After the divorce, I started to transfer

If Fang Min is in love and is determined to be with Meng Jun, then there will be some trouble.

Chen Feng is her cousin and has a relationship with her mother, so it is impossible for her to just ignore it.

"Xiao Min, tell me the truth, do you still want to contact him and try to have a relationship with him?"

Chen Feng asked directly.

Fang Min remained silent, obviously not denying it, nor intending to lie.

Chen Feng couldn't help but sigh in his heart. At this age of eighteen or nineteen, she is love-brained and stubborn. It's really difficult to deal with her.

"You don't still think he's a good person. If he starts dating you, he'll be sincere to you, and then you'll get engaged or even married after graduation, right?"

Chen Feng asked with deliberate sarcasm.

Fang Min was indeed provoked, and immediately retorted: "I haven't thought that far, and I don't really care whether I can marry him in the future, but I really like him and want to date him. What's wrong with that?"

Oh! He is really in love!

If it were someone else, even other relatives, Chen Feng would not bother to care.

Just like the saying goes: let go of the desire to help others and respect their fate.

She is going to be cheated on by men, she is going to be dumped by men, and she is going to experience the pain of emotional torture. What else can others do?
Her legs are on her body and she is an adult. Even her parents can't control her, let alone her cousin who is not that close to her.

But there was no way, he didn't have many relatives, especially those who were close to him. It just so happened that Fang Min's mother, Chen Xiaoxia, was one of the few relatives he cared about, his aunt.

His aunt Chen Xiaoxia had previously told him in all seriousness to try to take care of his cousin Fang Min as much as possible.

And I just happened to be bumped into by him today, I really can't just ignore it.

Otherwise, it would be unacceptable both in terms of human relations and conscience.

"If he is a scumbag, would you still date him?"

Chen Feng asked angrily.

"He's not a scumbag!" Fang Min defended Meng Jun a little angrily, "He has always been very good. In addition to his good academic performance, he is also good at basketball and guitar. In addition, he has learned Taekwondo to the black belt level, which is very impressive. I was in high school with him for two years, and he never had a relationship. How could he be a scumbag?"

"What about after he went to college? It's been almost a year. Hasn't he ever had a relationship?"

Meng Jun is still a bit handsome, otherwise Fang Min wouldn't like him. Although Chen Feng doesn't know him well, from his judgment of him today, he is not an honest person, nor is he the kind of boy who doesn't eat meat.

When he was in high school, he might not have dared to have a relationship due to the heavy academic pressure, but after entering college, many boys like him immediately let themselves go.

Chen Feng was like this at the beginning. When he was in high school, he turned a deaf ear to the outside world and studied hard. He never thought about falling in love. Until he was admitted to university, he seemed to suddenly become enlightened overnight. When he enrolled in school, he fell in love with Liu Ying at first sight and began to pursue her.

Women understand women, and men certainly understand men.

The school year was almost over, and Chen Feng didn't believe that Meng Jun was still single. After all, with his conditions, it wasn't difficult for him to find a girlfriend at school.

But Fang Min denied it: "No, he has never been in a relationship."

"Did he tell you that?"

"Ah."

"You believed him?"

"Of course, he didn't have to lie to me."

"Okay, let's just assume that he has never been in a relationship, but he is not right for you. I told you the reason at the beginning. He doesn't like you at all. Even if he agrees to be with you, he just wants to play with you and has no intention of staying with you for a long time."

Fang Min immediately said, "I don't care about how long it lasts, I only care about having it once."

When Chen Feng heard this, his blood pressure rose. If it was his daughter, he would definitely break her legs.

You, a girl, actually say that you only care about what you once had. Isn't that shameless?
Besides, people like Meng Jun can't really be considered outstanding. At most, he has good academic performance and was admitted to a decent university. As for being good at basketball, playing the guitar, and doing karate... Well, among his peers, he is considered to be relatively outstanding, but obviously not one of the top ones.

First of all, this guy's family background is quite ordinary. It seems that his mother works in an ordinary company and his father is a civil servant. They are middle class at most and cannot be compared with Fang Min's family.

Secondly, in the future, when measuring whether a man is excellent or not, excluding the factor of family background, more than 90% of the weight will be on whether he or his family has money and how much money they have.
Otherwise, even if you successfully pass the civil service exam and become a civil servant, there may not be many women willing to marry you.

