I copied my daughter in the parallel world

Chapter 1396 1271. Poor Parents in the World
It seemed that it was inappropriate for her to ask such a question. Lan Mu immediately showed an apologetic expression, but Gu Cheng didn't care so much about these things, because his situation and Lan Ziqin's situation were similar, and this is why the two felt that The main reason why they are very compatible with each other is that the purpose of the other party's inquiry is naturally relatively clear. It is understandable for a mother to think about it as a mother who wants to change her son's mind through her own real situation.

"But there is one thing I want to ask you. If you know a good girl of the same age and situation, you can also introduce me to Lan Ziqin. He is a dead-headed person. How many times have I told him to recognize a girl?" Death is unwilling to look back. Although I can understand his approach, some things are in the past, and we should not be too obsessed with the past. We should put our eyes on the longer-term future. Now we have Children should stand on the child's point of view and do something beneficial to the other party, instead of continuing to hold on to the past emotions and unwilling to change themselves."

When talking about this matter, although it seemed as if he was talking and confiding to Gu Cheng, his two eyes looked straight at his son, hoping that these words would impress his son and let the other party have a better understanding. What I have realized is enough to make myself feel more gratified.

At my age, I don’t seem to have much to worry about. My son’s job is relatively good, and the family is not short of money. My son is also a relatively filial person. He has three meals a day and some family expenses. I need to worry too much, and my grandson is more obedient and well-behaved. It seems that life itself seems to be very happy. The only thing that bothers me is my son, who is unwilling to follow my arrangement and change his stubborn thoughts.

Before I die one day, I can see that my son is taken care of, and at the same time, my grandson has a mother to help educate me, which can already make me feel no regrets, but my son doesn't seem to be aware of these problems at all. It is addicted to the emotions of the past, unwilling to make any attempts and changes easily.

And the main reason why I chose this occasion to talk about these things today is to make the other party realize as much as possible.Citing Gu Cheng's personal experience as an example, let the other party realize that it is indeed imminent and the time for change has come.

After saying this, he smiled apologetically at Gu Cheng again. After all, talking about this in front of the other party, the trivial matters at home may not seem so polite.After that, he didn't stay any longer, and left the room briskly, and closed the door smoothly, allowing the whole room to return to the previous quiet atmosphere.

Although the other party walked very freely, the other two people in the room were not as quiet as imagined. Lan Ziqin was a little embarrassed, but also apologetic and helpless and smiled at Gu Cheng, as if he was very concerned about these words. It is also very helpless and a headache. I believe that this kind of similar dialogue must occur many times in life, but the only thing I did not expect is that my mother would choose to recount it again on this occasion. This made me feel very helpless and ashamed, as if I couldn't hold my head up in front of my good friends.

"It's okay, I understand. Don't feel embarrassed. This kind of thing really needs to be considered. I think what Auntie said is quite reasonable. Even if you don't think about yourself, you should also think about it for your children and auntie." From the perspective of an aunt, her son's single problem has not been resolved, and it is indeed an imminent and worrying thing, and it may not be so suitable for the child to grow up without a woman to help take care of him. The future growth of children has a lot to do with their personalities. Single-parent families are very likely to have children with mental illness and extreme personalities. Believe me, even if I don’t talk about these things, you should be more concerned as a teacher and professor. understand."

Gu Cheng could feel the tangled and contradictory emotions of the other party at this moment, so he naturally made his own comforting words at the first time, and he felt that what he said was quite reasonable. There is love for the other party, but the main reason for forcing myself to really take this step and make changes is to consider that my child really needs a female role in the process of growing up.Compared with other children who grow up with both parents, even if they give their children more care, to some extent they cannot replace the mother's impression at all.

After listening to Gu Cheng's dissuasion, Lan Ziqin's expression eased a lot. He naturally understood the truth very clearly. After all, he is a university professor, so he must be well aware of these things, but The only reason why I feel a little embarrassed and struggling is that I seem to be unable to give up the relationship with my wife, and at the same time, I don’t seem to be ready in my heart to accept a new relationship. within the scope of consideration.

And maybe I don’t have so many opportunities and environments to interact with women in my life. I usually meet with colleagues or students. As for students, because they are too young, I don’t seem to have this idea. At the same time, most of them They all exist with a complete family, and there are very few people who have not yet married at this age.I also put too much thought on work and academic research, and it seems that the relationship between men and women has been completely sealed up. So far, I have not encountered the existence that can make my heart move and change everything. Naturally, now I haven't given much thought to this matter.

Gu Cheng looked at the other party, as if he didn't want to continue talking about this matter in depth, and he could only swallow the rest of his words temporarily. Some things can be tasted as a friend, and if in this If there is too much interference in the issue, the friendship between two people may be destroyed, and there is a saying that it is difficult for an upright official to break up housework. No matter how close the relationship is, when it comes to family and emotional issues, the best The best way is to keep silent. Sometimes what you say may be for the other party's consideration, but the feedback you get is not as simple as you think.

The most important thing is that Lan Ziqin is already an adult. He has his own independent views and thinking patterns in dealing with many things. As an adult, he has the right to choose his own life.

(End of this chapter)