After the divorce, I started to transfer

Chapter 262
The breakdown of many marriages is not because the relationship between the two is not good enough, but because of the many trivial matters and small conflicts in life, the mutual relationship wears down day by day, and finally even becomes a negative number.

Of course, there are many reasons why the two have conflicts with each other because of trivial matters in life.Affair, change of economic situation accounted for a large proportion.

When a man or woman has a new love outside, when they return home, they will naturally compare their partner with the mistress. Many faults and shortcomings that the other party can allow themselves to tolerate in the past will suddenly become unbearable.This is especially evident for women.

If a woman has an affair, her heart is basically not at home and her husband. At the beginning, she may feel guilty and become better towards her husband with a compensatory mentality, but this situation will definitely not last for long.Gradually, they felt that their husband was no match for her concubine.will think about divorce.

And if a man has an affair, unless he has a bad relationship with his wife early in the morning, he seldom wants to divorce, especially after having a child.

From this point of view, men have a much stronger sense of responsibility for the family than women.

After many women cheat, it is equivalent to giving up their original sense of responsibility to their husbands and families.Not so with men.

Another is the very real economic situation.

In real life, most of the reasons for divorce between men and women are changes in the family's economic situation, which of course mainly refers to the man.

If a man becomes rich, he will turn bad. Even if this statement is not 100% correct, it is at least 80% correct.

In reality, too many men, after making money and making a fortune, abandon the woman who shared the joys and sorrows with them, and find another young and beautiful one.Or after having money, even if there are no mistresses outside, they often go to the club for health care.

Of course, if the man becomes out of money, he won't be able to float.The wife who seemed to be in love with him before is likely to leave him.

Since ancient times, it seems to be a matter of course for men to earn money to support their families, while women can just watch the children and do housework at home.If it was the other way around, the man might be poked in the back.

Therefore, in terms of family, in many cases, men naturally pay more than women.

If a man can't make money and can't support his family, it means failure and incompetence.Women will naturally dislike them, and then it is only natural to have a divorce, and now it is even more commonplace.

This is also the main reason for most divorce cases in China. The so-called emotional discord and personality incompatibility are undoubtedly excuses.

Chen Feng felt that his previous divorce was mainly due to this aspect. He used to work smoothly, with a salary of nearly [-], his career prospects were very good, and he and Shen Lin were very affectionate.

But then his work was not going well, and his monthly salary was only three or four thousand, which was almost twice as low as that of Shen Lin.And Shen Lin seemed to have lost confidence in his future.

Then, Shen Lin couldn't understand him in every aspect of life, and made all kinds of criticisms. Of course, Chen Feng couldn't help but talk back at first, then the two of them just quarreled, and then the two of them had a cold war.

Then, because of this quarrel and cold war, the relationship between the two slowly faded away, and there was not much left.

It wasn't until Chen Feng found out that he was terminally ill and his conscience still persisted that he proposed a divorce to her.Although Shen Lin said at the time that she could give him a chance to restore the relationship between the two.

But Chen Feng didn't say that he had a terminal illness at the time, even if he didn't have a terminal illness, he would have thought of divorce a long time ago.Because at that time he was very disappointed with Shen Lin and himself, and felt that he could not give her the life she wanted, and Shen Lin was no longer the innocent girl she admired and loved.

To put it simply, people's hearts have changed, their feelings have changed, and if you want to restore it, how can it be so easy?It doesn't make sense either.

In that case, the restored relationship, at least in Chen Feng's view, was not perfect anymore, it was mended, incomplete, and full of flaws.

Such feelings are not worth mentioning.

Looking back, Shen Lin wanted to start over with him, or even remarry, but it was meaningless to Chen Feng.

He and Shen Lin were silent for a long time, Shen Lin just looked at him, and then tears slowly fell from her eyes.

Chen Feng finally avoided her gaze, turned around and looked at the road coming from Hongshu Bay.

It didn't take long before he finally saw the white mini coming not far away, and he quickly arrived in front of them, and even made two beeps and pulled over to stop in front of them.

"I'm leaving. You should go back quickly."

Chen Feng immediately stepped forward and opened the door of the rear compartment. Before getting into the car, he finally turned his head to Shen Lin and said this.

Sitting in the car, Wu Mengting just glanced at Shen Lin who was standing stupidly by the side of the road through the car window, and then quickly started the car and drove away.

