I copied my daughter in the parallel world

Chapter 1486 1361. Ask for help
Since his daughter didn't have any need for help, Gu Cheng could feel relieved, turned around and went into the study, and took out his dusty contact book from the drawer to see if there was any suitable help, or in this regard. If you can help your friends, you can also help your girlfriend solve the immediate problems.

I have to say that although Gu Cheng is different on weekdays, he is not very sociable, and he seldom communicates with friends in his life, nor is he an outgoing person, but the strength of his network accumulated over the years often makes people feel It was very surprising, even whenever I contacted my friends, I would always get a very warm attitude from them.

It may have a lot to do with your own personality and behavior. Although people prefer to communicate with those who are good at dancing, when they really encounter problems, they may be able to provide help. The most important thing to pay attention to when interacting with others The most important point is sincerity. Everyone has been in the society for so many years. Some small tricks and careful tricks can't cover up at all, but may make the other party slowly belittle them in their hearts.

Sometimes sincerity is the most important nirvana. If you treat others with a sincere attitude, you will often get more sincere feedback from the other party. This is also the main reason why Gu Cheng's personal connections can be maintained for a long time, although he usually doesn't like it. Communicate and socialize with others, but during the holidays, I will also give my gifts to my friends. When I receive a gift from this friend who doesn’t communicate much, the other party is naturally very happy, and even subconsciously think of it. Every moment with you.

Everyone may have their own means of socializing, and this way seems to be an important way for Gu Cheng to socialize. It seems that his circle of friends is relatively stable. If there is too much influence, the other party will be willing to contribute their kindness.

After carefully flipping through the contact book, some handwriting on the contact book is a little blurred, and some people are not so obvious in my memory, but I believe that as long as I make a call, the other party will definitely give a satisfactory answer, even if it helps If you don't want to be too much yourself, you can also mobilize your circle of friends and make suggestions for yourself.

Many of the names on these contact books are contacts accumulated when I was a reporter. As a social news reporter, I deal with these business people more times on weekdays, and there is definitely a need for communication between the two. Yes, sometimes when you feel that each other's personalities and tempers are more compatible, you will subconsciously keep the other party's phone number as a way to contact you next time.

For Gu Cheng, he may not have much capital when he was a reporter, but he also gained a lot of things, and he understood a lot, and learned a lot from these business people. A relatively high-quality character is also a relatively important harvest for myself.

The names behind gradually became more and more complicated. There were editors from the publishing house, people in charge of copyright transactions, and some personal connections in the film and television industry. Even singers and advertisers were involved, and more I am a writer from all over the world. I have participated in the activities of the literary society and the meetings of the writers association several times before. Can organize a huge force to deal with it.

Although the mobile phone can now save the address book, Gu Cheng still prefers these more traditional methods. The mobile phone may be lost or the number is changed to replace the mobile phone. The replacement and transfer of the address book has become a relatively difficult thing, but this way of handwriting the address book is more suitable, so no matter how many mobile phones you have changed, or how many years have passed, just open this contact book, You will be able to reconnect with those friends.

In addition, the friends I interact with rarely change their numbers. Once they change their numbers, they will notify themselves by phone or text message. My network of contacts is basically older than myself. Some men, once they are 40 or 10 years old, will like to be more traditional. It seems common for a number to be used for 8 or [-] years.In addition, business people will basically not change their numbers rashly, because there are quite a few suppliers who know their numbers, or the random change of phone numbers in their personal network seems to be a source of damage to their own resources. thing.

First, I selected some people who might have similar paths through my own screening, and then I thought about it carefully, and sent these people my needs and where to ask for help by text message, and then sat down and waited. The other party's reply, on the one hand, is because it is getting late now. At this time, many people are either socializing or have fallen asleep. Calling to disturb the other party is not a good idea.

On the other hand, seeking help from the other party in this way may not make the other party feel troubled. Even if you want to reject yourself, you can have a more complete reason and turnaround. It can also give the other party a time to think. See if you can really help yourself.

He has always been a person who likes to think about problems from the perspective of others and make plans for others. It is precisely because of this character that he can easily gain the recognition and favor of many people, which is also the main reason for the relatively extensive network resources. .

In addition, if I turn to others for help, no matter whether the other party helps or not, I will not have too many complaints for myself. On the one hand, the other party cannot help me, and may have some other ideas or concerns, or It is due to some considerations that there is no way to help myself. On the other hand, I am asking others for help, and I cannot use moral kidnapping to make the other party obey my own ideas.

After the message was sent out, after waiting for a while, I soon received a lot of replies from people, no matter whether the other party was at the dinner table or in a state of rest, when they saw the message, no matter how helpful they were, they would Giving a corresponding answer is the most basic courtesy, and it is also the main reason why Gu Cheng is willing to keep in touch with these people.

When you respect others, others are willing to return the same respect to you. This is the most important part of social interaction, and it is also a relatively important part of interpersonal communication.

(End of this chapter)