After all, if you are a grassroots civil servant, you still cannot afford to buy a house or a nice car on your own. After getting married, if your wife does not have a job and has to raise children, the family expenses will still be tight.

Meng Jun's family situation might be slightly better and he could provide some financial support, but certainly not much.

So, overall, Meng Jun doesn’t seem that outstanding, at least for now. What’s more, this guy has a problem with his character, and he has already made it clear that he doesn’t want to date Fang Min and doesn’t like her.

But his cousin has set her sights on the man and wants to date him, and she wants to come to him on her own initiative. What can Chen Feng, as his cousin, do?

For her own good, we must try our best to stop it.

After thinking for a while, Chen Feng said, "It seems that no matter how I persuade him, it's useless. If you insist on him dating, I can't stop him, not even your parents can stop him, after all, the legs are on your body. But I still have to say that Meng Jun is not worthy of your trust, and he is not qualified to date you."

Fang Min was silent for a while before she said, "I am not qualified. He never thought about dating me before. It was only after I took the initiative to express my admiration for him that he slowly began to like me. Today he even asked me out to stroll around East Lake. If I hadn't run into you by chance, he would definitely be willing to date me."

Chen Feng said unhappily, "He is not willing to date you, but he is willing to go to a hotel with you. Even if he agrees to date you, it is for his own lower body, not because he really likes you."

Chen Feng's words were very blunt and vulgar. Fang Min's face felt a little hot. She lowered her head slightly and retorted: "No, he...he is not as... "

"He is just so lustful. Which boy of his age is not lustful? I was also his age, so I understand him very well. You are a girl, don't think that now is a new era, you can do whatever you want, and there will be honest men to take over in the future.

You have to know that honest men are not stupid. Only those honest men who have no ability and no money are willing to tolerate women's rich emotional experiences in the past, because they have no choice. But as long as men have some ability and some money, they are definitely not willing to tolerate. They have excellent conditions and can choose more objects. Do you understand what I mean? Only when a girl respects herself and loves herself when she is young can she marry a good husband in the future. Otherwise, it is highly unlikely that she will marry well in the future. Even if she marries well, her married life may not be happy. "

Fang Min frowned and said, "You have an old feudal mindset. You men are allowed to mess around before marriage, but can't we women have a slightly richer love history? Men and women should be equal."

Zhao Zixuan, who had been silent, also spoke up and said, "I agree with Xiaomin on this point. You men require us women to remain chaste before marriage and be virgins when we get married, so you men should also not have sex before marriage. Otherwise, it would be unfair and oppressive to us women."

Chen Feng said unhappily, "When you get married, can you not ask for a gift or a wedding house?"

Zhao Zixuan immediately retorted: "Are we talking about the same thing?"

"How is this not the same thing? Men and women are equal. If they are equal, why must the man pay the gift and buy the wedding house when getting married?"

"Dowry and wedding house are customs that have been around for thousands of years."

"It has been a tradition for thousands of years for women to remain chaste before marriage."

"You have the decadent ideas of feudal ethics."

"Dowry is also a bad feudal custom."

Zhao Zixuan was suddenly speechless and could only glare at Chen Feng hatefully.

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Fang Min found their bickering interesting and her mood improved. After thinking for a while, she said, "Brother, I know you care about me. But I have really grown up. I want to love and am even prepared to get hurt. Just like what they said in the drama: love, live and get hurt. Only in this way can we continue to grow."

Of course, Chen Feng had also heard of this "wise saying", but he still couldn't help but complain: "You know that loving him will hurt you, but you still love him. Aren't you stupid? Besides, this saying of loving, living, and getting hurt seems to make sense, but it is actually a beautiful bullshit.

Just like the old saying, "Only those who endure the most hardships can become the best." Why do people have to endure hardships? And endure the most hardships? Isn't this self-abasement and self-torture? The more you endure hardships, the more hardships you will endure in the future. Just like those office workers, once you start working overtime, you will have to work overtime endlessly in the future.

It is right to love and live, but it is questionable to get hurt. Why do you have to get hurt? You have to know that if you are really hurt by accident, you may die. Human life is sometimes very fragile and may not be able to withstand a single injury and destruction. Therefore, if you know that you will get hurt, the first thing you should do is to prepare yourself in advance to try not to get hurt.

