I copied my daughter in the parallel world

Chapter 1581 1456. Father's Thoughts

In the process of shouting and howling in Shangyan, his father kept a quiet posture. He originally wanted to use this momentum to prepare his son for an unforgettable memory, but unexpectedly he let himself hear Some voices that I have never had the opportunity to hear before.

Speaking of it, the way I have been disciplining my two sons seems to be a bit harsh all the time, but this is something common to me, because I also grew up in this way when I was young, and I have never I feel that there is something wrong with this education method, and more importantly, the reason why I have always maintained a rejection attitude towards those crooked ways is because these childhood educations have allowed me to maintain my bottom line and principles well.

Let’s not talk about it when my family is relatively poor. As the wealth of my family increases, the people I come into contact with at the same time become richer and richer.If he didn't have a strong attitude to restrain himself, maybe his two sons would have been by his side, and under the guidance of those who helped him up with malicious intentions, he would have walked into crooked ways that he didn't want to come into contact with.

It is precisely because he attaches great importance to his two sons and hopes to make each other's future life brighter and more glorious, so he maintains his long-standing principles with a tough attitude, and also believes in the reason why filial sons are born under the stick , the identity of father is always full of majesty and deterrence to boys. If there is a girl in the family, the situation may be reversed.

It may be because I was too strict when I was a child. After passing through the rebellious period and becoming adults, the two sons seem to be full of fear of themselves from the bottom of their hearts, and even subconsciously maintain a state of fear towards themselves. Fear There is some respect in it, so I enjoy it more, but if I maintain this attitude for a long time, the relationship between father and son will not be able to become closer, and there may be no way to truly communicate with some words buried in my heart.

All along, probably because I believe in the eldest son inheritance system, I put most of my thoughts on teaching my eldest son to take over his own business.And when my second son was just an adult, he couldn't help being negligent towards the other party, but he was worried that the other party might imitate the bad, so he could only treat the other party with a stricter attitude. This attitude has been maintained for a long time, and it seems that I have developed a corresponding habit, but I always make myself unable to reverse it well. I obviously care about each other's life sometimes, but what I say is more like a reprimand, which makes the relationship between father and son that might have been eased. become farther and farther away.

The main reason why I am so angry today is not because of what kind of industry Shangyan is engaged in. I really don’t approve of my son’s going to bars and consuming things, and even have 10 points of rejection for quite a long time. But I didn't expect that my own rejection and reprimand would not be able to stop my son's behavior. The other party is also an adult. He is an adult with his own thoughts. He is free to act on his own, and his majesty has no deterrent effect on the other party. so strong.

The main reason why he doesn't want his son to go to bars is not because he discriminates against this industry. The competition in China and the intrigue in the market are even more severe. When the laws and regulations are not so clear, I have also experienced many things, and I am not as old-fashioned as everyone imagined.

But I have to say that in the final analysis, the bar industry does have some filth. Even in this place and the place where desires pour, there will always be various crimes, and it is the cradle of many criminals. .Out of his care and love for his children, he really doesn't want his son to have too close contact with these people, and he doesn't want his son to have any possibility of contact with each other.

Although there is no problem in the bar industry itself, the people who come to the bar are mixed. I have spent so much effort to educate my two children to be very upright. I don't really hope it, because of negligence after growing up , let the other party embark on a path different from what he expected. In fact, he doesn't have too many demands on the two children. The other party can abide by the law and stand in the sun without any Feelings of fear.

It may also be because the father and son have less communication, so Shangyan actually has some misunderstandings about his father. The biggest reason for these misunderstandings is because he always feels that his father has no care and love for him, and he does not care about him. Everything I have done has never been truly recognized, and it is because I am always the one who is useless in the eyes of the other party, but sometimes, it is obvious that the other party wants to express words of concern and encouragement, because the way of speaking is different. It also led to a lot of deviations from the original meaning.

After Shang Yan's father really calmed down, he carefully thought about the information he had investigated, and he had to say that his second son was somewhat similar to himself, and he did have a lot of talent in business. The stagnant industry has been turned upside down, and the general atmosphere has been revitalized through its own means. It is also because of the existence of this self-run bar that stimulates the local market and drives everyone to start reforms. It is also a relatively excellent business method.

Moreover, according to the knowledge of the officials I am familiar with, there is almost no crime in my son's bar. The requirements for this aspect have always been relatively strict, and there is even a saying among these people who love bar consumption.If you want to really experience the feeling of a bar instead of having some other purpose, then Shangyan's bar is the best place to go.

The most important thing is that my son, from the establishment of the bar to now, has done almost everything by himself, and has not faked his hands or relied on the prestige of the family business. What is more important is that after so many experiences, Both his son's attitude towards people and the way he gets along with others have undergone earth-shaking changes, and I feel that the other party has indeed grown and matured a lot. The experience of this bar and this entrepreneurial stage has brought him Many aspects are relatively positive.

(End of this chapter)