rain like flowers

Chapter 170 Reliable
Liu Shanshan was very surprised. She didn't expect the other party to ask her this, and she didn't feel disgusted. She said frankly: "I think he must have gone whoring."

"Actually, I also think so. My ex-boyfriend said that I won him not by my appearance, but by my strength. The blind date a few days ago, those old men, said that we women should lower their standards.

I said it was difficult for women to talk, so I asked if it was okay. The first time we met, it was like this. I also asked if I should treat guests to dinner when I met for the first time. When it came to the issue of the house, a group of young girls quarreled with those men. , especially lively. "

"A man, he wants to have a result the first time. He doesn't even want to spend a penny on a woman, and he still wants to marry a woman. Isn't it too unreliable?"

"That's right, I've reached this age, and the standard has really dropped again and again. I really can't compare with the young girl's youth, but I didn't expect that the more I searched, the worse it gets."

"How come? Such impatient men, such opportunistic people, I don't think they are very promising in their careers. If you think about a salary of [-] to [-] yuan, they probably won't be stingy with a meal, right?"

"I saw that those people don't have a car or a house, and their salary is only six or seven thousand. How can they raise a child? Just lower the standard, why not be single?"

"Yes yes yes" the sisters around echoed.

"I know from looking at the animal world that males must have a nest at all times. Now that there is no house, how can they have children? You can't have children in a rented house. Is it possible that you will rent a house for the rest of your life and be kicked out by the landlord?"

"It's really unreliable to wish to get married as soon as you meet and have nothing to say."

Liu Shanshan paid attention to the reaction of the sister next to her. The sister next to her was naturally the oldest in the field. She had obvious crow's feet around her eyes and a slightly fatter figure. I have to say that a woman's appearance and figure are really important.

"What's the situation if the man just wants to chat on WeChat and doesn't even want to meet?"

"What is there to talk about on WeChat? It's so laborious. Don't chat as soon as possible. It's not a social software chat. I don't know. Men are different from men. Be careful of scammers.

Blind dates are basically introduced by relatives. Come out to meet and have a brief chat. If it is suitable or not, you can see if it is suitable at the time of eating. Meet the first person and simply chat with a few questions to know whether it is suitable or not. Yes, sometimes there is no need to eat. "

"There is also the kind of dawdling and chatting, who don't want to eat and keep pressing the road."

"The scariest thing is that the girl ordered a table of dishes and the girl ate alone. The man ordered a dish but didn't eat it. He ran away and deleted the girl? He also said that the girl cheated on eating and drinking."

"Is there anyone who wants AA on a blind date?"

"Is there another one like this?" Liu Shanshan felt miraculous when she listened.

"Of course, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds. Girls, when looking for a partner to marry, you still have to keep your eyes open. You have to be like a keen eagle. You must keep your eyes open before marriage, so that you won't suffer after marriage."

"Boys nowadays don't want to spend a penny and want to find a partner. The sky should give them a partner."

"But boys will also feel that it is not worthwhile to spend so much money if they are not married. After all, it is not easy to make money."

"Then there's nothing to say. After all, it takes a process to get to know a person, and you can't get results after one or two meals. Do you dare to marry after one or two meals?"

"It's true. Is it because their economy is poorer and their wages are lower?"

"That's not true. Some boys come on a blind date anyway, and they don't know each other. When they take a look at you, they almost say goodbye. They don't spend a penny. They have a good family background. Anyway, there is no possibility. Why? Still want to spend money for you?

Those who have money and those who don’t are almost the same. Since I don’t like you, I don’t need to spend money for you. "

Liu Shanshan was very surprised when the Gao Leng sister spoke.

"Then some boys met you, had a meal and chatted for the first time, and there was no message on WeChat after that, and if there was no post, they didn't like it, and it was basically useless."

"Of course, if a boy likes you, he must be proactive. Men are always aggressive, always a hunter. The first meeting is just a polite, gentlemanly manner, and it's normal to treat guests to dinner. Most of you Every man knows that chasing girls to treat guests to dinner is a common thing, it's not uncommon, besides, let's give the introducer some face."

"What about the kind of people who treat guests to dinner every time, take you to play and go shopping, but are not sure about the relationship? What's that like?"

"Is it the first time for my sister to go on a blind date?" the sister who didn't fill in the information asked gently.

"Yes, this is my first time here."

"It's normal. There must always be someone to advance the relationship between a man and a woman. If two people don't take the initiative, they can only be friends. Getting along with men and women is a science. We are all students, hahahahahaha." Everyone laughed laugh it out.

"It's really strange. People who don't have money don't want to spend money, they just want to establish a relationship. Those who have money are willing to spend money, but they don't want to establish a relationship."

"Of course, nowadays people basically marry late. Besides, marriage is protected by law. The wages of both parties are joint property. You have to take care of each other. Although many people are not married now, they still live together and have physical relationships.

It's inappropriate to fall in love, and it's okay to break up, but it's not convenient to get divorced after marriage. In an ordinary family, divorce is at most two or three times. Regardless of whether a man is married or divorced, he is very cautious.

When it comes to bride price, no one wants to spend 10,000+ to marry a daughter-in-law who is a scammer. Rural people, at least 30 million to get married, how can farmers stand such a toss, get married for 10,000+, how can they have money to get married? The second time, the net income is only [-] to [-] yuan a year. Besides, after divorce, I have to look for it again. Who has so much money?Marriage and divorce are all about money. "

"My sister told you that a woman must be able to make money no matter when and where, otherwise she will have a miserable life after marriage. The sweet talk of love really doesn't count. After all, life is life. That's the truth."

"That's right, if a man gets married, wouldn't he give up the big forest for a tree, and want to play for a few more years?"

Liu Shanshan is still confused: "But sisters, is it really difficult to go on a blind date? Is it really difficult to find a partner?"

"It's not entirely true. Here, there are people who got married once or twice, and lived happily. There are also people who have talked for a long time and have nothing to do with marriage. Anyway, everyone has their own views on marriage and love. It's hard to say."

"Why do you get married? Now women can earn their own money, are financially independent and independent in thinking, can cook and do housework, and want a man to raise them like a child.

If there are domestic violence, whoring and derailment, there will be a lot of problems, it is too troublesome, I really can't figure out what is good about getting married? "

Miss Bobotou spoke, and Liu Shanshan had to take a high look. It seemed that she was not willing to get married either.

(End of this chapter)