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Chapter 332 The Steps of Falling in Love

"Let me ask you a question. Is the reason you want to find a girlfriend physical or psychological?" Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and asked.

Hao Ren asked in confusion, "Is this important?"

"It's important, it's very important. You have to understand this before you can effectively chase girls. First of all, physically, I can tell you clearly that you may fall in love very quickly.

And psychologically, you may not be able to talk about a relationship in your life, this is the difference. " Zhao Mingyang said.

"What does this mean? Why is there such a big difference? It's so different, isn't it said that children make choices? I'm an adult, so can't I have both?" Hao Ren said.

"No, 90.00% of people can't, let me tell you this, for physiological needs, you can lower the standard for the other half, then your chances of success will definitely be higher.

Psychological needs are too difficult. First of all, you will not compromise on the standards of the other half. Most people, regardless of gender, must have good looks, good figure, and preferably talent. Knowing you is basically a person who is infinitely close to perfection.

For such a partner, first of all, you look in the mirror and look at yourself, are you worthy?What core competitiveness do you have over other men?

Are you good looking?Are you in good shape?Are you talented?Nine-figure or eight-figure wealth balance?Is there even seven digits?
Without these, it will be difficult for you to fulfill your psychological requirements. The only thing that is possible is when you are a student. You may find a girl who is better than yourself. After graduation, it will be as difficult as skyrocketing.

Therefore, it is very difficult to be satisfied with your psychological love, but it is not impossible. Even if I teach you, it will take a long time for you to achieve it, but what I mean by reaching is close to your psychological love. needs, not conditions.

For example, the object of many men's dreams is a fairy sister, so what should I do?Non-fairy sister not in love?Isn't that destined to be a bachelor?

After talking about the psychological, let's talk about the physical, which is also the routine operation of many Neptunes, but this is the only way for many people to fall in love. It depends on how you look at and understand it.

To put it simply, physical needs are beyond your imagination, and you don't need to think about so much, such as the other person's family background, the other person's past, the other person's appearance and figure, etc.

You will lower your standards infinitely to pursue such a person, but what is your purpose?Get her as a person and satisfy your physical needs.

There is a very big potential risk in this premise, which is also the reason why many people overturn their cars directly. They don’t pay attention to safety protection. After being happy for a while, they have offspring and there is no way out. Therefore, the premise of physiological needs is to go out in the mobile phone case Hide a Smurf, pack a few spares in your clothes, and as long as you don't win the bid, you have a lot of options.

Many people who have never been in a relationship are basically at this stage, that is, they don't do safety protection for the first time, and then they get married with a child. "

Hao Ren listened, took his mobile phone to open the notes and began to record, Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and said, "Don't do it, it's useless if you do it, turn off the phone, this is a private topic, if someone listens to it, you can Trouble, you know this and I know it, don't let the third person know, understand?"

Hao Ren nodded, looked left and right, and always felt that many people were peeping around them with their ears and eyes wide open.

"Then I'll choose the physical one, and leave the psychological one to my unicorn arm." Hao Ren said.

"Physiologically, are you sure?" Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and asked.

"Sure." Hao Ren said.

Zhao Mingyang thought for a while and looked at Hao Ren and said, "Physiologically, as long as you master a skill, you have a thick skin and are not shy, basically there is no problem.

For example, if you go to a shopping mall on the street to buy clothes, will the female shopping guide try to sell you with all her might?what should you do then "

"What should I do?" Hao Ren said.

"Add the other party's WeChat, the other party will usually let you add the company, if they don't give you a personal one, she can't sell to you anymore, and many of them will add you on WeChat.

For the sake of performance, you can chat after you add WeChat, invite each other to dinner for various appointments, you add ten female shopping guides on WeChat, and make five appointments for dinner, then from these five appointments and chats, you will Knowing how to get along with girls, choose from these five people for the next step of chatting, shopping, and try to hold hands. As long as you hold hands, it means that the other party does not reject you, and you are taking the next tentative step.

Generally, if a girl agrees to go out with you alone, it means she has a good impression of you. If you ask a girl out for the first time, but you can’t go out for the second time, it’s basically because you’re not satisfied with your first date. Are you trying? Try it, if you make an appointment for the third time, it will give you another chance. You must seize this opportunity and make sure the other party is satisfied.

If you go to appointments for consecutive dates and suddenly don't come out, it is basically certain that the other party may have a new goal.

To keep dating you and not let you go any further is using you as a backup and a cash machine.

You have to learn to analyze girls' minds and motives in order to achieve fast and effective love.

I don't mean to let you stare at the female shopping guide in the clothing store, but an example, it may also be selling tea, cosmetics, mobile phones, etc. These are service-oriented industries. If you add WeChat, you will be rejected. The probability is relatively low, and the success rate is relatively high.

Then I cast the net widely. When you have succeeded in this step, you are not afraid to get along with girls alone. After dating a lot, you will have experience and know how to get along with girls quickly.

The one you made an appointment with in the early stage must not be the best-looking among all the shopping guides, it may be the one that looks very ordinary, so you need to adjust your mentality, whether you can accept it, and if you can, then act.

If you have accepted and done all of the above, you have taken a big step towards success, then the next step is to meet the netizens who are chatting online. Most of these people are active on the Internet. In fact, many of them have social phobia. .

And as long as you make an appointment, you will control all the initiative, and the success rate is very high.

If you still want to flirt while chatting online, the safest way is to find a local matchmaking company, pay the membership fee, and let the other party try their best to introduce you to a blind date. Let me introduce you to the next one.

What exists here is the first step, lowering the aesthetic requirements, and after quickly forming a relationship with the other party, drive low and go high, when you have talked to a girl who has had intimate contact more than twice.

Then you can target girls with a good family background or a good figure. During this period, you have basically mastered the steps of how to routinely fall in love.

And all of this requires you to have a thick skin. For example, the first step is to add a female shopping guide to WeChat, and to ask out for dinner. Many people are afraid and shy, but as long as you do it, the first time is jerky, the second time, the third time, and the fifth time. Second-rate.

You have basically controlled the rhythm of the chat, you can drop the topic to pick up the topic, arrange the routine flow of two people together, give the other party the best experience, and know what to say to make girls happy, and what to say to make girls angry.

You just need to find something to make the other person happy, the core is the physical needs, and the girls you dated out again and again in the early stage can give you accumulated experience.

As long as you have been in love for more than three times, congratulations, at this time you can drive low and go high, and go high, to seek higher quality, such as satisfying your psychology, and only find a blind date that matches your psychology. According to the standards on the Internet, some girls on the Internet have a good chat with you and can reach a spiritual resonance with you.

You just need to know what girls like, give them what they like, and make them happy. After coaxing them, the girl will go to the hotel with you soon without resistance.

Sometimes it is not necessarily about money, appearance and figure. Many Neptunes are average in appearance, average in figure, and have no money. Why do girls like them?
Because they can coax, cheat, and spend their time thinking, and the skills of falling in love can be improved. The results of once or twice are different from three times. The other half is worried.

I'm talking about intimate contact, platonic love, that's not called love, at most I found a chat friend. "

(End of this chapter)