I copied my daughter in the parallel world

Chapter 1586 1461. Suggestions and reflections

Of course, after learning about these types, Gu Cheng also asked the question that everyone is more concerned about.

"How can you guarantee that the personalities of the people you make friends with will be like? Everyone may grow up and understand differently, and the original personalities will also change slowly. You don't worry about these people you originally interacted with Ordinary friends will have some threats to you, or some bad ideas? Coupled with the fact that the other party has gained your trust, it is easy to do something that hurts you. How do you prevent this problem? where?"

After hearing the other party's inquiry, Jiang Ning's expression was still very calm, and this kind of birthday invitation was common in his life. The relationship between people has never been stable, and each person's personality It won't be as simple as it was at the beginning. The truth that people are inherently good at the beginning is 10% true, but with more contact or seeing more scenery, the thoughts and things that come to us Choice will create a completely different life and values.

"This matter is very simple. Those who can be accepted as friends are based on our own analysis and have been carefully screened. If you feel that the other person's personality has some conflicts with your own, you will be gradually alienated by us, or If you maintain an indifferent relationship, the relationship between the two parties will slowly disappear with the passage of time, and finally reach the point of being strangers. This method can naturally screen out those who may not have such a good relationship. .”

"Ask a friend who has been reviewed. Maybe some changes have taken place in the whole person's thinking in the days to come. The ability to judge this kind of thing is completely dependent on our own analysis. If you feel that this friend may have some principles and Conflicts in the three perspectives will gradually be traced in the same way as steel, so that you can well guarantee your personal health."

"When I meet with these friends, I basically choose a more prosperous street, or an area I am more familiar with, so that it is natural to avoid that even if the other party has any bad ideas, they can also take precautions. You have to trust us The stability of society and the authority of law enforcement agencies, not everyone has the courage to easily take this path that may lead to bad consequences."

"If my friends really meet, they may not be able to overcome the difficulties for the time being. If they ask me for help, I will treat them very seriously and with an appropriate attitude. It is a common practice for friends to help each other. If you want to borrow money, you must clearly write an IOU. This way will neither affect the relationship between us nor let Does the other party have any bad ideas, if friends who can't accept this kind of behavior, then the other party's departure will not have any impact on me."

After listening to Jiang Ning's words, Gu Cheng realized that it might be because of good family education that the other party has a very clear three views. If these things were changed to him, there might not be such a more intuitive solution, and he himself is a rather hesitant Personality, it is precisely because of this that my social circle is relatively narrow, it is not easy to trust a person I just met, and I will not easily give my friendship to others, I will only accept myself, the person I really recognize Come into your side.

"Let me tell you, your own personality is relatively narrow, and your temperament is relatively withdrawn. Although you seem to be smiling with everyone and look very approachable, you really want to be accepted and accepted by you. Recognition is a very difficult thing, so I still have to leave it to me to handle children's education in the future. If you let you train your children, you may develop a personality exactly like yours. This kind of character is not developed in society. It’s too smooth, you should pay attention to correct it as much as possible, parents are the best teachers for children.”

It may be because I just talked about this topic, and Jiang Ning also talked about the topic that I have suppressed in my heart for a long time. In my eyes, my boyfriend is naturally very good, and I can even say that I like everything about him, but there is one thing. To put it bluntly, the other party is not a perfect person, and there may not even be such a person in this world.

He has always wanted to have a good chat with his boyfriend about this issue, hoping to make the other party realize the problem in this area, or hope that the other party can recognize the shortcomings of his character and correct them, although This matter can be very embarrassing and very difficult.

If Gu Cheng really corrected his character, the other party's development in society may be much broader and smoother than it is now, but everyone also has their own perceptions and choices. Even if the other party has no idea of ​​​​changing, he himself I will still love each other deeply, but sometimes I can't help but hope that the other party will get better and better, and I also hope that the other party can become a more perfect existence.

And after Gu Cheng listened to his girlfriend's analysis of his personality, he fell into a period of contemplation. It's not that he doesn't know the flaws in his personality. He may have been very kind all the time, but he has always closed himself in a small world. Here, do not even touch the wider world.

If there is anyone in this world who can really understand yourself, then you may be the only one. After all, no one can understand your views and thoughts on many things better than yourself, but knowing your personality flaws is one aspect, can you? Correction is another aspect.

If it was commonplace to maintain one's own personality and character before having children, no one would even make much sense of it.If they get along well, they will keep in touch. If they don’t get along, they will go their separate ways. This is a very simple thing, but after having a child, Gu Cheng will subconsciously think about his personality and educate his children. What kind of connection is there, and will it have some bad influence on the other party?
He is very clear that his personality in society is actually a bad image and mentality, which will subconsciously prevent the other party's life and become colorful, and will also make the other party become extra stubborn in many things.There is even an inexplicable sense of pride and arrogance in the whole person. When dealing with all things and problems, there will be such a feeling of superciliousness.

But this is also a very normal situation. After all, I have come here through time travel. I have seen a wider world than I have now. I have more experience. I have more cognition and analysis of many things than everyone grasps and understands. Many, it is quite normal to have this mentality.However, the other party's proposal was indeed more appropriate, and Gu Cheng was not too entangled in this issue.If two people really reach the palace of marriage, it is a better thing for the other party to intervene in the education of their children. After all, he believes in Jiang Ning's three views very much. With such a reference object, the other party can also Cultivating one's daughter to be very independent will also make the other party take a more steady step towards perfection.

(End of this chapter)