After the car drove for a while, Wu Mengting asked, "Brother, where is your car parked?"

Only then did Chen Feng think of this, looked out the window for a while to recognize it, and said, "It's just over there from that full convenience store, just go a little further."

"Okay." After Wu Mengting agreed, she drove over there.

Chen Feng took out his key and handed it to Sun Xiaorui, the co-pilot: "You can help me drive back later, is it okay?"

Sun Xiaorui has a driver's license, but has never had a car, so she doesn't drive much.

"No problem. During the Chinese New Year, I always drove my dad's old Sartre."

"That's fine."

Soon the car drove to the convenience store, and Sun Xiaorui got out of the car to drive Chen Feng's car.

Wu Mengting started the car again and drove back, and finally couldn't help asking: "Brother, how is the matter? What did your former father-in-law say?"

Chen Feng leaned his head on the backrest, and replied weakly: "It's resolved."

"How did you solve it?" Wu Mengting asked curiously.

A faint smile appeared on the corner of Chen Feng's mouth, and he continued to say weakly: "How else can I solve it? Use money."

"Money? Yes, money is indeed omnipotent. How much did you give?" Wu Mengting asked in a mocking tone.

"Not much, 100."

"...It's not much. Compared with your current worth, it's really nothing." Wu Mengting said pretending to be relaxed, "Is it because you gave this money now, and you will have nothing to do with them in the future. Including... ...your ex-wife?"

Chen Feng smiled wryly: "I hope so, but my ex-wife seems to regret it."

Wu Mengting quickly said: "Why did you do it earlier? What's the use of regretting now? She hurt you, even if the scar is healed now, it will leave a scar."

Chen Feng smiled and said, "You're right."

"Then what do you mean now? You won't hesitate anymore, right?" Wu Mengting observed Chen Feng's face through the rearview mirror while talking.

"Why hesitate? I'm free now, and I don't lack women by my side. Why do I have to climb into the grave of marriage again?"

Hearing what Chen Feng said, Wu Mengting breathed a sigh of relief, and said with a smile: "Marriage doesn't have to be a grave, it could be a paradise. As long as two people love each other enough, it's fine."

Chen Feng didn't argue with her, but just smiled and said: "You are right."

Wu Mengting smiled and didn't say anything more, she just had to make sure that Chen Feng didn't show signs of reuniting with his ex-wife.

When he got home, Chen Feng went to wash up first, and then he lay down on the bed and fell asleep on his own. Before that, he drank more than half of a bottle of Moutai, which still had a lot of stamina.

When I woke up the next morning, the sky was still light, and Sun Xiaorui, who was lying next to me, was still sleeping.

Chen Feng went to drain the water first, then returned to the bed and lay down again.

At this time, Sun Xiaorui woke up in a daze, and asked, "Brother Feng, are you going to do morning exercises?"

"Not yet, you go on sleeping."

After Sun Xiaorui hummed, she fell asleep again.Chen Feng turned sideways, looked at his phone, it was past five in the morning.An unread SMS message is displayed on the screen at the same time.

Chen Feng opened it subconsciously, it was from Shen Lin.It was almost two o'clock in the morning.

Her WeChat account Chen Feng had deleted and blocked her, which was considered an attitude given to her by Chen Feng, but Chen Feng did not block her on her mobile phone.

[Chen Feng, I have thought a lot about our years, we have had happiness, quarrels and pain, but I have never regretted meeting you, getting acquainted and marrying you.I have always been grateful for the happy times you gave me in those years.I will never forget it in my life.

Now I probably know the reason why you proposed divorce with me at the time. At that time, your work was not going well, and you were sensitive and fragile with strong self-esteem, but I just quarreled with you and then fought with you when you needed my encouragement and comfort the most. , let you suffer a second injury, and let you be disappointed in me.

I regret that I treated you that way, but my intention was not to hurt you. I just don’t want to see you sinking into yourself and losing your fighting spirit. I hoped to force you to recover through quarrels and cold wars, but obviously my method was stupid. directly ruined our marriage.

When you filed for divorce with me, I was very angry and angry, but I still planned to give you another two months, but unfortunately you did not accept it, and my self-esteem could not allow me to continue to give in to you, so I finally made a decision. Worst decision ever.In our failed marriage, my mistakes accounted for most of it.I ruined my own happiness with my own hands.

