let go of that director

Chapter 328 Security

Taking out his mobile phone, Li Chengyou was slightly startled, but he didn't expect that it was Kim Jiyun and Kim Jisu's mother, Jin Mu, who called.

He froze for a moment, then quickly connected the phone with a smile on his face.

As soon as the phone was connected, a gentle female voice came from the opposite side: "Chengyou, I'm my aunt, calling you at this hour won't affect your work, right?"

Li Chengyou hurriedly smiled and said, "Auntie is very polite. Whenever you call me, it won't affect my work." Replying with a smile, Li Chengyou changed the subject and asked, "Auntie calling me, is she worried about Zhixiu? Don't worry, Zhixiu is resting in the hotel now, I have arranged everything, today I arranged for her to rest here for a night, and I will arrange someone to take her back early tomorrow morning, you don't have to worry."

Mother Jin smiled and said: "She is nineteen or twenty. I have nothing to worry about at such an age. It's not going abroad, it's just going to Busan, not to mention Jennie is with her. When she arrives in Busan Just call me, I'm not worried about her at all. It's just that this girl is too self-willed, and she ran to your place without making a sound, regardless of whether you are busy with work or not, but it caused you a lot of trouble. "

Li Chengyou hurriedly said: "Auntie is too polite, you are a little out of touch when you say that. Zhixiu was brought up by me, just like my own sister, we are a family, and my sister traveled so far to see Brother, just to help me celebrate my birthday, I am too happy, how can you say it is troublesome. Auntie, don't blame the younger generation for not being tactful, I am a little unhappy when you say that. With the relationship between our two families, you This is not treating me as an outsider."

"Hehehe, okay, okay, it's my aunt who said something wrong."

Mother of Jin smiled dumbly, and said apologetically, "It's my aunt who said something wrong, and my aunt is wrong." She smiled, and then continued, "Today is your birthday, you are in Busan, and Zhixiu didn't go to your place in advance. Say hello to me, so that my aunt can't make any preparations, so my aunt can only wish you a happy birthday on the phone, I hope Chengyou doesn't mind."

Li Chengyou quickly said: "Auntie, you are too polite. Since I was a child, I have always regarded you as my other dual mother. If you see each other like this again, I will be really angry."

"Hehehe, okay, I blame my aunt, it's my aunt who said something wrong again."

After chatting and laughing for a few words, I greeted Kim's father again, and chatted about some recent daily life. After the atmosphere became more harmonious, about ten minutes later, Kim's mother returned to the topic of Kim Ji-soo.

"Chengyou, Zhixiu has also graduated from high school. Let her go to college. She is unwilling to live or die. No matter how much you persuade her, she won't listen. She insists on staying in YG to make her debut. Your uncle and I are both dying of headaches because of her. Why do you think this girl is so worried?"

Li Chengyou paused slightly after hearing this, and couldn't help but burst out laughing.

Lee Seung Woo can guess a part of Kim Ji Soo's mind, and Kim's father and mother can probably guess it, too.

After graduating from high school, Kim Ji-soo didn't want to continue to go to university, and he didn't want to sign into his company as a full-time actor, so he just wanted to stay in YG to fight for a chance to debut in a girl group.A girl group singer, a professional actor, and he is the escort for Kim Ji-soo, not to mention that it will definitely make Kim Ji-soo popular—after all, the popularity of the audience is an objective factor, not subject to change—but let Kim Ji-soo become an actor There is no problem in going on this path in the long run.

If it were any other reasonable person, one would be a broad road, and the other would be a bumpy path—after all, even if a girl group debuts in YG, it may not necessarily be popular.Even if they become popular, the status of a singer and an actor is vastly different.In the social environment of South Korea, even if it is as popular as Girls' Generation, or as popular as Lim Yoona, it is still despised in the actor circle.

Jin Zhixiu has the opportunity to be a professional actor directly, and with his help, Jin Zhixiu will never lack the conditions to participate in film and television dramas. It can be said that Jin Zhixiu has all the external conditions. As long as she wants, she can avoid many detours , to cross the threshold that other people in the show business circle have not been able to cross for more than ten, decades, or even a lifetime.

But Kim Ji Soo chose not to, insisting on debuting as a girl group willfully.

