed, and said proudly, "Who said you don't want roast whole lamb, serve it to me."

"I ordered it, but I have to eat it all, it's shameful to waste it!" Qian Wen said with a smile.

Huang Zhitao on the side pulled Qiao Yingzi's cuff and whispered, "I have a small appetite."

Hearing this, Qian Wen chuckled.

Qiao Yingzi looked at his best friend with an expression of disbelief, how could you tear me down.

Huang Zhitao had an expression like a small animal, "I really have a small stomach."

"Spineless!" Qiao Yingzi turned her head, ignoring her best friend.

"Why are you back? Didn't you leave? My movie tickets are all refunded." Qian Wen said while drinking water.

"Who said we're leaving, I just went to the bathroom, and how did the movie tickets get refunded, what are we going to watch after refunding!" Qiao Yingzi insisted.

"Someone spilled popcorn all over the floor. After I cleaned it up, I didn't have anyone to watch it with me, so I came to eat." Qian Wen shrugged and said.

Qiao Yingzi blushed and stammered, "Who... who told you to say that about me."

"Let's talk about the matter, don't hurt feelings." Qian Wen said softly.

Qiao Yingzi was silent.

"Whether I'm right or not, you know for yourself, if I'm wrong..."

Huang Zhitao looked at Qian Wen.

"...Never take it back." Qian Wen nodded solemnly.

"..." Huang Zhitao rolled his eyes, and the corners of his mouth twitched.

"My mother, it's really hard..." Qiao Yingzi ignored Qian Wen's antics and lowered her head in a low voice.

Qian Wen sighed silently, and said softly, "It's not for you to resist and contradict Aunt Song Qian, but for you to speak out your heart and let her understand what you think.

Instead, she feels that what she does is what you want and what you need.

You're an adult, you're growing up a little bit, don't you find yourself feeling down from time to time?
This is really..." Qian Wen didn't continue to say it later, just said it once and it was enough to pierce the heart repeatedly, it was intentional.

In the play, Qiao Yingzi keeps holding back everything. Every time he reaches the peak, he bursts out, then holds back, and repeats.

Qiao Yingzi scratched her hands, lowered her head, no one could see her eyes, "We've communicated, it's useless."

Huang Zhitao felt the loss of his best friend, and held her hand to comfort her invisible.

Qian Wen shook his head, "Yingzi, are you tired from studying?"

Qiao Yingzi was startled, not understanding what it meant.

Qian Wen asked again, "Are you tired from studying?"

This time Qiao Yingzi replied, "Tired, very tired. After I entered junior high school, I basically started studying at six o'clock every day, and wrote papers until eleven or twelve o'clock in the evening. There were endless tutoring and remedial classes. Sometimes I really didn't want to study."

Huang Zhitao blinked, she was similar, except that she was freer than Yingzi, at least she could decide her own study time.

"Then why are you still studying hard?" Qian Wen asked again.

Qiao Yingzi didn't answer right away, but thought for a while, "Part of it is my mother's urging, and the other part is because I think I must learn it because it is useful."

Qian Wen smiled, "You see that studying is very tiring, and you thought about giving up, but you persisted for several years.

Because you feel you need it.

Then why can't we persist in communicating with Aunt Song Qian?
Why give up in a hurry after trying superficially?
Just because she can't communicate, she can't understand?
Why can't you stick to it? Obedience is a habit that will be subtly influenced by people. After trying to communicate again and again, there is no result, so I ended it in a hurry and accepted Aunt Song Qian's arrangement.

This made Aunt Song Qian think that this is what is best for you, and you must think so too, you can understand.

Is that really the case?

do you really understand
You have to know that the identities of adults and your own children are changing day by day.

When I was young, I started from random reprimands, disobedient beatings and scolding, to slowly verbal reprimands, until the two were equal, asking for your opinion, and finally you made the decision, and she obeyed.

The moment you can stand against her, the emotions that have been built up for a long time are bound to explode.

What would you say would be the consequence?
Is it a loss for both sides, or one side is injured.

Communication is long-lasting, if it fails once, it will be twice, if it fails twice, it will be three times, and many times.

Let Aunt Song Qian know what you think, that you also need rest, entertainment, relaxation and decompression.

Instead of a puppet in her hands.

Don't be obedient all the time, sometimes refusing may hurt your feelings for a while, but after explaining it, it is good for everyone.

Saying no is sometimes more effective than saying you know. "

Qiao Yingzi frowned and listened, always feeling weird, something was wrong, but he couldn't tell.

Qian Wen grinned, he was teaching Qiao Yingzi to be rebellious, why say no! You are disobedient where your parents are.

Still insisting on saying no, do you want to go to heaven?
But it is useful to Qiao Yingzi. Qiao Yingzi is too obedient, too sensible, too obedient, and she is too depressed.

It's like being in a cage, take the initiative now, it's better for everyone.

Of course, it might be useless to Song Qian. After all, Song Qian is famous for her stubbornness, but what he said was to Qiao Yingzi.

He wants to take Qiao Yingzi to rebel, as long as it is good for Qiao Yingzi.

Besides, as far as Qiao Yingzi's character is concerned, if she can really fly into the sky, he will give her a thumbs up.

Qiao Yingzi was thoughtful, but he didn't listen to Qian Wen's nonsense.

Huang Zhitao just rolled his eyes when he heard that, only a child like Qiao Yingzi who was oppressed to the extreme felt that Qian Wen's words were reasonable.

After all, Qian Wen spoke from Qiao Yingzi's starting point.

At this time Qiao Yingzi's cell phone rang.

"My mother~" Qiao Yingzi exclaimed.

"What's wrong with your mother? Pick it up." Qian Wen said calmly.

"She must have found out that I was not at home and asked me where I was. If she knew that I didn't study and went to watch a movie secretly, it would be another long story." Qiao Yingzi said with a worried face.

"What's wrong with watching a movie? Is it illegal to watch a movie? Just tell the truth.

Your mother said, you go in the left ear and out the right ear, it’s fine if you don’t.

There's nothing to worry about, it's just nagging, it's not stress-resistant at all. "Qian Wen said.

"It's different..." Qiao Yingzi looked at the phone that kept ringing and said anxiously.

"What's the difference? Does it matter if you keep your grades and then have fun?" Qian Wen said.

"Eh..." Qiao Yingzi hesitated.

"You can do whatever you want, anyway, I said a lot just now, it's up to you to listen to it or not." Qian Wen picked up the grilled skewers and started eating.

In the end, Qiao Yingzi hesitated for a long time, and when Song Qian called for the third time, she answered the phone.

"Yingzi, where are you? Why aren't you at home? I brought back a new set of exercises, come back quickly." Song Qian's voice came from the phone.

Qiao Yingzi looked at Qian Wen with a sad face.

"To be honest, you just come out to relax after studying.

No breaking the law!" Qian Wen said softly.

"Yingzi? Yingzi? Why don't you speak?" Song Qian called out again and again.

Qiao Yingzi took a deep breath, then closed her eyes and said, "Mom, I'm tired from studying today, and I'm watching a movie with Huang Zhitao and Fang Yifan."

Song Qian on the other side of the phone froze for a moment, then smiled, "Watching a movie, you can watch that, and mom won't bother you.

But come back sooner, before it's too late. "

Qiao Yingzi opened his eyes wide, but he didn't expect it was not to blame.

Qian Wen shrugged, you are tired from studying, relax, and asked Song Qian to say something, and they are still there.

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