let go of that director

Chapter 9

Speechlessly looking at Li Chengyou for a while, Jin Zhiyun frowned, and said depressedly: "You also said that I want to eat farts, are you not the same virtue? It follows the meaning of your words, if you want you to accept me, I can only Open-minded and magnanimous, let you attract bees and butterflies outside? OK! Even if I am out of my mind, I promise you. But you let me wait for you, no matter how good you promise, who knows that you have been waiting for you all these years? Will I be seduced by some vixen and throw me aside in a blink of an eye, and then I will be nothing but a bamboo basket."

"Ah!"

Li Chengyou sneered, and said contemptuously: "How about you women have big breasts and no brains, and you don't have big breasts, but you are not the same as those brainless ones. You don't have to think about it, how stupid I have to be to let you go I don’t want such a magnanimous wife, but I want to find trouble for myself? Am I so stupid?!”

Jin Zhiyun curled her lips and said: "Love makes people brainless, what if you meet true love, you are not with me because you like me."

"Bullshit love, that's all you women have in your mind."

Li Chengyou complained, turned around, and faced Jin Zhiyun: "Okay, I will talk to you today, so that you can rest assured, and want to know whether you want to be my spare tire."

Jin Zhiyun pouted and said, "Okay, I'll just listen to you, and I'll see what fallacies you can come up with!"

Li Chengyou heheed, considered it carefully, and said, "Okay, then let's talk about love. In fact, I don't believe in love at all."

Li Chengyou definitely said this sentence with emotion.

He lived for decades in his last life, and it's not like he hasn't had a vigorous love affair. In the end, after breaking up heartbrokenly, he realized that what kind of bullshit love is that.There is no one in this world who cannot live without someone, and within two or three months, at most half a year, it will slowly fade away in the blink of an eye.Even from the experience of those friends and classmates in the previous life after they fell in love and got married, I discovered that the sweeter they were before marriage, the more unhappy they would be after marriage, and they would all be over in a few years.

"Let's first talk about what love is. Love looks beautiful, it is tender and sweet, and it is sweet, but how many of those who are obsessed with love can really last? The so-called love, to put it bluntly Yes, its essence is selfish. Whether it is a man or a woman, tall or short, fat or thin, ugly or handsome, poor or rich, the starting point of the three words "I love you" shows The essence of love is "I" who loves you. So the so-called love, everything is for "I" and for the needs of "I", all start from the selfish concept of "I".

"Since it starts from the selfish concept of 'I', when a person loves another person, he longs for something in return while giving. This is human nature, and because he is full of illusions about love, he expects to only enjoy Love is full of wind, flowers, snow and moon, but hates reality. Therefore, all those sweet loves are basically not short-lived. Once they return to life, the so-called illusory sweetness will be like bubbles in the sun, disillusioned one by one , and finally back to reality.”

"But women are different from men. Men are more rational, while women are more emotional, so once they return to reality, men will soon wake up and take on their responsibilities, while women are still floating in the air and cannot fall. On the ground. Therefore, as long as a woman gets married, except for a very small number, there is almost no one who can be satisfied with the marriage. Either it is because of the lack of daily necessities, or because her husband neglected her. Anyway, there are always dissatisfaction and dissatisfaction..."

"Bullshit!"

Hearing this, Jin Zhiyun couldn't help it, and interrupted: "In the stories from ancient times to the present, women are the ones who give the most and stick to love, okay? Like Romeo and Juliet, Juliet can die for Romeo, and Liangshan Bo and Zhu Yingtai, Zhu Yingtai also died in love for Liang Shanbo after his death. On the contrary, you men are more ruthless, ungrateful, and promiscuous, just like Chen Shimei."

"cut!"

Li Chengyou contemptuously said, "Didn't you tell me all about it yourself, which of these two couples will end well, and it didn't even reach the stage of marriage, okay?"—Since it's about love stories, think about it yourself, I have read all the love stories in ancient and modern China and abroad, which one is truly complete? Not all of them are finished in the end. There are also those stupid TV dramas now, such as a poor girl meeting a domineering president, a rich daughter falling in love with a poor boy, In the end, both went through hardships, and the lovers finally got married.

Why do you women like to watch these TV series? Isn’t it because it’s impossible in reality.Don't talk about other things, let's just talk about the one that is closest to us, Miss Li of Samsung and her security husband, what's the ending?It's not always reported on the Internet that they have conflicts between them for three days, and life is almost unbearable.I dare to conclude now that these two will also say goodbye in the end. "

Can you not be sure, I have seen it in my previous life, and the divorce lawsuit was filed, tsk tsk tsk... the sorrow of the poor.

