Actor he doesn't want to be a eunuch

Tomorrow is the wedding, and the preparations will start tonight.

And many guests have already arrived.

There was no need for some "guests" to come. This kind of occasion is for younger generations to show up. But when they heard that the second child of the Qian family held a Ming-style wedding, they came to watch the fun.

This is not retro feudalism.

Instead, it promotes traditional culture and makes people understand history.

Even China Television sent a film crew to shoot, planning to edit it and do a special program on ancient weddings on the documentary channel.

It is stipulated in the ancient ordinances that a man greets his bride in person at eight or nine o'clock in the evening.At eight or nine o'clock in the evening, it was called "hun time" in ancient times, so it is called "hun ceremony".

But of course there is no need to copy it now.

The wedding process in the Ming Dynasty is divided into three books and six rituals.

Nacai, asking names, Naji, Nazheng, asking for a date, and welcoming in person are collectively referred to as the "six rituals".

Some of the etiquette has been completed before, and there were also videos and photos recorded at that time.

If you show it to CTV, they are all good materials.

Qian Chen and An Qian's second wedding was mainly about the process of "welcome in person".

"Personal welcome" should be said to be the most festive and lively day in the wedding.

The main ceremonial procedures include: grooming for the bride, ceremonial tribute to the ancestors, the groom bowing to the ancestral tablet of the woman’s family, the ceremony of laying geese, the bride’s parents training the daughter, the bride going to the man’s home with the groom, the ceremony of the bride and groom’s worship, the "same prison ceremony" and the "joint marriage ceremony". Gift" and so on.

There are many small processes in the large process.

Various details are interspersed, and some of the ancients like Qian Chen have only a half-knowledge, after all, he is not specifically responsible for this.

If the wedding he experienced was like a large machine.

Then what he knew and experienced in ancient times may be just a few small screws of this large machine.

But it doesn't matter.

As long as the core spirit exists, it is respect for traditional culture.

With China's thousands of years of history and culture, there is really no need for everything to be Western-style—although Western-style does save money and trouble.

Someone came early in the morning to open Anxi's face...

The so-called face-opening is actually a ceremony before marriage.

Please ask an old woman with many children to shave the bride's forehead and use thin silk thread to remove facial hair.

This is actually not easy to find.

The main reason is that it has not been allowed to have a second child before, and having more children means fines.

Lead your cattle, pick your house.

Forced to pull you to ligation.

Many children can only be found among grandma's generation.

You said multiple births?
In the eyes of the ancients, giving birth to a child was a very dangerous thing, and it was a great difficulty for ancient women.

Giving birth to twins is even more dangerous. It is not an exaggeration to say that there is a narrow chance of death.

Leave the mother and keep the son, auspicious a hammer.

It is generally believed that twins or even multiple births are an ominous sign, and they cannot explain why there are two people who look so alike. Even if twins are born smoothly, they will secretly give one of them to others.

Moreover, the ancients would use "immortals" and "ghosts" to deal with unexplainable things.

Moreover, in ancient times, talking about the eldest son involved clan power and family property.

Twins are also very difficult to deal with.

The feudal dynasty has a history of more than 2000 years, and there is no pair of twins in the imperial family-even if there were, they would "die" immediately.

Qian Chen and An Xi were not too troublesome.

I really found a grandma who has many children and is blessed.

The mother of a professor at Shuimu University next door is 88 years old. The old lady gave birth to six sons in her life and supported them all. Three became professors, one became an official, and two were engineers.

Not only are they all grown ups, but the daughter-in-laws they marry are also very filial.

The old lady is in good health, walks like a fly, speaks clearly and thinks quickly. Since she was doing gardening work when she was young, she is still "flirting with flowers and grass" on campus.

She and Grandma Wang downstairs of Qian Chen's house are good best friends.

So he was introduced to be in charge of "opening the face".

According to the rules, Qian Chen was not allowed to watch the scene, but fortunately, someone nearby played a video for him.

Opening the face didn't mean directly twisting Anxi's fur with two threads.

There is a very cumbersome blessing process.

It's probably to wish that Anxi can have six children like her, and then all of them will be promising.

six...

Anxi couldn't hold back her smile.

Are you sure this is a blessing? Can we give a blessing to someone who has two or three babies?

Six sounds like a curse.

After opening the face, there are three combing rituals-in traditional customs, combing hair is a very important process during marriage.

With one comb, the case is raised and the eyebrows are raised.Comb two, fly together.Comb three times and wear together forever.

Others include the ceremony of adding hairpins, washing the face and showering hair, putting the hair in a bun, and then worshiping the ancestors and parents and listening to their teachings.

It's often seen on TV.

