Chapter 327 Marriage
When her future in-laws came to visit her home for the first time, Liu Qinghui took it very seriously and carefully prepared a large table of delicious dishes for the reception.
Jiang Yuan took out the fine wine from his collection and had a few drinks with Grandpa Shen;
Liu Qinghui served everyone enthusiastically;
Grandma Shen and Grandma Jiang were sitting together. The two old ladies were very warm, talking and laughing;
The three juniors, Jiang Jincheng, Shen Qiuqiu, and Shen Jiashu, were responsible for eating and drinking, and occasionally echoed the elders' topics;
The atmosphere at the dinner table was very good and enjoyable.
After three drinks and five dishes, Liu Qinghui took the initiative to bring up the marriage of Jiang Jincheng and Shen Qiuqiu;
"While our two families are here today, I think we can finalize the marriage between Xiaohua and Xiaocheng."
There was silence at the dinner table for a moment;
Grandpa Shen and Grandma Shen just smiled and did not answer.
Jiang Jincheng's hand holding the chopsticks tightened, and he was a little nervous for no reason;
He opened his mouth, wanting to say something;
Liu Qinghui on the side spoke first, "Uncle and aunt, I know that you two have concerns. I am here to promise you that if Xiaohua marries into our family in the future, we will definitely treat her well and never let her be wronged.
Xiaohua is a rare and good girl, and our whole family likes her very much;
The conditions of our family are not very good, but they are not bad either. The child Xiaocheng has also made progress himself, and his career is developing well now. When they become a family in the future, their life as a couple will definitely become more prosperous. "
The man expressed his attitude, and a satisfied smile appeared on Grandma Shen's face;
"Grandpa Xiaohua, we have discussed it at home, and we agree to this marriage.
Xiaocheng is a good, down-to-earth child, and you and your wife are also kind people. Xiaohua is lucky to find such a good husband like you. "
Seeing Grandma Shen relaxed, Liu Qinghui suddenly beamed with joy, and she did not forget to be humble;
"Wherever, we, the old Jiang family, are lucky to be able to marry such a good daughter-in-law as Xiaohua."
Grandma Jiang smiled and narrowed her eyes, "Okay, okay, both of them are good children. When they get married in the future, it will be even better."
As she said that, the old lady took out a piece of yellow paper from her pocket and said, "Before I came here, I went to the fortune teller and asked him to help me tell you a few good days. You guys can choose and see when the time is right."
Grandma Jiang handed the yellow paper to Shen Qiuqiu, her original intention was to let the young people choose a suitable day;
Shen Qiuqiu took it and handed it directly to Liu Qinghui;
Liu Qinghui glanced at it and handed it to Grandma Shen, "My mother-in-law, come and see what date is suitable."
There are several dates written on the yellow paper. The latest is the beginning of next month and the latest is the end of next year.
Grandma Shen looked at it, discussed it with Grandpa Shen, and then said, "My new house has not been built yet, and it will definitely be too late this year. I think we will let the two children get engaged first by the end of the year, and then get married next year."
"Okay, let's get engaged at the end of the year and get married next year."
Jiang Yuan and Liu Qinghui didn't have any objections to this. After all, it was already October. If they had to rush to get married this year, they would be too hasty and would not have time.
Next, after some discussion, the two families decided to set the engagement date on the second day of the twelfth lunar month;
The wedding day is set for the ninth day of June next year, which is July 21st in the Gregorian calendar. More than nine months are enough to prepare for the wedding.
As the man, Liu Qinghui took the initiative to talk about matters such as the wedding room and betrothal gifts;
"Xiao Cheng's father and I have already chosen the wedding house for our two children. It's a large flat in the city center. We're just waiting for the children's marriage to be finalized before we sign the contract. When the time comes, Xiao Cheng and Xiao Hua will be written on the house book. name;
In addition, we are offering a bride price of 199,000 yuan to seek good luck and good luck. What do you think? "
The wedding gift is the man's affection for the woman and his sincerity in wanting to marry her; it is also a kind of gratitude from the man's family to the woman's family.
The amount of the betrothal gift is not clearly defined and is generally determined according to local customs or each family's wishes and family conditions.
Wedding gifts here in Weinan Province are not high, generally ranging from 30,000 to 50,000 yuan;
The reason why Liu Qinghui decided to give a "high-priced gift" of 199,000 yuan was first to show his regard and respect for the woman;
Secondly, it’s also because of my son’s financial situation. It’s not appropriate to give him less, but it’s not good to give him too much. You need to keep a good balance.
Grandpa Shen and Grandma Shen did not expect that the Jiang family would give such a high gift. The old couple was stunned for a moment, and after thinking about it, they did not refuse;
No matter how much gift the Jiang family gives, the money will be brought back to the granddaughter in the future. Anyway, it is for the young couple.
Grandpa Shen thought for a while and then said, "When your family buys a house, we will buy the furniture and other items for the new house."
The old man didn't know how expensive the house prices in Yunchuan were. He just thought that since the man paid for the house, he had to do his part and couldn't take advantage of others.
Shen Qiuqiu didn't like to take advantage of others, so he was about to say that the woman would also be responsible for the decoration;
Jiang Jincheng, who was on the side, seemed to know what she wanted to say. He patted her hand and whispered, "There is no need between us to care about who has paid more, and there is no need to care about gains and losses; let the elders discuss and decide on these matters. As long as they are happy.”
Shen Qiuqiu was slightly startled, then smiled again, nodded and said yes;
They are about to get married and become husband and wife, so they really can't care too much about it;
The book says: All relationships are not far from estrangement once they start to care about each other. Only by not caring too much between people can they go a long way.
While the two were talking, the elders had already settled all the details of the marriage, and both parties were very satisfied.