I don't know if it's true or not, but classmate Xiao Ren is about to be sprayed as the scumbag among scumbags.

Shaking his head, Li Chengyou said again: "You women are born to love fantasy and are keen on some unrealistic things. Men are like the earth, women are like clouds, and they like to float in the sky to pursue romance.

But in fact it is.

Which cloud do you see in the sky that keeps floating?In the end, it didn't all become rain and fell on the ground.The wise woman knew how to nourish the earth after she fell to the ground, and she returned to reality from then on.And those women who are obsessed with love and romance will only hate the muddy ground, despise this and that, longing for another passionate man to turn her into water vapor and float back to the sky again.

so.

Love is always a temporary thing. Once it returns to reality, the more passionate you are when you are in love, when the fire weakens, the faster it will be extinguished, and the more disillusioned it will be. "

Looking at Jin Zhiyun, Li Chengyou said again: "So, didn't you find out? When you didn't pursue any free love in the past, once a man married a woman, it was a lifetime. Because there was no tenderness at the beginning, and there was not much romance. Therefore, expectations are not high. After marriage, the shortcomings and advantages of both parties are gradually revealed. There is a bad side but also a good side. A woman sees a man's bad side, but at the same time sees a man's good side.

Now, well, free love.Before marriage, in order to attract each other, all the good sides are shown, and the bad side is either hidden or ignored.Once you get married, well, you don't need to hide anymore, all the advantages are gone, and all you see is the disadvantages, do you think you can live on this day?

So you see, now more and more people get divorced after marriage. Once life is not going well, the heart of mutual compromise and tolerance is gone, and you can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau the next day after divorce.

Of course, this is also related to social development, technological progress, women are becoming more and more independent, and they do not need to continue to rely on men financially.

But after all, there is still one thing that cannot be avoided. Anyone who is obsessed with love and cannot return to life will not be able to last for a long time.

To put it bluntly, love only looks beautiful, but its essence determines that it is difficult to last long.

Or you can see why there are fewer and fewer people who are willing to get married, all of them just want to fall in love, date this one today, and make friends with that one tomorrow.In a time of peace and prosperity, now they advocate women's independence and equality between men and women. They don't pay attention to the fact that men dominate outside and women dominate inside. If they don't do meaningless things all day long, what else can they do?
Anyway, I have seen it through, bullshit love is just a momentary passion, just for fun, serious is just looking for guilt.

In short, I will definitely not get married because of love in the future, but to find a down-to-earth woman who knows how to return to life and is willing to be a water.

Of course.

I don't have the idea of ​​getting married now, so I just go with the flow and play around.If it weren't for this peaceful and prosperous world, and I don't need to do it right away, let alone leave a name in history, and don't do some meaningless things to pass the time, then this life would seem too dull.

and so.

Still the same sentence, I don't believe in love at all, and it won't last long.

But I am vulgar. Like most ordinary men, I will definitely get married and have children in the future. It is not second-hand to find a wife and want to live a stable life. Therefore, if you can accept me as a vulgar person, you don’t need it at all. There are those concerns.

If I promise to marry you, I will definitely marry you, and once married, it will be a lifetime, 100% will not divorce.

After all, it is not easy to find acquaintances who are looking for a girlfriend for casual fun, but for marriage, it is better to find acquaintances than to find a life. We are familiar with each other, and you also know my virtues. After marriage, there will be less trivial nonsense!

how about it?
After listening to my truth, why don't you seriously consider it?

Wind, flowers, snow and moon will not be the normal state of our lives in the future, but I can absolutely guarantee that you will not worry about daily necessities.As long as you are not too prodigal, you can spend the family money as you like.

This condition is absolutely possible, right? "

Kim Jiyun: "..."

Twitching the corners of his mouth, his face was covered!
　PS: This chapter is Xiao Li's view of love, a lot of nonsense, but I have to explain this point, because Xiao Li's future relationship line will basically follow this. ——There is no tenderness, it's all just for fun.Just like the title of this chapter, bullshit love!Therefore, I hope that most of the people who read my book will be LSPs ╮(╯▽╰)╭, because sorry, in my case, there is really no heartbreak, true love is invincible.We are just ordinary people, go to him and abuse us.Just one word, hate!
　　
　
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