I want to work hard too!

Chapter 998 Zhao Mingyang's Teaching Moments
Zhao Mingyang was actually quite speechless, what did Hao Ren do.

First of all, this girl is too young, she is only a freshman, if she wants to be together, she will really have to spend her whole life, and there is no way out, because a day at school is a day without worldly affairs, and Hao Ren has been in the society for many years, so in the future People will say that they were cheated by him, and the parents invited them home, which is equivalent to going to the door to confirm the relationship, bypassing the process and going straight to the final outcome.

The key point is Hao Ren, have you figured it out? This age gap can be ignored, but if this girl has children in her sophomore and junior years, then Hao Ren must be considerate in the future, otherwise people will definitely say that she wasted her studies just to be with him. , gave up the good times, gave up the career and dreams.

This will make Hao Ren very passive. Another point is that Hao Ren has to establish a relationship with the other party. Does the other party want to spend the rest of his life together? Otherwise, if Hao Ren breaks up with him, he will probably pay a lot The cost is also relatively high.

"Hao Ren, have you thought it over clearly? I mean, have you decided to be with the other party? You are not in a relationship. Unless the other party dumps you, the relationship is established and it will be difficult to break up." Zhao Mingyang asked.

"I was a little hesitant before, but now I think I have figured it out. I can't have a common language with people who are too old. People think I am immature and naive. You know, the things I like have always been very small. Personality is also relatively home.

I figured it out, my sister and I have a common language, and I also like what she likes, for example, we like Two-dimensional, we play games together when we have nothing to do, we have common topics every day, and she is also more homely, so we are very comfortable together .

Another point is that she is so much younger than me, and when she gets old, there is a high probability that I will go first, so that I will not be in pain. I am most afraid of the kind of life-and-death parting, I am afraid that I will not be able to resist.

Our two families also know the basics. Anyway, we have to find someone to live a lifetime. Why not find someone with less troubles to live a lifetime? At least I will be with her. When she graduates from college and gets married, I can still play for three years. If she goes to college I don't want to get married after graduation, I'm getting married after working for a few years, and I can play for a few more years.

I don't bother her at school. If we live together in the future, we will meet at night, and there will be few conflicts. We can spend Saturdays and Sundays together.

If the other party's family members are all around, someone will ask you something, and you have to tell five parts of the truth and five parts of the lie.

Hao Ren said with a big face, "How can I go to see my parents? It's more tiring than falling in love."

But I also want to tell you some necessary taboos, because it is not guaranteed that you and this sister will not be together in the future, and you have to pay attention to other people.

But if you give it away, and they receive the wine from you, and they often drink this kind of wine, open it and drink it, and find that it is fake wine, they can’t tell you, right? "

And you can buy some valuables for her online, such as thousands of yuan, if the other party does not want it, you can return it directly, which also reduces your minimum economic loss.

Let's put it this way, what do you think of Hard China?" Zhao Mingyang asked.

Hao Ren scratched his head and said, "Then you said I'll celebrate her birthday, what will happen after that?"

Also, remember to keep a distance, you must first identify her as a younger sister and appear as an older brother, so that you will have more initiative in the future. "

I deduce that you know this sister, everything is fine and you can talk about it, but there is a high probability that this child is a baby girl, you'd better coax the sister's mother and go to their house this time.

Playing mahjong once in a while is called entertainment. Playing every day is a bad habit. There are also smoking and drinking. Obviously, the family can’t manage well, so let’s ignore it. I can’t wait to send her out, so you have to be clear, girls look at their behavior, It is difficult for parents with poor quality and bad conduct to raise good children.

If you have children at home, play with them. Remember, you can buy a toy for the children when you go to other people’s homes. You don’t need to buy it during the holidays. You are visiting the elders, so you can buy some snacks at most.

If you drink it yourself and find out that it is fake wine, the customer service will explain it for various reasons. First, it will not admit it.

As long as their family opens their mouths, you will passively accept it. Even if there is something in the future, you will not be said. Remember, control your waistband. People like you who have never been in a relationship are prone to accidents. .

"Gifts must be given according to your own conditions. For example, if you are engaged, you set too high, and it will be difficult to lower it in the future. You can buy better cigarettes, because the price of cigarettes has an upper limit, and you have to buy unpopular cigarettes, but everyone knows of.

But if you buy something in a physical store, it’s very difficult to return it. If you buy something without quality problems, you won’t be able to return it. Young people are tight on money now, so save as much as you can.

What is the truth?What do your parents do, what do you do, your girlfriend must know all these things, there is no need to hide it, what is a lie?Can you say that your family owes a lot of debt to buy a house?You can't say anything, and you can't say any bad things in the family. You will understand after you get married. You don't need to explain. Before you get married, you must not mention a word.