Several elders have even changed their names to call each other in-laws, talking and laughing.
The atmosphere was lively when Shen Qiuqiu suddenly remembered something;
"Uncle, aunt, we have no objection to the marriage being discussed by the elders; but there is something I want to say in advance."
Seeing her serious expression, Liu Qinghui quickly asked, "What's going on?"
“My job and career are in Qinghe Village. After I get married in the future, I don’t want to give up my job in Qinghe Village. I hope I can take care of both my career and my family.
Therefore, after getting married, I will not settle in Yunchuan for a long time. I will probably stay in Qinghe Village most of the time; but I will also try to balance work and family and spend more time in Yunchuan. "
What Shen Qiuqiu didn't say was that her grandparents were getting older and needed people to take care of them, and she wanted to spend more time with them at home.
Regarding the question of where to live after marriage and how to balance career and family, Shen Qiuqiu had discussed it with Jiang Jincheng when she was in the hospital. He expressed his understanding and support, but Jiang Yuan and Liu Qinghui were still unaware of it. Shen Qiuqiu felt it necessary to inform them in advance, otherwise it might cause conflicts in the future.
Will my son and daughter-in-law have to live separately in two places after they get married?
Liu Qinghui's smile froze on her face, and she suddenly felt a little unacceptable. The couple didn't live together and lived their own lives, so why get married?
Grandpa Shen and Grandma Shen also heard about this for the first time. The old couple also felt that their granddaughter's actions were a bit inappropriate, but since she had set up such a big stall in the village, they really couldn't let it go...
The old couple was silent for a while, not knowing what to say.
Seeing that the elders on both sides were silent, Jiang Jincheng took the initiative and said, "Dad, Mom, this matter was decided by Xiaohua and I.
I have my own career, and so does Xiaohua; my career is important, and Xiaohua’s career is equally important;
I can't give up my career for her, and I can't ask her to give up her career for me.
But we will work together to develop our respective careers while also maintaining our families;
When I am not busy at work, I can go back to my hometown to be with her; when she is not busy at work, she can also come to Yunchuan to see me.
Hope you can understand. "
Jiang Yuan felt that it was okay for the two places to be separated, as long as the two children had a good relationship;
He laughed and laughed, "I understand, I understand. This is a matter between you and your young couple. You can just discuss it yourself. We have no objection."
Grandma Jiang also helped, "The soil and water in my hometown support people, so there is nothing wrong with living in my hometown for a long time; Xiaocheng can also come back often in the future, and by the way, he can spend more time with me, an old woman."
"Auntie, I'm sorry, my thoughts may be a little selfish..."
Liu Qinghui waved her hand and interrupted what Shen Qiuqiu was about to say;
She took Shen Qiuqiu's hand and gave her a funny and angry look, "Forget it, Auntie won't be angry with you."
What should I do if the daughter-in-law my son finally found loses her popularity?
After a pause, Liu Qinghui said earnestly, "Auntie, I don't have to ask you to give up your career for the sake of your family and focus on Xiao Cheng every day. This would be too selfish.
It’s just that long-term separation between husband and wife can easily affect their relationship;
Auntie hopes that you two can have a good, long-lasting, harmonious relationship. "
"Thank you, Auntie." Shen Qiuqiu pursed her lips and felt her hands were warm;
"It is a rare fate for two people to come together. Don't worry, we will maintain this relationship well and will not separate easily."
Jiang Jincheng also assured, "Mom, we are measured."
Liu Qinghui is an open-minded person, and when she thinks about it, she doesn’t get entangled;
"Okay, as long as you two have it in mind. I just want to say one thing, marriage is not a child's play. Since you have this fate to be together, you should take it seriously and cherish it."
Jiang Jincheng and Shen Qiuqiu nodded together, "Yes, we will."
Liu Qinghui glanced at the two of them and joked: "It's not impossible to live in separate places, but the prerequisite is that it doesn't affect my grandson and granddaughter. I will be thirty years old soon. Dafei, who is next door to us, is three years younger than you. "My son is in kindergarten, so you have to pay close attention."
"Mom..." Jiang Jincheng looked helpless, "We're not even married yet, so why are we having a baby? You have to follow the procedure."
Shen Qiuqiu also blushed instantly, causing the whole room to laugh.
Jiang Yuan picked up the wine glass and said with a smile, "Today is a good day. Let's all have a drink to celebrate the two children in advance."
Everyone responded and raised their glasses to bless him.
After dinner, Liu Qinghui took Grandma Shen and Grandma Jiang to square dance in the open-air square in the community.
Jiang Yuan and Grandpa Shen set up a chessboard on the balcony and started playing chess.
Jiang Jincheng, Shen Qiuqiu and Shen Jiashu were responsible for clearing away the dishes, washing dishes and mopping the floor. Then the three of them sat on the sofa in three rows and played games;
Shen Jiashu is the jungler, Jiang Jincheng is the shooter, and Shen Qiuqiu is the assistant;
Shen Jiashu is still killing people randomly, and Jiang Jincheng can occasionally play Kerry. The little rookie is taken away by his boyfriend and the wild king brother, and he wins ten consecutive victories.
The two families get along extremely harmoniously, and they are becoming more and more like a family.
Shen Qiuqiu suddenly felt that it would be nice to live a lively life together as a big family.
In the next few days, the two families went to see the wedding house together and signed a purchase contract;
Shen Qiuqiu and Jiang Jincheng also took their elders to Haitang Park to see the light show, to the Wildlife Park to see pandas, and to the Internet celebrity night market for snacks...
The two families had a lively Mid-Autumn Festival together.
Sorry, this chapter was a bit confusing to write, so the update is two days late.
Two chapters in one big chapter
(End of this chapter)
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