I copied my daughter in the parallel world

Chapter 1625 1500. Practicing and Respecting Women

In this extremely harmonious atmosphere, everyone quickly solved the problem of eating dinner. After eating, seeing that the sky had not yet completely entered darkness, they directly shouldered the work of washing pots and dishes, and then proficiently I did a good job of cleaning the entire kitchen, and after finishing these, I followed my girlfriend and brought the children, and prepared to take a simple walk in the nearby streets, in this way to digest the already full stomach.

Speaking of washing pots and dishes, since Gu Cheng came to Jiang Ning's hometown, he has been doing it a lot, and even has an inexplicable attachment to this matter. Every time, he will fight with Jiang's mother as much as possible. Allow yourself to contribute something to this meal.Since you can't get involved in cooking, you must contribute your own ability to clean the pot and wash the dishes if you can solve it proficiently.

In fact, in Gu Cheng's whole cognition and concept of life, everything is a fair attitude, and he can't help this meal, so he can dedicate his efforts to the aftermath work, which can't be done. Assuming that all the work is handled by Jiang's mother by default, not only does it seem a bit too machismo, but it also conflicts with the harmony of husband and wife and the principle of mutual respect.

When I was at home, if there was no Sun Ya, as long as Gu Cheng was cooking, then Jiang Ning would definitely take care of the dishes. If Jiang Ning was cooking dinner, then the work of washing the dishes It is Gu Cheng who handles it automatically by default, so that each other can pay, cooperate and share with each other, so as to ensure that two people will not think that they have given too much in their lives without getting any feedback.

Of course, if Sun Ya existed, these tasks would naturally be handled by the other party. After all, I paid for it, and it was also part of the other party's job duties. There was no thought of disrespect at all, it was just a pure job duty.

After he came to Jiang Ning's hometown, he also brought this habit to the other's home. If he thinks about the problem from Gu Cheng's point of view, he has neither worked on cooking nor made some contributions to cleaning the pot. , he may feel that it is not so appropriate and appropriate for him to eat this meal, and if all these tasks are backlogged on Jiang, he will also feel a little unbearable and guilty. There are still some differences in the views and ways of looking at and dealing with problems with the more popular machismo nowadays.

It may be because he traveled from a later life, Gu Cheng's whole person's concept is somewhat incompatible with the whole world and the whole society. You must know that in his previous life, cooking, washing pots and dishes seemed to have gradually become a man. work responsibilities, and at the same time, in order to achieve equality between men and women as much as possible, boys should maintain a concessional attitude in many aspects as much as possible. He has also been influenced by this culture. In fact, he still respects and respects women. Admittedly, this kind of respect is not just talking about it, but actually paying your own labor and expounding your own point of view through actions.

In fact, at the beginning, Jiang's father and Jiang's mother didn't seem to be so cooperative and recognized. They always felt that Gu Cheng was just pretending, and they were unwilling to hand over the work of washing pots and dishes to Yuandao, so they came to visit After all, the guest is here, so how can there be any reason to ask the guest to help with the work?From the education I have received and the traditional virtues and etiquette, it doesn't seem so suitable.

But day after day, every day when eating, Gu Cheng will insist on his choice, and must enter the kitchen to carry out these aftermath work. Sometimes it may be because the other party eats faster, before everyone reacts. At that time, I have already started to clean the kitchen and pick up the tableware. At this time, it is not so appropriate to snatch it from the other party. It took nearly half a month to deliver it to the mother before I gradually got used to it. Although there are some differences between the character of the other party and the thinking and cognition of the whole person, I still respect the three views of the other party.

Looking at the problem from Jiang's father's point of view, the behavior of the other party fully shows that there are some differences between him and the whole society in thinking and behavior. The other party really regards this matter as respecting women's ideas. Going deep into life, and expressing my views through my own personal practice, this made me full of trust and reassurance about the girl's future life, and at the same time, my impression and perception of Gu Cheng increased infinitely.

After all, for a father, who wouldn't like a son-in-law who respects his daughter and understands his daughter?Although every time a daughter gets married, the father will tell a very good story, repeat it more than once, must serve his husband well, respect the three obediences and four virtues, and take good care of his mother and wife, but men can understand their daughter's mood, and at the same time Willing to make corresponding concessions, who would be unhappy and disapproved?

Looking at the problem from Jiang's mother's point of view, everything Gu Cheng did was washing away his own worldview. If he looked at the problem from his more traditional thinking, the kitchen has always been a forbidden place for men, and after being married for so many years, Whether it is around me or the level I know and come into contact with, most of these jobs are undertaken by women. The appearance of Gu Cheng is not only a little different from ordinary people, but also allows me to see another way of life.

The other party who was full of affection for Gu Cheng himself, after recognizing the other side of the other party, also increased his favorability infinitely, and even vaguely felt that his daughter seemed to be somewhat unworthy of the other party.It can be said that after getting along for so long, Jiang has to admit that Gu Cheng has performed better than his son in some aspects. I will take the initiative to offer to help, and I have raised the other party to the current level since I was a child, and I have never taken the initiative to say that I want to go into the kitchen to help me with these daily trivial tasks. Gu Cheng's level of satisfaction gradually increased.

Through this roundabout way and performance, Gu Cheng's recognition in the hearts of the two elders is now higher than imagined. There may be another reason why the relationship and identity of the two of them are determined so quickly.

(End of this chapter)