Chapter 771
But the emotions in this world are like this, either they are so suitable, or the two sides have all kinds of problems that are difficult to get along with. Shang Yan has no better solution than lamenting that his sister is not the best candidate for Gu Cheng. , After all, it involves emotional issues, and any suggestions and comments from outsiders seem a bit inappropriate.

"So now that you have made up your mind, when are you going to confess to the other party? It is not an appropriate way to always be so deadlocked. I believe that you have had a trip together, which should have laid a good foundation for your relationship. , if you take advantage of the victory and pursue it at this time, it is very likely that you will win it in one fell swoop, completely solving your future worries."

In other matters, Shang Yan feels that his experience and experience are not as good as those of other people in his circle of friends, but when it comes to emotional issues, he is indeed an expert-level figure who does his part.Because he has had too many similar emotional experiences, he can accurately figure out Jiang Ning's general state at this moment, and thus give some more practical suggestions.

"It seems that the progress is too fast to say this now. I am not suitable for this kind of eager relationship. If possible, I hope that the state of this normal communication is when both parties maintain a clear, calm and rational online state. Now, this can also avoid those worries to the greatest extent, no matter what kind of conflicts arise later, the first reaction is not that I chose the wrong partner, but these two people just have some simple problems that can be reconciled."

Gu Cheng feels that the main reason for more and more conflicts between husband and wife is that the progress and steps of dating and marriage are too fast, and often they do not have a thorough understanding of their marriage partners, and they cannot grasp all the other's things. Mental state and behavior, aiming at the beauty of the other party and some external pressures, the wedding was completed in a hurry, and in the end, it was possible to live, and all kinds of disputes were revealed at once, and often faced with family separation. situation.

But he doesn't quite agree with this way of getting along and the main premise of maintaining a married life, because now that he has a daughter, he hopes that his marriage with the other party will be to grow old together.When he did not make the corresponding psychological preparations and mutual understanding, and truly recognized this person in his heart, he still preferred to maintain a relationship that is far away. It's not that he prefers this kind of ambiguity, but he knows very well that parents Every divorce is an invisible harm to a child, and it will have a certain impact on the other's young heart.

Therefore, if he puts forward the premise of marriage, he must maintain trust and support for his marriage partner, and it can even be said to be a whole-hearted understanding, and all possible problems will be answered and understood at once before marriage. , without a thorough understanding, he would not easily propose marriage, because he felt that his daughter would not be able to bear it or accept it, and would face her mother's abandonment and departure again.

Shang Yan and Wang Jun did not think so thoroughly and deeply. As unmarried singles, it is difficult for them to understand a father's love and maintenance for his daughter, and taking care of children is not just talking about it. Pay attention to the impact and impact of any event in your life on your baby, and make a final decision after considering many aspects.

"Anyway, it doesn't seem to be of much use for us to talk about this kind of thing. You can think about it yourself, but I have to say that your vision is really good. The female neighbor opposite you has been eating with us for the first time. I thought it must be a very good dating partner, but unfortunately I have already been put on a magic spell, otherwise I must try my wrist to see if I can touch this glamorous rose."

Shang Yan sighed and said, while observing Gu Cheng's performance unconsciously with his own eyes. Of course, these words were all joking. Although he himself is passionate and romantic, he looks like a stallion to outsiders. Everyone even thinks that he stays with different girls every day, but he will also maintain the most basic bottom line in his heart for some things. Some people will be a little eager to move, but some people he is very clear about whether he can cooperate. Not fit to offend.

From the first time he saw Jiang Ning, Shang Yan felt that this girl was something he couldn't handle, not only because of his strengths, he had no advantage in front of the other party, after all, looking at the other party's temperament and dress, he knew that she must be born In a family that is either rich or expensive, the most advantageous way to pick up girls is to spend money.

Facing such a girl, using the old method seems to be too much and not too dominant, and according to my own observation, the probability of success may not be that great, and it can even be said to be negligible. Shangyan has a better advantage, that is He never does some things that he is not sure about, like those girls who are obviously difficult, he obviously will not take the initiative to offend them, which is also the main reason why he has won every battle in the emotional battlefield.

It's that he doesn't have a precise grasp of Gu Cheng's attitude towards Jiang Ning, so he uses this kind of words to stimulate Gu Cheng's emotions, so that he can judge from the other party's reaction what kind of attitude he should use in the future. Treat this glamorous neighbor with the same attitude.

"He is also an independent individual, and he is upright and kind, and there are no scandals or remarks that are more embarrassing. Don't make random guesses to damage his reputation."

Although Gu Cheng knew his friend's usual personality, and knew very well that the other party didn't have any obvious malice, but just liked to talk nonsense, but the remarks involved Jiang Ning still couldn't help but want to stop him.

"Then it seems that you are serious. Okay, okay, let's pay attention to our attitude in the future, maybe we can become our new sister-in-law sometime."

Just looking at Gu Cheng's obviously overreaction, Shang Yan and Wang Jun already understood Gu Cheng's true thoughts about Jiang Ning. It's really rare for a friend of mine to see such a flustered look on his apparently calm face.

"What, okay, okay, why hasn't the meal arrived yet after you push me again, I'm starving,"

Seeing that he was about to be overwhelmed under the pincer attack of the two friends, Gu Cheng also understood the reason for retreating immediately, and quickly turned around to avoid the teasing that might come next.

(End of this chapter)

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