It might not be that authentic, but that's the way it is.

The previous part has nothing to do with Qian Chen.

Until the time of the kiss.

Tang Duyou's "Tong Dian No. 18 The Empress of the Son of Heaven and Concubine" contains: "Xia's relatives are welcomed in the court, and Yin is in the hall. The Zhou system limits the marriage of men and women at the age of the year, and greets them in person at the household."

Qian Chen came on horseback, and the officiant went out to welcome the groom into the hall.

Another set of very gorgeous and smooth procedures.

Both sides have been rehearsed, basically no mistakes can be made.

The geese also brought over.

This thing is Guo Jia's second-class protected animal.

But artificial breeding can be done, otherwise it can only be replaced by big geese.

The big goose is actually not bad, and it can be stewed.

Wild geese raised artificially can also be stewed and eaten.

However, those used for weddings are generally released, hoping for good luck.

Marriage is done with geese, which symbolizes the harmony of Yin and Yang between a man and a woman, and also symbolizes the loyalty and devotion of marriage.

The officiant congratulates the ancestral hall, guides the groom to salute and kowtow.

Then the bride, accompanied by the officiant and the introduction ceremony, prepares to say goodbye to her parents.

This time, Qian Chen's father-in-law also rushed back to participate in his daughter's "second marriage". He was also the father-in-law, and was responsible for educating the bride.

It is sad to say.

On this day, he spoke more from his heart than he had in so many years before.

But in one word.

As long as the daughter is happy, it is better than anything else.

I'm afraid of the pain of parting, how many things I want to talk about.

The bride bids farewell to her parents, listens to her parents' instructions, and with the help of the wedding ceremony, she puts on a beautiful red hijab and leaves the court.

This moment is destined to be sad again.

Autumn tour, butterfly flowers blowing all over your head.Who in the Moshang family is young enough to be romantic?

The concubine plans to marry and retire for the rest of her life.Even if you are ruthlessly abandoned, you can't be ashamed.

Someone stuffed a fan in Anxi's hand, which is also one of the etiquettes.

It's called Que Fan Li.

From the moment the bride comes out of the pavilion, she holds the fan in her hand, and when she sees people, she spreads the fan with both hands to cover her face.

Thinking of that person standing with hands down, shy and unwilling to get on the swing.

Changed horses and took a carriage to the courtyard. The time was well controlled, and I arrived at the courtyard smoothly at the required time.

With the support of the waiter and Qian Chen, An Qian walked to the ceremony stage. Her phoenix crown and robes were shining brightly.

Gorgeous and solemn costumes may seem cumbersome, but in fact, the step-by-step ceremony restores the sacredness of the wedding.

The guests at the scene watched with gusto.

Today's wedding is not in the hotel, but the courtyard has been tidied up, and a large number of places for entertaining guests have been moved out.

The environment here is very good, and I borrowed a parking space nearby.

Just right for the size of the guests this time.

This time, the guests basically belonged to the man's side, including Qian Chen's father's side, mother's side, Qian Shoudong's biological mother's side, and some relatives of Fan Fan's family.

Marriage, this word seems to be random, but in fact it has an extraordinary meaning.

Some of the relatives on both sides of the parents are close and some are far away.

Qian Chen has never heard of some.

It probably belongs to another branch.

Also because this Ming-style wedding made the old people feel very interesting, many old people came to the scene.

In order to make parents face-how should I say this, although face is a low-level spiritual need, but throughout the ages, the richer the family, the more face-saving.

Pawns of the poor have no right to save face.

So Qian Chen temporarily held a solo exhibition in the study room.

Some of the paintings and calligraphy that can be exhibited are exhibited.

Of course, the works of the bride are also indispensable, and the level may not be so high, but at least it shows that she is not an idiot vase.

This trick really works.

When everyone visited the courtyard house—the visitors were not allowed to lock it directly—they were full of praise for the paintings and calligraphy displayed in the study room.

The older generation pursues excellence and emphasizes quality.

Whether it is a scientist or Zheng Zhi's family, they all like to practice calligraphy. The better the family background, the better they start practicing from childhood.

So most people have strong appreciation ability.

The name Qianjiaxiaoer is really not so good. Looking at the entire painting and calligraphy world, it is estimated that it is a high-ranking existence.

No wonder they gave up science and went to literature and art.

Abandoning science to engage in literature and art is not shameful in itself, but the shameful thing is that you haven't come up with anything.

Once Qian Chen made a name for himself in this way, he became someone else's child again.

The perception of Qian Chen has improved, and the perception of An Qian has also greatly improved. After all, such a tasteful Qian Xiaoer can be married so grandly.

The bride is definitely a good girl.