You can go to the big smoke hotel to buy, they have a lot of inventory, and the price is cheaper than the small smoke hotel.

Of course, if you want to minimize the loss, you can send the whole head to count five hundred and one thousand. This is not considered a gift, as I told you before.

Why let you buy online?Because most of them return gifts, you can return them again, so you may buy a gift as a gift.

As for wine, there is no upper limit, so don’t buy too expensive wine for the first time, three or four hundred and one bottle is enough, buy a box of six bottles, or four bottles, two bottles in a gift bag, remember Yes, you must buy the brands that you can see in supermarkets and tobacco shops, and the price is not much different. Don't buy the ones that have a high original price and a low current price.

You buy ordinary cigarettes, and you buy three or four hundred bottles of wine. People think this wine is also average, so you have to save money. You can buy better cigarettes. There is an upper limit. The better ones are only five or six hundred and one. Articles, up to two.

Hao Ren nodded and said, "Understood, then should I take the car back with her, or drive back?"

As for your father-in-law, you don’t need to buy it anymore, it will look abrupt and inappropriate. If you fix your mother-in-law, you can fix your old man. From what you said, I can probably infer that your little sister’s family has the final say on her mother, because If she can let you into her house, she has a lot of power to decide. "

When their family is in a hurry, their family will feel that you are embarrassed to speak, and the girl's mother will ask you, or talk to your mother, should the relationship between the two of you go further, are you embarrassed to speak, or not? Know how to get closer, or maybe you don't like girls.

As for meeting your parents for the first time, the same is true. Apart from buying some fruit, you can buy other drinks and nutritional products online. Remember, if you are not engaged, you are not sure whether the parents of the other party agree with you. Don't buy cigarettes, this can't be refunded, unless you know someone who sells tobacco, and the other party agrees to your refund, because tobacco can't be bought online.

You'd better not give a girl a gift alone, you give it like this, you go to a combination pack, buy the same brand lipstick and perfume combination pack, you buy two sets, you say buy one get one free when the time comes , not to mention buying two sets specially, so that your little sister will have a gift, and your future mother-in-law will also have a gift. Don’t choose the same color number, and separate perfumes, one for mature women and one for girls.

"You think it's good, but let me tell you, this cigarette is not easy to sell in tobacco shops. The price you buy for a single pack will not change, but if you buy the whole pack, they will give you a lower price, such as selling it alone. 45 a pack, they may give you 400 or 420 a pack, you have to buy more, some even give you 390, because they have a task, this cigarette can't be sold out, and the next batch of cigarettes will be delivered, and the goods will be overstocked.

"Go on," Hao Ren said.

Because of the price of the cigarettes, most of them are smoked by themselves, and people may buy two packs of 31 as a gift. Most people will choose to give them as gifts, and the hosts are also Ruanzhong or Jiuwu, Tianye.

But you can buy alcohol. The alcohol you buy depends on the other party’s family and your own situation. If the other party’s family is good and rich, then you must buy Maotai or something. If it is an ordinary family, you must buy it. There is no difference. drinks.

"Nonsense, it's easy to fall in love one-on-one, and getting married is another matter, so when looking for a girl, you must look at each other's words and demeanor, and you can see the girl's tutor from it. accepted.

For example, if you buy something like Dream Blue Sky Blue, the online price is similar to that of a supermarket, and you don’t have to worry about the other party scanning the code. For some drinks, don’t look at the ones with a price tag of 998 and the current price of 188, or those that are affiliated to Maotai Distillery. Giving gifts is the worst thing to do, because people who have never heard of it will scan the QR code and scan the price.

Let's talk about some precautions when meeting parents after falling in love. First of all, you and the girl's parents are not familiar with each other. Familiarity between the two parents does not mean that you are also familiar with each other.

Because of cigarettes, everyone will ignore the value of your wine, so this is a good match. If you buy two 31 cigarettes, how much money do you think you can save?You can't save much, just a few hundred, but when you buy cheaper wine, you feel like you're pulling.

You have a crush on her, but the other party has no clear attitude towards you. You can send her a 520 red envelope directly for her birthday. The other party orders it. The money is not random. If you don’t order it, you will not suffer. One step, click and you can go one step further.

However, you must buy a gift box, or the same sentence, gift box gifting is to get rid of the sense of cheapness.

After hearing this, Zhao Mingyang nodded and said: "Okay, it's best if you think it's suitable, and it's time for you to fall in love.

You see, if you buy a hard medium, it is more appropriate to give it to your father-in-law. After all, Huazi is here. Even if you give it a soft medium, two of them will be over a thousand. The price is fixed, and it looks good. Send cigarettes Most of them are two. You spent this money, which is called spending wisely.

