rain like flowers

Chapter 88 Grievance
Every time, she honestly told her parents about her failure experience, what she felt was inappropriate, and why she said it was inappropriate. Now that I think about it, my parents must have forgotten it. They only focus on the result, not the process.

I just wish I could achieve my goal of getting married, but Liu Shanshan is getting older now, and her temper is not as brilliant as it was back then. If she had such a mild temper back then, she probably would have married that person long ago.

But that person is in the past tense after all. Liu Shanshan feels that she grew up suddenly, and suddenly realized the importance of marriage, but in fact, it has a lot to do with her experience and experiences over the years. It also has a lot to do with the books she reads.

Thinking about what she once said to her mother: "Mom, if you don't let me read so many books, if I don't study in junior high school, maybe I have a few children, and I will be soy sauce."

"Could it make you read wrongly when you are asked to read? You see that you buy so many books every day, and there is no place to put them at home. Not to mention wasting money, what do you want to buy so many books?"

At this time, the father would interject and say: "Women with higher education and more studies do marry later. There are statistics for this."

Liu Shanshan was very happy in her heart. Sometimes she felt that her mother might have some verbal violence, but she didn't want to blame her mother, so she just endured it silently.

After all, her mother cared about her, and maybe her mother also worried about her marriage. After all, even though they were under the same roof, with different consumption and values, she didn't blame her mother.

But because of her marriage, she was hysterical, scared, and terrified. She never told her mother about these things, and she was even a little depressed.

She has a deep understanding of depression. Social pressure and emotional pressure are indeed easy to make people feel unbearable. These are all things in the past, but she really doesn't want to experience that painful feeling.

"Mom, why don't you let Aunt Zhang ask the boy what he means, and see what he means. Wouldn't it save us from guessing?"

Liu's mother was silent for a while, and Liu Shanshan didn't say anything. After a while, her attitude softened, and she said, "The boy is tall and handsome. I'm quite satisfied with his body and appearance. We can also chat. When you go together, you are also very generous when you eat.

Knowing how to take care of people, it can be seen that he must be very experienced, but I haven't asked how many girlfriends he has had, and how many blind dates he has had, so I don't know, and I don't know how we will develop in the future, But mom, don't worry, I will firmly seize the opportunity, and I will take care of it. "

When Liu Shanshan described it to her mother, Liu's mother's attitude softened, and she listened quietly to her daughter's speech, but she was very anxious in her heart, but there was nothing she could do about it.

"Didn't Mom say that you have to know a boy for at least a year before you get married? Why has it changed?"

"Now they are at this age, almost 30, and now they are basically formed in a few months."

"Yeah, people keep pace with the times, okay mom, I'm going to read, and I have to hand in various reports at work tomorrow."

"Work is hard but love and marriage are more important."

"Mom, that's not the case. You have never been in the workplace. I also have to face various assessments and pressures in my unit. The relationship with my colleagues and the relationship between face, I can get such a high salary.

It is almost all based on my own reading and investigation and discussion with my mentor. It didn’t happen overnight. When I work in the unit, I will have grievances, and I am also very bitter. "

Liu Shanshan is a little distressed, why can't her mother always understand her?Love and marriage are important, but for modern women, work is also very important. If you can't even keep your job, how can you keep your marriage?

She knew that when she said these words, her mother would definitely be upset, so her father interjected: "What are you always arguing with your daughter every day? You see, I don't ask, what's the matter with love? If there is any problem, Dad will solve it for you, and if you really can't do your job, then go home and come to Dad's company."

Liu Shanshan felt a little sad in her heart. Nothing made her feel sadder than hearing her father say that he didn't ask. She knew that his father always asked very little about the matter of children's marriage.

Almost always the mother asked, but she was very sad, she had to find someone to marry quickly, even if it was for her father, she didn't have the courage to tell her father that she didn't want to get married.

I really don't know what's good about being married. Isn't she living well alone?Are many historical figures unmarried?But my mother would not let her talk.

In fact, although the father said that he could not ask, but in his heart he still longed for her to get married and have children. She could feel it. At that time, what the father said to that person was to know more and more, but it didn't work out with that person. Everything is the past It's just a cloud of smoke.

"Dad, didn't we say it before? You always let me go to your company. Is my personality really suitable for running the company? Have you asked me if I would like to? Am I willing to be a scholar or a businessman? ?Okay Mom and Dad, I know you are doing it for my own good, I will work hard, I will work hard, and I will try to marry me this year."

"Since I was born, after puberty, I worked so hard to take exams, study, study hard day after day, and won my current job. If it's just because I want to find a man to marry, I really don't know. I worked so hard. For a long time, what is it for? What is all this for?"

"I don't know why?" Mother Liu said helplessly.

Father Liu couldn't say anything, let alone how happy his daughter was to have such a great future, specializing in Chinese language and literature, publishing academic papers, high-achieving students, postgraduates, and postdoctoral exams.

But the daughter has published a lot of books and publications, and the current view of marriage is indeed different from theirs. Besides, he is a daughter, and sometimes some things can only be said by the mother, not by the father.

She has been raised as an intellectual since she was a child, and she has never been allowed to get involved in business. Besides, after graduation, she doesn't like business, and she doesn't like doing business. Some things are predestined, but the huge family business must be inherited by her in the end , understandably.

"Look at you, the weather has turned cold recently, put on more clothes, I'll get you a thick coat."

Looking at her mother getting up, Liu Shanshan's nose was actually a little wet. Mother is like this, always caring about her in terms of food and clothing. What she said just now must have made her angry.

But my mother still cares about her. Sometimes I feel that she is really unfilial. I usually talk less with my mother. Sometimes I am busy, and sometimes it is difficult to talk together.

There are many disputes, and sometimes she just wants to sit beside her mother, sit quietly, play with her mobile phone for a while, or watch her mother mend clothes, so that she feels very warm in her heart.

"Rest early, don't worry, take your time, no matter what, find a man who treats you well, and look for it well."

Her father patted her on the shoulder, and Liu Shanshan nodded, thinking silently in her heart that no matter what, she must get married quickly and work hard.

(End of this chapter)