rain like flowers

Chapter 227
"I don't have much experience, and I think what affects me more is the knowledge in books, especially books on philosophy, psychology, etc. The books I read recently are more complicated. Life is really a big subject. Learn, otherwise, why do you say that there are roads and hard work in the mountains of books, and there is no limit to the sea of ​​learning?"

"What I envy is you. You love reading so much. I can't do what you do. My husband also trained me recently, saying that I don't do anything every day. I only know how to watch videos, eat, drink and have fun. If I don't study, I don't know how to do it." Seeking to improve, why don't you send me some books, I will read them recently."

"Okay." Liu Shanshan took out her mobile phone and sent some book lists to Hu Jia, feeling very happy in her heart.

"Men are also really strange creatures. They don't want to find someone who is better educated than themselves, but those with lower education feel uneducated, look down on them, and don't understand."

"He may not be going well in his career, that's why he lost his temper with me. Shanshan, it's great that you have a house. After getting married and quarreling, your husband will tell you to get out. You still have a house to live in. The name of our house is It belongs to his father, not his at all, we only have the right of residence, not the right to buy and sell, and it is not the property of the two of us at all."

"Isn't your husband the only child? Oh, why do you always ask me this kind of thing that my husband told me to get out after we got married and quarreled? I don't understand, then why did he quarrel with me after we got married, and why did he ask me to get out?"

Hu Jia snorted and said comfortingly: "Shanshan is still a little girl, she hasn't experienced marriage yet? Afterwards, you will know after experiencing marriage. Some men really don't do anything after marriage. Give women all kinds of control, and you will shed tears when you see them."

"Actually, it's not that I don't know how to quarrel now, maybe I don't have the ability to quarrel."

"Does fighting also require ability?" Hu Jia asked in bewilderment.

"Yes, I really won't lie to you now, there are very few people who can make me angry, and now I only get angry with my parents, but I don't want to quarrel with other people at all. When the leader started the training, I was named by the leader for no reason. At that time, I was really upset. I won’t lie to you. Whether or not to resign, I didn’t expect him to apologize to me later, it’s really inexplicable, in fact, what I wanted to express at that time was that I didn’t want to fall into that kind of emotion, and when I came up, I was reprimanded and reasonable, lol A lot of long-winded and still can't solve the problem. The point is that it was already my off-duty time. I can only say that he is not a wise and decisive leader. I don't quarrel with him just to avoid big conflicts and contradictions. I feel very embarrassed, you see, once the quarrel is resolved, it’s either embarrassing or no contact, and I don’t know what the quarrel is for? I just didn’t like his attitude at the time, maybe he tolerated me for a long time, but it just broke out that day Alright."

"But the person in your unit is the leader after all, right? It doesn't matter Shanshan, our leader and I still quarrel every day, much more fiercely than you."

"What I mean is that I don't want to argue with him at all. I have always respected him. Anyway, men and women think differently. Please understand."

"Does your leader like you? I heard that the way men express their affection sometimes starts by bullying women? Do they think that can win women's favor?"

"That man is an old man, and he can be my father, but he hasn't been promoted in these years, maybe it's because of his personality, I don't know much about the others. I don’t pay much attention to it. I once heard him say that he was isolated in the work unit. Maybe he was lonely. At night, I always have to turn off the lights before going back, and I have to wait in the car for a long time before entering the house when I go back, I don’t know, don’t husbands and wives see that they should be warm, happy, and provide nourishment for each other?”

"If the wife doesn't come home and comes home very late, isn't he waiting for nothing? Besides, when a woman gets old, her face will age. How can she compare with a young and beautiful girl exuding vitality?" Hu Jia He smiled slyly.

"Then I don't know. Look at those middle-aged men who are used to attracting bees and butterflies. In fact, they have a good relationship with their wives. After all, a man who understands his wife and woman is also at home in the work unit. Isn't the work unit just a man? As for women, if you manage your marriage well and understand women, it will also benefit your work in the unit?"

"Nowadays there are more than men and women? Thai transvestites are good. My teacher even traveled to see them? They are so beautiful."

"I'm talking about male thinking and female thinking. I don't know the question you asked me. I think two people must be getting along with each other. If my husband tells me to get out after marriage, then I will get out. Listen to what he says, if he tells me to get out, I'll get out, you won't make mistakes if you listen to him, right?"

"Why get out? If you want to get out, he is the one to get out?" Hu Jia pushed Liu Shanshan's arm vigorously, expressing his anger.

"I don't care. In fact, sometimes when you think about getting along between a man and a woman, sometimes it is no different from raising a child and raising a dog. When you have enough training, you use force to make the dog submit, and then let him like you when you are with him. The same is true for children. , you can pamper but not completely pamper, I think no matter what kind of relationship it is, the best thing should be the combination of grace and majesty, right?"

"Can't understand, it seems very complicated?"

Liu Shanshan laughed: "After all, I'm not married yet? I'm also very happy to get along with Zhang Jingbo now. Besides, he hasn't lost his temper with me too much. If he scolds me, I will be unhappy with my temper, for sure. It is shown on the face, it must be ugly, I think I must be silent, sometimes I can’t figure it out, I’m not a woman who laughs with me, why should I pretend to be okay when someone scolds me , continue to make others happy, how fake, maybe this is the reason why I am not suitable for business."

"Call back whoever made you unhappy? Why make yourself unhappy, tell me next time, and I will call back with you."

"Thank you." Liu Shanshan said sincerely. In fact, Hu Jia cared about her very much, but her temper was a little hot, but she found Lao Gong's temperament to be very docile.

"Your husband has a good temper, isn't he especially obedient to you at home?"

Hu Jia nodded hastily: "Of course, cooking and everything belong to him. It was agreed before marriage. Besides, my mother-in-law also said that if we both have strong tempers, we won't get angry in the crowd. That's okay." Let's go on, my husband is really easy to talk to."

(End of this chapter)