I copied my daughter in the parallel world

Although it is sad that his wife passed away, for Lan Ziqin, these things are in the past. As a high-quality modern young man, he should become more open-minded in many things, no matter how embarrassing the past things are. People are grieving, but they still have to muster up the courage to look to a better tomorrow, sinking into the sorrow of the past, and still unwilling to accept the facts of the present, then it is also a sad thing.

The most important thing is that although his wife passed away, he didn't want the other party's death to affect the next life of the family. If he, the head of the family, continues to maintain a relatively depressed mood every day, maybe his son and the family All loved ones will be created in the same atmosphere, which will not help everyone's physical and mental health and normal life functioning.

So even though he may not be able to accept the fact that his wife has left sometimes, he will try his best to bury this matter in the deepest part of his heart, and only give himself a little time at midnight To miss, minimize the number of times my wife appears in the family as much as possible, so as not to affect everyone's mood and future life plans.

Shaking his head, temporarily suppressing these thoughts about his wife in his mind, Lan Ziqin also showed a warm smile on his face as he watched his son playing in the living room on his own.Now I can say that the reason why I can maintain my upward momentum is because of the existence of my son. Every time I see each other, I will think about my son’s future and future. At the same time, I also feel that there are many responsibilities on my shoulders. body.

In order to make my son’s future life not so difficult, and to be free to do many things he wants to do, not to be troubled by other things, he can maintain his own independent character in many things, Then one's own efforts should be well reflected in the opponent's body. Only after building a relatively superior strength can he allow his son to have such a large degree of freedom.

Perhaps this is also a relatively traditional thought of Hua people. Since having a child, it seems that everything I have worked hard for is shaped for the other party, and everyone seems to have no resistance to this view and idea. On the contrary, I think this seems to be my natural duty and the heavy responsibility that needs to be shouldered.

Although Lan Ziqin is a social elite who has received higher education, he will inevitably be affected by social spread and absorption in these matters, and the same is true of the education he has received since he was a child. , and spent almost all of his time and energy on himself, and now he seems to be doing the same at his age, and there is no big difference.

The more important thing is that if you think about some problems according to this kind of thinking, you will be able to generate a lot of motivation, and even sometimes when you encounter some setbacks and difficulties in life, you can also treat them calmly. these questions.

Unlike when his wife just passed away, it seemed that the whole person had lost the purpose of life, living like a walking dead, without any energy to deal with everything that appeared. Compared with this state, that kind of tradition The idea of ​​fighting hard for my son in this way may allow me to persevere more, and I will not be so frustrated in my life.

The only thing that makes me feel a little incomprehensible is that I may be limited by the main factor that I have not found the next relationship, or because of my son, I am afraid that the other party may have problems with my son's care and relationship. Some different ideas, after all, similar to the stepmother, the news that the priests are not treated well is everywhere.

But through my short observation this morning, it seems that Jiang Ning and Xiao Youyou have no problems getting along with each other at all. It surpassed the original closest father, which made me feel very surprised and puzzled.

If you can solve similar problems yourself, then it may be an imminent thing to find a suitable stepmother for your son before he can remember anything. Parents, all relatives, friends, and colleagues are trying to persuade myself to change the original idea.

Furthermore, as a university professor, he has relatively clear thoughts and ideas on how to teach children, and he clearly knows that maternal love is a factor that has a great influence on the growth of a son. If there are factors in this aspect, it may also affect the shaping of the son's future character and the impact of the three views, causing some bad radiation.

According to the statistics of sociologists, those children who grow up in a sound family environment are much less likely to commit crimes than those children from single-parent families.This is a fact that people have no way to justify, and it is also a conclusion drawn from special statistics and scientific verification.

Although I feel that under my own education, my son may become a young man with both good character and learning and a good character.But he didn't want the other party to lose the maternal love he should have had during the growth process, and then be affected by a lot, which would cause a certain amount of psychological shadow, and may even have a certain impact on his personality, making him more character-oriented. paranoid and violent.

If father's love is like a mountain, then the best adjective for mother's love is like the sea. The concept of mother's love is like a ball of warm palms, always surrounded by you, able to heal all the hurt places on your body .

After seeing the way Jiang Ning and Xiao Youyou get along today, Lan Ziqin also began to really think about this issue. Although this matter has been evading for a long time, it is indeed almost time to face it It's time.

Now my son is just at a more suitable age. If he is older, he may already have some memories, which will also cause a certain psychological barrier. Taking advantage of the current perception and memory of the outside world. Building a good emotional foundation between two people is also conducive to the cultivation of emotions in the future.

When he thought of this, Lan Ziqin had already made up his mind. Whether it was for the betterment of the family, or to make his son's future life as indistinguishable from ordinary people as possible, he should force himself to get out of this The pace of change, towards a better future.