For what?
From the level of Wei Guangzheng's principles, it can be interpreted as not wanting to rely on relatives and friends, relying on the back door, not wanting to be gossiped, but just wanting to prove himself and live out a self.

This is also the reason why Jin Zhixiu dealt with the golden father and the golden mother.

And essentially?
Looking at the essence through the phenomenon, the most fundamental reason is nothing more than not wanting to rely on his help, and imagining that after relying on my own efforts to win success, I can have the qualification to stand upright in front of him.It seems that with this qualification, Jin Zhixiu has the confidence to pursue what she expects.

This is actually the Ah Q-like self-fantasy that most rebellious children face their parents to comfort themselves.

But what about the facts?

To put it bluntly, it seems quite hypocritical and ridiculous.

The reason why Jin Zhixiu has the confidence and courage to pursue her so-called self, to pursue success without relying on the help of relatives, friends and family members, seems to be a kind of bravery and sublimation of self, but the support of this kind of bravery and sublimation is family, relatives and friends. Guarded behind.

Even the preferential treatment that Kim Ji-soo currently receives in YG and the support he may have in the future all come from the relationship between his family and relatives and friends.

Human society is a relationship society, and the communication between people is a big network of relationships.Unless a person lives alone, never has any transactions with the outside world, and never communicates with the outside world, as long as he lives, he must be a member of this network of relationships.

In other words, people have been in this relationship network since they were born, otherwise it would be a problem for people to survive. ——Without the feeding of parents or others, how can a person survive after birth?
Being in this relationship network, but pursuing the so-called independent success without relying on anyone, and seeing all success as one's own achievements, this kind of hypocritical cognition is simply a joke.

Without the backing of him and the golden father and the golden mother, without them backing up for Jin Zhixiu so that even if she fails, she will not fall into the abyss. Come to the courage and confidence to pursue self.

It is precisely because even if they do not admit it, they know that even if they fail, there will be someone to back them up and have a way out. That is why they have the so-called courage and persistence that is so false and ridiculous that they have touched themselves.

The so-called courage and persistence have never been without support.

It's just that some people understand this truth, and some people don't.Those who understand know how to be grateful and know how to seek support, but those who don't understand feel at ease. It is a matter of course that a person who is ridiculous, hypocritical and self-righteous has taken on everything.

As for the reason why Mother of Jin came back to this topic at this moment, Li Chengyou understood what Mother of Jin meant as soon as Li Chengyou's words fell into his ears.

I can only say that I feel sorry for the parents of the world. Even though the relationship between the two families is very close, even the mother of Kim knows that Lee Seung-woo will not ignore Kim Ji-soo, but the mother of gold still hopes that Lee Seung-woo can make a promise, and even have a practical action to ensure that Kim Ji-soo will not be ignored. Not being able to make a debut in the future, or it is difficult to become popular after debut, or there is still a way out after the popular contract expires, these various concerns always want to gain a sense of security, or in other words, have a support .

But the sense of security is what a woman is always looking for instinctively.

Knowing this, Li Chengyou couldn't help but laugh.

With the relationship between the two families and his closeness with Jin Zhixiu, it is impossible for him to ignore Jin Zhixiu. Those concerns of Jin's mother are meaningless at all, but Jin's mother still can't help worrying, hoping that a promise from him may have something. action.

It seems that no matter how old a woman is, she always instinctively pursues the so-called security.

But while laughing, inexplicably, Li Chengyou suddenly had another question - why do women crave for a sense of security so much?
What is the underlying logic behind it?
　PS: Thank you for the 500-point reward from "The Witcher Malaka" and the 2000-point reward from "Reading Books".Thank you for your support.Finally, let’s talk about the second half of this chapter.Maybe some book friends feel that I am being reasonable and writing nonsense.But this nonsense has to be written.Because the character of the protagonist will change next, and even the choice of words and deeds of the characters in the book will change, and the underlying logical support for the change starts from the principles in the second half of the chapter.Or rather, from the last paragraph of this chapter.These can be regarded as some of my recent insights, and I will write about them in detail later, so I won’t say much for the time being.At the same time, it can be considered as a discussion with everyone - why do women often emphasize the sense of security?What is the underlying logic of seeking this so-called sense of security?What is its essence seeking?
　　
　
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