They aim at you who are greedy for cheap and save a few money, and sell you fake wine.

The premise of this type is that you care about money and your money is tight. If you don't care about money, it doesn't matter.

Don't drink alcohol, drinking is the easiest way to talk nonsense, even if you drink it is a small drink, in order to prevent embarrassment, then you can help with something, such as washing dishes, cooking a dish for others to taste, this is a good thing for the mother-in-law impression, and avoid getting along with the old man in embarrassment.

You can still lie and say that the leader thinks highly of you, and after the new year, you will be promoted and your salary will be raised. You have been promoted before, and you have to give the family some hope, understand. "

When buying wine, don’t just buy it casually, go to the brand flagship store of the winery, make sure it is self-operated by the manufacturer, and there are also self-operated ones like XX, you can buy it, at least you can keep it authentic, if you are in some live broadcast rooms If you buy it from some online stores, if you don't open it or drink it, you don't know if it is fake wine.

Hao Ren nodded, and then took out his mobile phone to take notes. He really didn't think about it.

"After that, if you have nothing to do, go see her, treat her to dinner, watch a movie, buy her some small gifts, treat her roommate to dinner and watch a movie, let her school let her have you in her life circle, everyone will Thinking that you and her are a couple, you don't admit it or deny it, but you must exercise restraint and keep a distance.

"China is good." Hao Ren said.

So he knew it was right to ask Zhao Mingyang about such matters.

For example, a girl likes to play mahjong, speaks dirty words, sits or stands, and has some bad habits. What do you think of this girl's parents?Most people who play mahjong are addicted to gambling. This kind of people value money very much, and most of them are homeless, or bring people to play at home. people's feelings.

When you go to someone’s house for dinner for the first time, remember to talk less nonsense, give people a stable aura, and don’t talk too much with the old man, because men know men best, and you can know your virtues in a few words.

In addition to cigarettes and alcohol, you can also give tea. Remember this, drink black tea in winter and drink green tea in summer, if the other party’s family rarely drinks tea, you can give green tea as a gift. The price of tea is also very different. Buy this in a gift box, one box of two bottles , Two or three hundred is fine, three or five thousand is fine, there is no upper limit, it depends on your own situation.

What’s more, you get what you pay for, and it’s worth the money. The taste may not be as good as the more than 100 wines in the market at the same price. Don’t give this kind of gift.

My family will not urge marriage in the future, and I will have less trouble. The key point is that she also knows my personality. I am most afraid of people saying that my personality does not match my age and I am naive. I can’t become mature because I can’t accept giving up The things I like, maybe I haven't reached the age of drinking tea, and when I do, I will naturally mature. "

You can also directly buy some gift boxes for gift giving. For example, some fruit gift boxes are not expensive to buy online, and they cost a few dollars each. After you buy them, you can buy some good-looking fruits in fruit shops or supermarkets and put them in. That’s different from packing them in plastic bags. If the fruit shop adds a gift box, the price will double, and it will earn gift box money.

As for buying gifts, you must be looking at the big gift box on the Internet to buy. When buying, you must know what to buy. If you buy the same brand online in the supermarket, the price difference is huge. For example, a certain brand of black sesame paste in a gift box on the Internet Six 71 boxes, the supermarket sells more than 100 boxes, you buy two boxes, and then buy some snacks, in case your girlfriend has younger siblings or nephews and nieces,
You can also buy the branded ones. You can see it in this supermarket. Why did you buy gift boxes? Because the gift boxes are beautifully placed. You buy six gift boxes, eight gift boxes, and everything is an even number. When you mention the other party’s house, put it in There, the gift box has a large volume, which instantly makes people feel that you are buying a lot of things, and the gift box has a high-end feel. If you buy things at the same price and put them in plastic bags, it will feel cheap.

First of all, if you are sure that the other party is not a fisherman, not a goldfisher, the kind who scams money everywhere, after you get to know her.

"Driving, why don't you drive if you have a car? Let's have a chat on the same road. Put your stuff in your suitcase and don't let her see it. Remember, the price should not be too expensive. A lipstick can be up to three or four hundred. , it's too expensive, and it's not easy for people to accept your things."

Under Zhao Mingyang's guidance, Hao Ren went to buy a set of relatively mature clothes. This was to prevent the girl's family from thinking that he was wearing something nondescript. The clothes he bought also had Naruto Sasuke prints on them.

After dealing with Hao Ren's matter, Zhao Mingyang wanted to go back to sleep and rest, but Gu Man called.

"Zhao Mingyang, my parents are here, and I want to see you. You have to be mentally prepared for marriage." Gu Man said.

(End of this chapter)