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Chapter 224 Salary
You know that what I am doing is Chinese language research, majoring in Chinese language and literature, with a monthly salary of more than 3 yuan, my mother actually told me not to go to work, so I quit my job and went home to find a partner, you know her I have to say it every time, this time, I just quarreled with her yesterday, and she said that I have never been married.

People will think that I have a disease, and then I will directly say, is it a sexual disease?Do I need to find a hospital for an examination to prove that I am not, and I deliberately angered her, you know my mother, she thinks that I am with a man, I should take the initiative and see the first one immediately Then you can sleep with him.

It is said that some women slept together directly when they saw a boy, and then the man was very nice to that girl, and they got married. I felt that she had finished talking a lot, and then I was very angry, so I said : "Then I haven't lived with others, I don't know, I don't understand.

Then my mother started to get angry: "Don't you understand now?" I was also very angry, why should I understand, who taught me, should I understand?But she didn't want to talk about this topic with me. I was angry at that time. I felt that you were my parents, but you didn't want to tell me anything.

I was silent, I can be with this Zhang Jingbo, I can only say that I am still testing him, he is indeed my boyfriend, and I can’t say anything else, because I took the initiative to find him anyway, and I can’t say anything else. Know what he thinks of me.

If you ask me why, I can only tell you. First of all, I think Zhang Jingbo’s family background is similar to mine. He is very suitable, and he is a good match. Zhang Jingbo’s height is also very suitable for me. He is very tall. , I am also handsome, and I am a little bit, but also to deal with my mother.

The other one is that at present I feel that if I can be with him, I also want to get married. In fact, sometimes I don’t understand myself, and I don’t know what I want. We meet twice a week now, Wednesday Once, once on Sunday, if there is no other change, I originally said that once a week would be fine, but he insisted on saying it twice, and I didn't bother to argue with him, so twice, just twice, you know I don't like chatting very much WeChat, I like to meet and talk about anything.

In fact, he is really kind to me now, and he is very caring. I usually take me to some private restaurants for dinner, and the average per capita is over a thousand. Anyway, when I am with him, I almost don’t need to make arrangements. He almost It's all arranged for me. Last time he took me to learn how to ride a horse, and this time he visited the wine cellar. Let me tell you, it's really different to talk to a young man and a playboy. . "

Hu Jia looked at the eloquent Liu Shanshan, who was completely different from her usual time. She wanted to see Zhang Jingbo a little bit, he must be a handsome guy.

"Then aren't you worried? A playboy like him, aren't you worried that you can't beat him?"

Liu Shanshan put down the knife and fork, was silent for a while, and said in a low voice: "Actually, worrying must be worrying, but you know me, for someone like me, or find someone who can't do anything, everything is up to me." To arrange, or find a love expert, playboy, who made me experience so many blind dates, who made me so good at blind dates, if I was a man, I would be a playboy, every day Groom, chasing girls is so interesting, but it’s a pity that men are so stupid that they don’t know how to use routines. Between men and women, since ancient times, the sincerity can’t be kept, and routines have always won people’s hearts.” Liu Shanshan laughed loudly, and Hu Jia also laughed.

"Then it seems that their family is quite satisfied with you, and they gave you a lot of gifts. I think if you have no problems, you will really get married, right? Did you really only meet so many times? Will it be too soon?"

"They are all at my age. Everyone's experience is different. I am so old. Now you say that even if you introduce a man to me, how much time can I spend on him, one year, two years? I can’t afford it. This year, I was very eager to have a child. The desire to have a child was extremely strong, because I knew from a young age that 29 years old is the best childbearing period, and I was afraid of missing it. But now I am very confused. You say I am If you find a man, if you can’t even talk together, and the two of you can’t chat at the same level, even if you barely give birth to a child, is that really good for the child? Would she be willing to choose a mother like me?”

"Hey, I also think it's very difficult, it's really too difficult, but if you see something good, you have to work hard to grasp it, just like you feel, that boy's family conditions are so good, there must be a lot of people chasing him , now men and women are the same, if you see something good, you have to cast a net to chase after it, or else you will all belong to someone else."

"You have never been on a blind date, you don't understand, there are some things between a man and a woman that can't be said, and they will be broken as soon as they are said. Although I am very eager for marriage and children, but some principled issues, I feel that if they touch my bottom line , I will still choose to give up."

Hu Jia was a little angry, but she had nothing to say. She really had never been on a blind date, so she really didn't understand why a lady like Liu Shanshan with such excellent conditions was left, and entered the army of leftover women vigorously. .

"What is the question of principle you are referring to?"

Liu Shanshan thought about it seriously: "Cheating, prostitution, including mental cheating and physical cheating, I now feel more and more that I want to find someone who will encourage me, or someone who can talk, or someone who will not let me suffer from verbal violence. In fact, sometimes domestic violence you see is physical domestic violence, but in fact, I gradually feel that verbal violence is fatal to some people, and now I can hardly even accept verbal violence.”

"Verbal violence?" Hu Jia asked in shock, as if she didn't understand.

"For example, if I'm with this man, he scolds me every day, despises me, doesn't say well when he has something to say, and often scolds me stupidly, do you think I will be with this kind of person with my temperament?"

"Of course it's not allowed, it's definitely not allowed." Hu Jia screamed a little bit, that's naturally not allowed, the rich second generation is amazing.

"Yeah, that's why I think I'm getting to know him. In fact, I think I've already taken the initiative. After all, I mentioned it to the boy first. If I haven't taken the initiative, I don't know how to take the initiative. In fact, sometimes I think it’s really important to find someone who will encourage you. You think that modern people’s lives are full of pressure. ?
In fact, different people have different experiences and different cultural backgrounds. No matter how good you are and how hard you work, there will always be some people who don’t understand you, and some people who make sarcastic remarks. You will always be wronged at work, and no one can avoid it. , I am the same, it seems that my job is stable, I have a formal unit, earn a lot, and it is very decent, who knows my hard work?
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