I copied my daughter in the parallel world

"Okay, okay, get ready to wash your hands and eat. Children, stop playing with your phones and come sit here quickly."

After a while, the kitchen, which was still buzzing with sounds, suddenly came to an end, and Aunt Li was busy wearing an apron with a kind smile on her face, or serving various dishes. and bowls and chopsticks, while not forgetting to greet everyone.

To be honest, after working hard all morning, everyone was already quite hungry. The only exception was that the wounded had just been replenished with some snacks, but they were still able to appear calm and relaxed. After hearing the shouting, almost everyone stood up in unison. Following the other party's guidance, he first went to the bathroom to wash his hands, and then sat down on their respective seats.

The only exception was that before Li Kui was about to go to the dining table, he picked up his old father who was still resting in the bedroom, carefully placed him on the wheelchair next to him, and then pushed him away while pushing him.

Here, after Gu Cheng saw the figures of Uncle Li and Li Kui, he quickly stood up and moved the stool next to him, leaving just a space for Uncle Li to sit.

Seeing that everyone has already sat down, Aunt Li here is still busy. First she went back to the kitchen to deliver the dishes and chopsticks, and then she went back to the kitchen. She didn't know what she was busy with. .

"Auntie, what are you still busy with? Didn't you say it's ready? Come and sit here and eat together."

Speaking of this matter, I don’t know whether it is because of some traditional bad habits or the unique habits of some areas, or because of the protection of the female community. In many places, women will choose not to serve when guests come to their homes. .

It is said to be a bad habit, but in fact this behavior is not so appropriate. In today's society, what is promoted is equality between men and women. Everyone has their own unique rights, and as a member of a woman, she has to contribute a lot to the family. Being able to deprive the other party of the right to eat at the table.

It is said that it is a unique habit in some areas, but in fact, in some places, women themselves do not like to sit at the table to eat with a group of men. It may be to protect women's privacy, or even the principle that men and women sit at separate tables has been circulated.

From another perspective, this approach seems to be protecting women, because most of the time when boys get together, they use drinks to add to the fun of the party.Women themselves are not accustomed to drinking, so sitting with a group of drunkards feels very noisy. Separating men and women allows them to avoid facing this kind of behavior.

Seeing that Aunt Li had not yet thought of sitting down together, everyone subconsciously thought that the other party was not willing to sit at the dining table and taste the food with everyone, whether it was Gu Cheng as a guest or Shang Yan next to him. Personally, I have always been dismissive of this traditional bad habit, and in their eyes, there is no such thing as men and women sitting on different tables.

"You guys eat first, you guys eat first, don't worry about me, I have some food left in the kitchen."

After hearing the shouts, Aunt Li also stretched her head out of the kitchen. Seeing everyone's shouts, she responded with some relief.Although he chose not to go to the table, if no one called out his behavior, it would definitely make him feel uncomfortable, and it was also a disrespectful behavior. "Auntie, why are you still eating in the kitchen? Sit directly at the table and eat the same thing. We are not outside guests. Besides, we have something to do in the afternoon and we don't plan to drink today. If you don't come to the table to eat, , we also went to the kitchen to eat."

In terms of expressing this kind of problem, Shang Yan is obviously much more skilled than Gu Cheng, which may have a lot to do with his own personality. The same words may appear different when spoken by different people. Different effects come.

"Oh, it doesn't matter. You eat, you eat. I won't join in the fun. There happens to be soup simmering on the stove. I happened to be in the kitchen checking the heat."

"No, Brother Agui, hurry up and pull yourself back. If you do this, we won't come to eat next time. How can this be reasonable?"

Under the strong request of Gu Cheng and Shang Yan, Aunt Li had no choice but to give up her original plan and sat down at the table again. When she saw everyone taking their seats, Li Kui, as the mainstay of the family, began to speak first.

"I don't have much to say. Anyway, I am hurting this time and thanking everyone for their care. Because I am quite busy at work, I may not be doing enough in these things and unconsciously neglecting my family. This problem will definitely happen in the future. Correction, but I am very lucky to have such a group of friends who can check and fill in the gaps for me. Thank you both for your help and visits from time to time. Since everyone is not drinking today, how about drinking tea instead of wine? I will do it first, and everyone will eat and drink. good."

If you are too affectionate, you don't need to express it in detail. In Li Kui's eyes, an indispensable part of his life is the group of friends around him, whether it is his own life, love, or... My own future and achievements are closely related to these friends. Without the existence of this group of friends, I might still be in a state of confusion and searching for the future.

Since starting in school, these friends have more or less helped themselves in various ways while avoiding hurting themselves. It is not that they are unaware of these poor and fragile self-esteem, but 10 points. A simple glance can tell.

Because he is older than everyone else, and everyone is too kind to him, he tries his best to make up for it through other things. For example, when someone needs help, he must be there. The duty-bound first station is also very concerned about everyone's lives, and uses its own knowledge and ability to provide everyone with various feedbacks.

After I entered the society, I originally thought that everyone would be in the same situation, but I also went crazy, hoping that I could make a name for myself through my own efforts, and then selectively provide some feedback to everyone, but I didn't expect I was originally called the eldest brother in school, but in society I was the most inconspicuous one. No matter what my other friends were, they were obviously much better than me.

Although there are some family reasons here, it is more closely related to one's own ability. School and society are like completely different aggregations. The learning ability and organizational ability that I am proud of appear useless in society.

For a while, I almost fell into a state of giving up on myself, but considering that I was able to work hard from my hometown and surpassed too many people, there was absolutely no need to star in this kind of thing. Rather than being sad and nostalgic here, It is better to use your own efforts to truly change your life circumstances and thereby improve your family status.