I thought I would be happy after leaving you.But for the past six months, I have not been happy at all.Even though I thought you were an asshole at the time, I still think about you from time to time, and there were many times when I wanted to make up my mind to move out of the house we rented, but in the end I didn't.Because there are too many old memories there, I am afraid that after moving away, the best memory in my life will gradually fade away in my life.

I'm sorry, Chen Feng, I'm in a lot of pain right now, I don't know what you'll think after seeing this text message of mine, maybe you'll think I'm an asshole too, right?When you needed me the most, I treated your family coldly and violently, which made your situation worse.But now that you have made a lot of money, I'm starting to regret divorcing you.

I feel like a clown right now!

If there is an afterlife, I hope to meet you again, preferably on such an afternoon with plenty of sunshine, you are in full bloom, and my youth is just right.At that time, I will never let you disappear from my life again, I will definitely hold on to you, our relationship and marriage.I will grow old with you and stay with you for life.

Chen Feng, I'm sorry, see you in the next life! 】

Chen Feng looked at it at the beginning, and his mind was relatively calm, but after all, he was a woman who had lived with him for five or six years and was married, so his emotions would inevitably be affected when he watched it. Lin didn't have much emotion anymore, and she didn't feel emotional ups and downs, and her eyes were hot.

Although Chen Feng guessed that Shen Lin was intentionally sensational, deliberately reminding him of the happy time between the two of them, and playing the emotional card against him, he had to admit that Shen Lin's move made it difficult for him to be completely immune.

After all, the two of them were in love at the beginning, and it was the best golden age of each other's life.

Chen Feng secretly sighed in his heart, for a moment he didn't know whether he should respond to her long text message.

Then...he suddenly realized something was wrong.There is nothing wrong with the long paragraph above, but what does the latter paragraph, especially the last sentence "See you in the next life by fate" mean?
Won't!No way?

The more Chen Feng thought about it, the less at ease he felt, and the more flustered he became.

After struggling on the bed for a few seconds, he finally could only curse "Fuck!", and immediately turned over and got out of bed.

Sun Xiaorui was awakened by a sound of "grass", opened his eyes and looked suspiciously at Chen Feng who was standing by the bed and was quickly getting dressed.

"What's the matter? Are you going out to exercise?"

"Well. You go on sleeping."

Chen Feng said something perfunctory, then put on his pants, didn't even put on socks, and hurried out of the room with his mobile phone.

Sun Xiaorui looked puzzled, opened his eyes, and froze for a while.Look out the window, it's not yet dawn.

Chen Feng jogged down from upstairs, and while calling Shen Lin, he quickly ran to the entrance to put on his shoes.

After he opened the door of the villa and came out, the phone didn't get through until it hung up automatically.

Chen Feng called again, then quickly ran to the carport, opened the door and sat in the driver's seat, and at the same time quickly started the car.

Press the remote control of the villa gate.

The second time I called, there was still no connection.

Chen Feng could only resign himself to putting down the phone, turned the steering wheel vigorously, and drove towards the gate of the villa.

Ten minutes later, Chen Feng came to the gate of the community where he and Shen Lin rented for several years.

At about 05:30 in the morning, many people have already woken up, and the street is also full of excitement.

But Chen Feng didn't have the mood to care about these things at this time, so he drove directly to the gate of the community.

The security guards in the neighborhood here are not bad, and there are two shifts. The person on duty now is a middle-aged man in his 40s, surnamed Liu, a veteran. He has worked here for several years.Chen Feng and Shen Lin lived here for a few years before, so of course they knew him.

Chen Feng poked his head out of the car window and called out to him: "Brother Liu, please lower the railing."

While talking, Chen Feng had already handed over 100 yuan.At this time, handing over a pack of cigarettes is the best, but unfortunately Chen Feng doesn't smoke, and he doesn't have the habit of putting cigarettes in the car either.

At this moment in the morning, there were not many people entering and leaving the community. The surname Liu recognized Chen Feng first, then quickly took away the big red ticket, and said with a smile: "It's you. I haven't seen you for a while. I heard you Divorced your wife, do you want to come back and get it back now?"

Chen Feng didn't have the time to explain to him, he urged: "I have something urgent, please hurry up."

The security guard surnamed Liu was not angry when he saw this. After all, he had already collected the money, but he smiled and quickly raised the railing.

As soon as Chen Feng stepped on the accelerator, he drove into the community. He stopped the car at the downstairs of the unit where he lived, and then quickly got out of the car. Run upstairs.

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