Lucky Star Gao Zhao

Chapter 258 Jealous of You

Gao Zhao found the feeling of being on the podium in her previous life. For a year, she did sanitation for the venue. She had a part-time job in the university and the salary was not high, but she figured that she could attend classes for free. It was a venue of an educational institution, and there were all kinds of courses. How to be a modern woman, how to be a competent parent, marketing course, administrator course, while she listened to it, she admired those lecturers, who can always mobilize the emotions of the students, and then there is a course on how to give a speech, The ability to control the field, such as facial expressions, tone, body language, etc., means how to look at the eyes, and all the students in the audience will give systematic lectures.

"This is only for my family. My family is small, and each family's situation is different. I have to say it specifically according to my own situation, but what I want to say is that no matter what the situation is, if you know everything you want to say, what do you do? It is another science to speak these words so that others will be convinced, and have respect for you instead of fear. There is a good saying, which is the same sentence. It is nothing more than the speaker's demeanor and tone, which makes people happy or angry. Therefore, when you speak, your eyes, expressions, and tone must be restrained. That is to control the field. , is in your hands, so you have to do it through the majesty you exude."

Jia Xibei took the lead in applauding, "Aunt Zhao, what you said is very good, I want to learn from you, and then I will definitely make my grandmother look at me with admiration,"

"So, don't underestimate talking. This is also an art. Some people are born with it. Have you noticed at the little girls' gatherings that some girls can make everyone listen to her and are willing to get close to her? The elders like her. I think it makes sense to see people talk about people and talk about them. Of course, flattery and flattery make people get goosebumps, but they can’t speak. Anyway, don’t take self-willedness as your nature, and you don’t like to talk to someone who always says you Wrong person, although she is right."

Looking into Jia Xibei's eyes, Gao Zhao said it for her: "You want to say that I am such a person, but this only shows that I am a real person with a pure heart, and I don't treat you as an outsider. I am an elder, so I must teach you."

Mr. Jia outside the house covered his mouth, and let her speak all the inside and outside words, and it was her ability to speak up and down.

"Small dishes, serve tea. If you talk too much, you will get thirsty. Look, I have worked so hard for you. You must keep it in mind."

After hearing this, Mr. Jia felt that Gao Zhao must have something in mind, but he didn't know what her plan was.

Xiaocai at the door pushed the door out, and Mr. Jia quickly hid aside, turned around and left, very tacitly, and Xiaocai also pretended not to see it very tacitly.

After drinking tea, Gao Zhao explained a few key points, and then said: "First clarify the affairs of the inner house, make a list for yourself, familiarize the servants, arrange the candidates, remember, don't completely deny the steward. Mommy’s opinion, especially when you first took over, otherwise the bottom will be twisted into a rope, and you will still be unable to use it everywhere. What you have to do is to learn to use people, not to suppress people.”

Qian Yulan admired Gao Zhao too much. She was learning to manage housework recently, only to realize that it was not so easy. Why did her mother manage a mess before, and she sold it when she yelled that she made a mistake? You can sell it and buy it again, but can you keep buying and selling people in one family?It can only be said that the mistress is incapable.

Jia Xibei, who was mobilized, used Gao Zhao's words at the beginning, but she couldn't help laughing without saying a few words. She giggled by herself. He did the best, but in the middle of the day, his eyes didn't know where to look, and he always had to look at Gao Zhao.

Gao Zhao exchanged money for Yulan to come down, she sat on it, and said, "You stand separately, Xibei stands at the end, Sister Qian stands in the middle, and Yuqingwa stands in front, representing a room of people. If you only look at the people in front, one is your majesty and respect. If you pay attention to the people behind you and don’t see them, they will feel neglected. It’s like when you hold a flower show, there are people in different positions. You can’t always look at one person, you have to take care of all the little ladies with your eyes. I will Be an example."

Gao Zhao glanced at the audience first, then smiled and kept looking at Yu Qingwa and said, "The weather is so nice today, can we have roasted venison? A few sisters come together, and I will post a post for them tomorrow."

In the same way, she used soft eyes to slide from back to front like a curve, taking care of both the front and back.

Then he said, "Do you feel the difference?"

Jia Xibei said: "Yes, my aunt said it the first time, she only told Xiaowanzi that she didn't look at me at all, didn't take me seriously, she didn't really invite me to go."

"That's right, the details are very important. Don't underestimate the look, the tone, the speed of speaking, and the pause. After you pause, let others feel a little bit of a thump, or a tightness in the heart, instead of others thinking: choke Living?"

Jia Xibei laughed, remembering the last time his cousin choked.

Afterwards, Gao Zhao started the training for them, and there were constant jokes. Jia Xibei always laughed, stomping his feet with a smile while talking, Yu Qingwa memorized by rote, but he couldn't express and speak, Qian Yulan was the most serious, and once compared A good time inspired Jia Xibei to refuse to admit defeat. When she went to Wang Jingzhou's courtyard at night, she had to drag her grandfather and uncle to give her the role of the current person, and she took the lead to practice.

Mr. Jia asked Gao Zhao about everything he had said, and he felt jealous, jealous of the chief secretary Gao who was drooping his eyebrows and pretending to be stupid. There are many young ladies who are popular with girls, but there are none like this.

When Wang Jingzhou recovered from his illness, Jia Xibei had difficulty walking, had pain in his thigh, jumped, struggled to speak, and had a sore throat. It was not only for practicing, but mainly for laughing.

"It will be fine in a few days, and it won't hurt in the future. Your legs are also strong. You have to go through this process. You can see that Qiaoyun will be fine, but if you are lazy for a few days, then the pain will start again in a few days." gone."

Sitting on the kang, Jia Xibei let Xiaocai rub his legs, and said, "Why doesn't Xiaowanzi hurt?"

Gao Zhao looked at Yu Qingwa, and saw her blinking and saying, "I've only been in pain for three days, and I'll be fine later."

"Everyone's physique is different. Xiaowanzi has never been picky eaters since she was a child and loves meat. She has a good physique."

After hearing this, Yu Qingwa grinned, very proud.

Jia Xibei was a little frustrated, she couldn't memorize Xiaowanzi, she couldn't jump up and down, let's train Liwei, she couldn't compare with Qian Yulan, I'm really not convinced!

"So, you still have time, as long as you don't be lazy, just persevere. The most difficult thing in the world is to persevere. Doing simple things repeatedly is success."

Jia Xibei looked determined, "Well, I will stick to it."

Gao Zhao looked at the five people here, Jia Xibei was the most delicate, Yuqingwa was cute but not squeamish, Qian Yulan knew what she knew if she didn't say it, and sister Qiaoyun had her own account in her heart, so I am the most lazy, except for chattering.

"It's as simple as that, it's what you're born with that needs to be practiced, practice makes perfect, everything is like this."

"Aunt Zhao, let's start practicing after the little ball dance. I will learn Wing Chun in the afternoon. I must surprise my grandmother. I didn't come out to play. I want to be reborn, no longer the old Jia Xibei! "

Gao Zhao joked, "What were you like before?"

"My grandmother was worried when she saw me, and she was worried for the Wang family. She said that if the Wang family returned me, my grandmother would send my grandfather to the Wang family."

This will haha ​​is a high sign.

(End of this chapter)