I copied my daughter in the parallel world

When life has been in a stable state tending to a normal state, and Gu Cheng's daily life has also returned to a normal track, every morning with his daughter, simply playing for a while, and then eating lunch at home, will Accompany your daughter, enter the state of lunch break together, and then simply take time to read a book for a while before the daughter wakes up. The baby who is fully rested in the afternoon will be in a 10-point emotionally stable state, which is also suitable for Do some things you like by yourself, such as dealing with some things that companies need to give your opinions, while drinking tea and basking in the sun, and simply supplementing your own school hours.

And after reading the book, before dinner, I will take some time to get to know friends I haven't seen for a long time, and simply get to know each other through telephone and Internet contact, so as to enhance mutual feelings.At the same time, I will set aside a fixed few days every week to complete the state of getting together with my friends. No matter what kind of relationship it is, if I don't manage it deliberately for a long time, there will inevitably be some crises of decline.

Generally speaking, life tends to be more comfortable as a whole, and before going to bed every night, Gu Cheng will deliberately take time to have a simple exchange with his girlfriend, to understand the troubles of the other party's life, and to listen to the other party's work. At the same time, I will give some of my own opinions and counseling, and I will also share with the other party what I have gained throughout the day. At the same time, I will also do some things to enhance the relationship between the two. The living conditions of each other are like water blending. Feel.

When the state of life returns to this level, for Gu Cheng, there is one thing that needs to be dealt with urgently, and it has reached the point of no delay.The lives and trajectories of myself and Jiang Ning have overlapped incomparably, and we have been together for so long at the same time, and the family members of the other party are also very aware of our existence, so take a suitable time to follow each other Going back together, meeting the parents, and thoroughly characterizing the relationship between the two became an action that I needed to take.

If they get along for such a long time, two people have a more comprehensive understanding of each other's hobbies, personalities and preferences, and at the same time accept some imperfections in the other's life process, and feel that they can tolerate them. The existence of perfection, then at this time, it is necessary to have an idea of ​​​​pursuing victory, to characterize the relationship between two people as soon as possible, and at the same time use a more comfortable attitude to meet the future state of life.

At the same time, as a male character, Gu Cheng feels that he has always been in a passive state in this relationship. For example, the relationship between two people seems to be the first idea proposed by the other party. Although he also has unilateral considerations, but the first time Instead, it was the other party who made the change. This has always been something that makes me feel a little regretful.

His own personality is in a state of being happy with the situation. Many changes in life are passively greeted, but when facing feelings, he still hopes that he can be more proactive, and the steps to pursue happiness should be controlled by himself. Not everything is paid by your partner.

Compared with other couples and husbands and wives, when the two of them seem to take any step, it is Jiang Ning who immediately caters to them, rather than Gu Cheng taking the initiative to make changes. I have always been very clear about these things Yes, although this state is slowly progressing in my own half-push and half-finished ideas, but generally speaking, it does not conform to the conventional process.

Considering his feelings for his girlfriend, his recognition of the other party, and the state of getting along with the two of them, as well as his love that he is not good at expressing, Gu Cheng felt that he should be more active in this regard, so that the other party can feel his love. The thoughts and intentions of the other party make the other party more confident in the relationship between the two, and also give the other party an arm to rely on and a more secure mentality.

To put it simply, it is now that the relationship between two people can be properly considered for the next step. I have never thought about what would happen if I lost the other party in my life, and the other party seems to have no consideration in this regard. Two people have already recognized each other as themselves in their hearts, and they can spend the rest of their lives together as partners. At this time, it is also a very smooth problem to change their identities in a timely manner.

At the same time, if you think from the perspective of the other party, it is indeed time to give the other party an answer and a stable mentality, and at the same time give the other party's parents an explanation, so that the other party's parents can stop worrying about their daughter's emotional state.This is the guarantee and answer that I, as a man, must make in this relationship, and it is also something I must give.

Although Jiang Ning has never deliberately mentioned this matter, he can't wait for everything to be imminent, or to think about it when it is already imminent. He should also show his positive side and let the other party's family and The other party has corresponding feedback for their efforts.

The main reason why Gu Cheng has not taken the initiative to consider this aspect is because he has not really prepared himself for these changes, and at the same time he is also in a rather disturbed way of thinking about the future. After all, although he already has a daughter It is the identity of a father, but he has not yet made a corresponding plan for meeting his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

After all, I have never experienced this kind of thing before, and I suddenly need to let myself take the initiative to meet the emergence of these things. I do have some feelings of worrying about gains and losses, such as whether the other party's parents will recognize me, and whether the other party's parents will accept me. Being critical of myself, as a single dad, will the other's parents choose their own family environment, their previous experience and their status as an orphan, will they dislike their own abilities, and their status has not reached the corresponding level?
These are issues that are relatively easy for me to consider. If you want to have some confidence and sufficient psychology in this regard, you still need to have some preparation and self-regulation to solve the problem.And now it seems that after some things have been tempered, it is easier for me to make myself predict in a good direction.

For example, although I am a single dad, I can guarantee that I will put all my love for my partner on Jiang Ning, and I am not one of those promiscuous characters. On the one hand, it is quite trustworthy.At the same time, although my family environment and personal identity cannot provide me with much help, I have also tempered my character, so that I can face many things with a mentality that is not afraid of setbacks, and I am more confident. Be more tenacious, and in terms of status and status, I have achieved some success. Although it is not comparable to what the other parent's parents expected, it can also ensure that I and my family can live in a comfortable life without worrying too much about money. The state of worry is a relatively good answer.