imperial psychologist

Chapter 174 Mate Selection Criteria
"...What's so strange about this." Zheng Shu answered from the side, "When no one in the neighborhood is too busy to take care of the children, the Bai family is also a doctor's house. Is it a normal thing?"

Bo Ling took the opportunity to nod, lowered his head to drink tea, and did not speak.

But at least one thing she is clear-no one comes to foster children during the busy farming season.

As for why Bai Yi is so good at taking care of children...

Ok……

Berlin was lost in thought.

"Bo Yi looks good to me. He is tall, handsome, and upright, but his temper is sometimes a bit aggressive... But young people are always like this." Qu's voice was soft, "Now he can It's good to settle down with Bai Shijun in the Imperial Hospital, as a medical officer, the relationship you can settle down is naturally better than when you were a student cook."

"...Do you want to help my brother get married?" Bai Ling asked in surprise.

"Yeah, after all your brother is not young anymore." Qu said with a smile, "He is so dedicated to A Tuo's affairs, it's just a matter of me helping you to make connections. But I don't think I should tell you about this matter. , I can mention it to Bai Shijun some other day."

There was some difficulty in Bai Ling's eyes.

"Why...?" Qu asked.

Bai Ling thought for a while, and then replied, "I think... how can my father know what kind of wife he wants to marry? Even if he wants to ask, the mother should ask my brother herself."

"Bai Ling is talking nonsense again." Baoyuan picked up the fan on the side and slapped Bai Ling lightly, "Why don't you ask Bai Yi directly? Marriage is of course the order of the parents, even if he If you really have someone in your heart, you still need your father to make the decision."

Bai Ling looked at the person in front of him and was silent for a while.

Okay.

With his father's temperament, even if the imperial concubine really brought this matter up, he would definitely discuss it with Bai Yi in private before making a plan.

This may be one of the few advantages of Bai Shijun as a father.

Bao Yuan took a fan, covered half of her face, looked at Bai Ling and said, "Actually, it's not just your brother, you can also keep your eyes open on the night of the flower viewing party, and take a good look."

"Look at what?"

"Let's see which young master is so lucky to be favored by our Bai Siyao!"

Baoyuan finally said this with a laugh, and she unconsciously raised her hand to block it—generally speaking, girls who have not come out of the cabinet always blush when such topics are mentioned, and come over and slap her. It took two strokes before he was willing to give up.

But Bo Ling sat there, neither fussing nor shy, she tilted her head slightly, looking at the ground in a daze, as if she was really thinking about this matter seriously.

Qu also felt it was funny, she looked at Bo Ling with gentle concern in her eyes, "What do you think?"

"I'm still young." Bo Ling replied sternly, "There is definitely no rush for such a thing."

Baoyuan smiled and said, "Then tell me, what kind do you like? If the empress finds a suitable one in the future, she will directly help you decide~"

Thinking that the person in front of him really held the power to mess up the mandarin ducks, Bo Ling sat up straight unconsciously, and the expression on his face became serious.

Seeing that Bai Ling suddenly became so serious, Bao Yuan, who was just joking before, couldn't help but put away his playful expression.

But for a while, Berlin really didn't know how to answer this question.

In fact, if you really like someone, how can there be any standards?

In her real girlhood, she also fantasized about romantic and dreamy love.In that rose-colored dream, the lovers have a common outline—they are indifferent yet fiery, affectionate and single-minded, with a handsome appearance and meticulous consideration...

But when she felt her heart throbbing for the first time, she realized that her original idea hardly matched the reality at all.

That man was not tall, even a little thin compared to ordinary boys, so he always sat in the front three rows, so Bo Ling could always look at his back unscrupulously.

That person is not handsome, so he seldom appears in the gossip of the girls, and Bo Ling monopolizes all the observations and fantasies about him.

He is very good at storage, his schoolbag is never messy like other boys, everything is neatly arranged.

His textbooks will be wrapped in brown paper, and a label will be pasted about one-third of the way, with the name of each textbook written in official script.

Although he doesn't talk much on a daily basis, he is very talented in mathematics and physics. The more difficult the problem is, the more he likes to seek multiple solutions. He is never stingy in sharing his thoughts with others when discussing his studies...

But just like everyone's first love ends without a problem, this good feeling ended naturally when they entered high school, and there was no turning back.

Bo Ling also fell in love with all kinds of people in her later life. Some of her affections were expressed, and some of them were not. But every time she liked someone, she felt that her love was like a stretchable net. No matter how strange edges and corners people have, she can hug them tenderly.

Only the heartbeat itself is an uncontrollable source, it is almost a metaphysics - this is a switch that no one can grasp by themselves.

"...It's hard to say." Bo Ling replied seriously, "But there are a few basic points, which can be regarded as the bottom line."

"En." Qu nodded, "Tell me about it."

"This person must first be kind-hearted, and second, be able to reason and be willing to communicate..." Because he was still thinking, Bo Ling spoke slowly, "Third, he must be loyal and dedicated...Others, it seems to follow the eye , if you don’t like it, even if you meet these three requirements, you still don’t like it; but even if you like it, if you can’t do these three requirements, I don’t want it.”

"Loyalty and dedication?" Baoyuan blinked her eyes aside, "Does that mean...you can't take concubines?"

"Well," Bai Ling nodded, "you can't take concubines, sleep in flowers and sleep in willows, or have ambiguous affairs with other women. Since this person is my husband, we must be dedicated to each other from the beginning to the end. Okay. If I can’t hold on to this belief, I’d rather not get married.”

If it was normal, Bao Yuan would probably laugh at Bo Ling's innocence again.

But seeing Bo Ling's serious expression at this time, she suddenly realized that Bo Ling didn't do it on a whim, and she took it seriously.

The original laughter suddenly became a little bit serious, looking at Bai Ling, Baoyuan suddenly felt a little touched in his heart.

"Hey, blame me, why bring this up so casually." She smacked her forehead lightly, "But you can just tell us what you said tonight, and don't mention it to outsiders."

Bo Ling looked at Bao Yuan strangely, "Why?"

"Spreading these words will only give you a reputation of being 'jealous', and you don't want to be pointed at behind your back, do you?" Bao Yuan thought for a while, and said, "Maybe there is really something you said in the world. This kind of man, but getting married and running a family is really not as simple as you think..."

"But you don't have to think about things so complicated from the beginning." Bai Ling sat there straight, looking at Bao Yuan, "If the rules are set simpler, it will be easier to follow your own heart."

(End of this chapter)