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Chapter 164 Eight Stages of Life

Lu Ling didn't leave in a hurry, he still watched the little boy's state and expression when he left for a while.

The boy looked unhappy, but Lu Ling knew that it was not anger, but a kind of grievance.

Seeing this, he looked at the surveillance video of the father and son in the toy city.

The Toy City has a lot of surveillance. There are many children here, and the shopping mall is also afraid of taking responsibility, so the cameras are denser.It's just that because there are too many people and noisy, it's basically hard to hear what they are saying.

"Lu Ling", Wang Yue looked at the phone: "Let's go, the monitoring here is meaningless, go out and look for it."

"Brother Wang, go out and look for them first, I'll check the surveillance here." Lu Ling said, "It's troublesome."

"That's OK", Wang Yue turned and left.

Lu Ling is not from their unit, and Wang Yue doesn't bother to care about it. In his opinion, Lu Ling is doing something meaningless, but now there is nothing important to find someone, so he will not argue with Lu Ling.Lu Ling could also see that Wang Yue thought so, but he didn't care. It was important to find someone, but he had his own way.

Now go out to find someone, there is not much difference between five people and six people, but the most important thing is to know more about children.

Many people only know adolescence for the growth of children, but this is not the case.

The biggest problem for most parents is that they completely forget their childhood and only know how to look at problems from the perspective of adults.

Psychologist Ericson proposed eight stages of life development.

6 years old, has begun to enter the fourth stage.

0-18 months, mainly to build trust, let children have more trust, and it is easier to generate hope in the process of life development.

From 18 months to 3 years old, the main purpose is to let the child have a sense of "I", don't force everything, and give the child the ability to be independent.

At the age of 3-6, the child begins to produce "goals", that is, the child will take the initiative to do one thing and make a plan, such as stacking blocks, disassembling and trying to assemble toys.At this stage, parents should affirm their children's creativity so that their personality can develop a quality of self-confidence.

From 6 to 12 years old, children start to study in school. If children can successfully complete the learning tasks assigned by teachers and parents, they will easily improve their self-confidence, otherwise they will feel inferior.

Many parents do not have a good grasp of their children's abilities, and cram a large number of supplementary lessons before the age of six, which curbs the generation of children's "autonomous" ability, and children may fall into the first growth crisis at the age of six.

The so-called rebellious period of most children does not mean that they start to rebel at this age, but because of the secretion of adolescent hormones and physical growth, they initially have the ability to rebel.

It is not until the age of 25-50 that human beings enter real adulthood, which is already the seventh stage of life.

Lu Ling watched the child's words, because the little boy spoke slowly, and Lu Ling could read some lips, so he basically knew what the two were talking about.

Obviously, the child's father didn't take this matter as a big deal, and felt that the child was making trouble for no reason.What the child said was that he got good grades in the cram school on weekends, and his father promised to buy him toys.

The father of the child expressed his displeasure, saying that the child was ignorant, and even scolded the child, saying that the kindergarten was temporarily closed due to the virus. He asked for leave on Monday and came out to accompany the child to go shopping, which was interesting enough.He also said that the family is already very difficult now, why does this silly child still need toys?

Not only that, there were a few words in the local dialect, which Lu Ling could tell were not good words.

What "calf" or something like that.

The child was aggrieved and wanted to cry, but the father ignored it and took the child's hand to leave.

The boy looked at the direction of the toy city at the first moment when he was pulled away, and then he didn't look there any more, letting his father pull him away, already disheartened.

In this case, the child's self-awareness is relatively sufficient, and what he often thinks is, run far away!
For a 6-year-old child, although he has a purpose, it is only an instinctive goal and cannot form an effective plan.

Considering that the child has not yet gone to school, it should not be at the level of running to a classmate's house, so there are only two options for the child's running.

One is to run to the house of my aunt or aunt who loves me, and the other is to run in the opposite direction of home, because I hate it instinctively.

At this point in the analysis, Lu Ling immediately called the caller and asked about the situation of the relatives at home and whether the child knew which direction the home was.

The parent said that there are no relatives nearby. He often brings his children here to play. His home is very close to here, only two kilometers away. Today he brought his children here by bicycle.

While Lu Ling was on the phone, he had already gone downstairs, judged the direction, directly scanned a shared motorcycle, and rode in the direction away from the caller's house after coming out of this door.

It must be inconvenient to drive because it has to go against the direction of the road. Could it be the commute time? Lu Ling rides very steadily.

After riding for a few hundred meters, he called out to the people around him, asking if anyone had seen a child in blue just passing by.

There was an old man selling roasted sweet potatoes, surrounded by several people, and one of them said that he saw a child walking around, crying as he ran.

As soon as Lu Ling heard this, he immediately rode there in the direction. After riding for more than 200 meters, he saw the child on the side of the road, sitting in front of a shop, with a grievance on his face.

Seeing that the child was fine, Lu Ling breathed a sigh of relief, quickly put the car up and locked it, and walked over.

Passers-by watched the police looking for the children, and they all stopped to watch.

Seeing that the child still had a look of grievance, Lu Ling squatted in front of the child and said with a smile, "You are so powerful, you have run so far."

The child didn't speak, just looked at Lu Ling with wide eyes.

"Come on, call the police uncle." Lu Ling encouraged, "Did the teacher tell you what to do when you meet the police uncle?"

The little boy was a little embarrassed, he sniffed: "Uncle Policeman", and saluted Lu Ling after saying that.

Lu Ling looked at the child's immature actions, and replied seriously: "It's great!"

After finishing speaking, Lu Ling stood up slightly, and gently rubbed the little boy's shoulders: "It's just a little conflict with your father, it's okay, wait, I will see your father later, and I will criticize him severely!"

"Uncle Policeman, don't arrest Dad", the child looked pitiful.

"Don't worry." Lu Ling had already stood up, bent down again, gave the little boy a smile, and then got up to make a phone call and report the situation.

At this time, everyone was still looking anxiously, and no one thought that Lu Ling had found him.The leader of the team confirmed it again and again, and then told Lu Ling to protect the little boy, and everyone will come over immediately.

The person has been found, so there is no need to be in such a hurry. The leader of the team directly asked everyone to meet up and drive there together, and called the boy's father along the way.

(End of this chapter)