Chapter 838

Mrs. Shizi, everyone is from a family background, and after getting married, she will take care of her husband and teach her children. How do you know about those.

Le An explained to her, didn't dare to say more, just said that some skinny horses were specially trained to speak like this.

Mrs. Shizi thought for a while and said: "Ask the nanny in the palace. It's hard to find out. Go back and ask your mother-in-law. Just tell me what I said. Why does Mingzhu talk like her mother? She is from her left family. She'll figure it out."

Le An was puzzled and said: "If the grandma knew, why didn't she mention it? Xiao Xia's family is not in the Hou's house for a day or two, and Ming Zhu often goes to the front yard. Can't she hear it?"

"Then how do I know? Go back and ask."

"Okay, I'll go to Xiwan first, sister-in-law will help me see the pearl, and I will talk to Xiwan."

When the two went out, Xiwan brought Mingzhu to show her the embroidery patterns and various embroidery threads in the East Wing.

Mrs. Shizi took Mingzhu to the courtyard to look at the flowers. Le An sat down and said, "Xiwan, I'm here to talk about the Cai family. Your mother doesn't know what you think. If you're not satisfied, it's still too late. Don't let it go." I'm sorry, or I'm afraid of embarrassing my family. There are many people who are dissatisfied with each other on a blind date, and it's better than being dissatisfied after being married, and it will harm you for the rest of your life."

Chen Xiwan said calmly: "Auntie, I have nothing to dissatisfy with. I believe in my mother, as long as my mother agrees."

Le An became anxious, and said, "Why do you listen to your mother about your life-long affairs?"

"Auntie, don't worry. It's about my life. My mother thinks more than I do. She only thinks about me and won't harm me. She has to find out everything. And the little lady at most wants to know whether she likes it or not. I like it, how do I like it? So what if I don’t like it? I’ve seen it too, and some of them are married by young ladies who personally like it, and not many have a good life. Most of the parents make the decisions and live in peace.”

Le'an felt awkward and embarrassed. She married her two previous marriages, both of which were messed up. Could it be that this made her niece afraid?

"Auntie, after looking at other people, I understand why this is the case, because I married with full of joy, and then I will be disappointed if I am unsatisfactory, disappointed with others, complained to my in-laws, expectations before marriage and disappointment after marriage, let my heart Unbalanced, so I can't calm down and live my life. My parents have chosen for me. Whoever I marry will live the same life. Why should I embarrass myself and give myself an expectation that is destined to be disappointed in the future? Auntie, I am an ordinary little lady, It will be the same as ordinary girls, so let's avoid it."

Le An asked, "Why didn't you tell your mother?"

Chen Xiwan blinked and smiled at Le An.

"Just to mention a little bit, my mother thought I was shy. Also, I trust my aunt. My aunt understands what I say. If I say it too clearly, I'm afraid my mother will worry even more."

Le An smiled bitterly, because he was the kind of person his niece said, who was full of joy before marriage and extremely disappointed after marriage.

"Have you met Cai Jiaerlang?"

Chen Xiwan shook her head and said, "I haven't seen it before."

"That Erlang's appearance is not good, just based on his appearance, he is not worthy of Xiwan."

Chen Xiwan thought for a while and said: "I am an ordinary little lady, I must have the heart of a little lady who loves beauty. After my mother told me, I also wanted to secretly inquire about it, but I was afraid that people would think otherwise. , it’s better not to look at it.”

Le An was puzzled and said, "That's the same as when you look at each other, but there's still time for dissatisfaction at that time."

Chen Xiwan shook her head and said: "That's different, maybe it's the same for others, but it's different for me."

Le An was puzzled by what his niece said differently, and thought to himself, no wonder you said your mother couldn't understand you, and neither could I.

"Don't worry, Auntie. After seeing each other, my mother is willing and I am willing too."

This is the sentence again.

Le An stared hard at his niece and asked, "Xi Wan, you tell your aunt, I won't tell your mother, do you have someone you like, someone your family definitely disagrees with?"

Chen Xiwan pursed her lips and smiled, "I know my aunt would think so, aunt, I didn't..."

I just wanted to say that I wasn’t that stupid, but when I remembered my aunt’s past, I put it away, and said, “Auntie, even if we are royal women, we are still women. There are too many helpless women in this world, so why bother yourself? Auntie, I only give you I've said it, tell my mother this, lest she worry."

Le'an looked at the smiling young lady in front of him as if he didn't know her. He was frank and frank, and didn't seem to be hiding someone in his heart.

She greeted her natal nephew and nephew kindly when they met, and gave them a lot of gifts during the New Year. stingy.

Also, for her own daughter, she always thinks that when she is gone in the future, her natal family can take care of her daughter for her sake, so she will keep it for her daughter, and be generous to her nephew.

But that's all, I didn't have much contact, only this time when she married into the Hou's mansion, she had more contact with her sister-in-law, and she often went back, so she paid attention to this little niece, and she thought it was good.

But who knows, it's a little scary.Le An said that I didn't understand until I was almost forty, and my niece understood it when she was only fifteen.Who would worry about such a girl, is it good or bad to know too much?
Le An, who only understood after decades, does not know the answer to this question.

Le An had no choice but to go back and ask someone to carry Mingzhu out, and said to his sister-in-law: "Xiwan said that sister-in-law will think it over for her, so she doesn't have to think about it."

Mrs. Shizi said: "I asked her, and she just said that. I was most afraid of who she liked, and felt that the family disagreed, so that's why it happened. When I was young, I had a best friend who was like this. He took a fancy to a poor scholar. Willing, disheartened, marrying anyone is a marriage, and then still can't pass the test in my heart. Others are forced to take concubines for their husbands, but she is active, and she will never be happy. I am afraid of Xiwan like that."

Mrs. Shizi looked at her sister-in-law. She fell in love with a poor scholar when she married for the second time. The son objected. She persuaded her behind her back, thinking of her best friend.But who would have thought that my sister-in-law was married to a scumbag, and relying on the county prince's mansion, the whole family ate and drank her sister-in-law's food, and even had a deep affection for her cousin.

Le An hurriedly said: "I asked Xi Wan, and she said no, she doesn't know any sons, how can there be someone she likes? She said that her parents ordered her to marry her quietly."

Mrs. Shizi was not at ease, but even more worried.

"Sister-in-law, who does Xiwan look like? My elder brother is not like that either."

Mrs. Shizi said: "Why don't I tell you not to speak in front of Mingzhu? Xiwan could understand adults when she was young, and then she became more and more like an adult. Now, I have discussed many things with her in the past two years. Listening to her is helpful." She is more thoughtful than I thought, so I put all my heart into choosing her marriage, for fear that she will suffer in the future, and people who understand too well will be tired."

Le An suddenly understood that he was someone who didn't understand. Although he was like that before, he was not tired.

She also understood why the niece said she listened to her parents and didn't think about who she liked, because she didn't want to live too tired.

Because she said that she was an ordinary little lady, she would have the thoughts of an ordinary little lady. In order to prevent such thoughts that might be possible, she simply let the marriage be handed over to her parents.

Why bother yourself?

These are the words of my niece.

Le An thought, yes, why bother to embarrass myself, when I encounter trouble in the future, I must think about whether I will embarrass myself and bring trouble to others.

"Sister-in-law, now I know that I am not as good as Xiwan, and I am ashamed to listen to her. From now on, sister-in-law will listen to Xiwan herself, she will not embarrass herself."

The sister-in-law and sister-in-law chose a date and decided to meet at Duke Lu's mansion.

 Another month, see you next month.

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