If you can avoid getting hurt, then of course you shouldn’t get hurt. If you know you will get hurt and still get hurt, then you are a shacha.”

Fang Min didn't say anything, Zhao Zixuan said: "Chen Feng is right, I agree."

Zhao Zixuan also advised: "Xiao Min, don't think that loving someone is a romantic thing, especially when you love someone who is not worthy of your love. Looking back, you will find that you are a joke. You think that is great, but at most you will only be moved by yourself. The person you love will not be moved by you, and others will think you are a fool."

Fang Min still didn't say anything, but her mood became depressed again.

Seeing this, Chen Feng said, "How about this, in order to prevent you from getting hurt, I can find someone to do a background check on Meng Jun for you. If he is really a good young man as you said, with no bad habits, a good character, and has not deceived you, then I will not stop you from dating him, and I will even help you keep it a secret from your family for the time being. What do you think?"

"Investigate him? How?" Fang Min was a little curious and interested.

Chen Feng said, "First of all, of course, we need to investigate his family, what his parents do, whether they have committed crimes, his family's financial situation, and whether they have any debt disputes. Secondly, we need to investigate him personally, whether he has a criminal record, his physical health, financial situation, hotel booking records, his character and reputation, etc. I think you should be more interested in these, right? I'll find someone to help you check."

Although it was not a good idea to check someone's background behind their back, Fang Min could not say anything against it and could only agree.

"Then it's decided. I'll contact my friends now to check Meng Jun's background and see if he's a good guy."

Chen Feng did what he said. He immediately took out his mobile phone and contacted Cai Zhixin on WeChat, asking him to help check Meng Jun's background.

Of course Cai Zhixin agreed without hesitation. After all, this was more than the first or second time he had helped Chen Feng investigate people, so he was very familiar with the task.

After the call, Chen Feng put away his phone and said to Fang Min, "It will take a little time to investigate Meng Jun's reputation in school, but the rest is not difficult to check. The earliest result will be available tonight, and the latest before tomorrow night. When the result comes out, I will send you a copy."

Fang Min then asked, "Is your investigation accurate?"

Chen Feng guaranteed, "Of course it's accurate. All this information is retrieved from the internal information system, so it can't be fake, especially his hotel booking records, which can't be faked. As for his family's financial situation, the bank will know it clearly once they check it, and the same goes for legal disputes and debts."

Fang Min stopped talking again, and it was obvious that she was also looking forward to the results of the investigation.

Seeing this, Chen Feng reiterated, "If the investigation results show that there is no problem with him and his family, I will definitely not stop you from dating. But if there is a problem and you still insist on dating him, I will notify your parents immediately, and then I will also deal with him and prevent him from going to school. I have already warned him before."

"He...if there really is a problem, I will certainly not contact him again. However, I have confidence in him, and there will definitely be no problem with him."

Chen Feng said disapprovingly: "I hope so."

Chen Feng's intuition told him that there was definitely something wrong with Meng Jun.

"Then wait and see. But, brother, you can't lie and deliberately throw dirty water on him, otherwise, I won't forgive you."

"How could that be?" Chen Feng retorted, "Would I deliberately frame him? I'm not that bored. If there is really something wrong with him but you just don't believe it, we can investigate it further together."

Fang Min quickly said, "As long as you don't lie, I will of course believe you."

"Do I need to lie? If he really is a good young man, I will of course be happy for you, and I will even help you to pursue him."

"I...didn't pursue you."

Fang Min defended herself somewhat weakly.

"If there is really something wrong with him, I hope you can believe the results of the investigation. As a brother, I would never cheat on such a matter, let alone harm you."

"Well, I believe you."

"That's good."

Seeing this, Zhao Zixuan smiled and said, "You cousins ​​trust each other, which is really great. Xiaomin, it's rare that your cousin Chen Feng cares so much about you. If it were someone else, if they encountered such a thing and refused to listen to advice, they would just let it go on their own. If they get cheated or dumped, they can't blame anyone else."

Fang Min didn't like what she heard, so she couldn't help but ask, "Sister Zhao, are you and my brother really just ordinary classmates?"

Zhao Zixuan was stunned, then looked at Chen Feng. (End of this chapter)