Lucky Star Gao Zhao

Chapter 249 Reckless

Wei Zao'er went to her mother's place, and they talked quietly.

"Mother, Mrs. Jia is here today, and the eldest lady is the same as usual, and the aunt is also kind to her, so I don't know why she was thrown out that day."

In the past few days, the master's house had something to do, so the servants were dismissed when they came. Wei Bai's family was smarter than Liu's housekeeper's daughter-in-law, and felt that something had happened. Although he didn't dare to inquire about it, he told his daughter to pay attention.

The master's family is a good family, and she also hopes that the master will be safe and sound at home. The only daughter is engaged to the son of housekeeper Liu, and her husband and wife have to stay with the master's house in order to be safe.

"That's all right, Zao'er, remember, don't inquire about the master's affairs, that Xianglan is a caring person, you must pay attention to what you say, and serve the little lady well, and wait for the little master to get married when she grows up." , you are using it at the master's house. Mother and Liu's mother are both old. Xianglan Chunzhu is going to go with the eldest lady. The little lady hasn't bought a maid yet, and she bought it for the future. You Married to the grassroots, staying in Gao's house, isn't it your number one? So just work, and don't come to me in the future, go back quickly."

After hearing this, Wei Zao'er hurriedly got up and went out, before he opened the door, he heard the voice of the eldest lady, their mother and daughter listened at the door, it was the eldest lady who sent Mrs. Jia out.

When they went out, Wei Zao'er ran back to the second courtyard in a hurry.

After Gao Zhao sent Jia Xibei back to his mother, he saw that his father hadn't gone to the yamen yet, so he talked about going to Jia's house tomorrow.

Mrs. Gang has already told Gao Wenlin, and he said that his daughter can go if she wants, and don't interfere too much with the little lady.

After this time, Gao Wenlin was relieved of his daughter, and there would be no such thing as being blindly fancied by an outsider because he didn't want to marry. It was the princess's marriage proposal. Anyway, he had already rejected it. Who knows what will happen next?He didn't have that expectation, but now there is no need to treat others like a scourge, at least he didn't overwhelm them with power, and came to respect the wishes of the Gao family.

"Zhao'er can go as long as he wants, why? Miss Jia recited the women's ring today?"

"Of course, if I don't recite it, can I forgive her? She is thick-skinned. As soon as I forgive her, she will rely on me and let me go to Jia's house to learn boxing and kicking with her. I promised before, and I told my mother Qiaoyun go."

"Just go and learn, don't bring Qiaoyun with you, a little lady should look like a little lady." Jiang Shi is not willing to let the younger daughter fool around with them, the older daughter can't control it, but the younger daughter is still young, correct me You still have time.

Gao Zhao had just heard Mr. Jia's remarks on women's rings from Jia Xibei, and he figured it out. He felt that he should no longer hide what she thought from his mother, and he couldn't always coax his mother to talk. Mother, she also pretended to be crazy and followed her mother, so she didn't grow up.

"Mother, I can also recite female rings, but what's the use? Respect is in my heart, and being kind to people is fundamental, and it's not necessary to follow the female rings to be virtuous. Mr. Jia said that only men who are incapable will be tough." My father didn't do that when he used a female ring to ask a girl, so there is no need for mother to think that what is on the female ring is important."

Then Gao Zhao said Mr. Jia's words, saying that no matter men or women, only those who are capable can do it, it's just the way of the world, but there is no need to let his daughter suffer.

Gao Wenlin agreed with Mr. Jia's words, but he didn't speak out so boldly. Although he knew that the world was like this, he didn't want his daughter to live a life under the female ring, so he allowed his daughter to grow up freely, and he always advised his wife not to demand more from her daughter.

In fact, Jiang's temperament is weak, and she is not an old-fashioned person. It is considered good that her natal family can let her study, and her reading is according to the world, reading the Four Books for Women and the Precepts for Women, but she was not brought up according to the rigid rules.

Marrying into the Gao family belongs to Gao Pan. She doesn't understand the situation in the family. They say that rich families regard female rings as rules, and she regards female rings as very important, but no one cares about her opinion. What should the father and daughter do? After all, the youngest daughter was obedient, she taught her well, and cut off the beard of the eldest daughter.

Did she hear what her daughter said, or did Mr. Jia say that the Jiang family was confused, and she had been wrong all along?

"Mom, you are right. This world is unfair to women, but we women can't follow the unfairness. We have to understand the principles, know the rules, and adapt to the world. We just can't frame ourselves to death. As long as I don’t violate the rules of the general environment, I think Mr. Jia is a rare and sensible person, and he is about to catch up with my father."

The boaster Mr. Jia had to bring his father with him.

But no, Gao Wenlin was relieved to hear that, the most important thing is that he also lived like this, and never asked his family members for anything.

"Mother, let me give you an example. If I get married in the future, I will do everything according to the girl's ring, but my mother-in-law is picky in every possible way, either making rules or serving her at night, and taking care of my husband's sister-in-law. I am so tired." Nian is about to die young, does mother feel sorry for me? Or does my husband’s family think I’m not good enough to be picky? Do I have to obey? "

Tears welled up in Jiang's eyes, and he said tremblingly, "Mother wouldn't do that."

"But it is said in the Women's Precepts: If you don't do it, you should obey orders; if you don't, you should obey orders. Don't violate right and wrong, and argue for right and wrong. This is the so-called obedience. If you follow the The daughter-in-law must obey the ring, so mother made my sister and I have to do this?"

Jiang's tears fell, and Gao Zhao swallowed what he wanted to say. Could it be that my sister and I were born under the bed?
Seeing her mother's tears, Gao Zhao stopped talking. She knew that her mother never ignored her and her sister, but always wanted them to be virtuous according to the world. , I always feel that it is for the good of the family.

But Gao Wenlin felt that his daughter was going too far. He knew how his wife was, she was gentle and gentle, and kind to her family. The elder sister and Dagui had been getting along harmoniously for many years, especially when the doctor talked about his wife's body not long ago. Just say it directly, tell him to let him talk to his wife slowly, how uncomfortable will the wife feel if you say it so suddenly?
"Zhao'er, I apologize to your mother. Don't you know how your mother treated you?"

Seeing his mother's lips trembling, Gao Zhao also regretted it, saying why the female ring dragged her mother, and his mind was hammered.

She immediately knelt down in front of her mother and said, "Mother, I was wrong. I shouldn't have said that to my mother. My mother has never treated me badly. I understand that today I am confused about memorizing the women's ring."

Gao Wenlin hastily poured water for Jiang, and took a sip from the cup.

Then he glared at his daughter and said: "Go back to the house and copy the women's ring three times, and you are not allowed to eat until you finish copying."

The first time Gao Zhaotou saw his father reprimanding her like this in front of his mother, he knew he was reckless, so he got up and went back to the room to be punished for copying the precepts.

Gao Wenlin coaxed his wife for a long time, then went to his daughter.

　If you don't do it, you should obey orders; if you don't, you should obey orders.Don't violate right and wrong, and fight for right and wrong.This is the so-called song from the carry on.Translation: But your parents-in-law's intentions are like this, you can't do anything about it, so you can only choose to accept it.If your mother-in-law doesn’t say good things about you, you’d better obey; if your mother-in-law says bad things about you, you should go along with them.This is Qu Cong.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)